₦airaland Forum

GboyegaD:
That's the question they should answer. Funny though, Nigerian parents have always outsourced parenting to schools from time immemorial, at least as witnessed in my own generation.

I'm not against sending a child to school in Nigeria but be sure the child is comfortable with the idea. The child needs not be fully convinced and also let the child know that you will bring him/ her back at the end of school year if the school isn't so comfortable.

Sadly, when the boy returns to UK, he will likely be placed in foster care as there is already bad blood with his parents.

Hahaha what’s the trend of sending out children to live in Africa by themselves. That child will be ok after recurring Koboko lashes . Also are Nigerian bred children better than abroad children

DeeScan:
➜ those have political affiliations one way or the other ... it is not as easy as the abroad .. you could even find guns on waste bin in the abroad...

And this political affiliation is impossible for this boy to acquire?

cr7lomo:
➜U are part of tye reason why the world is upside down...

But the world is not upside down. Rather, it is people like you who reason that it is because it no longer caters to your generally inhumane and irrational ideas.

Kobojunkie:
But the world is not upside down. Rather, it is people like you who reason that it is because it no longer caters to your generally inhumane and irrational ideas.

Ndi woke... don't worry... Trump will teach y'all a serious lesson

cr7lomo:
➜Ndi woke... don't worry... Trump will teach y'all a serious lesson

What the heck is this one rambling about now. What has Trump to do with a boy who was deported to Africa from the UK? Are you OK?

Mindlog:
Sadly, when the boy returns to UK, he will likely be placed in foster care as there is already bad blood with his parents.

The parents can win this by bringing the young man back, settling out of court, and claiming they thought they were doing it in his best interest. The worst then might be taking parental classes for a few months.
Those aiding the parents wouldn't bear any of the consequences. What i have learned is protect your child and don't just listen to any advice particularly those coming from back home as many do not understand the simple rules and think being abusive is the solution to raising kids properly.

I am doing exactly the same for my boys and we already talked about this and, they are pretty chill/excited about the prospect since they've never been to Naija before.

In my case, I will stay with then in Nigeria not abandoning them and returning abroad.

9JAMac10:
Hahaha what’s the trend of sending out children to live in Africa by themselves. That child will be ok after recurring Koboko lashes . Also are Nigerian bred children better than abroad children

“Nigerian bred children are better than abroad children” why does this not reflect onto our society? Why does the average Nigerian behave very violent? Why is the average Nigerian a rape apologists? Why are Nigerians constantly being banned from countries? Why do Nigerians have this mentality of “as long as it does not happen to me it’s not my business”

Somehow Nigerian Children are bred better but Western Children have a functioning society. Their society is more inclusive. They don’t have people who transfer their frustrations unto people.

What if after the koboko lashes the boy reports and the parents go to jail? Or he grows up and stop speaking to his parents? Notice how a lot of gen z kids are not speaking to their parents anymore? Exactly. Until you people learn how to stop inflicting violence on kids Africa can never move forward.

AllenSpencer:
Unenlightened parents!

They could have just told the goat they wanted to show him the house the built for him in Nigeria. Many formats that can fool those GMO kids.

You won’t even make him suspicious. Just land in Naija and tear that passport, birth certificate and every other docs or ID he can use to identify himself

Let me list some things that are wrong with this your comment and if you are in the Uk could result to your child being taken away from you:

Referring to the boy as a “goat” is deeply disrespectful and dismissive of his feelings and experiences. Every child deserves to be treated with dignity, no matter the situation.

You could face legal consequences for ripping your child’s documents.
Tearing up a passport, birth certificate, or other identification is considered the destruction of government property in many jurisdictions, as these documents are issued and regulated by government authorities.

Such actions could be interpreted as neglect or abuse, as they intentionally harm the child’s ability to access basic rights and services, such as travel, education, or healthcare.

Destroying identification documents effectively deprives the child of their legal identity and could be considered a violation of human rights under international law.

Depending on the country, the parents could face charges such as fraud, obstruction of justice, or child endangerment for deliberately sabotaging the child’s legal status.

Authorities take these matters seriously, especially when they involve a minor.

The suggestion to manipulate and abandon the child in Nigeria perpetuates harmful stereotypes about Nigerian communities and normalizes unethical behavior. This is exactly why Nigerians have a bad rep.

ZaRuleOfLaw:
The boy na clown 🤡🤡 So I will consult pikin wey I dey feed before making the decision for him? What now makes him a minor?

Europeans are digging a big grave for their civilization this time & they won't recover

First of fall Europeans are not digging any grave. They’ve been raising kids like this for centuries. Africans that have been inflicting violence upon their kids as discipline for centuries what has it done for us? Nigerians to be precise? Do we have a functioning society? Europe has a functioning society.

Europe has recovered from the worst of the worst. Nothing will happen to them. As for Africa everything is happening.

Yes, you are supposed to consult your child regarding decisions on them. Minor or not. All because your child is a minor does not mean they do not have feelings on opinions on something.

liagrande:
Let me list some things that are wrong with this your comment and if you are in the Uk could result to your child being taken away from you:

Referring to the boy as a “goat” is deeply disrespectful and dismissive of his feelings and experiences. Every child deserves to be treated with dignity, no matter the situation.

You could face legal consequences for ripping your child’s documents.
Tearing up a passport, birth certificate, or other identification is considered the destruction of government property in many jurisdictions, as these documents are issued and regulated by government authorities.

Such actions could be interpreted as neglect or abuse, as they intentionally harm the child’s ability to access basic rights and services, such as travel, education, or healthcare.

Destroying identification documents effectively deprives the child of their legal identity and could be considered a violation of human rights under international law.

Depending on the country, the parents could face charges such as fraud, obstruction of justice, or child endangerment for deliberately sabotaging the child’s legal status.

Authorities take these matters seriously, especially when they involve a minor.

The suggestion to manipulate and abandon the child in Nigeria perpetuates harmful stereotypes about Nigerian communities and normalizes unethical behavior. This is exactly why Nigerians have a bad rep.

When he gets to Nigeria with me, he will enact all those laws.

AllenSpencer:
↪ When he gets to Nigeria with me, he will enact all those laws.

A child you were scared of outside of Nigeria, na for Nigeria you go come think say you go fit control am? Some of you are not fit at all to be parents!

Kobojunkie:
A child you were scared of outside of Nigeria, na for Nigeria you go come think say you go fit control am? Some of you are not fit at all to be parents!

Like I said, when he lands Muritala, he should start all those in western stunts. Various types of resetting will adjust his senses with no one or law to stop it.

There is a Nigerian guy sharing his experiences on TikTok about how he was relocated as a teenager, I cannot remember the handle.

He will experience adjust by force. Mosquitos and darkness alone will keep him on his toes. I will look for a close to average “PUBLIC SCHOOL” where he will see the other side of life, and spend holidays with my grand mother in the village.

He will lose all those fat and muscles in 6 months. After 5 years, He will be the most responsible man on Earth.

AllenSpencer:
↪Like I said, when he lands Muritala, he should start all those in western stunts. Various types of resetting will adjust his senses with no one or law to stop it. There is a Nigerian guy sharing his experiences on TikTok about how he was relocated as a teenager, I cannot remember the handle.
↪He will experience adjust by force. Mosquitos and darkness alone will keep him on his toes. I will look for a close to average “PUBLIC SCHOOL” where he will see the other side of life, and spend holidays with my grand mother in the village. He will lose all those fat and muscles in 6 months. After 5 years, He will be the most responsible man on Earth.

1. Are all teenagers the same or are the ones in Nigeria the same for you to suggest he would turn out like the one on TikTok you mentioned? What about the teenagers who turned to cult after moving back to Nigeria? Are they the same as your TikTok fellow?

2. What are you on about? Did you read the OP at all? You are told this boy was already avoiding school and living a tout-ish life out there in the UK. Yet, you are trying to have us think that mosquitoes, darkness, etc., will somehow make him a better human being in Nigeria?

Kobojunkie:
1. Are all teenagers the same or are the ones in Nigeria the same for you to suggest he would turn out like the one on TikTok you mentioned? What about the teenagers who turned to cult after moving back to Nigeria? Are they the same as your TikTok fellow?

2. What are you on about? Did you read the OP at all? You are told this boy was already avoiding school and living a tout-ish life out there in the UK. Yet, you are trying to have us think that mosquitoes, darkness, etc., will somehow make him a better human being in Nigeria?

He is too comfortable over there! He has laws protecting him and hindering his parents from doing the normals.

He has access to basics of life without his parents.

Just let him land in Muritala, all those would be fixed.

AllenSpencer:
↪He is too comfortable over there! He has laws protecting him and hindering his parents from doing the normals. He has access to basics of life without his parents. Just let him land in Muritala, all those would be fixed.

What about the millions of tout-ish teenagers like him born and raised in Nigeria? Are they equally too comfortable, too protected by the laws, etc.?

Kobojunkie:
What about the millions of tout-ish teenagers like him born and raised in Nigeria? Are they equally too comfortable, too protected by the laws, etc.?

Good question!

Those were as a result of poverty and parents negligence.

I am talking about a capable parent with all the resources and funds.

Those western kids are just spoilt because they have the other side of life. They got laws protecting them which they aware of and capitalize on.

He needs to come to a lawless Nigeria and see how kids are trained.

Gib beat me witness I will make his life miserable till he becomes responsible.

AllenSpencer:
↪ Good question! Those were as a result of poverty and parents negligence. I am talking about a capable parent with all the resources and funds. Those western kids are just spoilt because they have the other side of life. They got laws protecting them which they aware of and capitalize on. He needs to come to a lawless Nigeria and see how kids are trained. Gib beat me witness I will make his life miserable till he becomes responsible.

So, in your mind, all the tout-ish teenagers in Nigeria are born only to poor parents? Children from rich and capable homes don't join cults, smoke, or even commit crimes in Nigeria?

Kobojunkie:
So, in your mind, all the tout-ish teenagers in Nigeria are born only to poor parents?

Very rare before you see a wayward rich kid. Let’s say ratio 1:100

AllenSpencer:
↪ Very rare before you see a wayward rich kid. Let’s say ratio 1:100

What is the ratio of rich to poor in Nigeria again?

Kobojunkie:
What is the ratio of rich to poor in Nigeria again?

I don’t know about that, but I still stand on my initial point. It’s very rare to find a wayward child of a rich man in Nigeria.

Majority of them are from poverty stricken backgrounds.

Good decision by the parents. Let him finish secondary school here. The rate of gangsterism by black teenagers in the UK calls for concern. Most of the rubbish they do there, they cannot do in Africa. Let him stay here in a good strict boarding school. He will behave well.

Juoflife1:
Good decision by the parents. Let him finish secondary school here. The rate of gangsterism by black teenagers in the UK calls for concern. Most of the rubbish they do there, they cannot do in Africa. Let him stay here in a good strict boarding school. He will behave well.

Why una dey like tell this lie abeg?

Are you being serious right now? Where do you live? You mean teenagers in any country in African go around in gangs robbing and stabbing on the street? Na wa oo. The system failed them and bringing them back will help

Kobojunkie:
Why una dey like tell this lie abeg?

Juoflife1:
Are you being serious right now? Where do you live? You mean teenagers in any country in African go around in gangs robbing and stabbing on the street? Na wa oo. The system failed them and bringing them back will help

So, according to you, there are no teenagers involved in gangs, robbing and stabbing on the streets of anywhere Nigeria?

Yes

Kobojunkie:
So, according to you, there are no teenagers involved in gangs, robbing and stabbing on the streets of anywhere Nigeria?

Juoflife1:
Yes

🙄🙄🙄🙄

Kobojunkie:
And this political affiliation is impossible for this boy to acquire?

yup .he wouldn't be gangster for hire ...



That's how the ones down here gets armed ..

Nnamdipapa:
I am doing exactly the same for my boys and we already talked about this and, they are pretty chill/excited about the prospect since they've never been to Naija before.

In my case, I will stay with then in Nigeria not abandoning them and returning abroad.

The most important thing is having the discussion with them and they buying into it.

GboyegaD:
The most important thing is having the discussion with them and they buying into it.

Even if they don't buy into it, they have no rights of consent as minors. The problem with the article is the parent dumping them in Africa and returning abroad. I can stay with my children anywhere in the world and I will make the decisions.

Nnamdipapa:
Even if they don't buy into it, they have no rights of consent as minors. The problem with the article is the parent dumping them in Africa and returning abroad. I can stay with my children anywhere in the world and I will make the decisions.

I meant if you don't want to stay.