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Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by ndidibabe(f): 11:44am On Dec 03, 2024
OgaTheTop2:
My guy, very boring place. I japa go Yankee straight! cheesy
Oh I now understand..Tut japa to Nigeria.
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Honeydenz(f): 12:30pm On Dec 03, 2024
10thTenthMan:
Interestingly, he wouldn’t and shouldn’t be entirely faulted. I am not pro any Nigerian Politician. But we can agree that when we think about it and if we can just all be sincere, the problem of Nigeria is the doing of ALL NIGERIANS. MOST NIGERIANS CONTRIBUTED TO THE SITUATION OF THE COUNTRY AS IT IS, TODAY.
I believe this too
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by RealityKings1: 2:25pm On Dec 03, 2024
Desusi:
Not all men have this rare frame of heart like yours.There are people who are not happy with your progress and your breakthrough in life even when they are not related to you nor know you from Adams.
I wonder if it's the parental upbringing or if its the society that made them so short sighted.
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by RodgersAkpafu: 10:58pm On Dec 03, 2024
diamond68:
it’s a great question. If it’s a rich black Brit it’s worse for you because they perceive you as a powerless rich black slave. You are still getting your arse kicked like every black person but what’s worse is that you actually have the resources to move to a Black Country and gain your dignity and respect back but choose to be a helpless victim in a society where you are an inferior. It’s why the guy from soul to soul jazzy b moved to Antigua
A rich black brit is getting his arse "whopped" according to you because the rich black brit is the only minority who has to ward of jealous people of his own ilk, and whitey who feel he is in a place he is not supposed to be


IF THEM. BORN ANYBODY WELL FOR THIS COUNTRY
(I TYPED IN CAPS FOR EMPHASIS)

attempt to whack the pakistani rich men and see whether this country will not catch fire
Their people will fight to the last and scatter everywhere if they have to.

I was in Bradford over the weekend and see them flexing about with their fly cars on the roads where they own almost all the businesses.
Not dem say
I saw it

Heck, they are even influencing the dietary patterns of Bradford with the whole halal thing

Even non Muslim joints are complying with halal standards there to gain their patronage
I ate in one of the spots on Sunday,

Na black man wey be mugu and dummy
Na black woman be idiat and stupid

Despite the excesses of some Paki men, their women on average still give them some reverence because if e set, na the men go fight for them

You dare not harass a Pakistani woman on the street, four of the bobos will appear from nowhere and jump you
But black woman ?
Dem dey harass them all the time

And as much as I hate the outcome. I won't blame the black men for watching on the sidelines. Shebi (black) men ain't shit.....
Carry your cross

Again, IF THEM BORN ANYBODY WELL
go and "whack them"
and see wetin go happen next


@Gerrard59
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Gerrard59(m): 2:21am On Dec 04, 2024
RodgersAkpafu:
A rich black brit is getting his arse "whopped" according to you because the rich black brit is the only minority who has to ward of jealous people of his own ilk, and whitey who feel he is in a place he is not supposed to be.

IF THEM. BORN ANYBODY WELL FOR THIS COUNTRY
(I TYPED IN CAPS FOR EMPHASIS)
attempt to whack the pakistani rich men and see whether this country will not catch fire. Their people will fight to the last and scatter everywhere if they have to.
Well, I have not experienced how Pakistanis live in the UK, but I am intrigued by the "influence or perceived influence" that they have in the country. It could be cultural - "ease of becoming aggressive when need be?" Could the difference between blacks in the UK and the US be the history and the fact that the majority of blacks in the US are African Americans - so they share the same history of fighting the system? Whereas there are varying black groups in the UK - so no shared history.

But when you say "whack rich Pakistani men", in what context please? I am trying to imagine the same done against rich black men here or in China to compare and contrast.

I was in Bradford over the weekend and see them flexing about with their fly cars on the roads where they own almost all the businesses.
Not dem say. I saw it. Heck, they are even influencing the dietary patterns of Bradford with the whole halal thing Even non Muslim joints are complying with halal standards there to gain their patronage. I ate in one of the spots on Sunday,Na black man wey be mugu and dummy
Na black woman be idiat and stupid Despite the excesses of some Paki men, their women on average still give them some reverence because if e set, na the men go fight for them. You dare not harass a Pakistani woman on the street, four of the bobos will appear from nowhere and jump you. But black woman ?Dem dey harass them all the time
Pakistani men are the ones harassing black women or black women are prone to be harassed by every other racial group (other than black men)? With the cultural differences, who do UK born and bred Pakistani ladies eventually marry (assuming they are still Muslims)?

I see their "quick to fight" as a cultural trait, not necessarily because they live in the UK.

And as much as I hate the outcome. I won't blame the black men for watching on the sidelines. Shebi (black) men ain't shit.....
Carry your cross
Oh yes! I recall your conversation about being indifferent towards how other races treat black women because of their perceived or disrespect for us as black men. Previously, I was like "Wow!". Nowadays, I am like "e be like say na true the guy talk o".

In summary, I think we are not good at fighting for a particular cause (I might be wrong here).

P.S. I did not know that Diamond68 is also Sukkot. Good day sir. smiley
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Cousin9999: 3:56am On Dec 04, 2024
Gerrard59:
Could the difference between blacks in the UK and the US be the history and the fact that the majority of blacks in the US are African Americans - so they share the same history of fighting the system? Whereas there are varying black groups in the UK - so no shared history.
You think black people in the US are united? lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

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Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Gerrard59(m): 3:58am On Dec 04, 2024
Cousin9999:
You think black people in the US are united? lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
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In fighting for their rights? Yes. They get to support the same cause and their interests.
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by diamond68(op): 10:54am On Dec 04, 2024
RodgersAkpafu:
A rich black brit is getting his arse "whopped" according to you because the rich black brit is the only minority who has to ward of jealous people of his own ilk, and whitey who feel he is in a place he is not supposed to be


IF THEM. BORN ANYBODY WELL FOR THIS COUNTRY
(I TYPED IN CAPS FOR EMPHASIS)

attempt to whack the pakistani rich men and see whether this country will not catch fire
Their people will fight to the last and scatter everywhere if they have to.

I was in Bradford over the weekend and see them flexing about with their fly cars on the roads where they own almost all the businesses.
Not dem say
I saw it

Heck, they are even influencing the dietary patterns of Bradford with the whole halal thing

Even non Muslim joints are complying with halal standards there to gain their patronage
I ate in one of the spots on Sunday,

Na black man wey be mugu and dummy
Na black woman be idiat and stupid

Despite the excesses of some Paki men, their women on average still give them some reverence because if e set, na the men go fight for them

You dare not harass a Pakistani woman on the street, four of the bobos will appear from nowhere and jump you
But black woman ?
Dem dey harass them all the time

And as much as I hate the outcome. I won't blame the black men for watching on the sidelines. Shebi (black) men ain't shit.....
Carry your cross

Again, IF THEM BORN ANYBODY WELL
go and "whack them"
and see wetin go happen next


@Gerrard59
what the heck ? Pakistani rich men are whacked all the time and nothing happens. Of course Bradford is an area with no power so a Pakistani can flex cuz they are majority but in big cities that matter Pakistani get whacked and they come out to cry and protest like everybody else 🤣🤣 bro no Dey hype rubbish. Pakistani?

My brother Gerrard salute to you my Oga . Trust emilokan never reach your side oooo 😄🙌
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by RodgersAkpafu: 11:17am On Dec 04, 2024
diamond68:
what the heck ? Pakistani rich men are whacked all the time and nothing happens. Of course Bradford is an area with no power so a Pakistani can flex cuz they are majority but in big cities that matter Pakistani get whacked and they come out to cry and protest like everybody else 🤣🤣 bro no Dey hype rubbish. Pakistani?

My brother Gerrard salute to you my Oga . Trust emilokan never reach your side oooo 😄🙌
Pakistanis are whacked ?

By who ?
Dey play
I repeat
dey play
Go "whack" them in Birmingham or Bradford
or even Sheffield, and see for yourself

When the riots happened and black folks here hiding like cowards, they mobilised in Birmingham and were ready to scatter everywhere....

Talking about "don't hype Pakistanis" lol
Come whack them nau lol....

They have their own eco system
Can a black rich man boast of same ?

Again, dey play
Birmingham is the second biggest city in this country
Look at the political influence they had and how they made Labour suffer casualties
Independents were sent to Westminister on their backs and if not that Shabana Mahmoud is a good girl, she sef go collect
I'm glad she survived the shake up

Go read up on Ben Habib and Zia Yusuf

Sadiq Khan is the first London mayor in history to win three consecutive terms
Heck, Pakistanis are major financiers of all major parties in this country
Even Reform UK is financed heavily by a British Pakistani

Those guys are not our mates, accept it

Who can we boast of as Africans that we sent to Westminster?
Nobody influential
how many ?
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by RodgersAkpafu: 11:22am On Dec 04, 2024
The MP fro. Rochdale was put in office on the back of the Pakistanis, Galloway or so, if I remember his name correctly

You Southerners don't know what's up in this country lol. It does not revolve around the south east alone
Come up here and see how things dey go lol...
Bradford doesn't matter abi? lol
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by femijay8271(m): 3:22pm On Dec 04, 2024
mizGene:
Hmm Justwise, I'm surprised you are saying this...ok let me give you my own story being a woman in senior management.
I was the only Nigerian in my team so when they employed another one, I reached out to welcome him and offer my support for his settling in into the role. I told him to let me know if he needs help settling in and the silly boy told me to bring him some jollof rice! I was shocked and in my mind I was like "sebi na me find trouble come".
He probably didn't know my role/level. But even if I was his mate, should that be the response to a professional offer to help? A lot of our men still see women as kitchen occupiers and still speak in manners that are not acceptable here.
These bad encounters turn well meaning ppl off. If I wasn't who I am, that will be the last time I give a newbie a chance. People don't like to suffer fools twice.

Thankfully since then, I've had the pleasure of meeting other junior Nigerians who were sensible and didn't give me regrets.
Hmmmm... Nice one from you there.... I love your level of understanding. If to say you never marry, I for just..... wink
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by diamond68(op): 6:29pm On Dec 04, 2024
RodgersAkpafu:
Pakistanis are whacked ?

By who ?
Dey play
I repeat
dey play
Go "whack" them in Birmingham or Bradford
or even Sheffield, and see for yourself

When the riots happened and black folks here hiding like cowards, they mobilised in Birmingham and were ready to scatter everywhere....

Talking about "don't hype Pakistanis" lol
Come whack them nau lol....

They have their own eco system
Can a black rich man boast of same ?

Again, dey play
Birmingham is the second biggest city in this country
Look at the political influence they had and how they made Labour suffer casualties
Independents were sent to Westminister on their backs and if not that Shabana Mahmoud is a good girl, she sef go collect
I'm glad she survived the shake up

Go read up on Ben Habib and Zia Yusuf

Sadiq Khan is the first London mayor in history to win three consecutive terms
Heck, Pakistanis are major financiers of all major parties in this country
Even Reform UK is financed heavily by a British Pakistani

Those guys are not our mates, accept it

Who can we boast of as Africans that we sent to Westminster?
Nobody influential
how many ?
bro no Dey hype nonsense , go into the power rooms of those who control Britain it’s all white people. Just cuz a few Pakistanis made it doesn’t mean they control anything in the uk. You are typical naija man who gets carried away by cars. Just cuz a few Pakistani drive nice cars you done Dey nasturbate on top them lol. Life is bigger than car ownership or corner store ownership. There are power rooms that even a Pakistani can never enter in the uk because they not white . You think there are any Pakistanis sitting with the Rothschilds ? Just Dey hype nonsense. Small pikin talk 🤣🤣
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by RodgersAkpafu: 6:49pm On Dec 04, 2024
diamond68:
bro no Dey hype nonsense , go into the power rooms of those who control Britain it’s all white people. Just cuz a few Pakistanis made it doesn’t mean they control anything in the uk. You are typical naija man who gets carried away by cars. Just cuz a few Pakistani drive nice cars you done Dey nasturbate on top them lol. Life is bigger than car ownership or corner store ownership. There are power rooms that even a Pakistani can never enter in the uk because they not white . You think there are any Pakistanis sitting with the Rothschilds ? Just Dey hype nonsense. Small pikin talk 🤣🤣
Thats all you will say

Obviously the Gentlemen Club is almost all white
No women inside sef. I'm not dragging that one with you

That one is not in doubt
But the Pakistani Community has dug tap roots I this country and are "flexing their muscles"
You cannot deny this
evidence are on ground aplenty

You cannot come against their community cos they lock horns and fight to the last....
I know it's difficult for you to accept sha

No be "these Pakistanis"?
But they are much more than "those Pakistanis"

Obviously you also read just for reading sakes without comprehending
Nobody is saying they are "running things"
I am saying that you cannot "whack" them without serious damaging repercussions to follow
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by RodgersAkpafu: 6:52pm On Dec 04, 2024
Obviously they won't have equivalence power with the white power structure in this country
But they are really pulling and punching in their own weight
At this rate, in another 50 years, they will be a major force to reckon with in this country

While Africans will still be chasing rats
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by diamond68(op): 6:56pm On Dec 04, 2024
RodgersAkpafu:
Thats all you will say

Obviously the Gentlemen Club is almost all white
No women inside sef. I'm not dragging that one with you

That one is not in doubt
But the Pakistani Community has dug tap roots I this country and are "flexing their muscles"
You cannot deny this
evidence are on ground aplenty

You cannot come against their community cos they lock horns and fight to the last....
I know it's difficult for you to accept sha

No be "these Pakistanis"?
But they are much more than "those Pakistanis"

Obviously you also read just for reading sakes without comprehending
Nobody is saying they are "running things"
I am saying that you cannot "whack" them without serious damaging repercussions to follow
bro my best friends when I was England were all Pakistani hustlers so I know how they roll. They are like Nigerians, about 90 percent of them are into mortgage frauds and all kinds of fraud. They are all mostly dodgy people and that’s the community in a nutshell. The tiny power they are alloted they lobbied and paid for it. It’s a helpless community just like every other minority community but what gives them edge over other minorities is they are good in business and do lots of importation from India. But that’s the community in a nutshell. Stop hyping nonsense
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by RodgersAkpafu: 6:56pm On Dec 04, 2024
You think they are Pakistanis sitting with the Rothschilds

That one is small pikin talk if anything
Do you think the Chinese need to be sitting in that seat for them to influence Britain ?
The Chinese that almost forced the UK to sell its nuclear assets on the ground to Chinese consortium?
My man are you really following what's going on ?
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by RodgersAkpafu: 6:59pm On Dec 04, 2024
diamond68:
bro my best friends when I was England were all Pakistani hustlers so I know how they roll. They are like Nigerians, about 90 percent of them are into mortgage frauds and all kinds of fraud. They are all mostly dodgy people and that’s the community in a nutshell. The tiny power they are alloted they lobbied and paid for it. It’s a helpless community just like every other minority community but what gives them edge over other minorities is they are good in business and do lots of importation from India. But that’s the community in a nutshell. Stop hyping nonsense
Now I'm hyping nonsense ba?
lol
you r in denial
every group have their hustlers
even white people in this country have their hillbillies
most white ppl are struggling in this country
so that nullifies your point
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by RodgersAkpafu: 7:00pm On Dec 04, 2024
I used to think like you until I started really getting close to them and making friends with them....

And because of how they received me I really lean into their stuff and see how they operate
That changed my perception of them 100%
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by diamond68(op): 7:05pm On Dec 04, 2024
RodgersAkpafu:
Now I'm hyping nonsense ba?
lol
you r in denial
every group have their hustlers
even white people in this country have their hillbillies
most white ppl are struggling in this country
so that nullifies your point
the point is Pakistani have no power.They do lots of business and generate revenue in taxes for the state and so the state feels it has to honor their contributions by electing a few members of their community into visible power. Thsts all it is. But there is no power there. Just symbolic. They are more powerless than blacks because blacks are more aggressive and fight back, in the past anyway. Brixton riots and broad water farm Tottenham riots
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by RodgersAkpafu: 7:43pm On Dec 04, 2024
diamond68:
the point is Pakistani have no power.They do lots of business and generate revenue in taxes for the state and so the state feels it has to honor their contributions by electing a few members of their community into visible power. Thsts all it is. But there is no power there. Just symbolic. They are more powerless than blacks because blacks are more aggressive and fight back, in the past anyway. Brixton riots and broad water farm Tottenham riots
two things I deduce from your post

1. you are a southerner true true as I earlier said,
and
2. your information need a lil updating
Seems like you haven't been here on a bit

These guys have gone to. collect reinforcement from home
Today there are more Pakistani and Brirish Pakistanis than the entire African continent citizens put together

that's one

two, they are much more vocal and assertive about their (perceived) position in this country

Three, they are on average in a better economux position today than they were ten years ago

compare the top 5% Pakis vs 5% Africans and how they are influencing the landscape of this country
the diff is clear

@Gerrard59
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by Gerrard59(m): 4:52am On Dec 05, 2024
RodgersAkpafu:
two things I deduce from your post
to. collect reinforcement from home
Today there are more Pakistani and Brirish Pakistanis than the entire African continent citizens put together

@Ger.rard59
That alone is a major win over Black Brits. Money, we no get like that. Population numbers nko, e no dey.

Kudos to South Asians!
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by diamond68(op): 6:55am On Dec 05, 2024
RodgersAkpafu:
two things I deduce from your post

1. you are a southerner true true as I earlier said,
and
2. your information need a lil updating
Seems like you haven't been here on a bit

These guys have gone to. collect reinforcement from home
Today there are more Pakistani and Brirish Pakistanis than the entire African continent citizens put together

that's one

two, they are much more vocal and assertive about their (perceived) position in this country

Three, they are on average in a better economux position today than they were ten years ago

compare the top 5% Pakis vs 5% Africans and how they are influencing the landscape of this country
the diff is clear

@Gerrard59
bro no dey hype nonsence lol. no pakistani siddon with Lord Rothscild
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by diamond68(op): 6:59am On Dec 05, 2024
Gerrard59:
That alone is a major win over Black Brits. Money, we no get like that. Population numbers nko, e no dey.

Kudos to South Asians!
this thing no be competition oooo my brother. are we now competing with asians over the position of the most superior slave underclass ? grin
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by RodgersAkpafu: 9:01am On Dec 05, 2024
diamond68:
bro no dey hype nonsence lol. no pakistani siddon with Lord Rothscild
I agree with you on this one
Lord Rotchschild is another level on its own
Heck
Even Elon Musk is not on rothschild level.
Or Jeff Bezos

People on that level are not up 50 to 100 families in the whole world
we are talking of one or two notches below that
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by RodgersAkpafu: 9:03am On Dec 05, 2024
Gerrard59:
That alone is a major win over Black Brits. Money, we no get like that. Population numbers nko, e no dey.

Kudos to South Asians!
My brother
they are now permanently changing the landscape of northern cities
imagine having to conforn to halal standards as a non Muslim business in order to fit in lol

They are doing well, comparative to black folks
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by diamond68(op): 9:36am On Dec 05, 2024
RodgersAkpafu:
I agree with you on this one
Lord Rotchschild is another level on its own
Heck
Even Elon Musk is not on rothschild level.
Or Jeff Bezos

People on that level are not up 50 to 100 families in the whole world
we are talking of one or two notches below that
there are no notches below that. Everybody below that is a slave
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by RodgersAkpafu: 9:48am On Dec 05, 2024
diamond68:
there are no notches below that. Everybody below that is a slave
which makes Elon and co slaves then lol
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by diamond68(op): 10:03am On Dec 05, 2024
RodgersAkpafu:
which makes Elon and co slaves then lol
elon works with the rotschilds. They all in the power rooms together. All white men. No Pakistanis
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by RodgersAkpafu: 12:19pm On Dec 05, 2024
diamond68:
elon works with the rotschilds. They all in the power rooms together. All white men. No Pakistanis
*rolls eyes*
you must be really delusional to believe this
There are parallel power blocs
the "white side" is just one bloc
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by diamond68(op): 6:07pm On Dec 05, 2024
RodgersAkpafu:
*rolls eyes*
you must be really delusional to believe this
There are parallel power blocs
the "white side" is just one bloc
duhhhh its white mans land. the only power bloc is white
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by pansophist(m): 9:51am On Dec 06, 2024
diamond68:
powerful institutions empower leaders with power. It’s not powerful men, it’s powerful institutions. Powerful men with no institutions are like Abacha. Banana republics. Just one man throwing his power around terrorizing people and making emotional haphazard moves
I understand what you're saying.

Living in the West is like denying oneself from the rich, human experience. Something is missing and you know it. The thing that's missing is beyond your ability to restore. You can only coexist with the lack, or log out from that system.

The coldness in the general attitude of people, lack of genuine connection, you always feel judged, or in the words of WEB DU BOIS, having "double consciousness".

Double consciousness is how for example, I know myself to be a responsible man, I won't hurt another human, I'll take care of my family, I pay my tax and employ others that pays theirs, I'll defend my family and just do right.

In Nigeria, such traits makes me a good citizen. People would want to be my friend and I'll be an ideal man for a good woman. But in the West? Those traits are not what I'll be judged with.

I'll be seen as a black, lucky immigrants that escaped from the jungle, not truly belonging here, tolerated, not worthy to develop deep friendship with because the friendship can be a burden on them.

I look around and see my kinmen doing the most dirtiest job, filling their prison per capita, and the news always broadcast restricting immigration so other Africans won't escape like me. Me being wealthy is a shock, because I'm supposed not to. I should just be okay at best.

I'll always have the fear that my job application or house search was rejected because I'm black, that the girl rejected me (even black women) because she also sees me through the lenses of white society, even though she suffers from it too. Etc etc etc.

So I get it. Being wealthy can't make you escape this as a black person. And if a black person have self respect, moving to a place he knows his dignity is preserved, he is the default, and his competence appreciated will be the ultimate goal.

In my view, the only thing the West offers is material satisfaction. You'll just be wealthy and that's just it. But the true, rich, human experience, where your dignity is preserved and you have true power, will be missing.

So living with this burden of double consciousness, where I am first conscious of my worth as a person, but still conscious of how my society view me, is sickness of the mind. That's not good life. If one choose to live in the West permanently, then he/she have accepted to bear this burden.
Re: Why Nigerians In The UK Hate Each Other With A Passion And Always Bone Eachother by diamond68(op): 11:30am On Dec 06, 2024
pansophist:
I understand what you're saying.

Living in the West is like denying oneself from the rich, human experience. Something is missing and you know it. The thing that's missing is beyond your ability to restore. You can only coexist with the lack, or log out from that system.

The coldness in the general attitude of people, lack of genuine connection, you always feel judged, or in the words of WEB DU BOIS, having "double consciousness".

Double consciousness is how for example, I know myself to be a responsible man, I won't hurt another human, I'll take care of my family, I pay my tax and employ others that pays theirs, I'll defend my family and just do right.

In Nigeria, such traits makes me a good citizen. People would want to be my friend and I'll be an ideal man for a good woman. But in the West? Those traits are not what I'll be judged with.

I'll be seen as a black, lucky immigrants that escaped from the jungle, not truly belonging here, tolerated, not worthy to develop deep friendship with because the friendship can be a burden on them.

I look around and see my kinmen doing the most dirtiest job, filling their prison per capita, and the news always broadcast restricting immigration so other Africans won't escape like me. Me being wealthy is a shock, because I'm supposed not to. I should just be okay at best.

I'll always have the fear that my job application or house search was rejected because I'm black, that the girl rejected me (even black women) because she also sees me through the lenses of white society, even though she suffers from it too. Etc etc etc.

So I get it. Being wealthy can't make you escape this as a black person. And if a black person have self respect, moving to a place he knows his dignity is preserved, he is the default, and his competence appreciated will be the ultimate goal.

In my view, the only thing the West offers is material satisfaction. You'll just be wealthy and that's just it. But the true, rich, human experience, where your dignity is preserved and you have true power, will be missing.

So living with this burden of double consciousness, where I am first conscious of my worth as a person, but still conscious of how my society view me, is sickness of the mind. That's not good life. If one choose to live in the West permanently, then he/she have accepted to bear this burden.
quite aptly put except the part where you said all the west has to offer is you will just be wealthy. Maybe in America but there is no wealth in Europe or Canada. Where do you see the wealth ? Even their prime ministers salary is not considered wealthy. Someone like kemi badenock who is leader of conservatives will be on like 150k a year and higher tax bracket they take half of it so she has like 80 k take home. When they take council tax and rent and other bills she is just as poor as the masses and this is the head of one of their parties. So which wealth do you speak of ? The wealthy diasporas are in America. Europe ? Na sapa levels oooo. There is no wealth anywhere. It’s subsistence living 😄😄
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