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Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.

I really dislike effimenate man like this. Yes, read it again you weak man. We really don't like you. First of all, you are a trouble maker.
Now, after looking for trouble, you need your uniform wife to clean your mess.. She's really irritated and regretted marrying a man who would think oppressing other people if given the opportunity is strength. Dirty civilian who need a military uniform to sort his issues.
Stupid fvxkz like you are quick to shout like this, when police violate the rights of other citizens.

Let me stop here. I have more. She know say uniform no fit save her sorry ass if things really go bad. Mumu husband wey him wife smart pass.

Ringstonermasks:
d boy was bullied and nearly killed...



U don't know how this feels. I already called her mother, it not a difficult mata, na to refund me introduction money make she go marry man wey she go dey control.

Am just waiting for her off.

I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.

Don dey find opportunity to dump her since??
Forced marriage??
I hope the innocent lady can stumble on your rants online so she can dump your ass and move on with her professional life.
If not that she be soldier, I'm sure you must have made attempt to violently attack her before

Ibkay32:
You have a good and amazing woman, but it seems like your low self-esteem is clouding your perspective. You think she’s trying to dominate you, but that’s not the case. Why not collaborate with her and build something great together? Women like her are rare, and honestly, she’s the kind of partner I’ve been looking for. If not for the fact that you already have a child together, I’d have asked for her number—I just want to ask her something. 🤠

😉😉😉..One man's poison another's delicacy..Go on my dear..pikin or no pikin😂😂😂

Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.

The one major thing I gathered from your write up is that you go around looking for trouble

This thread disgusts me. Not only how the men responded like he-goats and never considered OP side but how men that speak against emotional abuse are made fun of.

He clearly needs help and y'all men(I skipped the girls because of their emotional nature) are making fun of him?

Na men dey do men

You are a bloody civilian. Why bring your personal family issues here in public.

You are not ripe enough for marriage at all.

Not everything we bring online. Grow up.

Chinny024:
🤣🤣🤣🤣..Forced marriage indeed..
You got married to her as ur defense?..otilor..
U must hv offended her somehow, ur write up shows u also verbally abuses her..Forced marriage indeed.

pocohantas:
Imagine his boy being attacked and next thing he has called his oga's wife. That is what they want to turn the woman to. A voltron abi na power rangers. 😃

@pocohantas, so you graced the days of Voltron (defenders of the universe) back then? wow! you must gray hair by now, you be grandma for nairaland be that o, àgbà baller gangan.
wow! I see where the mien, you present on this forum comes. such maturity be from that generation. Kudos.

Welrez:
My late father was a police officer, and retired as an Assistant Commissioner of Police, but we were always told to behave ourselves whenever we were outside. I grew up with that mindset!

Naso o , my oga.

Ringstonermasks:
nice because she is making my friends to laugh at me for not being able to call her during emergencies

Call police bro. What kind of friends do you have?
Well birds of a feather flock together

Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.

Why are you always getting into trouble? You forgot Nigerians already hate the army and officers and you want her to be visible everywhere in the public. Just get a police friend or army friend and leave the innocent woman alone. In the US and sane society, there is nothing like army or police help. If you are wrong you are wrong and if you are right, you prove it in the court of law.

OP I love how professional and smart your wife is. In fact you are the woman in that marriage. Not because she is a military officer oooo. But because she is more mature than you are.

Just look at the way you are nagging like a woman.

Op can I ask? What do you do for a living? Are the one that even feeds the house? Why the heck do you even live in the barrack? As the man you should rent a space and be the one paying instead of living in the barrack and benefiting from the privilege of a woman (you claim doesn’t respect you)

Everything about you just annoys me. Abi you want call solder for me too? Make I show you say man pass man.

Ringstonermasks:
d idiots that beat nd bullied my boy nd was nearly beaten to death. I don't need police to handle this, i don't even need any soldier to handle it, since she can't handle it, we are done.

I will snap d boy's pictures @d hospital tomorrow

Frankly, at first I thought maybe you started this thread to subtly promote the services in your sig

But seriously, if this is true, maybe Nairaland won't be the best place to resolve whatever the issue is

If you were your wife, how would you feel if your husband was whining about you in public?

Ringstonermasks:
d boy was bullied and nearly killed...



U don't know how this feels. I already called her mother, it not a difficult mata, na to refund me introduction money make she go marry man wey she go dey control.

Am just waiting for her off.

I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.

Shatap you are just here to catch cruise. You are not married let alone marrying a soldier.

Na matured married man will open his mouth to see the things you type here.

Bloody civilian

Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.

You cant be complaining of injustice but the small power you think you have you want to misuse it. Why should your wife interfere?

Position doesn't intoxicate her

Ishilove:
Oga, nothing concern army for this matter. Go and meet the police

that man, if he's still insisting his wife should interfere because she's a soldier, might just let his ignorance and ego make his wife lose her job.

Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.

you must a very useless man. Your wife is far more wiser than you. Go dey cause trouble because you marry (DPO) mumu man

🤔

Ringstonermasks:
nice because she is making my friends to laugh at me for not being able to call her during emergencies

Ishilove:
The woman respects her uniform and rank. Obviously, he wants her to use her position to sort out every minor issue when in reality the army is not meant to interfere in civil matters that do not threaten national security.

He sounds like a troublesome person sef. See how him and his boys are always getting into problems. One Week, One Trouble...😂😂😂

Please everyone should give kudos to the OPs wife for her professionalism. If someone like that constest for a public office today I will vote her asap.

As for the op! May God help you become more mature because Omo your wife needs to dump your ass asap if you don’t change.

Military officers are not supposed to involve themselves with civil or criminal matters. That’s the job of the police and the courts.

Military officers are for international and urgent National Security issues. What is wrong with you people?

pocohantas:
He sounds like a troublesome person sef. See how him and his boys are always getting into problems. One Week, One Trouble...😂😂😂

I bet you that’s why he married her

You can tell from his words he doesn’t even love her. He just saw an office he can get into and abuse.

I hope she leaves him

cococandy:
I bet you that’s why he married her

You can tell from his words he doesn’t even love her. He just saw an office he can get into and abuse.

I hope she leaves him

hahahahaha
She shouldn't leave him o.
Only her can handle him. Lest he carries his wahala to another innocent woman.

Sonnobax15:

Your wife is simply the kind of person we want in our society.....Her likes see every public office as a platform to serve the people and not to abuse their powers........

Na people like una go wan dey oppress others simply because una get big people for army . But thank God your wife is wise

May God bless her

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Nor mind am.

Ringstonermasks:
bt dey will look into it eventually...


I don tire for marriage sef... after na pregnancy lie she take hold me enter marriage.

Only a misguided Tout exposes and washes his dirty linen outside....

You see your life...

Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.

You should have told your wife that you were looking for a fighter and not a wife when you asked her to marry you.


Keep looking for trouble up and down just because you believe you married a soldier woman, troublemaker, your wife is already regretting marrying a troublemaker like you looking for a fighter to fight for his troubles

yomi007k:
No mind all those trouble makers wey small power dey shack.

My father was in the army and so was my mother's father.
If anyone of us goes out making trouble thinking they will call soldiers on our behalf, they will first kick our butts before looking into the matter. We were always warned to "behave ourselves".

That's how it supposed to be; civility is the way to greatness - not intimidation!

Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.

Oga, file for a divorce, no dey put yourself through unnecessary stress before you die go ooo

pocohantas:
I must commend your wife.
You want her to go fight your battles and when she is caught, the narrative would be how women were not created to handle power.


The police is there for civil cases.
Go call them.

Yes I agree with you brother. But this statement would be funny if this same wife has NOT in the same period she denied her husband help, 'helped' another person for money or favours.

Bro chill

Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.

There's nothing like abuse of power if she interferes in any of these issues. The problem OP is having here is not showing concern on the part of his wife and that she wasn't like this before they got married. Any reasonable person should be able to decern that there's absolutely something wrong here. Would she behave the same if her mother, father, brother or sister was caught in a serious problem or whatsoever

You are a mumu man, my wife is also a senior officer but I am her chief adviser to improving her career, I handle all my matters outside by myself without listening to any external advisers.
If necessary I involve friends in Police or DSS or a lawyer, you want to kill her career by getting her into trouble because of what people outside are telling you

pocohantas:
I must commend your wife.
You want her to go fight your battles and when she is caught, the narrative would be how women were not created to handle power.


The police is there for civil cases.
Go call them.

You've made sense today. Means there's still hope for Nigeria to get better.