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Days ago, I was reading through the Book of Matthew, chapters 1, 2, and 3.

This caught my attention: the Bible made a good remark about Joseph, stating that he is a just man. Who is a just man? The dictionary will tell us that a just man is someone who believes in what is morally right.

So, Joseph discovered that Mary is pregnant, and now he is sure that I am not the one who impregnated you, so I am not interested in this relationship. But the Bible reminds us of something very quick,

"He did not want to expose her to public disgrace; he had in mind to divorce her quietly." (NIV)

Kai! Whereas if it were that brother you are in a relationship with, he would have quickly run to his WhatsApp status or IG status and type,

"The person who said, 'Until the marriage night is pregnant oo,' and she thinks I'll accept it, someone I've never even touched. Thank God I didn't touch her; she will use that one to lie on my head 🙏 #Godthankyou"

Joseph was not even like that. Not that Instagram or WhatsApp was available in his time 😂, but you get the gist 😁.

What he even did is possible for an unbeliever to do this; it's so much possible, but let's continue. The Bible said,

Matt. 1.20 - "But while he thought on these things, behold, the angel of the Lord appeared unto him in a dream, saying, 'Joseph, thou son of David, fear not to take unto thee Mary thy wife: for that which is conceived in her is of the Holy Ghost.'"

See, it takes a believer to follow this. He was thinking about it, and the angel of God appeared, telling him not to worry because the Holy Ghost is responsible for the pregnancy. Haaa, it takes a true believer to obey this. Something like this never happened before time began, even in our days, where we have seen a template in the Bible to believe this is going to be great grace.

But this man believed. See, whether he believed or not, God will do what He will do. But let me tell you how it would have affected Mary.

It's possible she loved Brother Joseph, but now that he is going, she will be unhappy. And if she is a strong person, she will say, "Things we do for the kingdom" (if she was in our days) or #sacrifice. Now she would have suffered unnecessarily because she was intending to marry a man that was not in line with the will of God and God took him away she will.

Dear Jesus, fine girl, there are many things you will suffer because you want to achieve the will of God and want to achieve this with a man who is an unbeliever. You may see this as a sacrifice or whatever; meanwhile, in the face of God, you created that suffering for yourself. Can you imagine how much Mary would have suffered if Joseph was not on her side? Truly, she will deliver Jesus, but she will go through a lot.

When God wants to perform something great in your life, He makes sure He shakes off what is not of Him from your life. He won't shake off what can be used to make your life easy ✌️.

Fine Jesus girl, there are some things you will pass through which are not necessary because you went ahead to marry someone that is not aligned with your beliefs, someone who is not a Christian (a believer).

Now, the question someone will ask is, even those that married pastors and Christians themselves are going through a lot. Some unbelievers are better than themself.

Until you understand that a pastor is a title and is no longer a lifestyle, you will be at peace. As a believer, we grow; growth is allowed to happen in what we believe. But as long as you are in the hands of a true believer, you are good to go.

BONUS TIP: ANY RELATIONSHIP YOU GET YOURSELF INVOLVED IN WON'T LEAVE YOU NEUTRAL. IT'S EITHER IT SHIPS POSITIVITY OR NEGATIVITY INTO YOUR LIFE. BEWARE OF THIS, DEAR FINE JESUS GIRL.

Adetoye Ayomikun ✌️

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lonelydora:
What's the definition of unbeliever?

Records have shown that many "born again" women turn out to be worse in marriage.

It's better to marry a changed ashawo than a born again who will taste worldly life later.

SocialJustice:
I'll rather be with someone completely uninterested in religion but a true seeker who only believes what she sees and not powerful stories from any book.

daughters13:
CAN I MARRY AN UNBELIEVER?

In regards to whether or not a Christian should marry an unbeliever, the answer can be a yes or a no depending on the type of unbeliever. This is because there are two types of unbelievers and these are “THE UNCALLED GROUP” and the “DIRECT AGENTS OF SATAN”

• AN UNBELIEVER WHO IS FROM THE UNCALLED GROUP
An unbeliever from the “THE UNCALLED” is the unbeliever who is a child of God but who has not received his or her calling from God yet. We refer to such unbelievers as “THE UNCALLED” because although they are children of God like you, but they are still playing around with sin, worldliness and unbelief in Christ because they have not received their calling from God yet.You can marry an UNCALLED and convert him or her to Christ.

• AN UNBELIEVER WHO IS A DIRECT AGENT OF SATAN
An unbeliever who is a “DIRECT AGENT OF SATAN” is the unbeliever who is a demon incarnate.
You should not marry unbelievers that are “DIRECT AGENTS OF SATAN” because you can not convert them to Christ.

BUT HOW WILL YOU KNOW IF THE UNBELIEVER YOU ARE PLANNING TO MARRY IS FROM “THE UNCALLED” OR A DIRECT AGENT OF SATAN?
Since you don’t have “x-ray” vision, there is no way you can know if the unbeliever you are dating is from “THE UNCALLED” or a “DIRECT AGENT OF SATAN” and that is why we advise you not to marry any unbeliever in the first place.

THEREFORE THE QUESTION WE SHOULD BE ASKING IS NOT “CAN WE MARRY UNBELIEVERS”. INTSTEAD, WE SHOULD BE ASKING “HOW DO WE DETERMINE THE TYPE OF SOUL THAT IS INSIDE THE PERSON WE WANT TO MARRY”

This is because a person who is a sinful, immoral and an unbelieving atheist can yet be a child of God like you who has not received his or her calling yet (THE UNCALLED).

On the other hand, a person who confesses Christ, prays, goes to church, preaches about hell and who you believe is a child of God can yet be a demon incarnate (DIRECT AGENT OF SATAN).

Extracted from the Progeny of Lucifer

richmond500:
Actually, I believe in God, but not through religion.
All those religious people fit go sell my inheritance take sow seed on their Papa's birthday, yet nothing big will change in their lives and they will do it again in his next birthday.

I no just understand how those people think

daughters13:
CAN I MARRY AN UNBELIEVER?

In regards to whether or not a Christian should marry an unbeliever, the answer can be a yes or a no depending on the type of unbeliever. This is because there are two types of unbelievers and these are “THE UNCALLED GROUP” and the “DIRECT AGENTS OF SATAN”

• AN UNBELIEVER WHO IS FROM THE UNCALLED GROUP
An unbeliever from the “THE UNCALLED” is the unbeliever who is a child of God but who has not received his or her calling from God yet. We refer to such unbelievers as “THE UNCALLED” because although they are children of God like you, but they are still playing around with sin, worldliness and unbelief in Christ because they have not received their calling from God yet.You can marry an UNCALLED and convert him or her to Christ.

• AN UNBELIEVER WHO IS A DIRECT AGENT OF SATAN
An unbeliever who is a “DIRECT AGENT OF SATAN” is the unbeliever who is a demon incarnate.
You should not marry unbelievers that are “DIRECT AGENTS OF SATAN” because you can not convert them to Christ.

BUT HOW WILL YOU KNOW IF THE UNBELIEVER YOU ARE PLANNING TO MARRY IS FROM “THE UNCALLED” OR A DIRECT AGENT OF SATAN?
Since you don’t have “x-ray” vision, there is no way you can know if the unbeliever you are dating is from “THE UNCALLED” or a “DIRECT AGENT OF SATAN” and that is why we advise you not to marry any unbeliever in the first place.

THEREFORE THE QUESTION WE SHOULD BE ASKING IS NOT “CAN WE MARRY UNBELIEVERS”. INTSTEAD, WE SHOULD BE ASKING “HOW DO WE DETERMINE THE TYPE OF SOUL THAT IS INSIDE THE PERSON WE WANT TO MARRY”

This is because a person who is a sinful, immoral and an unbelieving atheist can yet be a child of God like you who has not received his or her calling yet (THE UNCALLED).

On the other hand, a person who confesses Christ, prays, goes to church, preaches about hell and who you believe is a child of God can yet be a demon incarnate (DIRECT AGENT OF SATAN).

Extracted from the Progeny of Lucifer