₦airaland Forum

Seunomobo:
So why are you getting emotional about this?
Life is transactional.
The earlier you understood this , the better for you.
Don't take this to heart.
Just keep doing your best to support your son .
Everything will fall in place..
Btw, I supported my elder sister to leave her lazy, struggling, I don't care attitude hubby,cos no be understanding, pity and miracle she go chop..
She's gladly a side chick to a married man and she's very happy with him than being with the useless man she used to be with ..
Before you come for me, just know say, I get am before no be property....
If you like call me and my sister ashawo, that one no be insult eh, find better insult give me then I'll reply you

High body counts and too many pricksss don scatter this one brain...

To bond with man go hard her ..

virginboy1:
High body counts and too many pricksss don scatter this one brain...

To bond with man go hard her ..

The way them take scatter your mama toto before she born u.
No lie ,tell me how many man Bleep your mama before she born u...

Abi Ur mama na farjin before she born u..

Oloriburuku oloshi....

What a sad stories!

Tallesty1:
Two things that happened recently in Bayelsa:

Man A wanted to relocate back to Nsukka, so he started selling his properties and belongings. Meanwhile, his wife was busy planning to “Japa” and he had no idea. Only his first son, who was her favorite, knew about her plans.

The woman took all the money and fled. People thought she was missing, and her family in Nsukka was already giving the man a hard time, say make he find their daughter for them. Months later, when the son she promised to bring over finally reached her by phone, she told him to “face his life” and stopped contacting him. The son then opened up to his dad about what had happened and later committed suicide.

Man B had a wife who was sleeping around like a rabbit. The mumu wouldn’t divorce her. Las las the wife hired people to kill him and kill him they did, they attacked him brutally. The news even made the papers. When the police called the wife to identify her husband she looked at what was left of him and casually said, “Yes, that’s him.” No tears, no emotion. The next thing she asked for was the key to his shop.

A policeman got angry and arrested her as suspect in the man's death, this triggered triggered an investigation. The deeper they went, the worse the story became. Soon, the Igbo chairman was invited by the police and told that some big people wanted the case dropped; and it was.

End of story for the man.

Women kill men all the time, but no one talks about it enough. Read Purple Hibiscus and see other ways they do it and go unpunished. Nigerians rarely bother with autopsies.

As a man, you’ve got to look out for yourself because no one else will. Don't wait until you're sick before you get a proper medical check-up. When they diagnose you with any illness or warn you of something likely to happen, ask the doctor what could have caused it, because some of these people will kill you slowly and then blame it on the life you led as a young man or the alcohol you drank.

We have a case at hand as I type this and he is alive today because someone suggested he stopped eating the wife's food.

I was driving back home by 7pm when I got a text from her that she has moved out of my house! When I got to the house, I found out she has carried every thing that was hers and all of our wedding gifts (Her family and friend told her, her stars and our wedding gifts bring me good fortunes, the days she left with them, I will be a very poor man).

I wasn't poor neither was I wealthy when she left, but I refused to be manipulated by her, her elder sister and her friends.

Because I got a car and moved into a better apartment after wedding, they believed she was the source of my good fortune, so every market day, she will be threatening me that if I don't do what she wants, she will take her "good lucks and wedding gifts" else where.

Finally she carried out her threat, thinking I will run begging her for forgiveness, then she will direct me to her sisters, aunty and her friends and they will now give a strict instruction on how to marry her in my house.

Her brothers always called me, to tell me their sisters evil plans. And I kept telling her the day she will leave our house, she will never come back.

Last week for the 1st time since 4 years she left, I saw where she does POS business on a dusty road, a woman I rented a shop for, her family told her not to collect, because I will be controlling her because of the business. And that day, she said she will not follow to see the shop because according to her "I am dirty" if I don't bath, change my clothes, barb my hairs, she's not going any where with me.


Funny thing now is that all those friends are now married and they all live far way from she stays, her sisters and aunty are no longer in Lagos, they have a left her to her fate. She's now dating a "Fvck boy" that blenches and rub pink lips. Anytime we meet in Church you can see the pain in her eyes, but her proud is holding her back and the fact I made it known that I am no longer interested, because she called a couple of times to apologized, but I was not and still not interested. She just turned 40 this year. No husband, no children, no business, no home of her own

NOETHNICITY:
I wouldn’t have sent them the money

I would have simply told my son that I have enough food in my house for him, and that he should tell his mom to bring him back

Sometimes it's good to be flexible and not do things in a hard hearted way

luminouz:
I see stories like yours and wonder why men have become so weak. I only allow a woman to disrespect me once. I always let them know there will be consequences. They know and what I can do if they fûck up. That fear factor translates to a man who knows his worth and won't tolerate nonsense and women love that shiit.

Your wife packed out and you took her back in was your first mistake. Everything went downhill from there.

I take everything's as lesson