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I will need some opinions to be sure I do not blow the entire scenario out of proportion and take drastic action without justification. I will try to be as brief as possible. I married my wife, and she joined me in Netherlands where I was working. We have 2 kids, and we have had some struggles in the marriage in the past which I now attribute to family influence from Nigeria. My main concern now is that back in 2020, we had a serious argument, and she felt I was not giving her attention and that I maybe having affair outside. My conclusion at that point was that , she had too much time to chase shadows because she was not working. She has access to my phone, my social media account but that was not enough for her, at a point she was constantly suspecting who I talked to, what we talked about and so on. Then I decided to lock and privatize all my account because I felt she was only interested in finding what did not exist. I remember we once had an argument in which she said if I deprived her of sex she can go out and get it, she even said she was seeing someone. I took the statement seriously and it became a big problem my parents and her own parents back home got involved and they all concluded it was a statement out of anger. I did my investigation and found nothing and decided to let it go after she begged and apologized and claimed it was not true that she wanted to make sure I feel the pain if I was cheating. few years into our marriage after she joined me, we had a serious fight and within that period I saw she registered on a dating site, ( the profile show looking for men 30-50 in the area) I saw that screenshot the page and kept it aside and confronted her she denied that she did not know and that she just got email and thought it was like face book and she registered. That response was not adding up as she used her picture on the site. At that time, we already had our second child, after threatening to leave her, the problem escalated, and we finally settled. Even when I took it seriously at that time, I was convinced nothing has happened and we moved on.
Mid 2021 she started working as care giver, in Netherland, at the end of the year the company where she worked had a party for all staff. She attended and gave me gist of her experience and the drink and dancing etc. but never mentioned at that time about a Nigerian guy she met and was working in the same company. The same guy happens to be a junior from my school and was still a student at that time.
Knowingly or unknown to him that his colleague was my wife. The community where we leaved was quite small and I practically know 80% of the Nigerians there both student and workers. Late 2023 I got transferred to anther city in Netherland we relocated to my new city. I came across this guy just last month and he was now married with his own family and working in the same city. He was not my very close friend but someone I know. We got talking and he needed a book for research which I had and was not using. I obliged to give it to him. I sent him my address so that he can come pick it up but he was saying I can just take the book in my car so we can meet and he will collect it. After like a week he decided to come to my house for the book.

Before the guy came my wife asked who the guy I was expecting was, I showed her the guy pictured on WhatsApp and she claimed not to know the guy. She was asking if the guy was married. Unknown to her that I already saw the picture from the company party with the other colleague and the guy was boldly in the picture. (only 7 people were in the picture) I then told her the guy was also working as a caregiver in our previous city. It was at that point she said, “or is it the Nigerian guy I met at the company party that year?” I just kept quiet, knowing she was lying.
Finally, the guy came to my house, I expected he would come with his family, but he just parked outside with his family in the car and came in alone claiming they were in a hurry to meet up with another appointment. When my wife saw him, she claimed not to know him and was asking if he was at the company party, but the guy was acting confused and said he could not remember, in my presence. I gave him the book and escorted him outside and they left. Just less than 5 mins after they left my house the guy called me back that I should tell my wife that he can now remember that he was in the company party. My wife body language was not normal and she asked me who called I told her it was the guy and she was asking what did he say? I just told her something else. Throughout that day my wife was acting too nice, I could see she was trying to make everything normal. I was quiet and pretended that I did not know anything.
My main concern now is considering my wife’s statement and past attempts, did she have anything with this guy or was the guy asking her out at that time, because the guy claimed to be single at that point. Why was she lying about not knowing the guy, why was the guy so anxious to call me back to explain to me just 5 mins after leaving my house? There is something not adding up here. Is she cheating?

Sorry to tell you this senior man--"But the truth is that they once had a thingy"

Body languages don't lie bro...Your wife is a maradona in cheating,but I think your instincts were quite right...

No Matter how hard you may try to rebrand a native hen into a foreign chicken, she'll never blend and amend...


"Don't trust Nigerian bannies,both home and away ".

They had a fling.. .. that’s it


One off..

Getright247:
I will need some opinions to be sure I do not blow the entire scenario out of proportion and take drastic action without justification. I will try to be as brief as possible. I married my wife, and she joined me in Netherlands where I was working. We have 2 kids, and we have had some struggles in the marriage in the past which I now attribute to family influence from Nigeria. My main concern now is that back in 2020, we had a serious argument, and she felt I was not giving her attention and that I maybe having affair outside. My conclusion at that point was that , she had too much time to chase shadows because she was not working. She has access to my phone, my social media account but that was not enough for her, at a point she was constantly suspecting who I talked to, what we talked about and so on. Then I decided to lock and privatize all my account because I felt she was only interested in finding what did not exist. I remember we once had an argument in which she said if I deprived her of sex she can go out and get it, she even said she was seeing someone. I took the statement seriously and it became a big problem my parents and her own parents back home got involved and they all concluded it was a statement out of anger. I did my investigation and found nothing and decided to let it go after she begged and apologized and claimed it was not true that she wanted to make sure I feel the pain if I was cheating. few years into our marriage after she joined me, we had a serious fight and within that period I saw she registered on a dating site, ( the profile show looking for men 30-50 in the area) I saw that screenshot the page and kept it aside and confronted her she denied that she did not know and that she just got email and thought it was like face book and she registered. That response was not adding up as she used her picture on the site. At that time, we already had our second child, after threatening to leave her, the problem escalated, and we finally settled. Even when I took it seriously at that time, I was convinced nothing has happened and we moved on.
Mid 2021 she started working as care giver, in Netherland, at the end of the year the company where she worked had a party for all staff. She attended and gave me gist of her experience and the drink and dancing etc. but never mentioned at that time about a Nigerian guy she met and was working in the same company. The same guy happens to be a junior from my school and was still a student at that time.
Knowingly or unknown to him that his colleague was my wife. The community where we leaved was quite small and I practically know 80% of the Nigerians there both student and workers. Late 2023 I got transferred to anther city in Netherland we relocated to my new city. I came across this guy just last month and he was now married with his own family and working in the same city. He was not my very close friend but someone I know. We got talking and he needed a book for research which I had and was not using. I obliged to give it to him. I sent him my address so that he can come pick it up but he was saying I can just take the book in my car so we can meet and he will collect it. After like a week he decided to come to my house for the book.

Before the guy came my wife asked who the guy I was expecting was, I showed her the guy pictured on WhatsApp and she claimed not to know the guy. She was asking if the guy was married. Unknown to her that I already saw the picture from the company party with the other colleague and the guy was boldly in the picture. (only 7 people were in the picture) I then told her the guy was also working as a caregiver in our previous city. It was at that point she said, “or is it the Nigerian guy I met at the company party that year?” I just kept quiet, knowing she was lying.
Finally, the guy came to my house, I expected he would come with his family, but he just parked outside with his family in the car and came in alone claiming they were in a hurry to meet up with another appointment. When my wife saw him, she claimed not to know him and was asking if he was at the company party, but the guy was acting confused and said he could not remember, in my presence. I gave him the book and escorted him outside and they left. Just less than 5 mins after they left my house the guy called me back that I should tell my wife that he can now remember that he was in the company party. My wife body language was not normal and she asked me who called I told her it was the guy and she was asking what did he say? I just told her something else. Throughout that day my wife was acting too nice, I could see she was trying to make everything normal. I was quiet and pretended that I did not know anything.
My main concern now is considering my wife’s statement and past attempts, did she have anything with this guy or was the guy asking her out at that time, because the guy claimed to be single at that point. Why was she lying about not knowing the guy, why was the guy so anxious to call me back to explain to me just 5 mins after leaving my house? There is something not adding up here. Is she cheating?

A popular quote from my humble self "in searching for the truth you find more" as in more than what you are looking for.

They probably dated at one time so it up to let go or search for the truth in which case you have two options divorce or still forgive her.

I see Okafor's Law of Congoelasticity.......

Op, if you ve ever had about Office Romance Office romance, your wife and that nigga were once into it..........Infact, that nigga has once upon a time eaten from your wifey's Honeypot

Getright247:
➜Before the guy came my wife asked who the guy I was expecting was, I showed her the guy pictured on WhatsApp and she claimed not to know the guy. She was asking if the guy was married. Unknown to her that I already saw the picture from the company party with the other colleague and the guy was boldly in the picture. (only 7 people were in the picture) I then told her the guy was also working as a caregiver in our previous city. It was at that point she said, “or is it the Nigerian guy I met at the company party that year?” I just kept quiet, knowing she was lying.
Finally, the guy came to my house, I expected he would come with his family, but he just parked outside with his family in the car and came in alone claiming they were in a hurry to meet up with another appointment. When my wife saw him, she claimed not to know him and was asking if he was at the company party, but the guy was acting confused and said he could not remember, in my presence. I gave him the book and escorted him outside and they left. Just less than 5 mins after they left my house the guy called me back that I should tell my wife that he can now remember that he was in the company party. My wife body language was not normal and she asked me who called I told her it was the guy and she was asking what did he say? I just told her something else. Throughout that day my wife was acting too nice, I could see she was trying to make everything normal. I was quiet and pretended that I did not know anything.
My main concern now is considering my wife’s statement and past attempts, did she have anything with this guy or was the guy asking her out at that time, because the guy claimed to be single at that point. Why was she lying about not knowing the guy, why was the guy so anxious to call me back to explain to me just 5 mins after leaving my house? There is something not adding up here. Is she cheating?

Since you are both in the Netherlands, it is probably best you both seek out professional marriage counseling in order to properly resolve the trust issue in your marriage.

It's December 10, you have THREE weeks to plan an emergency New Year's visit for January.

That's all I'm going to say.

What is a married woman doing with a dating site?
Why doesn't she trust you as her husband?
Why did she deny not knowing her work colleague Infront of you?

It's obvious that your instincts smell something fishy.
Follow your instincts wisely, Since you already suspected her of cheating, draft out a plan B.

Foolish SIMP, your wife cheated and you're here beating around the bush. Divorce that bastard

Let me tell you what I think, that guy has fvcked her. It's too glaring. This is not the end. She would probably cheat again if the opportunity presents itself. I'm sorry to say this but, your wife has the mind and attitude of a serial cheat. It's up to you if you still want her but for me, I'd slowly drift away from her because I can't live with a wife who cheats.

Mr Man stop pressuring that woman you're acting like a Low key woman wrapper

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Getright247:
I will need some opinions to be sure I do not blow the entire scenario out of proportion and take drastic action without justification. I will try to be as brief as possible. I married my wife, and she joined me in Netherlands where I was working. We have 2 kids, and we have had some struggles in the marriage in the past which I now attribute to family influence from Nigeria. My main concern now is that back in 2020, we had a serious argument, and she felt I was not giving her attention and that I maybe having affair outside. My conclusion at that point was that , she had too much time to chase shadows because she was not working. She has access to my phone, my social media account but that was not enough for her, at a point she was constantly suspecting who I talked to, what we talked about and so on. Then I decided to lock and privatize all my account because I felt she was only interested in finding what did not exist. I remember we once had an argument in which she said if I deprived her of sex she can go out and get it, she even said she was seeing someone. I took the statement seriously and it became a big problem my parents and her own parents back home got involved and they all concluded it was a statement out of anger. I did my investigation and found nothing and decided to let it go after she begged and apologized and claimed it was not true that she wanted to make sure I feel the pain if I was cheating. few years into our marriage after she joined me, we had a serious fight and within that period I saw she registered on a dating site, ( the profile show looking for men 30-50 in the area) I saw that screenshot the page and kept it aside and confronted her she denied that she did not know and that she just got email and thought it was like face book and she registered. That response was not adding up as she used her picture on the site. At that time, we already had our second child, after threatening to leave her, the problem escalated, and we finally settled. Even when I took it seriously at that time, I was convinced nothing has happened and we moved on.
Mid 2021 she started working as care giver, in Netherland, at the end of the year the company where she worked had a party for all staff. She attended and gave me gist of her experience and the drink and dancing etc. but never mentioned at that time about a Nigerian guy she met and was working in the same company. The same guy happens to be a junior from my school and was still a student at that time.
Knowingly or unknown to him that his colleague was my wife. The community where we leaved was quite small and I practically know 80% of the Nigerians there both student and workers. Late 2023 I got transferred to anther city in Netherland we relocated to my new city. I came across this guy just last month and he was now married with his own family and working in the same city. He was not my very close friend but someone I know. We got talking and he needed a book for research which I had and was not using. I obliged to give it to him. I sent him my address so that he can come pick it up but he was saying I can just take the book in my car so we can meet and he will collect it. After like a week he decided to come to my house for the book.

Before the guy came my wife asked who the guy I was expecting was, I showed her the guy pictured on WhatsApp and she claimed not to know the guy. She was asking if the guy was married. Unknown to her that I already saw the picture from the company party with the other colleague and the guy was boldly in the picture. (only 7 people were in the picture) I then told her the guy was also working as a caregiver in our previous city. It was at that point she said, “or is it the Nigerian guy I met at the company party that year?” I just kept quiet, knowing she was lying.
Finally, the guy came to my house, I expected he would come with his family, but he just parked outside with his family in the car and came in alone claiming they were in a hurry to meet up with another appointment. When my wife saw him, she claimed not to know him and was asking if he was at the company party, but the guy was acting confused and said he could not remember, in my presence. I gave him the book and escorted him outside and they left. Just less than 5 mins after they left my house the guy called me back that I should tell my wife that he can now remember that he was in the company party. My wife body language was not normal and she asked me who called I told her it was the guy and she was asking what did he say? I just told her something else. Throughout that day my wife was acting too nice, I could see she was trying to make everything normal. I was quiet and pretended that I did not know anything.
My main concern now is considering my wife’s statement and past attempts, did she have anything with this guy or was the guy asking her out at that time, because the guy claimed to be single at that point. Why was she lying about not knowing the guy, why was the guy so anxious to call me back to explain to me just 5 mins after leaving my house? There is something not adding up here. Is she cheating?

Brother see dont let Nairaland advice scatter your home o....be warned.

Na you dey suspect wetin you dey run

Getright247

I understand your confusion, me too I'm confused

It looks like something happened between them but whilst you may be right in your suspicion, you may also be wrong. Infidelity is selfish and heartbreaking and you need to make it clear to her that your trust in her is damaged so neither of you should do anything further to hurt your marriage.

All I'll say is that she's definitely not cheating with him NOW. Their behaviour shows that clearly.

Even if she has cheated, you need to understand how you'll take it: will you end things immediately or forgive and rebuild? What about kids? And if there was Infidelity, was it one-off or an affair? Is she willing to put in the work to fix things, will you want to revenge on her, what if she's innocent? What if something did happen but it went no further than emotional?

Please, your marriage needs help. Look towards your parents and find a marital counsellor who has some experience with immigrants, to help you.

And stay off Nairaland because these ones will scatter your marriage for you.

People here will break your heart.

Have a good conversation with your wife.

Foodqueen:
People here will break your heart.

Have a good conversation with your wife.

Ehn, so that you can escape with your cheating.

Onegai:
Getright247

I understand your confusion, me too I'm confused

It looks like something happened between them but whilst you may be right in your suspicion, you may also be wrong. Infidelity is selfish and heartbreaking and you need to make it clear to her that your trust in her is damaged so neither of you should do anything further to hurt your marriage.

All I'll say is that she's definitely not cheating with him NOW. Their behaviour shows that clearly.

Even if she has cheated, you need to understand how you'll take it: will you end things immediately or forgive and rebuild? What about kids? And if there was Infidelity, was it one-off or an affair? Is she willing to put in the work to fix things, will you want to revenge on her, what if she's innocent? What if something did happen but it went no further than emotional?

Please, your marriage needs help. Look towards your parents and find a marital counsellor who has some experience with immigrants, to help you.

And stay off Nairaland because these ones will scatter your marriage for you.

Translation.
She is saying "Ignore the cheating so that your marriage would not scatter. And that you should not come to nairaland so that people do not tell you the truth that even she too knows which is your wife cheated!

See how the devils here are trying to cover and downplay their sisters cheating.

xtivin:
Brother see dont let Nairaland advice scatter your home o....be warned.

Na you dey suspect wetin you dey run

Meaning you sef don see say hin house don.scatter, yet you no wan tell am.

Your suspicions are what they are until you have hard proof. I don't think you have healed from that threat depsite your families intervening. Bro, you have 2 kids. The first question that came to mind reading your story is, ARE YOU SEXUALLY SATISFYING YOUR WIFE

After finance, sex is the second leading cause of divorce. Are you giving her what she wants? For her to demand this after your second child is unusual and don't use joblessness as an excuse. It is good you have families checking on you but I think you need to put your home in order. Families will take sides and this is the reason people try to protect their partners because it's the picture you paint of them your family will have in mind.

You guys need a therapist and I think she has said things you are not listening to. Ask her directly if you think she is suspecting. If she says No and you still think she is lying, go see a therapist. You need someone independent and professional to help you both. Look for someone who understands Nigeria and Netherlands/Europe

Also stop bringing people into your house just to return a book. Meet people outside, only bring people you want in your lives to your home or else, your house is open to all

Dtruthspeaker:
Translation.
She is saying "Ignore the cheating so that your marriage would not scatter. And that you should not come to nairaland so that people do not tell you the truth that even she too knows which is your wife cheated!

Oshey, Universal Translator.

Getright247

The reason I'm advising caution is that I've seen suspicions spiral out of control and destroy lives. And the story you told, sounds suspicious but there is no proof. I believe in intuition but I also know that we see what we want to believe.

A man started suspecting his wife of infidelity and his coworkers and friends told him "all Lagos women dey cheat!" (Lack of boundaries will let you listen to the whole world rather than take careful advice from people who love you).

His wife got pregnant and the man spent the time terrorising her and being cold. After the birth, his madness increased and he went to do DNA test at one rubbish lab. Results came back negative. He came home, beat the wife and threw the baby on the floor. The child got hurt. Marriage ended.

A year and a half later, the mum posted the boy's picture on FB. A relative contacted her and begged her to bring the boy to the UK. They conducted another DNA test against the boy's paternal uncle: positive. Then they called the father and asked him to come to the UK and conduct a 3rd DNA test: positive.

That man till today, is regretting his entire life. The coworkers and friends who were giving him advice and doing "Universal translator" are nowhere to be found. None of us are living your life with you.

Bro, I've seen a lot of people destroy their lives very easily.

I don't condone Infidelity from any gender. But what you've posted is circumstantial at best.

Ask her outright, let her know there are issues in your marriage. Decide on fixing it.

If she confesses that she did, please go ahead with whatever you decide.

You're a very smart guy, intelligent.

Forget about that scenario.... archive it

I want you to start monitoring your wife on a low. Any slite mistake on cheating... process her deportation and just get a nice GF.

Good luck

It is visible to the blind and audible to the deaf she cheated with him, and if you don't stay far from that guy they might continue from where they stopped. That's if they've ever stopped. Your wife still has that olosho vibes in her, and the very fact that she'd registered on a dating site proves that.

But the main question is, what are you going to do about it? Finding the truth is just one part of the issue. When you eventually get to the truth, what can you do about it?

Onegai:
Oshey, Universal Translator.

Getright247

The reason I'm advising caution is that I've seen suspicions spiral out of control and destroy lives. And the story you told, sounds suspicious but there is no proof. I believe in intuition but I also know that we see what we want to believe.

A man started suspecting his wife of infidelity and his coworkers and friends told him "all Lagos women dey cheat!" (Lack of boundaries will let you listen to the whole world rather than take careful advice from people who love you).

His wife got pregnant and the man spent the time terrorising her and being cold. After the birth, his madness increased and he went to do DNA test at one rubbish lab. Results came back negative. He came home, beat the wife and threw the baby on the floor. The child got hurt. Marriage ended.

A year and a half later, the mum posted the boy's picture on FB. A relative contacted her and begged her to bring the boy to the UK. They conducted another DNA test against the boy's paternal uncle: positive. Then they called the father and asked him to come to the UK and conduct a 3rd DNA test: positive.

That man till today, is regretting his entire life. The coworkers and friends who were giving him advice and doing "Universal translator" are nowhere to be found. None of us are living your life with you.

Bro, I've seen a lot of people destroy their lives very easily.

I don't condone Infidelity from any gender. But what you've posted is circumstantial at best.

Ask her outright, let her know there are issues in your marriage. Decide on fixing it.

If she confesses that she did, please go ahead with whatever you decide.

Awon "did you catch her redhanded" argument!/ pleading the "i thought she was cheating" argument.

These argument only exists in secondary school after that, every boy grew into a man and learns how to spot when cheating has taken place!

Sorry

This is why I disapprove all these December marriage things.

This is another case of an abroad based man coming to Nigeria to marry a December wife that he doesn't know well.

Getright247:
I will need some opinions to be sure I do not blow the entire scenario out of proportion and take drastic action without justification. I will try to be as brief as possible. I married my wife, and she joined me in Netherlands where I was working. We have 2 kids, and we have had some struggles in the marriage in the past which I now attribute to family influence from Nigeria. My main concern now is that back in 2020, we had a serious argument, and she felt I was not giving her attention and that I maybe having affair outside. My conclusion at that point was that , she had too much time to chase shadows because she was not working. She has access to my phone, my social media account but that was not enough for her, at a point she was constantly suspecting who I talked to, what we talked about and so on. Then I decided to lock and privatize all my account because I felt she was only interested in finding what did not exist. I remember we once had an argument in which she said if I deprived her of sex she can go out and get it, she even said she was seeing someone. I took the statement seriously and it became a big problem my parents and her own parents back home got involved and they all concluded it was a statement out of anger. I did my investigation and found nothing and decided to let it go after she begged and apologized and claimed it was not true that she wanted to make sure I feel the pain if I was cheating. few years into our marriage after she joined me, we had a serious fight and within that period I saw she registered on a dating site, ( the profile show looking for men 30-50 in the area) I saw that screenshot the page and kept it aside and confronted her she denied that she did not know and that she just got email and thought it was like face book and she registered. That response was not adding up as she used her picture on the site. At that time, we already had our second child, after threatening to leave her, the problem escalated, and we finally settled. Even when I took it seriously at that time, I was convinced nothing has happened and we moved on.
Mid 2021 she started working as care giver, in Netherland, at the end of the year the company where she worked had a party for all staff. She attended and gave me gist of her experience and the drink and dancing etc. but never mentioned at that time about a Nigerian guy she met and was working in the same company. The same guy happens to be a junior from my school and was still a student at that time.
Knowingly or unknown to him that his colleague was my wife. The community where we leaved was quite small and I practically know 80% of the Nigerians there both student and workers. Late 2023 I got transferred to anther city in Netherland we relocated to my new city. I came across this guy just last month and he was now married with his own family and working in the same city. He was not my very close friend but someone I know. We got talking and he needed a book for research which I had and was not using. I obliged to give it to him. I sent him my address so that he can come pick it up but he was saying I can just take the book in my car so we can meet and he will collect it. After like a week he decided to come to my house for the book.

Before the guy came my wife asked who the guy I was expecting was, I showed her the guy pictured on WhatsApp and she claimed not to know the guy. She was asking if the guy was married. Unknown to her that I already saw the picture from the company party with the other colleague and the guy was boldly in the picture. (only 7 people were in the picture) I then told her the guy was also working as a caregiver in our previous city. It was at that point she said, “or is it the Nigerian guy I met at the company party that year?” I just kept quiet, knowing she was lying.
Finally, the guy came to my house, I expected he would come with his family, but he just parked outside with his family in the car and came in alone claiming they were in a hurry to meet up with another appointment. When my wife saw him, she claimed not to know him and was asking if he was at the company party, but the guy was acting confused and said he could not remember, in my presence. I gave him the book and escorted him outside and they left. Just less than 5 mins after they left my house the guy called me back that I should tell my wife that he can now remember that he was in the company party. My wife body language was not normal and she asked me who called I told her it was the guy and she was asking what did he say? I just told her something else. Throughout that day my wife was acting too nice, I could see she was trying to make everything normal. I was quiet and pretended that I did not know anything.
My main concern now is considering my wife’s statement and past attempts, did she have anything with this guy or was the guy asking her out at that time, because the guy claimed to be single at that point. Why was she lying about not knowing the guy, why was the guy so anxious to call me back to explain to me just 5 mins after leaving my house? There is something not adding up here. Is she cheating?

My guy, you dnt need prophet to tell you that, ur woman is a cheat,infact,"she is a serial cheater", but you made one "gracious" mistake. You should have used fake profile to toast her on dating site, by abruptly telling her you saw her on dating site,portraying you as a neophyte, when it comes to women's infidelity, and by extension, giving her space to give you loads of excuses and escape routes,......I called it gracious mistake because, that mistake is still the grace holding her as a married woman by now.

Anyway, you are sharp when it comes to"emotional intelligency" but you still to work more on that in other to see, all her secrets open yakata for you.

No human can do anything outside his or emotions, because emotions in human are true reflections of that person, and not what he/she saying.

trium:
Also stop bringing people into your house just to return a book. Meet people outside, only bring people you want in your lives to your home or else, your house is open to all

Infact, he should stop sending her to market alone, at least to separate her from random guys.


Wen the common sense losses, the owner of the brain worse than lunatic.

Married woman registered on dating site?