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TheChameleon:
You are Igbo... so its expected.

Wahala.

ChizzyBuna:
I love and respect my dad so much
He is old in age but he can still drive

The issue is anytime I'm driving him
Instead of him to relax
He will turn to Conductor every 2 seconds, sometimes he will shout that I'm speeding to fast but I'm not going past 60 kmph


Today I drove him to village and on the way he did the same shouting and telling me to look out for bumps.

This distracts me and makes me lose focus. Out of anger i shouted back at him to keep quiet and allow me drive.
That i have eyes and i can see the bumps

Now i told him that he should never enter my car or unless he will keep quiet and allow me concentrate on my driving.
No talking, he should keep it shut through out the whole journey.

Now he is feeling bad, did i do anything bad??

If you love yourself,you will quickly go and use style and buy wine and use style apologise....don't ever address your father that way,allow the old man say whatever he wants to say. You can never be bigger than your father.

ChizzyBuna:
I will find a good spot to park and my father will start pointing that i should park in another spot.

Sometimes he will shout that i should go left. Then he realize that right us the correct road.

As a driver, you have vision of where you are going.

Now imagine passenger telling you move here, go there, stop right, slow down, go fast...

I had to warn him never to ever enter my car again. Unless he will keep quiet while i drive.

Now he has reported me to my mum. My mum told me he feels bad.

Take it easy on the ol'man. He was just looking out for you as his kid. U'll always be his kid even if ur beards don turn grey. Go make up with ur dad.

TheChameleon:
You are Igbo... so its expected.

See the post that gat the highest # of likes so far...... jealousy and envy and bad belle is a bad thing o

I wish my dad was still here to "teach" me like that again

Tit4Tat1:
No u didn't, u would have tear him a hot slap... Ewu!!!

If you know how pops and mumsy upsets their sons while driving them..you won't called him goat😃 they are annoying but while driving him again let him know that you sees those bump and you knows what you re driving with a calm voice..

@OP You should know he ia an elderly person and his alertness wouldn't be the same as before... apologize to the man and ask him nicely to allow you focus while driving. shikena.

Exactly what your son/daughter will do to you soon!

uuzba:
Tolerate what?
When dad was young, was he not speeding?
Did he listen to his own dad to slow down?
Now that OP is speeding, Dad is shouting left and right.
Abeg comot for the car or drive yourself.

ChizzyBuna:
that man hates public transport with his life

There must be something deeper than we know about you and your Dad, is not just about Car issues.....

Hope you are not the type that relates with your Mum to treat your Dad like a nobody because he couldn't get somethings done for you in life....

Pls retrace your steps and know you have only one Dad in this life....
Treat him like a superstar and a hero in your life ...
He could have killed you if he was this rough, disrespectful, and harsh like you when you were small....

Just be easy on yourself.....

U be mumu

You must be a yahoo guy. That's how you people became rude after touching little money

Factcheck0001:
Omo u took those words from my mouth, no wonder this people don't see anything about insulting other people's father

If u can tell your own biological father to keep quiet then Wetin remain?

I pity the girl that will marry people like this, someone who shuts his father down won't see any big deal about beating any girl

they actually respect their wives..... If it was his wife he won't tell her to shut up....how u go tell ur papa make e shut up.... Haba

We kinda learned to drive the way my dad liked. He's like that with everyone else except us
Ive kinda adjusted to driving according to whomever my passenger is

If you are Ibo, it’s okay.

If you are any other tribe that’s very rude and disrespectful

ChizzyBuna:
I love and respect my dad so much
He is old in age but he can still drive

The issue is anytime I'm driving him
Instead of him to relax
He will turn to Conductor every 2 seconds, sometimes he will shout that I'm speeding to fast but I'm not going past 60 kmph


Today I drove him to village and on the way he did the same shouting and telling me to look out for bumps.

This distracts me and makes me lose focus. Out of anger i shouted back at him to keep quiet and allow me drive.
That i have eyes and i can see the bumps

Now i told him that he should never enter my car or unless he will keep quiet and allow me concentrate on my driving.
No talking, he should keep it shut through out the whole journey.

Now he is feeling bad, did i do anything bad??

I think you lack respect. Your dad? Mehn, this one loud. I just don't understand the height of your rudeness.

Many would do anything to see their father again, even if for a second. You are here talking rubbish to your dad.

You need to listen to the song "Dance with my father again," by Luther Vandross.

After that, you can then get lost!

Your son will do same to you[quote][/quote]

uuzba:
Tolerate what?
When dad was young, was he not speeding?
Did he listen to his own dad to slow down?
Now that OP is speeding, Dad is shouting left and right.
Abeg comot for the car or drive yourself.

You are not only fool but very stupid. Op knew that what he did was wrong. It was guilty conscience that made him to ask if what did was wrong. But you that lack manner think he is right? You don't stop there you can't even rationalise why being rude to one's biological father was wrong in all ramifications. You are questioning others that have morals and manners.

ChizzyBuna:
I love and respect my dad so much
He is old in age but he can still drive

The issue is anytime I'm driving him
Instead of him to relax
He will turn to Conductor every 2 seconds, sometimes he will shout that I'm speeding to fast but I'm not going past 60 kmph


Today I drove him to village and on the way he did the same shouting and telling me to look out for bumps.

This distracts me and makes me lose focus. Out of anger i shouted back at him to keep quiet and allow me drive.
That i have eyes and i can see the bumps

Now i told him that he should never enter my car or unless he will keep quiet and allow me concentrate on my driving.
No talking, he should keep it shut through out the whole journey.

Now he is feeling bad, did i do anything bad??

If you are a good driver as you claim, you'll understand that a fellow driver will hardly be comfortable with your driving because they are not the one driving. Your problem is pride. Yes, pride. How dare you scream at the old man because he tried correcting you? Do you know how to drive better than him? How many years have you been driving that you feel you are now perfect? You should be flocked.

abeg where people dey get mind shout for their Father?. Because for my father,then no born your father well to shout for am..the respect that man command no be here. When him dey advise you, you go be like akamu dey listen...

ChizzyBuna:
I love and respect my dad so much
He is old in age but he can still drive

The issue is anytime I'm driving him
Instead of him to relax
He will turn to Conductor every 2 seconds, sometimes he will shout that I'm speeding to fast but I'm not going past 60 kmph


Today I drove him to village and on the way he did the same shouting and telling me to look out for bumps.

This distracts me and makes me lose focus. Out of anger i shouted back at him to keep quiet and allow me drive.
That i have eyes and i can see the bumps

Now i told him that he should never enter my car or unless he will keep quiet and allow me concentrate on my driving.
No talking, he should keep it shut through out the whole journey.

Now he is feeling bad, did i do anything bad??

Na iddiat u be
Stop taking tramadol extra ok

Don't you dare say as much as 'uff' to your Dad.
Holy Qur'an 17:23

You and your property are the property of your Father.
Holy Prophet Muhammad (sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam)

I thank you, ya Allah, for making me a muslim.

ChizzyBuna:
I love and respect my dad so much
He is old in age but he can still drive

The issue is anytime I'm driving him
Instead of him to relax
He will turn to Conductor every 2 seconds, sometimes he will shout that I'm speeding to fast but I'm not going past 60 kmph


Today I drove him to village and on the way he did the same shouting and telling me to look out for bumps.

This distracts me and makes me lose focus. Out of anger i shouted back at him to keep quiet and allow me drive.
That i have eyes and i can see the bumps

Now i told him that he should never enter my car or unless he will keep quiet and allow me concentrate on my driving.
No talking, he should keep it shut through out the whole journey.

Now he is feeling bad, did i do anything bad??

Who born you to shout for your Papa? If he says you're driving too fast. Believe you are because by their short temper we know bad drivers.

kalvoken:
Kalvoken to his useless homosexual father:

You are so pathetic. Why such a bitter life?
Always ruining your life with tribalism

The fagg0t dreams to achieve half what I have achieved in my first decade .

Iceberg3:
See the post that gat the highest # of likes so far...... jealousy and envy and bad belle is a bad thing o

Why are you so pained. My AfonjaConehead friend.

ChizzyBuna:
I love and respect my dad so much
He is old in age but he can still drive

The issue is anytime I'm driving him
Instead of him to relax
He will turn to Conductor every 2 seconds, sometimes he will shout that I'm speeding to fast but I'm not going past 60 kmph


Today I drove him to village and on the way he did the same shouting and telling me to look out for bumps.

This distracts me and makes me lose focus. Out of anger i shouted back at him to keep quiet and allow me drive.
That i have eyes and i can see the bumps

Now i told him that he should never enter my car or unless he will keep quiet and allow me concentrate on my driving.
No talking, he should keep it shut through out the whole journey.

Now he is feeling bad, did i do anything bad??

I understand you.

You were just frustrated as a result of the previous shouting which got to your nerves.

Shouting puts pressure, tension and anxiety on any humanbeing.

It's human psychology.

So imagine such being done when you are driving. It can make one go crazy.

Daddy should learn to trust your judgement while on the wheels and stop shouting on an Adult.

After all, you've been driving this way all along and you are good.

He will understand in future.

Don't think about it.

And if u have money, get him his own personal driver that he can shout on at will.

I think he will like that.

Social media
Where you know you are wrong yet you come online to seek virtual acceptance
Bonkers

tell him to sit in the back seat . period

Guys you are very rude ooo better apologise from your father you need to manage them this time around and 60kph is too much for you when you drive your parent you are over speed ooo

ChizzyBuna:
I love and respect my dad so much
He is old in age but he can still drive

The issue is anytime I'm driving him
Instead of him to relax
He will turn to Conductor every 2 seconds, sometimes he will shout that I'm speeding to fast but I'm not going past 60 kmph


Today I drove him to village and on the way he did the same shouting and telling me to look out for bumps.

This distracts me and makes me lose focus. Out of anger i shouted back at him to keep quiet and allow me drive.
That i have eyes and i can see the bumps

Now i told him that he should never enter my car or unless he will keep quiet and allow me concentrate on my driving.
No talking, he should keep it shut through out the whole journey.

Now he is feeling bad, did i do anything bad??

Apologise to your father. It's not everything you bring to nairaland where you know many people are not normal.

Natbrowny:
👉 Buy a drink ur dad likes.
👉 Present the drink to him
👉 Sit down with him and apologise for ur outburst and remind him u r now an adult who can drive without been told what to do.

He is just been a dad. When u get to face similar scenario with ur son. U'll understand better.

If it was ur mom, i believe u'll find a way to say sorry.

Do same for pops. And make him smile for the next few days. Pops will always be pops. Mine will still want to tell me how to operate WhatsApp, somtin wey na me teach am o 😂 . I just dey smile even though atyms its annoying. Dem be our first teacher, they believe they'll teach us everything, its kinda a habit for everyone

Op this is the best way to approach him amd apologize. My Dad is worst. All aged dads are like that. The last time I drove with him inside the vehicle I prepared his mind ahead that he will complain about my driving oooo. Pls find a way to say sorry to him.

Tit4Tat1:
No u didn't, u would have tear him a hot slap... Ewu!!!

I fell off from my chair seeing dis..... hehehehe hehehehehe!!!!!

ChizzyBuna:
I will find a good spot to park and my father will start pointing that i should park in another spot.

Sometimes he will shout that i should go left. Then he realize that right us the correct road.

As a driver, you have vision of where you are going.

Now imagine passenger telling you move here, go there, stop right, slow down, go fast...

I had to warn him never to ever enter my car again. Unless he will keep quiet while i drive.

Now he has reported me to my mum. My mum told me he feels bad.

Bro I understand ur para but u can't treat ur father like ur junior brother...what u said so even if its directed to me I swear I won't dare enter ur motor again, if u like apologise from Owerri to badagary.

U insulted the old man bro...


Even if u want to burst out, what u should have said codedly is..."papa a no go dey carry you again oh because u no dey lemme concentrate"
This is different and still reasonably sound than telling someone that he shouldn't ever think of entering ur car again...haba