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Elders in the house what are things that have changed about the Christmas celebration these days unlike the past...

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DanOkonkwo:
Elders in the house what are things that have changed about the Christmas celebration these days unlike the past...

Let's go.

E come b like say ur suit get money pass u
Even ur glass don tire for your matter

tobby20:
E come b like say ur suit get money pass u
Even ur glass don tire for your matter

That's a coat not suit.

Zonefree:
That's a coat not suit.

Any thing that makes u feel intelligent
So far u can sleep at night

"List 5 things"......

Are you writing a booking about it or what

Your nails na finish work o...

Increase in age and maturation makes a change about Christmas.

As we grow older, our views and desires changes

As a child we watched out for new wears(clothes, shoes, accessories)all shinning lights

As a teenager, we desire toys and more mature gifts than that of a kid

As an undergraduate...we look forward to going home to family and friends, eating beautiful Christmas food, hanging out with friends and clubbing.etc

As a full grown adult...our view, likes, desire, aspiration and passion gets widened.... eg.. celebrating Xmas with family 4singles, getting a car, traveling abroad, moving into a new house, going on a tour or vacation..etc...



As an elderly...50upwards...many of them just desire peace of mind.. seeing their kids doing exploit... grandkids visiting and being healthy.

In summary, nothing changes about Christmas, our growth rate physically and mentally tells the difference.

Many.

This was the most party season. Weddings, end of years, birthdays in December were always hot and sweet and the party always ran all night.

Then this was the period 2 major parties must clash so you just had to learn to be in 2 places at the same time. And remember fuel was cheap, so you can dart from V.I to Marina and Surulere choosing which party is hottest and which you will end at.

Then i have never bought calenders or diaries in the first 30years of my life. For what na? At least 10 beautiful new year calenders must pass through my house and since i only need 2, that is how we would be selecting calenders and passing them on to others with the question "i have next year's calender do you want?"

Then o my favorite part exchanging food with neighbors, friends and family trying to outdo others. And this is were you see Nigeria was sweet for even the poor could kill at leas 2 Big chickens. While the standard was 4 chickens.

Since 2015 i don't think I have seen big chickens. All this ones they sell was considered srill.growing in those days.

Then, since we were trying to blow each others mind, in my house, we may kill 2 to 6 Turkeys (Usually 2 but an Aunt or Unk or friend may send another 2 Turkey or Chicken). So you see, you will eat meat till you experience what the Israelites experienced with God when they spoke anyhow andthe annoyed Him when the were asking of meat as they were tired of manna.. So you'll hate meat.

So we try to change the food plate by killing Turkeys and goat..And since we knew,the popular food travelling would be jollof rice, so we would head for fried rice and (many people did not know how to do frird rice back then, so you see, that was a big win) Then, Salad, then whatever meat or Fish pepper soup.

And then all theae foods were cooked outside in and with that big party pot, (So was everyone else too) So we are all seeing what everyone is cooking and sweet yabbis and jokes would be flying all over with us children to flying from pot to pot already eating the neats being boiled and fried there. Infact if you.cry, you get one piece of meat. Hmmmm very very sweet days.

All these gone now, neighbors don't relate with each other and many are enemies.

Dtruthspeaker:
Many.

This was the most party season. Weddings, end of years, birthdays in December were always hot and sweet and the party always ran all night.

Then this was the period 2 major parties must clash so you just had to learn to be in 2 places at the same time. And remember fuel was cheap, so you can dart from V.I to Marina and Surulere choosing which party is hottest and which you will end at.

Then i have never bought calenders or diaries in the first 30years of my life. For what na? At least 10 beautiful new year calenders must pass through my house and since i only need 2, that is how we would be selecting calenders and passing them on to others with the question "i have next year's calender do you want?"

Then o my favorite part exchanging food with neighbors, friends and family trying to outdo others. And this is were you see Nigeria was sweet for even the poor could kill at leas 2 Big chickens. While the standard was 4 chickens.

Since 2015 i don't think I have seen big chickens. All this ones they sell was considered srill.growing in those days.

Then, since we were trying to blow each others mind, in my house, we may kill 2 to 6 Turkeys (Usually 2 but an Aunt or Unk or friend may send another 2 Turkey or Chicken). So you see, you will eat meat till you experience what the Israelites experienced with God when they spoke anyhow andthe annoyed Him when the were asking of meat as they were tired of manna.. So you'll hate meat.

So we try to change the food plate by killing Turkeys and goat..And since we knew,the popular food travelling would be jollof rice, so we would head for fried rice and (many people did not know how to do frird rice back then, so you see, that was a big win) Then, Salad, then whatever meat or Fish pepper soup.

And then all theae foods were cooked outside in and with that big party pot, (So was everyone else too) So we are all seeing what everyone is cooking and sweet yabbis and jokes would be flying all over with us children to flying from pot to pot already eating the neats being boiled and fried there. Infact if you.cry, you get one piece of meat. Hmmmm very very sweet days.

All these gone now, neighbors don't relate with each other and many are enemies.

It still happening...only that you grew up, your levels changed and your environment changed.


Moreso, the presence of social media has also impacted some yuletide customs.

Nevertheless, Christmas is a season that people hardly celebrate alone.. irrespective of their status, age and influence.

Newborn27:
It still happening...only that you grew up, your levels changed and your environment changed.


Moreso, the presence of social media has also impacted some yuletide customs.

Nevertheless, Christmas is a season that people hardly celebrate alone.. irrespective of their status, age and influence.

Iunderstand why you say its still happening but if you knew how BIG it uaec to be, you will know all these ones happening only form 2% of what happened back then.

in fact you just reminded me, in all that excitement, if neighbours saw nothing was happening in a neighbours house, as in no cooking, soneone MUST send a chicken, half bag of rice, that fanous Turkey igroundnut oil, packet of Maggi etc and soon that neighbour would join others cooking and the goodness and love will flow. And no one disrespected them infact that was the fastest way to have your Christmas and new year ruined and turned to pain because you mocked at the poor. ooo the whole community punishes that person by telling everyone what he did and when they are passing food, it will go with the warning that "that fool must not eat of it". No more birthday parties, no more Christmas clothees, that is the guy will wear his old clothes for iChristmas time meant change of wardrobe, so everyone will know that he has committed a huge crime.

Those were the good communual training of the good old days. Today children are horribly and terribly behaved but the evil spirits have stopped us all from correcting them.

A lot as change and sadly it doesnt resonate progress back in days prior to xmas

1. Our major roads are filled with people selling wears, cloths, bag, shoes, foods, chicken

2. Bonaza/promo sales from companies, and traders selling goods are cheap price to encourage bulk buy

3. Banger sounds, street carnivals and djs, rent the air, jakande carnival sweet memories

4. Sharing and Merries, People were merrier, cheerful givers money and food wise,

5. Travels .. lots of people tend to travel to spend the holidays with loved ones but now, lagos to delta tf 35k, to fuel car lagos to ibadan 50k

6. Church carols and concert ... so many programs to attend


APC are sands to the coffin

Newborn27:
It still happening...only that you grew up, your levels changed and your environment changed.


Moreso, the presence of social media has also impacted some yuletide customs.

Nevertheless, Christmas is a season that people hardly celebrate alone.. irrespective of their status, age and influence.

happening at what rate or %, change does not necessary mean extinct

Lets not fool ourselves Xmas as lost its Euphoria, b4 both rich and poor gather get xmas but now xmas is for the rich

Christmas celebrations in Nigeria have undergone significant changes over the years. Here are some key differences:

- Shift from traditional to modern practices: In the past, Christmas celebrations were deeply rooted in traditional practices, with a focus on community and family gatherings. Today, there's a noticeable shift towards more modern and Westernized practices, with an emphasis on individualism and consumerism.

- Increased commercialization: Christmas has become a major commercial event in Nigeria, with businesses and corporations capitalizing on the festive season to promote their products and services.

- Changes in traditional food and drinks: While traditional Nigerian dishes like jollof rice, fried chicken or goat, and tomato stew are still popular during Christmas, there's a growing trend towards more modern and Western-style cuisine.

- Growing influence of social media: Social media has become a significant factor in shaping Christmas celebrations in Nigeria. People now share their holiday experiences, traditions, and cultural practices online, creating a sense of community and connection.

- Increased focus on charity and giving: Many Nigerians now use Christmas as an opportunity to give back to their communities, with a growing emphasis on charity work, volunteering, and philanthropy.

- Changes in family dynamics: With more Nigerians living abroad or in urban areas, Christmas celebrations are no longer limited to traditional family gatherings. Many people now celebrate with friends, colleagues, or online communities because of the insecurities.

These changes reflect the evolving cultural, social, and economic landscape of Nigeria, while still maintaining the core spirit of Christmas as a time for celebration, giving, and community.

kayperry:
happening at what rate or %, change does not necessary mean extinct

Lets not fool ourselves Xmas as lost its Euphoria, b4 both rich and poor gather get xmas but now xmas is for the rich

Hmmmmmmmmmmm

Dtruthspeaker:
Iunderstand why you say its still happening but if you knew how BIG it uaec to be, you will know all these ones happening only form 2% of what happened back then.

in fact you just reminded me, in all that excitement, if neighbours saw nothing was happening in a neighbours house, as in no cooking, soneone MUST send a chicken, half bag of rice, that fanous Turkey igroundnut oil, packet of Maggi etc and soon that neighbour would join others cooking and the goodness and love will flow. And no one disrespected them infact that was the fastest way to have your Christmas and new year ruined and turned to pain because you mocked at the poor. ooo the whole community punishes that person by telling everyone what he did and when they are passing food, it will go with the warning that "that fool must not eat of it". No more birthday parties, no more Christmas clothees, that is the guy will wear his old clothes for iChristmas time meant change of wardrobe, so everyone will know that he has committed a huge crime.

Those were the good communual training of the good old days. Today children are horribly and terribly behaved but the evil spirits have stopped us all from correcting them.

Hmmmmmmmmmmm

The harmattan was not cold like this. I almost want to say that there was no harmattan but i think there was but i think it disappears during the Christmas.

And in those days Christmas period was the long holiday and schools closed around the 15th to 20th. And to open late January to a new class were you were promoted to.

You better get "promoted to..." to enjoy your Christmas and not "To repeat ...." this one you will just suffer throughout the Christmas till school opens.

Then let us not forget our minerals, (coke, fanta, sprite, Shwepps bitter lemon, Vitamalt etc) At least 1 crate of minerals, and Beeer (Star, Gulder, Big and Small Stout) Cartons must also be purchased and put in the fridge.

Then Banga must be blown at different times of the day lightly starting in September but increasing in regularity which each day Christmas gets nearer.

Then we must have our Bisco (that fireworks that we hold in hand throwing sparks after you ignite)

Then we had local banga created by using spark plug and matches .

Aha where are those people that do "do you remember this?