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Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by elobrave17(op): 12:10am On Nov 20, 2024
I am the last born in my family. My Mom died few years ago. While she was alive, we were very close & loved each other. We would call each other, talk about family & life generally. I had given money to her only once and she was so happy. Since I finished from the university, I wasn't able to get a job that pay well so I didn't have enough to cope not to talk of sending money to her. She understand and didn't complain & was willing to send me if I was badly in need. Already all other of my sibling were sending money to her once in a while.

One day she had an accident and was taken to the hospital. My elder brother took her to a hospital close to him so he can be able to see her everyday after work or in between. One day I was with her on the phone and she made a DEMAND from me. She told me to send small money to my elder brother to but her something while she was in the hospital. She told me no matter how small even 5k or any amount that can buy fruits for her. She told me I shouldn't let my elder brother know that the demand is from her. She said my brother has tried a lot that I should send it so it will be like my little contribution to her stay in the hospital. Unfortunately I was waiting for salary the coming week, I was already owing and waiting for salary to come. My salary was pea nut, was Just doing the job to avoid staying at hime. I didn't know where else to borrow money from. I DIDN'T DO WHAT SHE SAID AND SHE DIED THE FOLLOWING WEEK IN THE HOSPITAL.

Few years have passed, I see her once in a while in my dream. Two days ago I saw her in my dream after a long time. We held each other and were discussing with other family members. Later she called me by the side and told me to give her some money that she wants to go to market and buy what she will cook for the family, that my siblings have given her already. I didn't have any cash with me there and I knew I had nothing in my account. I told her to go to the market that I will send something to her account before she will finish buying things. She said ok and I wake up.

I wanted to ask about this traditionally if it means anything and what am expected to do if it really means something. Then I am afraid of my siblings because in my family we don't believe in anything traditional, we don't even believe is seeking for vision or stuff like that. We are Christians and believe in God & Christ. But this particular thing has given me sleepless night for two days now & I feel I should do something about it.

Should I tell me siblings about the dream or should I make inquiry traditionally and do what they advice me?

Things aren't moving well for me and I don't know why. Your advice will be appreciated.
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by Babangidapikin:
Yes it is possible .. me and my brother still relate in the realm, the only problem is he doesn't talk , I remember a time I was about to do something really stupid when I heard my grandma voice very clearly, she ask me not to and return home ... You just acknowledge your brother's contribution then go and do charity on her behalf ... You can't give her money, but you can do good deeds on her behalf.
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by Free2Fly: 6:47am On Nov 20, 2024
elobrave17:
I am the last born in my family. My Mom died few years ago. While she was alive, we were very close & loved each other. We would call each other, talk about family & life generally. I had given money to her only once and she was so happy. Since I finished from the university, I wasn't able to get a job that pay well so I didn't have enough to cope not to talk of sending money to her. She understand and didn't complain & was willing to send me if I was badly in need. Already all other of my sibling were sending money to her once in a while.

One day she had an accident and was taken to the hospital. My elder brother took her to a hospital close to him so he can be able to see her everyday after work or in between. One day I was with her on the phone and she made a DEMAND from me. She told me to send small money to my elder brother to but her something while she was in the hospital. She told me no matter how small even 5k or any amount that can buy fruits for her. She told me I shouldn't let my elder brother know that the demand is from her. She said my brother has tried a lot that I should send it so it will be like my little contribution to her stay in the hospital. Unfortunately I was waiting for salary the coming week, I was already owing and waiting for salary to come. My salary was pea nut, was Just doing the job to avoid staying at hime. I didn't know where else to borrow money from. I DIDN'T DO WHAT SHE SAID AND SHE DIED THE FOLLOWING WEEK IN THE HOSPITAL.

Few years have passed, I see her once in a while in my dream. Two days ago I saw her in my dream after a long time. We held each other and were discussing with other family members. Later she called me by the side and told me to give her some money that she wants to go to market and buy what she will cook for the family, that my siblings have given her already. I didn't have any cash with me there and I knew I had nothing in my account. I told her to go to the market that I will send something to her account before she will finish buying things. She said ok and I wake up.

I wanted to ask about this traditionally if it means anything and what am expected to do if it really means something. Then I am afraid of my siblings because in my family we don't believe in anything traditional, we don't even believe is seeking for vision or stuff like that. We are Christians and believe in God & Christ. But this particular thing has given me sleepless night for two days now & I feel I should do something about it.

Should I tell me siblings about the dream or should I make inquiry traditionally and do what they advice me?

Things aren't moving well for me and I don't know why. Your advice will be appreciated.
Don't listen to any Nigerian and his superstitious beliefs.
Don't be forced to do any yeye traditional thing or consultation
There's nothing spiritual about dreams; they're simply brain activities reflecting on past, present events and our subconscious thoughts.
Her last request is still in your memory in your brain, and is damned to play out in your dreams from time to time.
And more of it will happen as you're worried and regretful for not doing it.
These repeated worries and regrets will make the incident occupy a dominant position in your subconscious thoughts, making it easier for your brain to play it from time to time in your dreams.
This is the samw reason it's difficult to forget an embarrassing moment, no matter how many years ago it happened.

Somehow, making some donations to the less privileged may give you some satisfaction and help you feel less worrisome about it, and eventually delete the event from your subconscious thoughts.
When this happens, it won't mean the initial problem is spiritual or that your mom's spirit has collected the money.
Our people don't understand these things, and that's why they tag everything spiritual.
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by elobrave17(op): 6:55am On Nov 20, 2024
Free2Fly:
Don't listen to any Nigerian and his superstitious beliefs.
Don't be forced to do any yeye traditional thing or consultation
There's nothing spiritual about dreams; they're simply brain activities reflecting on past, present events and our subconscious thoughts.
Her last request is still in your memory in your brain, and is damned to play out in your dreams from time to time.
And more of it will happen as you're worried and regretful for not doing it.
These repeated worries and regrets will make the incident occupy a dominant position in your subconscious thoughts, making it easier for your brain to play it from time to time in your dreams.
This is the samw reason it's difficult to forget an embarrassing moment, no matter how many years ago it happened.

Somehow, making some donations to the less privileged may give you some satisfaction and help you feel less worrisome about it, and eventually delete the event from your subconscious thoughts.
When this happens, it won't mean the initial problem is spiritual or that your mom's spirit has collected the money.
Our people don't understand these things, and that's why they tag everything spiritual.
Thank you
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by elobrave17(op): 6:56am On Nov 20, 2024
Babangidapikin:
Yes it is possible .. me and my brother still relatein the realm, the only problem is he doesn't talk , I remember of time I was about to do something really stupid when I heard my grandma voice very clearly, she has me not to and return home ... You just acknowledge your brother's contribution and go and do charity on her behalf ... You can't give her money, but you can do good deeds on her behalf.
Thank you
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by Samantha125(f): 4:28pm On Nov 20, 2024
Do Nigerians have ancestral callings?🤔🤔🤔
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by sisisioge: 5:22pm On Nov 20, 2024
Oga....it is all figment of your imagination which found it's way into your subconscious. In your mind you feel you owe her embarassed

This will plague you until your dying days unless you get your mind to think you've paid her. How? Do charity. Think about what she loved and give to that cause. This will help you come to terms in your mind that you nolonger owe her. By the way,you need nit even discuss this with your siblings, it's between you and her.

I remember when my grandma who was one of my favorite persons in the world died....I was so at peace that I never once dreamt of her. If I did....I must have forgotten within minutes. May God continue to rest your mom well....epele.
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by Kobojunkie: 7:20pm On Nov 20, 2024
elobrave17:
I am the last born in my family. My Mom died few years ago. While she was alive, we were very close & loved each other. We would call each other, talk about family & life generally. I had given money to her only once and she was so happy. Since I finished from the university, I wasn't able to get a job that pay well so I didn't have enough to cope not to talk of sending money to her. She understand and didn't complain & was willing to send me if I was badly in need. Already all other of my sibling were sending money to her once in a while.
One day she had an accident and was taken to the hospital. My elder brother took her to a hospital close to him so he can be able to see her everyday after work or in between. One day I was with her on the phone and she made a DEMAND from me. She told me to send small money to my elder brother to but her something while she was in the hospital. She told me no matter how small even 5k or any amount that can buy fruits for her. She told me I shouldn't let my elder brother know that the demand is from her. She said my brother has tried a lot that I should send it so it will be like my little contribution to her stay in the hospital. Unfortunately I was waiting for salary the coming week, I was already owing and waiting for salary to come. My salary was pea nut, was Just doing the job to avoid staying at hime. I didn't know where else to borrow money from. I DIDN'T DO WHAT SHE SAID AND SHE DIED THE FOLLOWING WEEK IN THE HOSPITAL.
Few years have passed, I see her once in a while in my dream. Two days ago I saw her in my dream after a long time. We held each other and were discussing with other family members. Later she called me by the side and told me to give her some money that she wants to go to market and buy what she will cook for the family, that my siblings have given her already. I didn't have any cash with me there and I knew I had nothing in my account. I told her to go to the market that I will send something to her account before she will finish buying things. She said ok and I wake up.
I wanted to ask about this traditionally if it means anything and what am expected to do if it really means something. Then I am afraid of my siblings because in my family we don't believe in anything traditional, we don't even believe is seeking for vision or stuff like that. We are Christians and believe in God & Christ. But this particular thing has given me sleepless night for two days now & I feel I should do something about it.
Should I tell me siblings about the dream or should I make inquiry traditionally and do what they advice me? Things aren't moving well for me and I don't know why. Your advice will be appreciated.
That was not your dead mother in your dreams but rather your regret— still lurking in your subconscious after so many years— that you were not able to fulfill her desire while she was alive. (Those—regret, guilt, shame— are the ghosts that never die until you consciously do away with them.) Those emotions twist and turn over time to form anxieties that will continue to dog you if you don't get rid of them immediately.🙄🙄🙄🙄

All you need do is forgive yourself for not being able to carry out your mother's request while she was alive. Make the decision to stop using her as an excuse to beat yourself up in your own life. She is dead and gone and nothing you do to yourself can bring her back or change that fact. If your relationship with your elder brother is not great at the moment or you would like to help him out, go ahead and do so without needing to drag your mother's memory into it all against your own mental health. 😟
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by Foodqueen(f): 9:16pm On Nov 20, 2024
Your mother isn't angry at you for not giving her money. Mothers aren't like that.

But then again, you can just do small charity on her behalf.

My elder sister once had a dream about my mom, she made bean cake and share in her neighborhood and since then, she's been cool.
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by Tayorshd87(m): 10:35pm On Nov 20, 2024
You might be right but not all dreams

Dreams are actually what is or what might happen to you in a physical realm that's why sometimes religions practices will comes in in terms of prayer .
👇
This happened to me 6months ago
My wife is pregnant and 2 weeks before her delivery or so I dreamt that we lost the baby and he was wrapped in a white attire .
But I didn't take it serious
Until when she truly give birth an exactly what I saw in the dream happened 😭


ALL LIFE IS SPIRITUAL AND WHAT YOU BECOME IN SPIRITUAL WORLD WIL REFLECT IN YOUR PHYSICAL WELL-BEING.


ask an elderly one about this bro .




Free2Fly:
Don't listen to any Nigerian and his superstitious beliefs.
Don't be forced to do any yeye traditional thing or consultation
There's nothing spiritual about dreams; they're simply brain activities reflecting on past, present events and our subconscious thoughts.
Her last request is still in your memory in your brain, and is damned to play out in your dreams from time to time.
And more of it will happen as you're worried and regretful for not doing it.
These repeated worries and regrets will make the incident occupy a dominant position in your subconscious thoughts, making it easier for your brain to play it from time to time in your dreams.
This is the samw reason it's difficult to forget an embarrassing moment, no matter how many years ago it happened.

Somehow, making some donations to the less privileged may give you some satisfaction and help you feel less worrisome about it, and eventually delete the event from your subconscious thoughts.
When this happens, it won't mean the initial problem is spiritual or that your mom's spirit has collected the money.
Our people don't understand these things, and that's why they tag everything spiritual.
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by elobrave17(op): 10:39pm On Nov 20, 2024
Kobojunkie:
That was not your dead mother in your dreams but rather your regret— still lurking in your subconscious after so many years— that you were not able to fulfill her desire while she was alive. (Those—regret, guilt, shame— are the ghosts that never die until you consciously do away with them.) Those emotions twist and turn over time to form anxieties that will continue to dog you if you don't get rid of them immediately.🙄🙄🙄🙄

All you need do is forgive yourself for not being able to carry out your mother's request while she was alive. Make the decision to stop using her as an excuse to beat yourself up in your own life. She is dead and gone and nothing you do to yourself can bring her back or change that fact. If your relationship with your elder brother is not great at the moment or you would like to help him out, go ahead and do so without needing to drag your mother's memory into it all against your own mental health. 😟
Thank you very much for the advice, well appreciated.
I have a very good relationship with my brother and my other siblings.
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by elobrave17(op): 10:42pm On Nov 20, 2024
Foodqueen:
Your mother isn't angry at you for not giving her money. Mothers aren't like that.

But then again, you can just do small charity on her behalf.

My elder sister once had a dream about my mom, she made bean cake and share in her neighborhood and since then, she's been cool.
Thank you for this.
I told my elder sister about the dream today and she told me to visit a hospital and give them any little gift I can. Thanks again.
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by Kobojunkie: 11:35pm On Nov 20, 2024
Tayorshd87:
You might be right but not all dreams. Dreams are actually what is or what might happen to you in a physical realm that's why sometimes religions practices will comes in in terms of prayer. 👇 This happened to me 6months ago My wife is pregnant and 2 weeks before her delivery or so I dreamt that we lost the baby and he was wrapped in a white attire .
But I didn't take it serious Until when she truly give birth an exactly what I saw in the dream happened 😭
🥲 ALL LIFE IS SPIRITUAL AND WHAT YOU BECOME IN SPIRITUAL WORLD WIL REFLECT IN YOUR PHYSICAL WELL-BEING. ask an elderly one about this bro .
This makes no sense! 🤨

For every woman out there, the chances of her having a stillbirth is about 50%, particularly when it comes to women in Africa. I have had dreams of stillbirths but never experienced once experience them in my entire life or the lives of those around me. Why does your own dream get to be considered spiritual and mine not? undecided

2. "All life is spiritual...," the infamous mantra of the most deluded, most gullible individuals on the planet to date... Africans. Yet in the very same Africa, there is absolutely no tangible evidence to back up this claim to be found. How come? huh
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by kingthreat(m): 6:31am On Nov 21, 2024
elobrave17:
I am the last born in my family. My Mom died few years ago. While she was alive, we were very close & loved each other. We would call each other, talk about family & life generally. I had given money to her only once and she was so happy. Since I finished from the university, I wasn't able to get a job that pay well so I didn't have enough to cope not to talk of sending money to her. She understand and didn't complain & was willing to send me if I was badly in need. Already all other of my sibling were sending money to her once in a while.

One day she had an accident and was taken to the hospital. My elder brother took her to a hospital close to him so he can be able to see her everyday after work or in between. One day I was with her on the phone and she made a DEMAND from me. She told me to send small money to my elder brother to but her something while she was in the hospital. She told me no matter how small even 5k or any amount that can buy fruits for her. She told me I shouldn't let my elder brother know that the demand is from her. She said my brother has tried a lot that I should send it so it will be like my little contribution to her stay in the hospital. Unfortunately I was waiting for salary the coming week, I was already owing and waiting for salary to come. My salary was pea nut, was Just doing the job to avoid staying at hime. I didn't know where else to borrow money from. I DIDN'T DO WHAT SHE SAID AND SHE DIED THE FOLLOWING WEEK IN THE HOSPITAL.

Few years have passed, I see her once in a while in my dream. Two days ago I saw her in my dream after a long time. We held each other and were discussing with other family members. Later she called me by the side and told me to give her some money that she wants to go to market and buy what she will cook for the family, that my siblings have given her already. I didn't have any cash with me there and I knew I had nothing in my account. I told her to go to the market that I will send something to her account before she will finish buying things. She said ok and I wake up.

I wanted to ask about this traditionally if it means anything and what am expected to do if it really means something. Then I am afraid of my siblings because in my family we don't believe in anything traditional, we don't even believe is seeking for vision or stuff like that. We are Christians and believe in God & Christ. But this particular thing has given me sleepless night for two days now & I feel I should do something about it.

Should I tell me siblings about the dream or should I make inquiry traditionally and do what they advice me?

Things aren't moving well for me and I don't know why. Your advice will be appreciated.
If you are really a Christian you would not be saying thank you to the shit the atheists here like Kobojunkie are saying that dreams have no relevance. Or perhaps the dreams of Joseph that became a reality are just brainwaves?
As for your dream, the dead and the living have nothing to do with each other. I'll advise you talk to one of your siblings about this dream and perhaps you can talk to a Christian leader who is deep about dreams. Don't indulge traditionally, that is entirely a different diversion. And you yourself pray about the dream. It is well.
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by kingthreat(m): 6:35am On Nov 21, 2024
Kobojunkie:
This makes no sense! 🤨

For every woman out there, the chances of her having a stillbirth is about 50%, particularly when it comes to women in Africa. I have had dreams of stillbirths but never experienced once experience them in my entire life or the lives of those around me. Why does your own dream get to be considered spiritual and mine not? undecided

2. "All life is spiritual...," the infamous mantra of the most deluded, most gullible individuals on the planet to date... Africans. Yet in the very same Africa, there is absolutely no tangible evidence to back up this claim to be found. How come? huh
This deluded clown again. Someone told his tragic life experience and you are here making a mockery out of it. Trying to put reasoning of your insanity into it. You have never been spiritual in your life neither do you know anything about spirituality. So STFU in conversations like this.
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by Kobojunkie:
elobrave17:
🥲 Thank you very much for the advice, well appreciated. I have a very good relationship with my brother and my other siblings.
Then forgive yourself of your regrets and failures— every last one of them — so you can live your life better than most can.🤔
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by elobrave17(op): 6:53pm On Nov 21, 2024
Kobojunkie:
Then forgive yourself of your regrets and failures— every last one of them — so you can live your life better than most can.🤔
Thank you
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by Kobojunkie: 7:31pm On Nov 21, 2024
elobrave17:
➜Thank you
Don't let anyone deceive or delude you with fairy tales abeg! You only need to look at those before you... the older population of Nigerians in particular, many of whom believed that their dreams came with fantastical powers to see how that belief failed them in almost every area of their lives and beings. undecided
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by Carndidlaydid(f): 8:48pm On Nov 21, 2024
Reality you failed your mum


And

In the dream you failed her too


Sorry is your Case


Men are failures and born disappointment... Ipity any lady that's dependent on em
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by Sharpsharp00123: 11:57pm On Nov 21, 2024
elobrave17:
I am the last born in my family. My Mom died few years ago. While she was alive, we were very close & loved each other. We would call each other, talk about family & life generally. I had given money to her only once and she was so happy. Since I finished from the university, I wasn't able to get a job that pay well so I didn't have enough to cope not to talk of sending money to her. She understand and didn't complain & was willing to send me if I was badly in need. Already all other of my sibling were sending money to her once in a while.

One day she had an accident and was taken to the hospital. My elder brother took her to a hospital close to him so he can be able to see her everyday after work or in between. One day I was with her on the phone and she made a DEMAND from me. She told me to send small money to my elder brother to but her something while she was in the hospital. She told me no matter how small even 5k or any amount that can buy fruits for her. She told me I shouldn't let my elder brother know that the demand is from her. She said my brother has tried a lot that I should send it so it will be like my little contribution to her stay in the hospital. Unfortunately I was waiting for salary the coming week, I was already owing and waiting for salary to come. My salary was pea nut, was Just doing the job to avoid staying at hime. I didn't know where else to borrow money from. I DIDN'T DO WHAT SHE SAID AND SHE DIED THE FOLLOWING WEEK IN THE HOSPITAL.

Few years have passed, I see her once in a while in my dream. Two days ago I saw her in my dream after a long time. We held each other and were discussing with other family members. Later she called me by the side and told me to give her some money that she wants to go to market and buy what she will cook for the family, that my siblings have given her already. I didn't have any cash with me there and I knew I had nothing in my account. I told her to go to the market that I will send something to her account before she will finish buying things. She said ok and I wake up.

I wanted to ask about this traditionally if it means anything and what am expected to do if it really means something. Then I am afraid of my siblings because in my family we don't believe in anything traditional, we don't even believe is seeking for vision or stuff like that. We are Christians and believe in God & Christ. But this particular thing has given me sleepless night for two days now & I feel I should do something about it.

Should I tell me siblings about the dream or should I make inquiry traditionally and do what they advice me?

Things aren't moving well for me and I don't know why. Your advice will be appreciated.
guy I pity your life if u listen to that mad man kobojunkie

He's actually a junky with phone, see I once had a dream me n my dad were traveling n we were both wrapped with red attire

Believe me, we travelled d next day n na just small remain na accident straight, even me couldn't believe my dad didn't see d trailer at all

Guy dream has many spiritual meaning, because u are broke n u don't want to spend money is why u are taking sides with those saying u should ignore it

If u have like 1000 naira, u can change it to 100 100 naira. Pray on it n mention your mamas name n give it to 10 beggars

Your breakthrough might even b linked to it but if u decide to follow a known mad man's advice cos he's trying to form woke

OYO
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by Kobojunkie:
Sharpsharp00123:
➜ guy I pity your life if u listen to that mad man .... He's actually a junky with phone,
see I once had a dream me n my dad were traveling n we were both wrapped with red attire
Believe me, we travelled d next day n na just small remain na accident straight, even me couldn't believe my dad didn't see d trailer at all

Guy dream has many spiritual meaning, because u are broke n u don't want to spend money is why u are taking sides with those saying u should ignore it
➜ If u have like 1000 naira, u can change it to 100 100 naira. Pray on it n mention your mamas name n give it to 10 beggars. Your breakthrough might even b linked to it but if u decide to follow a known mad man's advice cos he's trying to form woke OYO
I usually ignore there kind of references but I just wanted to show how very ridiculous the reasoning of those of you who claim your dreams are spiritual really comes off. undecided

2. The chances of experiencing an accident, depending on the country you live in, can be as high as 50% in many cases. You claim you had a spiritual dream where you and your father were dressed in red attire. But when you did go on the trip the next day, you both went out not wearing red and returned not wearing red at all. So what does not say of your dream? Your foolish conclusion that narrowly missing an accident was the sign from your dreams makes even less sense since none of you wore red before and after the incident... so your leap was just that...a useless leap in judgment. undecided

3. Na these kain scams your scammers-in-the-lords don use take dabaru/mon daru una heads and lives in that country called Nigeria finish! After all that has become of Nigeria, that a grown individual that may even be considering having kids(or may already have them ...my hope is not) still reasons this way means.... 😟😟😟😟😟😟
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by noobody(m): 6:54am On Nov 22, 2024
kingthreat:
This deluded clown again. Someone told his tragic life experience and you are here making a mockery out of it. Trying to put reasoning of your insanity into it. You have never been spiritual in your life neither do you know anything about spirituality. So STFU in conversations like this.
If this is how you potray you are a better person because you are a xtain,I would take 100 of @kobojunkie over you,

The atheist in question approached the situation without insults,

But you the spirikoko came with all the guns you have.

Why does it have to be fight with you so called righteous people??
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by noobody(m): 6:58am On Nov 22, 2024
Sharpsharp00123:
guy I pity your life if u listen to that mad man kobojunkie

He's actually a junky with phone, see I once had a dream me n my dad were traveling n we were both wrapped with red attire

Believe me, we travelled d next day n na just small remain na accident straight, even me couldn't believe my dad didn't see d trailer at all

Guy dream has many spiritual meaning, because u are broke n u don't want to spend money is why u are taking sides with those saying u should ignore it

If u have like 1000 naira, u can change it to 100 100 naira. Pray on it n mention your mamas name n give it to 10 beggars

Your breakthrough might even b linked to it but if u decide to follow a known mad man's advice cos he's trying to form woke

OYO
Why is it that once someone's else's opinion is different from ours,we tend to insult,

This is the mentality of caged individuals who have been wired never to ask questions,or demand accountability from authorities,

You have all been built like toy soldiers,

Why must you call him a mad man for voicing his opinion,

From all I can see here,

You so called righteous ones are the ones hurling insults and spreading hate

The atheist has been the one that has been most logical and given a practical example.

Yet you all call him mad for making sense
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by kingthreat(m): 9:56am On Nov 22, 2024
noobody:
If this is how you potray you are a better person because you are a xtain,I would take 100 of @kobojunkie over you,

The atheist in question approached the situation without insults,

But you the spirikoko came with all the guns you have.

Why does it have to be fight with you so called righteous people??
Lol so because I am a christian, I should not be blunt again? I called him/her a deluded clown and that is a 100% reality.
I am not trying to be your role model but since you plan to take a 100 kobojunkie, the acclaimed retrograde thinker on Nairaland as your role model, I wish you the best. Some have taken bobrisky and serial killers as role models. Life must go on.
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by noobody(m): 10:29am On Nov 22, 2024
kingthreat:
Lol so because I am a christian, I should not be blunt again? I called him/her a deluded clown and that is a 100% reality.
I am not trying to be your role model but since you plan to take a 100 kobojunkie, the acclaimed retrograde thinker on Nairaland as your role model, I wish you the best. Some have taken bobrisky and serial killers as role models. Life must go on.
Anyone who speaks like you is never worthy to be anyone's role model,

You are nothing but a hypocrite

Wallow in your bigotry you think it's self righteousness

I just pity your kids,I hope you don't influence them with thess shallow doctrines

They are nothing but stupidity.

Blunt your arse,

You are actually blunt literally,I mean dull and a slow poke.
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by noobody(m): 10:34am On Nov 22, 2024
All these so called religious self righteous pigs,

I have never seen anyone of them explain something by being practical ever,

You must be insulted to be corrected,

Even spiritual fathers we look up to don't explain life situations with insults,they are always practical with teachings and with biblical examples and life experience.

But atheists,they approach practically,and explain without insults.

Dullards who received Christ backwardly.

Like the 2 ediots above,
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by kingthreat(m): 11:14am On Nov 22, 2024
noobody:
Anyone who speaks like you is never worthy to be anyone's role model,

You are nothing but a hypocrite

Wallow in your bigotry you think it's self righteousness

I just pity your kids,I hope you don't influence them with thess shallow doctrines

They are nothing but stupidity.

Blunt your arse,

You are actually blunt literally,I mean dull and a slow poke.
I am not trying to be a role model. Please follow kobojunkie and digest every thing that comes out of his/her rectum. Because that's where the thought-process is from.
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by noobody(m): 11:16am On Nov 22, 2024
kingthreat:
I am not trying to be a role model. Please follow kobojunkie and digest every thing that comes out of his/her rectum. Because that's where the thought-process is from.
Obviously you are not worthy to be one,
Also you are not worthy to be associated with christ you are emulating and promoting,but it's not in my place to judge you as you can still be redeemed.

But if you continue this way then You are worst than the serpent that lured eve in the garden of eden.
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by kingthreat(m): 12:21pm On Nov 22, 2024
noobody:
Obviously you are not worthy to be one,
Also you are not worthy to be associated with christ you are emulating and promoting,but it's not in my place to judge you as you can still be redeemed.

But if you continue this way then You are worst than the serpent that lured eve in the garden of eden.
This one na jobless lazy small pikin wey dey find him senior insult. Abeg no stop.
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by noobody(m): 12:27pm On Nov 22, 2024
kingthreat:
This one na jobless lazy small pikin wey dey find him senior insult. Abeg no stop.
If truly you are the elderly one here,
Then you are obviously a senseless adult,

But I highly doubt you can ever be older than I am

And if you are,total shame on you
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by Tayorshd87(m): 2:05am On Nov 23, 2024
Kobojunkie:
This makes no sense! 🤨

For every woman out there, the chances of her having a stillbirth is about 50%, particularly when it comes to women in Africa. I have had dreams of stillbirths but never experienced once experience them in my entire life or the lives of those around me. Why does your own dream get to be considered spiritual and mine not? undecided

2. "All life is spiritual...," the infamous mantra of the most deluded, most gullible individuals on the planet to date... Africans. Yet in the very same Africa, there is absolutely no tangible evidence to back up this claim to be found. How come? huh
Lets leave number 1 for personal reason but for number 2 about life and spiritually.

Have u seen anybody on earth without being attach to one spirituality or religion or not ??

Am not talking about only XTIAN and Muslim am talking about universe and d people living in it .

Even as an atheist ⚛️ they still believe in spiritually they just don't believe in God created this and that .....


Ask yourself when people have spiritual problems where y they go for traditional solution or even church etc and they got healed .


If u haven't heard or experience such before then u are still a KID and still learning LIFE itself .

Case closed 🔒
Re: Can A Dead Parent Make A Demand From his/her child by Kobojunkie: 2:14am On Nov 23, 2024
Tayorshd87:
➜Lets leave number 1 for personal reason but for number 2 about life and spiritually. Have u seen anybody on earth without being attach to one spirituality or religion or not ??
➜Am not talking about only XTIAN and Muslim am talking about universe and d people living in it .
➜Even as an atheist ⚛️ they still believe in spiritually they just don't believe in God created this and that .....
➜Ask yourself when people have spiritual problems where y they go for traditional solution or even church etc and they got healed .
➜If u haven't heard or experience such before then u are still a KID and still learning LIFE itself . Case closed 🔒
1. Yes. I am one of them and I have friends who are the same. Not everyone around me is attached to some spiritual delusion/religion. undecided

2. Yes, I am myself not attached to any religion and I gravitate towards people like me who would rather live free of such delusions. undecided

3. I am sorry but you lied! For the longest— particularly while growing up— I used to be an atheist myself. It wasn't until I decided to finally search by myself that I decided to consider the possibility of a God. Not all atheists are like the atheists you have met in the religion section on Nairaland. If you have met atheists outside of Nairaland, you will find that many of them would never even be bothered with the idea of God or the mention of such. undecided

4. I have yet to meet people with what you term spiritual problems. Rather, I have met people with chemical and behavioral problems. undecided

5. Here's the problem with these claims of yours. I have spent time in mental health hospitals and many of those I met there were lied to by your religious nutjobs that they had spiritual problems without resolving... however, with mental science, many of them have been helped or been able to get back some semblance of sanity into their lives. undecided
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