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Does it make a man look weak by confronting and warning a man to stop calling his wife?

Asking yourself if you look weak means that you know that you aren‘t strong.

The issue should be settled between husband and wife in the first place.

kingsleyugo41:
Does it make a man look weak by confronting and warning a man to stop calling his wife?

Yes, your wife is the major problem here. She values his attention & will never stop picking his calls. Women don't like giving up their emotional connections even though they are not having any affair.

Demand her phone & block his number on WhatsApp & Truecaller, if possible block the number via network provider itself.

Never call a man to warn him, that's a sucker move.

Sefini.

It's your wife who is hell bent on disrespecting you. She's the one you will call to order

kingsleyugo41:
Does it make a man look weak by confronting and warning a man to stop calling his wife?

Yes the man is weak from every angle u look it from.......... men that do so have low self esteem thinking fighting the competition will make the woman loyal to them...

Such men are also stvpîd, because usually when a woman is caught physically or emotional cheating......her first move is to play victim by blaming her husband for any reason she can quickly dig up or the other man shes cheating for disturbing her and not letting her focus

..if u stvpidly fall for the manipulation by blaming urself and the other guy.....u will find urself calling him... Don't be a fóol

kingsleyugo41:
Does it make a man look weak by confronting and warning a man to stop calling his wife?

y not kukuma send d wife go meet her instead of stressing yourself?

Na d wife dey feed u?

tosinhtml:
Yes, your wife is the major problem here. She values his attention & will never stop picking his calls. Women don't like giving up their emotional connections even though they are not having any affair.

Demand her phone & block his number on WhatsApp & Truecaller, if possible block the number via network provider itself.

Never call a man to warn him, that's a sucker move.

Sefini.

so if he blocks her number can't he use another number to call her

Y not send d wife out to go n meet her so d wife eye go clear say d husband no dey play?

Me I no like cheating n I can't take it so if I suspect my wife say she dey do bed I no go stress myself, send her comot

Na she go cry

Not at all! In fact, it's a sign of strength and responsibility for a husband to protect and defend his relationship. Confronting someone who is disrespecting his wife's boundaries and warning them to stop contacting her is a reasonable and assertive action.

Reasons Why It's Not Weak:

1. Protecting his relationship: By addressing the situation, the husband is showing that he values and prioritizes his relationship with his wife.
2. Setting boundaries: Confronting the person and warning them to stop contacting his wife sets clear boundaries and communicates that such behavior is unacceptable.
3. Showing emotional intelligence: The husband is demonstrating emotional intelligence by recognizing the potential threat to his relationship and taking proactive steps to address it.
4. Being a responsible partner: By taking action, the husband is fulfilling his responsibility as a partner to protect and care for his wife's well-being.

How to Approach the Situation:

1. Stay calm and assertive: Approach the conversation calmly and assertively, avoiding aggression or violence.
2. Be clear and direct: Clearly communicate your concerns and boundaries, leaving no room for misinterpretation.
3. Focus on the behavior: Address the specific behavior that's causing concern, rather than attacking the person.
4. Seek support if needed: If the situation escalates or becomes too difficult to handle alone, consider seeking support from a trusted friend, family member, or professional counselor.

Remember, confronting someone who is disrespecting your wife's boundaries is not a sign of weakness, but rather a demonstration of strength, responsibility, and love for your partner.

kingsleyugo41:
Does it make a man look weak by confronting and warning a man to stop calling his wife?

You are weak, because you definitely do not have control of your home. Why is your so called wife answering the calls of the man? How did he even get her number?

It's the reception your wife gave him,that is making the calls come in..

Talk to your wife ... If you are in control,the man won't even call her..

Be like say you dey fear ya wife..

And e blike say she no get respect for you and your marriage at all..

OP, whatever you decide to do. Please do not take this advise

The only potential threat is the person emotionally cheating on you, don't let women of Nairaland gaslight you.

IyaTola:
Not at all! In fact, it's a sign of strength and responsibility for a husband to protect and defend his relationship. Confronting someone who is disrespecting his wife's boundaries and warning them to stop contacting her is a reasonable and assertive action.

Reasons Why It's Not Weak:

1. Protecting his relationship: By addressing the situation, the husband is showing that he values and prioritizes his relationship with his wife.
2. Setting boundaries: Confronting the person and warning them to stop contacting his wife sets clear boundaries and communicates that such behavior is unacceptable.
3. Showing emotional intelligence: The husband is demonstrating emotional intelligence by recognizing the potential threat to his relationship and taking proactive steps to address it.
4. Being a responsible partner: By taking action, the husband is fulfilling his responsibility as a partner to protect and care for his wife's well-being.

How to Approach the Situation:

1. Stay calm and assertive: Approach the conversation calmly and assertively, avoiding aggression or violence.
2. Be clear and direct: Clearly communicate your concerns and boundaries, leaving no room for misinterpretation.
3. Focus on the behavior: Address the specific behavior that's causing concern, rather than attacking the person.
4. Seek support if needed: If the situation escalates or becomes too difficult to handle alone, consider seeking support from a trusted friend, family member, or professional counselor.

Remember, confronting someone who is disrespecting your wife's boundaries is not a sign of weakness, but rather a demonstration of strength, responsibility, and love for your partner.

Yes.

Your wife is an adult and chose to make her own decisions.

Your own duty is to set down the rules. If she can’t follow, send her packing and find someone else that understands . It’s that simple

Marriage is a commitment, and one has to choose, every single day to uphold that commitment.

ChatGPT spotted. Pure Trash

IyaTola:
Not at all! In fact, it's a sign of strength and responsibility for a husband to protect and defend his relationship. Confronting someone who is disrespecting his wife's boundaries and warning them to stop contacting her is a reasonable and assertive action.

Reasons Why It's Not Weak:

1. Protecting his relationship: By addressing the situation, the husband is showing that he values and prioritizes his relationship with his wife.
2. Setting boundaries: Confronting the person and warning them to stop contacting his wife sets clear boundaries and communicates that such behavior is unacceptable.
3. Showing emotional intelligence: The husband is demonstrating emotional intelligence by recognizing the potential threat to his relationship and taking proactive steps to address it.
4. Being a responsible partner: By taking action, the husband is fulfilling his responsibility as a partner to protect and care for his wife's well-being.

How to Approach the Situation:

1. Stay calm and assertive: Approach the conversation calmly and assertively, avoiding aggression or violence.
2. Be clear and direct: Clearly communicate your concerns and boundaries, leaving no room for misinterpretation.
3. Focus on the behavior: Address the specific behavior that's causing concern, rather than attacking the person.
4. Seek support if needed: If the situation escalates or becomes too difficult to handle alone, consider seeking support from a trusted friend, family member, or professional counselor.

Remember, confronting someone who is disrespecting your wife's boundaries is not a sign of weakness, but rather a demonstration of strength, responsibility, and love for your partner.

kingsleyugo41:
Does it make a man look weak by confronting and warning a man to stop calling his wife?

It does. It means you have no regard from your wife and not able to talk to her.

You are able weak ass mutherphuker.

Most of what was dished up there must have come from people who aren't married.

It is a man's duty to protect his wife, especially from intruders. If Adam had protected Eve from the serpent, she won't have been tempted.

Yes, Even was tempted by the serpent while Adam was away. That's why men need to be close to their wives and give them close marking. Society might make you think that is weakness, but it is not. Building a fence around your house and having CCTV is not weakness. If Adam was around when the serpent tempted Even, he would have warded the beast off by standing on God's word. But since Adam wasn't around to support Eve, she fell for Satan's beguiling.

Not warning that man is the same as looking on when he approaches her in front of you. After all, whatever you will say to him on phone is the same you will say when he approaches her in your presence.

She's your property which you must guard jealously. Don't allow any person gaslight you into thinking you are weak for doing the necessary to protect what you paid a bride price for.

If you don't rain curses on that man, he will become emboldened and start inviting your wife to hotels. Women are really weak and are slaves to their emotions. They fall for what feels good to the detriment of logic. As long as his phone calls tickle her and make her feel like a little girl, she will one day succumb to his demands. Satan also made Eve feel good with the lies that she will be like God. The Bible said...

Genesis 3:6 KJV

5. For God doth know that in the day ye eat thereof, then your eyes shall be opened, and ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil.

6. And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat.

Tell me if what Eve saw actually came to pass. Since it didn't come to pass, it means it was just an illusion, a feeling Satan used to deceive her. That's exactly how that man is deceiving your wife, making her think the grass is greener on the other side.

If I were you, I will look for the man's photos, get my wife's call log and shared them on social media to shame the man. Many will call that a weak move, but the man who has been called out and shamed will leave your wife alone. That way, you will save your wife and your children from being raised in a broken home.

When a huge some of money miraculously vanishes from your account, don't you raise the alarm and even rush to your bank for clarification? If you don't raise the alarm because you don't want to appear weak, the bank will just enjoy your money.

Be wise and brutal in protecting what's yours. That's why I like dogs. They are ready to tear anybody to pieces for daring to attack their family. Tell me, will you like to return to a house whose dog tore your clothes and bit your butt? The answer you give is the same answer that man will give after you unleash madness on him.

LifestyleTonite:
Most of what was dished up there must have come from people who aren't married.

It is a man's duty to protect his wife, especially from intruders. If Adam had protected Eve from the serpent, she won't have been tempted.

Yes, Even was tempted by the serpent while Adam was away. That's why men need to be close to their wives and give them close marking. Society might make you think that is weakness, but it is not. Building a fence around your house and having CCTV is not weakness. If Adam was around when the serpent tempted Even, he would have warded the beast off by standing on God's word. But since Adam wasn't around to support Eve, she fell for Satan's beguiling.

Not warning that man is the same as looking on when he approaches her in front of you. After all, whatever you will say to him on phone is the same you will say when he approaches her in your presence.

She's your property which you must guard jealously. Don't allow any person gaslight you into thinking you are weak for doing the necessary to protect what you paid a bride price for.

If you don't rain curses on that man, he will become emboldened and start inviting your wife to hotels. Women are really weak and are slaves to their emotions. They fall for what feels good to the detriment of logic. As long as his phone calls tickle her and make her feel like a little girl, she will one day succumb to his demands. Satan also made Eve feel good with the lies that she will be like God. The Bible said...

Genesis 3:6 KJV

5. For God doth know that in the day ye eat thereof, then your eyes shall be opened, and ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil.

6. And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat.

Tell me if what Eve saw actually came to pass. Since it didn't come to pass, it means it was just an illusion, a feeling Satan used to deceive her. That's exactly how that man is deceiving your wife, making her think the grass is greener on the other side.

If I were you, I will look for the man's photos, get my wife's call log and shared them on social media to shame the man. Many will call that a weak move, but the man who has been called out and shamed will leave your wife alone. That way, you will save your wife and your children from being raised in a broken home.

When a huge some of money miraculously vanishes from your account, don't you raise the alarm and even rush to your bank for clarification? If you don't raise the alarm because you don't want to appear weak, the bank will just enjoy your money.

Be wise and brutal in protecting what's yours. That's why I like dogs. They are ready to tear anybody to pieces for daring to attack their family. Tell me, will you like to return to a house whose dog tore your clothes and bit your butt? The answer you give is the same answer that man will give after you unleash madness on him.

Who is this comedian??

kingsleyugo41:
➜Does it make a man look weak by confronting and warning a man to stop calling his wife?

No, it makes him seem insane for daring to demand another man not call his wife. Your wife is not your property but your partner and you have no right by law to attempt to rule over her existence by that attachment.

If and only if your wife approaches you saying the man is a nuisance/stalker, then you can go with her instead to report the man as such. Otherwise, she is free to converse with anyone she dare pleases and there is nothing you can or should do about that except let your feelings known to her.