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Yugoslavia247:
I can already tell that you have refused to take responsibility for your action. You went to see her against his wish because of i too know.
He posted it then you went to do the meeting.
Instead of take blame u will still blame ur husband.

read,undastand ,learn from other mistakes.the way u judge others .others will judge u one day for ur own mistakes too.

And when u judge others too much u ignore to learn from their experiences which will help u give wise advice when u a father

DrAda:
This life is quite complex.

A number of persons here reported getting negative feedbacks when they post their achievements in the social media.

For me, it has been the absolute opposite. Anytime I post about my successes, more seem to roll in. Thinking back now, I think that's my primary motivation behind posting my successes online.

It helps me strive to do more and not be complacent but most importantly I attract important clients and stakeholders who are eager to partner with me based on my skill set

True that.

Indeed, when the Nigerian-American, Dr. Julius Oni left his job at the Johns Hopkin University as a musculo-skeletal specialist in the United States and moved back to Nigeria a few months ago in 2024 after 25 years of living in the U.S., some posters online said he was "mad" for doing so. But this is a self-aware guy who already has real estate investments in Nigeria and took that conscious decision to move over to Nigeria with the full support of his wife to start his own specialist medical facility after selling his house in the United States. He still maintains professional ties with Johns Hopkin though.

I follow the brilliant Julius Oni (who is originally a native of Ile-Oluji in Ondo State and still in his 40s) on Instagram and the original video he posted on IG including subsequent videos went absolutely viral. Since then, he has had a lot of media engagements from media outlets who interviewed him and that gave him massive publicity and clients.

I was on a YouTube channel of one of the top media brands with over 1 million subscribers and another U.S.-based doctor of Nigerian descent posted a comment on the channel stating that he has been inspired by Dr. Julius Oni's "Reverse Japa" story and he too was already planning to give back to Nigeria by setting up a specialist medical facility in Nigeria. That's the power of putting yourself out there and telling a POWERFUL story that would be of benefit for all.

Is not good to postbur achievements online nd make it urblife too public .here are the reasons
1)social media try to brainwash u to start acting like a celebrity when u not .ur followers are NT ur fans why because u not a celebrity.they bulk of strangers you DNT give a Bleep about u
2) it can cause offence sometimes let me give an example u take pic of ur 1st time entering plane ur friends think u are rich now .but the air fare was paid for is a sponsored trip.onebof ur very good sch mates who help u both financially nd emotional in sch dad is hospitalised and he or she is asking u for financial help nd you say u DNT have .ur friend wouldn't believe u because ur post say different.
3) when u post it success online like showing off ur mansion or luxury cars ,vacation island trips when u struggling financial like a decade later nobody will come to ur aid unless u help them during the time u were doing well

Lastly it create jealousy sometimes

Konquest:
True that.

Indeed, when the Nigerian-American, Dr. Julius Oni left his job at the Johns Hopkin University as a musculo-skeletal specialist in the United States and moved back to Nigeria a few months ago in 2024 after 25 years of living in the U.S., some posters online said he was "mad" for doing so. But this is a self-aware guy who already has real estate investments in Nigeria and took that conscious decision to move over to Nigeria with the full support of his wife to start his own specialist medical facility after selling his house in the United States. He still maintains professional ties with Johns Hopkin though.

I follow the brilliant Julius Oni (who is originally a native of Ile-Oluji in Ondo State and still in his 40s) on Instagram and the original video he posted on IG including subsequent videos went absolutely viral. Since then, he has had a lot of media engagements from media outlets who interviewed him and that gave him massive publicity and clients.

I was on a YouTube channel of one of the top media brands with over 1 million subscribers and another U.S.-based doctor of Nigerian descent posted a comment on the channel stating that he has been inspired by Dr. Julius Oni's "Reverse Japa" story and he too was already planning to give back to Nigeria by setting up a specialist medical facility in Nigeria. That's the power of putting yourself out there and telling a POWERFUL story that would be of benefit for all.

Very well said👏👏

Ogaonos:
Is not good to postbur achievements online nd make it urblife too public .here are the reasons
1)social media try to brainwash u to start acting like a celebrity when u not .ur followers are NT ur fans why because u not a celebrity.they bulk of strangers you DNT give a Bleep about u
2) it can cause offence sometimes let me give an example u take pic of ur 1st time entering plane ur friends think u are rich now .but the air fare was paid for is a sponsored trip.onebof ur very good sch mates who help u both financially nd emotional in sch dad is hospitalised and he or she is asking u for financial help nd you say u DNT have .ur friend wouldn't believe u because ur post say different.
3) when u post it success online like showing off ur mansion or luxury cars ,vacation island trips when u struggling financial like a decade later nobody will come to ur aid unless u help them during the time u were doing well

Lastly it create jealousy sometimes

Even if you help them as you said in number 3
It doesn’t still guarantee them helping you
Infact 80% won’t help you

Normally it’s people who show off massively on social media easily get depressed when the cash stop coming in and most are pushed to do vices to
Keep up

When you are on lowkey grinding and eating
You have no body to impress
Life is better

onyxo76:
and you think Davido sef no get where im dey visit? no try all these celebs o.

yinmu

AllenSpencer:
How was Pop smoke killed?

You don’t know shitt about how people can get you with your social media post.

A boy was posting wads of $$$ online and got shot right inside his home by people who just got a tip online.

Many instances I cannot list. People have met their death and problems from online space.


Same way people can get at you when you expose too much to them.

Emphasis on spiritual risk

DissTroy:
Mostly before. Unlike other men, the sex alone doesn't do it for me. Women have random sex daily with men whose faces they can't even remember. So I work on my seduction until she actually falls for me and wants me. Whatever happens,
she carries a part of me in heart till she passes on. Not just finding me cute but wanting to be something very intimate with.

During the process of seduction, I search her out online too. Women who post too much of their personal lives won't mind a scandal if your entanglement with them doesn't work out. The private ones count their losses and move on. No dragging or scandal.
That's why I avoid influencer-type wannabe baddies. I don't want to trend on Instablog. That's why I never get intimate with social media famous girls who curate their lives on their timelines. I never have.

I see. Could this be as a result of becoming more mature, as you age? Though I know you've never been the type who jump in bed with any bimbo, unlike me, back in the day.

I now find such girls who post everything on social media repulsive, like I've come to know, they hardly can keep any secret and are always battle ready, the more reason I took a cue from you, when you once said you make it a habit of blocking all your exes, I follow suit and boy, do I have peace.

Seducing any Nigerian woman to me is something I don't even bother doing, unless there's that attraction, if it's not there, I don't even bother, even if I know I just want to hit the coochie, I still don't bother because the idea of chasing someone that is empty, is torture to me. Bottom line, if she's not interested, I don't even bother.

Big No

Samantha125:
And I'm very thankful for the cameras because if there weren't any, it would've been my word against hers and she'd have been still walking freely probably looking for a way to finish me off.

You should be careful. From your take, you're not Nigerian and you don't reside in Nigeria. Over here, we don't leave our drinks around with friends, talkless of strangers, we take it along with us, some even take it to the restroom with them.

Take in from this experience and learn never to leave your drink lying around... I hope you get justice. Cheers and get stronger soonest. 🥂👍🙏

Kimo21:
Oga which one be zodiac sign you Dey talk again like say you Dey special in one kind way why you Dey talk like woman?

K

Yeah! I bet you know practically everything about your "best pals".
I know your type.

EmperorCaesar:


Havent posted anything on my personal Whatsapp status since 2017, so its hard to even post anything on IG or Twitter...Only on Linkedin

I do things this way cause i no like attention. I once changed job three times(across three different fields) early this year and not even my best pals that i see everyday were even aware of it

I just like being under the radar. My personality

That aside, posting ones achievement wouldnt change anything . Village people and juju cant do shii

Life happens to people at anytime it so wishes

Mariangeles:
Yeah! I bet you know practically everything about your "best pals".
I know your type.

You make it sound like it's a sin if that guy knows everything about his "best pals"? Lol

joseph1832:
You make it sound like it's a sin if that guy knows everything about his "best pals"? Lol

For those who don't talk/share much, but are "good listeners"? Yes it's a sin.
They're usually cunning.

[quote author=luminouz post=133214827][/quote]What is your zodiac sign?

joseph1832:
I see. Could this be as a result of becoming more mature, as you age? Though I know you've never been the type who jump in bed with any bimbo, unlike me, back in the day.

I now find such girls who post everything on social media repulsive, like I've come to know, they hardly can keep any secret and are always battle ready, the more reason I took a cue from you, when you once said you make it a habit of blocking all your exes, I follow suit and boy, do I have peace.

Seducing any Nigerian woman to me is something I don't even bother doing, unless there's that attraction, if it's not there, I don't even bother, even if I know I just eat to hit the coochie, I still don't bother because the idea of chasing someone that is empty, is torture to me. Bottom line, if she's not interested, I don't even bother.

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Post achievements on social media? Not really a social media person (except we count Nairaland as one. Lol)

My social media handles are very DRY. I don't post on Facebook (not used that platform for years), I'm not on TikTok, my Instagram is on private mode (just for me to like pictures and remind myself to make money to afford the luxury lifestyle I want for myself), Twitter is for liking and retweeting, I don't share my thoughts there.

And there's WhatsApp, where I post funny memes and videos to "entertain" myself and contacts. I also post events where I partake in or videos of myself (not in real time though). The platform is cruise for me.

My private life is private. I don't even post achievements on LinkedIn (save for 2022 when I became a Lawyer and just had to put it out there).

I could literally be in the hospital bed dying and still post memes because Meme is King.

Mariangeles:
For those who don't talk/share much, but are "good listeners"? Yes it's a sin.
They're usually cunning.

being cunning doesn't usually have anything to do with being a good listener. It's just life, some like to talk, too much I might add, others don't and others talk moderate.

The ones who I might say are cunning are the ones who are monitoring spirits... I mean, there's a reason why they view your status Everytime and follow you all around social media.

purples25:
I post for fun and also for validation.

I stopped because I don't get the validation and it makes me feel bad. My former mates from university, secondary school still get hundreds of thousands of likes, but I get very few. Maybe six, maybe ten. I got tired of the disappointment, so that's one reason I got discouraged from posting.

Number two, the fear of spiritual attacks. I have a picture of my little boy on Facebook but I'm going to remove it soon.

Number three, the stupid competition and endless jealousy of other women. My son was born with hair, but I decided to post a picture of him when we cut all his hair, tagging it 'memories'. Immediately, a former friend that has over millions of likes on every of her posts went to post her own son, tagging it 'memories' as well, with his full hair. I immediately got annoyed, like you have it all, must you kill my moment. I posted my son with hair but she must have known how I would feel and mischievously didn't view my own. She just wanted to kill my moment of joy. I decided to leave social media for them that are always having five million likes while people view mine and I have so little likes.

Another fair skinned pretty girl on my WhatsApp took it as a personal fight when I started posting my naming ceremony pictures and baby pictures. She never had before in the long time that I had her contact, posted pictures, but once I did my own, she started posting pictures of her relatives baby living abroad. Like... How am I fighting you, I don't even know you. To the extent that I posted on Whatsapp and immediately she posted something that triggered me. Once I put up another post that made her know it pained me, she put up a cryptic post immediately saying 'you do me, I do you' 'you do me, I do you'. Actually it was a meme of a politician saying that aggressively. As I was posting my baby she was posting that her relatives baby like say na fight. Honestly, I think light skinned women get mad when they see less beautiful or black women get married and have babies before they do. Same for extremely beautiful women. Some of them have a very black heart. They think a less beautiful woman shouldn't have anything. The can also be insanely jealous.

If I'm not going to get those likes, it's personally painful and embarrassing to me, especially when my mates are posting their babies and receiving tons of likes. Millions. Then I'd rather avoid the disappointment and not post. Like, my baby is very cute, so what the hell.

Let me add, my mates post pictures that are far out than mine. They post pictures of themselves abroad, finishing books, winning awards, big restaurants abroad, flight tickets and experiences, themselves I'm different countries, themselves with expensive hair and clothes with clean skin and people like them. My personal former friend dey post her trips to Japan, her constant visits to big restaurants to eat... I know it's genuine because I know their wealthy families or successes and skills from way back.

With all this ... I should still be posting myself in my modest settings and life? Sitting by the wall, or at a small restaurant, or by my window in my house? They just remind me of luxury that I'm not living, successes that I haven't achieved, worst of all little to no likes or attention for my own. Is it not better to not post than to be buying myself depression with each post? I don't even branch Instagram much again, for my personal sanity.

This makes me smile.
I like your open mindedness. My advise, you need to use those little time to work on yourself, particularly take your spiritual life seriously.

Let your success announce you to the world rather than you painting pictures of them yourself to the world.

When you post personal achievements to the public you create unhealthy competition inside of you particularly if those in your contact are far ahead of you.

On the flip side, your contact can have that as grounds to hate you, as many might feel you own them and may assume this not need to be told to you. As a result , you add more to the number of enemies.

It's not until some people go to the herbalist before they attack you spiritually. Their thoughts alone can consume your energy and make things to start working in ways you never expected in your life.

I seldomly post articles on my LinkedIn because I love to and it's needed to boost my professional personality.

But I don't post about the latest jobs offers I won. In fact, I got a good job this year and I never updated my LinkedIn profile accordingly.

I know for a fact that if it was some people, they would paint the whole places red.

I know a few friends who are doing way better but they don't post a thing on their socials yet we role. It changes nothing really but just to prevent one from adding more to the existing numbers of enemies we have got, I think the wisest thing to do is to keep working on oneself and ignore social legitimacy. You never know who's lurking around to hurt you or would feel damaged from the posts showcasing your landslide achievements.

It's another situation entirely if it's the organization you work with was the one that posts about your achievements. Or you were part of a global submit and your pictures ended up being posted by such organization.

That's normal and at least people won't take that to mean you're bragging or making them feel less.

joseph1832:
I see. Could this be as a result of becoming more mature, as you age? Though I know you've never been the type who jump in bed with any bimbo, unlike me, back in the day.

I now find such girls who post everything on social media repulsive, like I've come to know, they hardly can keep any secret and are always battle ready, the more reason I took a cue from you, when you once said you make it a habit of blocking all your exes, I follow suit and boy, do I have peace.

Seducing any Nigerian woman to me is something I don't even bother doing, unless there's that attraction, if it's not there, I don't even bother, even if I know I just eat to hit the coochie, I still don't bother because the idea of chasing someone that is empty, is torture to me. Bottom line, if she's not interested, I don't even bother.

I think it's mostly the kind of women I am attracted to. I have a thing for women who find pleasure in the arts. The brainy writers who love to consume books too and read wide. She could be a techie or accountant or engineer or lawyer but she has to love reading and writing too, even as a hobbyist. Like discussing random details of barnacles on whales and why British English is better than the American version. Mundane or serious but intelligent.

From my experience, women like that are more introspective because reading and writing make you so. If she's more introspective, she's comfortable in her own space and would over think anything she's putting out publicly. It also means she thinks through the effect of a scandal or controversy. She's all woman and emotional and pissed off with me but she keeps it under wraps publicly.
I've never ever regretted knowing and being with such women.

I've only been attracted to only certain kind of women. Of course, they have to look good too.
The beautiful reserved girl is a million times likely to pull my heart strings than some loud popular girl who always wants to be the center of attention.

You'd remember I disliked and taunted the seemingly popular females men used to throw themselves at on Nairaland who were bimbos. I couldn't understand the atraction to dumb attention-seeking women. I still don't.

Nah! No one gives a shit about a madman. It is always better to make the world believe you are insane while you build your empire in silence. The days are extremely evil and we must be cautious.

DissTroy:
I think it's mostly the kind of women I am attracted to. I have a thing for women who find pleasure in the arts. The brainy writers who love to consume books too and read wide. She could be a techie or accountant or engineer or lawyer but she has to love reading and writing too, even as a hobbyist. Like discussing random details of barnacles on whales and why British English is better than the American version. Mundane or serious but intelligent.

From my experience, women like that are more introspective because reading and writing make you so. If she's more introspective, she's comfortable in her own space and would over think anything she's putting out publicly. It also means she thinks through the effect of a scandal or controversy. She's all woman and emotional and pissed off with me but she keeps it under wraps publicly.
I've never ever regretted knowing and being with such women.

I've only been attracted to only certain kind of women. Of course, they have to look good too.
The beautiful reserved girl is a million times likely to pull my heart strings than some loud popular girl who always wants to be the center of attention.

You'd remember I disliked and taunted the seemingly popular females men used to throw themselves at on Nairaland who were bimbos. I couldn't understand the atraction to dumb attention-seeking women. I still don't.

It's simple, to smash the coochie, nothing more, nothing less. Such women happen to be the easiest to smash, it was like this way back the 2015 days on Nairaland, I mean, you're witness to many of the scandals and revelations.

I don't need to tell you many of those seemingly popular females on Nairaland back then, were smashed the way Serena Williams smash the tennis ball.

Though I've come to know those women who seek validation and like to be the centre of attention and attraction, seem to suffer from some form of low self esteem, and many are such fragile creatures...

AllenSpencer:
How was Pop smoke killed?

You don’t know shitt about how people can get you with your social media post.

A boy was posting wads of $$$ online and got shot right inside his home by people who just got a tip online.

Many instances I cannot list. People have met their death and problems from online space.


Same way people can get at you when you expose too much to them.

leave am, he never see anything for this life that's why,continue to dey expose yourself for SM, na one day you go learn.

joseph1832:
It's simple, to smash the coochie, nothing more, nothing less. Such women happen to be the easiest to smash, it was like this way back the 2015 days on Nairaland, I mean, you're witness to many of the scandals and revelations.

I don't need to tell you many of those seemingly popular females on Nairaland back then, were smashed the way Serena Williams smash the tennis ball.

Though I've come to know those women who seek validation and like to be the centre of attention and attraction, seem to suffer from some form of low self esteem, and many are such fragile creatures...

That's the point. While I avoid women who play overly hard-to-get, bedding a woman who has standards (not those fake hookup girls standards, but actual ones) is cool.

I'm not ashamed to admit the slow seduction of her mind is just as satisfying as what comes after. You know, that thing where she's so into you, she actually shelves her inhibitions to tell you she wants you and wants to be with you when you haven't spent a Kobo on her yet and she means it, yeah.

I love the slow seduction where she actually cares beyond sex. It means she carries a part of you in her heart. You have a hold on her stronger than the physical satisfaction of sex.

If she's easy to get by anybody just by showing her attention or the promise of cash, it's a turn off. It's why I abhôr the idea of paying for sex.
It's not for religious reasons - I'm barely religious. It's the thrill of offering herself to you with nothing guaranteed other than her being able to get your time.

The seduction make the actual sex worth it more. Seduction of the mind lasts longer (for years) than how she feels during sex.

It's why a hookup girl would cause a scene with some random guy she slept with but take that guy she really likes on a random date.

DissTroy:
That's the point. While I avoid women who play overly hard-to-get, bedding a woman who has standards (not those fake hookup girls standards, but actual ones) is cool.

I'm not ashamed to admit the slow seduction of her mind is just as satisfying as what comes after. You know, that thing where she's so into you, she actually shelves her inhibitions to tell you she wants you and wants to be with you when you haven't spent a Kobo on her yet and she means it, yeah.

I love the slow seduction where she actually cares beyond sex. It means she carries a part of you in her heart. You have a hold on her stronger than the physical satisfaction of sex.

If she's easy to get by anybody just by showing her attention or the promise of cash, it's turn off. It's why I abhôr the idea of paying for sex. It's not for religious reasons - I'm not barely religious. It's the thrill of offering herself to you with nothing guaranteed other than her being able to get your time.

The seduction make the actual sex worth it more. Seduction of the mind lasts longer (for years) than how she feels during sex.

It's why a hookup girl would cause a scene with some random guy she slept with but take that guy she really likes on a random date.

Kay, ma main man, you have time, a whole lot of time on your hands.

Truth is, when I know I don't want the woman to birth our kids, I don't bother with all what you typed, I truly don't.

Samantha125:
I lost my baby last month because of Instagram... My husband is active on Instagram and he was so excited that we were going to have a baby that he even posted the picture of the ultrasound on his Instagram account, not knowing that his ex has been stalking him with a different account.

About a week later, she contacted me and started telling me about how she's now born again and turned a new leaf, that she wanted to make amends for what happened in the past... I assured her that I've long moved on from what happened and held no grudge against her... She then suggested that we should meet, so that we could bury the hatchet the right way, again I fell for her trick and told her that I'll let her know when I'm around Limpopo and we'd meet... Because I'm the type of a person who believes in second chances.

My husband warned me against the idea, but I assured him that I wasn't planning on being friends with her, but I just wanted to hear her out in person.

Last month I visited my parents in Limpopo and I informed her that I was around... We arranged our meeting and since it was a restaurant, I didn't think anything bad could happen... Long story short, I ended up fighting for my life in hospital and lost the baby... I had to undergo three surgeries, all because of that ultrasound my husband posted on his Instagram.

Like 2024 isn't my year.

Hmmm human beings are wicked…. The lord will bless you with another one soonest in Jesus name

joseph1832:
Kay, ma main man, you have time, a whole lot of time on your hands.

Truth is, when I know I don't want the woman to birth our kids, I don't bother with all what you typed, I truly don't.

Man, I don't chase. But if she's smart and reserved, sometimes the banter is good too.
Think of this, you both finished tumbling beneath the sheets, and you're asking her to test scroll through a web app you have built as a beta tester or arguing the validity of Dan Brown's claims in "Da Vinci Code". Both of you still in your birthday suits.

The effects of sex is actually amplified by the events leading up to it and after it.

I'd also admit because of my conditions for intimacy, it limits the kind of women available in the pool to pick from. Funny this, you could have 200 and I could 40 but I feel like the experiences with the 40 outweigh 200 banal females.

Anatomy wise, women aren't really different. Most just lie back during the process while you exert yourself. But if she's worth it, she'd still be worth it after post-nut clarity.

Those are the kind of women I've always liked - the ones I won't resent even after having sex for the umpteenth time. Those girls are available. Find them, man. Life is about the full human experience and memories, right? Even just two days could memorable for decades when it's not just some happy-go-lucky attention seeker.

DissTroy:
Man, I don't chase. But if she's smart and reserved, sometimes the banter is good too.
Think of this, you both finished tumbling beneath the sheets, and you're asking her to test scroll through a web app you have built as a beta tester or arguing the validity of Dan Brown's claims in "Da Vinci Code". Both of you still in your birthday suits.

The effects of sex is actually amplified by the events leading up to it and after it.

I'd also admit because of my conditions for intimacy, it limits the kind of women available in the pool to pick from. Funny this, you could have 200 and I could 40 but I feel like the experiences with the 40 outweigh 200 banal females.

Anatomy wise, women aren't really different. Most just lie back during the process while you exert yourself. But if she's worth it, she'd still be worth it after post-nut clarity.

Those are the kind of women I've always liked - the ones I won't resent even after having sex for the umpteenth time. Those girls are available. Find them, man. Life is about the full human experience and memories, right? Even just two days could memorable for decades when it's not just some happy-go-lucky attention seeker.

Of course it is, but life is also about having fun. Smashing those vain and canal women is worth it also.

You're you and I'm me. 👍

Gerrard59:
The bold is true. Apart from following the person, unless closely related, how does someone travel destinations affect one's life? Me, I look forward to such as I make plans to experience the same, if I am interested. I love seeing people enjoy themselves as they worked hard for it. Anyone who develops bad belle because of such does him/herself more harm than good.

I am too non-chalant to be bothered by such. Just like you I look forward to them and I save for when I want to explore same destination or place. Majority of Nigerians are still broke anyway. So I really do not see how it always translates to riches or happiness. They have still not made the money or found love. Highest you cry in private and no one knows you saw shege or went through a financial loss.

IMO, four reasons:

- The recent set of japarians haven't settled well in terms of finance and residency to indulge in such.
- The previous/older set that showed pictures have gotten older, and wish such, life gets busier
- COVID disrupted travel.
- Bad belle full Nairaland. This point reminds me of the lass who got so much vitriol when she posted her trips across Nigeria. I was shocked to the bones. She was called all sorts of names from the regular ashawo to lesbian. Well, as a follower of good life, I followed her on IG and today, the "ashawo" is married to a medical doctor and they have a child.


GBAM!

It is bad belle. Not any COVID. Way back it wasn't just new japarians creating threads - the oldies had personal threads they updated with their life. The new ones didn't wait to settle down. They updated us as soon as they were cleared at the POE.

By the way, your other post is profound. That is what keeps any form of jealousy at bay. Because some policing is just disguised bitterness given that majority are not averse to posting of bad news or negative achievements.

Samantha125:
Okay.

Leave your man, come to me, let take you to next level of life, you all envisaged, but will never happen, unless we are together

Basiljoe:
I have mixed feelings.
I want to build an online brand, share my tech journey, life experiences, and possibly earn from content creation.

People will reach out to you easily for jobs if you're competent and experienced, but how do they do that if you don't have an online presence that could build trust.

At the same time, I want a low-key life of privacy. What they don't know, they can't ruin. 🤷🏽

Build your professional brand using LinkedIn & YouTube. Enjoy your privacy on Facebook and Instagram by making your settings private. People would have to request your permission before they can follow you on both Apps. That's what I do. Instagram is for a very close circle of family & friends no more than 200 in number.

Mariangeles:
What is your zodiac sign?

Kiss my ass babe!!!