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Episode22:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm not here to brag, I just need advice before I get lost.

I have two relatives living abroad (UK), both are from my mothers side, same father and same mother...

Just few days ago, I was called and told that they are making plans to send me to the UK early next year to go and stay with my uncle and find something doing there... they already communicated with my uncle abroad, and they just wanted to surprise me.

I'm 29 years old now, I graduated from school last two years as a petroleum engineering. Though, I'm not doing any work for now. My girlfriend is pregnant for me, and I have not disclosed it to anybody yet.

But the truth is that my mind doesn't want to go, I'm not ready and I have told them. They have already started telling me this is a one time opportunity, and that if I miss it, I won't see it again, but I have made up my mind that I don't want to go.

I just can't leave my friends here, I just don't know but I can't..

I need advice,

Why should I go, when my self and my mind is not ready...

NoahHadNoArk:
If you have any chance to leave this dead country, seize that opportunity as fast as you can and don’t look back.


Your friendssssss and girlfriends whom you reluctant to let go of, you will be of better help to them if you outside the country and sending them hard currency to better their lives.



Unless you earning 500k per month, living in your own house and having no fears for tomorrow then by all means stay back.

But if you buying beans 600naira a cup like I did on Saturday, 200 naira for one egg like I did on Sunday, and 1300 naira for a liter of petrol like I did this morning to fill my gen just to pump water since we’ve not had light since February,

If you worried about getting harassed on transit by clueless police officers standing at checkpoints seeking to fleece you of your hard earned money, if the name TPain is on your lips like every other Nigerian……

Go ahead and ask yourself why you even thinking twice about this once in a lifetime opportunity, if it’s not village people goading you into staying back so they can monitor your activities and have the final say.


I’ve said more than enough


My peace I leave you

Episode22:
my girlfriend is pregnant, only me know about it for now.. im still in my mother's house..

Episode22:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm not here to brag, I just need advice before I get lost.

I have two relatives living abroad (UK), both are from my mothers side, same father and same mother...

Just few days ago, I was called and told that they are making plans to send me to the UK early next year to go and stay with my uncle and find something doing there... they already communicated with my uncle abroad, and they just wanted to surprise me. 09078809650 please text me on whatsapp. It's very important

I'm 29 years old now, I graduated from school last two years as a petroleum engineering. Though, I'm not doing any work for now. My girlfriend is pregnant for me, and I have not disclosed it to anybody yet.

But the truth is that my mind doesn't want to go, I'm not ready and I have told them. They have already started telling me this is a one time opportunity, and that if I miss it, I won't see it again, but I have made up my mind that I don't want to go.

I just can't leave my friends here, I just don't know but I can't..

I need advice,

Why should I go, when my self and my mind is not ready...

Episode22:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm not here to brag, I just need advice before I get lost.

I have two relatives living abroad (UK), both are from my mothers side, same father and same mother...

Just few days ago, I was called and told that they are making plans to send me to the UK early next year to go and stay with my uncle and find something doing there... they already communicated with my uncle abroad, and they just wanted to surprise me.

I'm 29 years old now, I graduated from school last two years as a petroleum engineering. Though, I'm not doing any work for now. My girlfriend is pregnant for me, and I have not disclosed it to anybody yet.

But the truth is that my mind doesn't want to go, I'm not ready and I have told them. They have already started telling me this is a one time opportunity, and that if I miss it, I won't see it again, but I have made up my mind that I don't want to go.

I just can't leave my friends here, I just don't know but I can't..

I need advice,

Why should I go, when my self and my mind is not ready...

Episode22:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm not here to brag, I just need advice before I get lost.

I have two relatives living abroad (UK), both are from my mothers side, same father and same mother...

Just few days ago, I was called and told that they are making plans to send me to the UK early next year to go and stay with my uncle and find something doing there... they already communicated with my uncle abroad, and they just wanted to surprise me.

I'm 29 years old now, I graduated from school last two years as a petroleum engineering. Though, I'm not doing any work for now. My girlfriend is pregnant for me, and I have not disclosed it to anybody yet.

But the truth is that my mind doesn't want to go, I'm not ready and I have told them. They have already started telling me this is a one time opportunity, and that if I miss it, I won't see it again, but I have made up my mind that I don't want to go.

I just can't leave my friends here, I just don't know but I can't..

I need advice,

Why should I go, when my self and my mind is not ready...

SmartyPants:
Fake topic. A 29 year old still talking about not wanting to leave his friends?

No one can be that much of a mumu

tobby20:
My own na Germany
My people no even want make I finish school here again o
Say I must go next year

Episode22:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm not here to brag, I just need advice before I get lost.

I have two relatives living abroad (UK), both are from my mothers side, same father and same mother...

Just few days ago, I was called and told that they are making plans to send me to the UK early next year to go and stay with my uncle and find something doing there... they already communicated with my uncle abroad, and they just wanted to surprise me.

I'm 29 years old now, I graduated from school last two years as a petroleum engineering. Though, I'm not doing any work for now. My girlfriend is pregnant for me, and I have not disclosed it to anybody yet.

But the truth is that my mind doesn't want to go, I'm not ready and I have told them. They have already started telling me this is a one time opportunity, and that if I miss it, I won't see it again, but I have made up my mind that I don't want to go.

I just can't leave my friends here, I just don't know but I can't..

I need advice,

Why should I go, when my self and my mind is not ready...

saintnegroid:
correct.... They are disturbing us too much. I wonder why they are forcing me when I don't want to go

tobby20:
Guy me I dey go
Nothing dey Nigeria , even where I dey stay for school na like studio house , heat dey kill me every night .

tobby20:
But na Volkswagen u buy at 25 no lie
Which car u wan buy again

stagger:
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505 evolution.

BTW, whether na evolution or na volks, the dollar value of the price at which it was then is probably more than your current 3 years wages.

saintnegroid:
its good for you. They also have their own problem. So I will rather deal with our own problem than to deal with their own

tobby20:
In one word u no dey go
U get strong mind or girl don hook u down

saintnegroid:
hahahaha. I no dey go jare... I am too free here..... I am married anyway. But I always believe that with more money I can create my environment to be like the oyibo land. With solar you can have constant light, you can eat whatever you want, drive whatever car you like, pay for extra security.... Let me ask you.... Have you ever seen any politician who left Nigeria while in active service to go and live in abroad hustling? They create whatever environment they want here because the money to do so is there.... They can only travel abroad for treatment, resting but never to live there

Manualdino:
No go oooo. Make we dey suffer together for here.... Where do u think u are going, don't go oooo.. Mumu man. U never talk why u no Wan go

SmartyPants:
Fake topic. A 29 year old still talking about not wanting to leave his friends?

No one can be that much of a mumu

Mcslize:
How una take dey give girls belle sef? How una take dey do am? I had never impregnated a woman in my life and I am still wondering how guys that are not ready to settle down still end up impregnating girls.

I am just too intentional to impregnate a girl. The only girl I have ever dated like seriously in a relationship with in 2013, we never used condom but I still didn't impregnate her by mistake.

That's to tell you the type of intentional man I am. That's the only relationship I can really call relationship. Like we lived like husband and wife. It lasted for 1 and half year.

After that, all the girls I have ever been with, no condom no action. I never get serious with them any way so I can't count them as serious relationships per se, even though I asked them out. I see them as casual relationships. Not until I repented for a year plus now. Glory be to God.

I will advise you focus on your future, carry your bag and go to that UK. 29 years old, you think you are still a child? Better do the needful.

Flangelo12:
How I take enter this thread sef?

Mcslize:
It be like say you miss your way o egbon.