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JovialJune:
You people should be getting sense o, your mother no get good character? Are you a product of Baby mama?

Again, get sense.

Truth is bitter. You are not only uncultured, you also lack mother's love...you weren't brought up in love...smh

Eefin ni iwa, ko se fi pamo

TheChameleon:
🥱 😫 😴

Mother Earth and her children.

Most men pick a woman for marriage becoz they admire her in some ways. So loving should not be an issue for them.

The Christian religion is advocating submission and respect to the man.

Islam and traditional religion also advocates submission and respect to the man.

The traditional religion of our fathers made marriage worth it coz the man works hard (often in farms) and buys the wife via a dowry and takes care of her needs completely. Thus, having a control over the woman.

The perversion that came tru feminism and the rest that has permeated the Western world has destroyed the stronghold of marriage.

A man leaving with a troublesome or unsubmissive woman will not live long and will ultimately look for a way out to breathe.

Women are loving creatures, so without a loving atmosphere, a woman cannot stay. However, a good wife must train herself in the act of faithfulness and humility.

Tame your appetites. The reason marriage is a complete joke in the West is coz the foundations have been broken.

Husbands love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave his life for her.
If you are not ready to give your life for your wife, you don't deserve and submission.
If you are rich and arrogant, your wife will pretend to love you so she gets paid. If you are poor and arrogant, you quarrel every day.

Goodlyhrt:
It makes sense for a woman to assume the lower position in a humans heterogeneous partnership because biology supports that. So it is scientific.

Nothing religious there

At least a reputable body has affirmed it

1Sharon:
Sir? That is for insolent wives.

She should call him black Jesus instead.

ugly bastard stop polluting this thread.
Useless head slamming Islamic bastard

Zooposki:
The only useless chromosome in the body is the Make(Y) chromosome. Let your misogynist Bible written by man keep deceiving you. If you like don’t go out there and look for the truth. Keep mistreating Mother Nature and her children, the truth will out. The whole world has been deceived by the Beast and his Book(Bible).

you're very stupid

JovialJune:
Next time Op, try not to mischievous, submission is for both husband and wife,
In 1Peter 3:7, the bible says
Husbands, in the same waysubmit yourselves to your own wives, as you dwell together wisely, recognizing her........

Christian women should submit in a marriage where there is mutual respect, loyalty, and trust, not to a irresponsible selfish self centered cheating man who does not give a hoot about his wife and children, if you do that, you will face the consequences and be made to fend for yourself and kids alone.

Remember the Bible says that "a man that can't provide for his family is worse than an infidel", Bible also said that "a lazy man does not deserve to eat" laziness is a sin.

To many marital crises abound these days caused by men, instead of focusing on men that are supposed to build and nurture their home, you focus more of women because of useless ego, thank God we are in an era where women are becoming enlightened, no more enduring bullshit in marriage, you misbehave, you go your separate ways.

feminist Fucck off and stop polluting this thread.
Useless Head slamming Islamic bastard

Mindlog:
Between men and women in Nigeria, who experiences loneliness more, in old age?

women of course

meobizy:
Christians: Muslims act according to the Koran. They do not practice freedom of thought.

Christians:

submit everything, especially ur toto

Love comes before submission. The husband is expected to love his wife unconditional just as Christ loves us even to the point of dying on the cross while we were yet sinners. This unconditional love from the husband brings about submission from the wife. But the husband has to lay the foundation first.

You are using the word SUBMIT to a Nigerian woman in this day and age.

Clearly you don't want to get through to them.

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1Sharon:
Sir? That is for insolent wives.

She should call him black Jesus instead.

In between. It is a long term hack.

At the end of the day,the husband and the wife have 'roles' to play to ensure harmony in the union!
Same way a wife should submit to her partner,a husband must respect,protect and provide for his wife!
Do not say he must start playing his own roles before I can do mine...that mentality breeds competition and commotion!
Instead play your part as a wife or husband...if anything to fulfill all righteousness!
Well, everything starts from relationship and dating stage!

Anything that is natural will always happen naturally without any fuss
it is unnatural for a human to submit to to another human, hence the need for people to keep sing the looney tunes of submissiveness to women lol

JovialJune:
Lol, so those that call their husband baby and honey don't respect their husband? Only those that call him sir submit and respect their husband?

Again let's be getting sense o, what works for A can't work for B, rigidity and subjugation doesn't automatically means respect know the difference.

it's because you call him baby that makes you see him like a baby you can manipulate and raise your voice at when manipulation is not yielding good results for you. Was divorce this rampant in the days of your grannies where a man was addressed as a lord?

when2:
Love comes before submission. The husband is expected to love his wife unconditional just as Christ loves us even to the point of dying on the cross while we were yet sinners. This unconditional love from the husband brings about submission from the wife. But the husband has to lay the foundation first.

a man can never take your respect for granted but some women will even see you as weak and vulnerable when you show them strong love. What sort of confusion is this for goodness sake?

Globad:
A lot of women are kicking against it or are unhappy with it

The OP's quote is a biased philosophy and an intentional manipulation of scripture.

Why read Verse 25 before 22 ??
The instruction is first to the Woman, then the Man.

The Bible is Forever Correct.

when2:
Love comes before submission. The husband is expected to love his wife unconditional just as Christ loves us even to the point of dying on the cross while we were yet sinners. This unconditional love from the husband brings about submission from the wife. But the husband has to lay the foundation first.

Please done be deceived.
Verse 22 is first before 25.

TheChameleon:
"No matter how much you're a feminist, you MUST kneel for your husband in doggystyle"

Someone once said about Chimamanda Adiche here.

Real believer don't do doggy

That's a strange style

Be a husband that your wife can submit to easily.



The next article should be how to be a Husband a Wife can submit to.


Many Adults need to attend a class on how to be humane humans because many are behaving like demon possessed beings

lendahand:
a man can never take your respect for granted but some women will even see you as weak and vulnerable when you show them strong love. What sort of confusion is this for goodness sake?

Play your own part first, by loving your partner, before finding faults.

JovialJune:
Next time Op, try not to mischievous, submission is for both husband and wife,
In 1Peter 3:7, the bible says
Husbands, in the same waysubmit yourselves to your own wives, as you dwell together wisely, recognizing her........

Christian women should submit in a marriage where there is mutual respect, loyalty, and trust, not to a irresponsible selfish self centered cheating man who does not give a hoot about his wife and children, if you do that, you will face the consequences and be made to fend for yourself and kids alone.

Remember the Bible says that "a man that can't provide for his family is worse than an infidel", Bible also said that "a lazy man does not deserve to eat" laziness is a sin.

To many marital crises abound these days caused by men, instead of focusing on men that are supposed to build and nurture their home, you focus more of women because of useless ego, thank God we are in an era where women are becoming enlightened, no more enduring bullshit in marriage, you misbehave, you go your separate ways.

Which book are you quoting from.?
Holy bible or .................

PeachtreeReside:
Be a husband that your wife can submit to easily.



The next article should be how to be a Husband a Wife can submit to.


Many Adults need to attend a class on how to be humane humans because many are behaving like demon possessed beings

The word of God must be obeyed and practiced unconditionally,
That is why you need to be a holy living born again child of God to see a born again husband to marry you

The men of today cant lead themselves but a woman should submit to them? 😂😂

when2:
Love comes before submission. The husband is expected to love his wife unconditional just as Christ loves us even to the point of dying on the cross while we were yet sinners. This unconditional love from the husband brings about submission from the wife. But the husband has to lay the foundation first.

You need to obey the the word of God to make the kingdom of God.
Husband and wife are two human being, each must run the heavenly race according to the bible rules
Who knows maybe you can win the love of your husband by respecting him according to the bible and even wining his heart for God

femi4:
If an unbelieving husband can be won over by the wife's behaviour, how much more a believing husband.

Obinrin so iwa nu, olohun o lori oko : A Woman is bereft of good characters, she said God did not destined her to have Husband.

Very good question and remark you made right there

Character default/flaws is the major problem

A lot are not raised well

They talk to a Man anyhow
Overtly rude. No respect


This is the major reason for alarming increasing rate of divorce in modern day marriages

The Bible have real answer to the problems in many marriages and homes today

If each party do there part of the obligation well

We will have better homes, marriages and unions

lendahand:
it's because you call him baby that makes you see him like a baby you can manipulate and raise your voice at when manipulation is not yielding good results for you. Was divorce this rampant in the days of your grannies where a man was addressed as a lord?[b][/b]

At the bolded

Divorce was never like this

Going back to the way our forbearers did by adding in some template from there formula

Now people just marry anyhow and when wahala start
Dem go begin cry

Sorry to bust your bubble my dear deluded feminist, but your pseudo intellectual, LGBTQ based nonsense about the Y Chromosome is not supported by true genetics.

I'm afraid you're stuck with us men for a long, long time 'cos we aint going nowhere😂

We started the human race and we'll finish it when we feel like it. You female folk will just have to tag along like you've always done😂

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Zooposki:
The only useless chromosome in the body is the Make(Y) chromosome. Let your misogynist Bible written by man keep deceiving you. If you like don’t go out there and look for the truth. Keep mistreating Mother Nature and her children, the truth will out. The whole world has been deceived by the Beast and his Book(Bible).

AntiChristian:


Alhamdulillah for Islam! It is clearly stated that Allah has favoured the husband as the head over the wife!

Woman go still dey claim equality with the husband!

How does the husband submit to the wife in 1 Peter 3:7 above?

Where in the quran is it written that husband should love their wives? The only thing in the Qur'an as pertaining the husband to the wife is that they are allowed to beat their wives

As to those women on whose part you see ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (next) refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly, if it is useful); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allah is Ever Most High, Most Great” [al-Nisa 4:34]

DiamondsAreFore:
Sorry to bust your bubble my dear deluded feminist, but your pseudo intellectual, LGBTQ based nonsense about the Y Chromosome is not supported by true genetics.

I'm afraid you're stuck with us men for a long, long time 'cos we aint going nowhere😂

We started the human race and we'll finish it when we feel like it. You female folk will just have to tag along like you've always done😂

Ok, it should keep fighting for its life. When it’s tired it will give up. Still does not change the fact that it is the only useless chromosome in the human body.