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Nigerian lady narrates how a mother of two d!ed due to work stress while her 'irresponsible husband drank from one bar to another'



A Nigerian lady, Ngozi, has narrated how a mother of two in her neighbourhood d!ed due to the stress of shouldering her family's financial responsibility while her husband drank from one bar to another.

“A woman just kpaid yesterday in my hood leaving her children, oldest 19yrs youngest 7yrs, but I got no pity for her makach,” she wrote in a Facebook post on Wednesday.

I only feel for the children. Guess what they said keeled her? Stress!!!And it's not as if she made the money ooo!!! She will do chef helper in the morning and fries in the evening while husband drinks from one bar to anotherand she go still enter gutter go carry am go house!!!

Every big food vendors in town contracts her as help Abi wetin dem dey call her...she lived her life fending for her children and irresponsible husband who uses all his money to drink his life away cos he works!

She came home from one of the jobs,complained of headache and before they could rush her to hospital,she was BID!!!

Yesterday people were trouping to their house to commiserate with the children while nobody send the husband mana imazi where the gist si towa uto bu that the said husband mgbada comfortably sat in one corner pressing phone and reminding everybody that na still one thing go keel a man!!!

Wives learn to be selfish!!! You have no excuse staying married to an irresponsible poor mgbada makachi!!!! Gbawa door from that marriage and chest your single mother badge honorably ighotago.
It's easier to get help as a single mother than it is as a Married woman to a poor irresponsible husband!!!

I for one will not give you shishi even if my money na awufu awufu if you stay married to a gutter drunk poor man or a poor chronic
cheat!!!

As far as am concern na your choice and if you kpaiii I won't even waste my time going to pay condolence to the stewpid he goat you left unto say I dey honor your memories!!!

There is a difference between staying married to a responsible hardworking poor man and staying married to an irresponsible gutter drunk man!

I can never have empathy for women who are still married to the latter!!! They deserve their hardship n owuite makachi!!!! Poverty is a very valid reason to divorce a man who is
irresponsible and not working towards changing that poverty status.

Kwapu ya na road, kee ifu uzo fuu better option even if na wealthy married man ighotago. Life enwerokwa return match...when we get to heaven we go reason the judgement day ighotago

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Really sad


I feel sorry for the kids. In this bad economy, how would they survive as orphans cos their deadbeat of a father is worse than a corpse.

ExAngel007:
Nigerian lady narrates how a mother of two d!ed due to work stress while her 'irresponsible husband drank from one bar to another'
A Nigerian lady, Ngozi, has narrated how a mother of two in her neighbourhood d!ed due to the stress of shouldering her family's financial responsibility while her husband drank from one bar to another.

She and Osinachi go fit form Dead Endurance Wives club on the other side ---six feet under-- for all those who went before along with others itching to join them soonest. 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

Sweettone:
What a tragedy! That man will live to regret

Says who? He will probably abandon the kids and find himself another Endurance woman to continue with. Na kids of Endurance wives dey fill the streets of Nigeria pass, the way I see it! 🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱

Make the man no con drink again

If to say d woman too dey drink, stress for no kill am...

Why do u think people drink
The man wey dey drink dey fall inside gutter and he no die nah...

Drink Responsibly

🙏

illicit:
✓ If to say d woman too dey drink, stress for no kill am...Why do u think people drink. The man wey dey drink dey fall inside gutter and he no die nah...Drink Responsibly
🙏

Are you insinuating that alcohol/alcoholism does not equally kill the already stressed in the society?

Mumu Man

Kobojunkie:
Are you insinuating that alcohol/alcoholism does not equally kill the already stressed in the society?

I am alive nah...

Wait, do you think I am dead?

illicit:
✓ I am alive nah... Wait, do you think I am dead?

You claim you are alive ..no way to verify that really. But what about the many out there who while trying to drown there stresses and troubles met death at the bottom of the bottle ?

Kobojunkie:
You claim you are alive ..no way to verify that really. But what about the many out there who while trying to drown there stresses and troubles met death at the bottom of the bottle ?

I can call you, voice or video or both

It's good to do everything in moderation...

illicit:
✓ I can call you, voice or video or both. It's good to do everything in moderation...

OP no talk say the man's hopping from bar to bar was done in moderation. 🤔

Kobojunkie:
OP no talk say the man's hopping from bar to bar was done in moderation. 🤔

Drinking won't kill that man, something else will...

If drinking would have killed him, he would be dead by now

Do you know that if you tried sleeping in the gutter soberly,you might get infected and pass away in hours

But a drunk man survives it severally

However so as never to find yourself inside gutter cos it's not nice, drink Responsibly...

I am sure u do...

Quite a pity she didnt know when to quit holding unto the man. May her soul find rest with her saviour.

Foolish woman, I pity the children. Maybe the man was good in bed, that's why the woman refuse to leave him, another woman will take over, Sharp Sharp.

Some of these women will not listen to u.

Many of them would settle for men like this...

The woman narrating this story isn't married. She doesn't know the kind of man she may end up with tomorrow. We should not judge what we don't understand.

Men will encourage going for brokees amongst them, labelling any woman that wants to make sure of finances plus character a gold digger.

After those men who were never meant to be married finish destroying the women who are out to be 'good' girls and so marry them despite their condition and character, the men's supporters would still come out and insult those unfortunate women.

If you berate women for finding out or caring about the financial/mental well-being of anyone who they date, you have the blood of these women in your hands.

No matter what women try, they're always screwed.

Kobojunkie:
She and Osinachi go fit form Endurance committee on the other side ---six feet under-- for all those who went before along with others itching to join them soonest. 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

And those women that didng go through this, I guess they will live forever

You people make it seem like the dead is missing out on something, maybe some enjoyment or whatever. They arent missing shii

Not like our memories will be useful in the grave.

na wa.

So she held on to a deadbeat for 19 years.

Possibly posting on his birthday:


"THANK YOU FOR ALL U DO FOR US"

AntiWailer:
na wa.

So she held on to a deadbeat for 19 years.

Possibly posting on his birthday:


"THANK YOU FOR ALL U DO FOR US"

Yes

Dead beat that was shining her Congo on a regular basis.

That's the power and influence of the Congo shiner.

Why didn't she face just herself and Children??

Nonsense!

Proper inquiry needs to be done to know why and whether the man married her as a drunk or she caused it

I knew it,
It can only happen in the south.
We treat our women as Queens

Same story with a family close to us.

another cock and bull stories to tell a particular gender to be selfish.....how about countless men who work their ass off to feed both their kids and bastard

I hope a good man didn't approach her in her prime and she said "no" to him....

purples25:
Men will encourage going for brokees amongst them, labelling any woman that wants to make sure of finances plus character a gold digger.

After those men who were never meant to be married finish destroying the women who are out to be 'good' girls and so marry them despite their condition and character, the men's supporters would still come out and insult those unfortunate women.

If you berate women for finding out or caring about the financial/mental well-being of anyone who they date, you have the blood of these women in your hands.

No matter what women try, they're always screwed.

An isolated case, good number of men have died from hb because of the family as well

I AGREE

tiswell:
Nonsense!

Proper inquiry needs to be done to know why and whether the man married her as a drunk or she caused it