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Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Free2Fly: 1:59pm On Dec 23, 2024

galantjoe:
Village juju works base on equity

Provided that it was exactly what happened was narrated here. The gal has no case against to the guy

Whether equity or no equity, no juju works anywhere.
They're just rubbish myths being spread by people who have never even gone near, let alone patronize, any before.

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Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by SDUG: 2:02pm On Dec 23, 2024

KingintheNorth:
They married legally in Nigeria and she travelled as his spouse. Every process was legit. The agreement they had is just verbal.

Some decisions we make in Life... Neglecting long time consequences. You Married someone legally, you called it contract

Guy he is forever married..

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by advanceDNA: 2:02pm On Dec 23, 2024

Akwaokukuo:
Exactly the question iji my mind.
I'm a guy but I don't tolerate exploitation.
They agreement doesn't favour the girl at all.
What does she stand to gain from the deal?
If I were her.
We will go down together.
I will just expose him to the UK government and submit all necessary evidence to backup my claim while using very strong spiritual powers to deal with him as the UK government deliberate the matter.
Agreement is meant to favour both parties

Why did she come back after graduation to beg the guy with 2k£ if the deal wasn't going to favour both of them in the end...??

If it won't favour her at all...why did she take the deal....?? That means u don't get the deal..

What she wanted out of the deal is to enter the UK and stay....being a dependant to the guy meant she can work unlimited hours to make more money, gain experience, and get new sponsorship jobs......unlike the guy who can't work for more than 20hrs per week..

Technically, she's the one the deal favoured in terms of hustle and making money and quickly settling ....secondly she has more leverage in walking away from the deal since she has no tuition to pay, which she eventually did, leaving the guy stranded to sort the tuition that he can't pay with 20hrs per week worth of hustle..
If it had worked out for her like getting a sponsorship job, we won't be here....

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Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by kenuoyibo(m): 2:03pm On Dec 23, 2024

advanceDNA:
U get mind ooo ....u enter that deal wey involve huge money with woman.?? And you expect her to pay up ??

Nigga u funny

Woman wey be snake in human form. U expect them to keep promise

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by folks4luv(f): 2:07pm On Dec 23, 2024

The agreement was very silly to begin with, guess that's what desperation will do to people.
Apart from an opportunity to leave Nigeria, she was expected to help offset over 18k school fees while sustaining herself and building her future, all for a man that was neither related nor married to her? Likeeee, that's so silly. I'd still condemn her breach of contract but that guy was also a user.

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Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Cheeryfeet: 2:09pm On Dec 23, 2024

correctyourself:
Ok oo, she's not good for wifey but she is good to support his education, with this your submission i support the Lady.

Why didn't he do same arrangement with his own girl friend or wife or sister?

Truly I don't want to say what you won't like. You must be cut from the same cloth with the girl. They had an agreement oooo. And her par t is to pay for the tuition, his part is to bring her over as dependent on his visa. Why should do he marry her, why should he sleep with her. I don't understand you at all

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Cheeryfeet: 2:11pm On Dec 23, 2024

correctyourself:
Ok oo, she's not good for wifey but she is good to support his education, with this your submission i support the Lady.

Why didn't he do same arrangement with his own girl friend or wife?

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Jetland(m): 2:14pm On Dec 23, 2024

Beuberry:
What happened to women? Because say one person do am no mean say everybody dey do.
Men sef dey do worst.

Okay, let's have the same deal if you're different. grin

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Mom007(f): 2:18pm On Dec 23, 2024

Good guys don't finish last, their own payback is handmade by God and served ice cold. That girl may never see good again in her life because she is still hardened and unrepentant. Thank God the guy was the main applicant.

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Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Zidac: 2:21pm On Dec 23, 2024

gunners160:
because she felt it was a good deal. Just the way fraudsters pleads to people greed. If the table was turn round would u have said thesame thing. That guy knew he would benefit the most so he looked for somebody gullible that he can use

It was actually a good deal all along because her intention was just to leave Nigeria and there was the opportunity.

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Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by HenryWilliams(m): 2:33pm On Dec 23, 2024

emmy512:
When that guy arrives Nigeria, he will understand the mistake he made by marrying her legally.

Right now she is his wide , and she can do and undo him when he comes to Nigeria.

How does he want to marry again in court when this one has not been dissolved.

After two years of non cohabitation..the man can file for divorce..if he can prove it and I'm sure he can .

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Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by VanuatuWycombe: 2:39pm On Dec 23, 2024

emmy512:
When that guy arrives Nigeria, he will understand the mistake he made by marrying her legally.

Right now she is his wide , and she can do and undo him when he comes to Nigeria.

How does he want to marry again in court when this one has not been dissolved.

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Beuberry(f): 2:45pm On Dec 23, 2024

Jetland:
Okay, let's have the same deal if you're different.

You think you are smart. I hope you get hooked one day and I happen to know you or be friend to ya spouse. I will personally drain you.

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by VanuatuWycombe: 2:48pm On Dec 23, 2024*

He too delay the thing sef. He supposed to don yank the wherey off, immediately she was not forthcoming.

She can’t prove they were not legally married or that they had an agreement.
The guy go deny am since it’s not written.

How would it have been if the guy couldn’t pay his fees or couldn’t get post grad work permit and the lady was able to secure her own post grad visa? He for lose out on both ways?

If it’s me, I would call her, bang her tired and yank her off for allowing me to suffer to raise money and still study.

It’s not easy paying over £14k and still pay other bills and study while working part-time.

There are lots of cases like that in the UK by our ungrateful people from Nigeria. We too like showing being smarter than others.

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Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Beuberry(f): 2:59pm On Dec 23, 2024

advanceDNA:
Yeah....now it's bad women.... ......Yet y'all blame men for the adultery, paternity fraud and crimes y'all commit....

Considerate indeed !!! ....I speak from existing social realities we have seen in many issues like this when y'all need to be team players for something far lesser and your gender hardly come true....let alone paying half tuition of around 6k£ for degree she wont collect....

I sha know men do worst.

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by emmy512(m): 3:10pm On Dec 23, 2024

HenryWilliams:
After two years of non cohabitation..the man can file for divorce..if he can prove it and I'm sure he can .

what if she can prove she tried to cohabitate and he refused grin

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by advanceDNA: 3:25pm On Dec 23, 2024

Beuberry:
I sha know men do worst.

In what way?? ..i know u can't mention because .u just want to blame men which brings us back to earlier point....u gender doesn't like being accountable or responsible....u just blame the men and expect the men to take the hit

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by delishpot: 3:29pm On Dec 23, 2024

But why did she agree to the deal? She contributed to the processing, visa, tp and also his school fees. Why would he expect her to pay all his school fees again? That was greedy of him. They both were using each other and it's catching up with them. She agreed with his terms knowing that when she gets there she will do her own will.
He took vengeance blindly. If it were me I'll ask for half the school fees plus the 2k she was offering since they are just using each other.

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by wallarwallar(m): 3:33pm On Dec 23, 2024

correctyourself:
The guy did not do well because at a point the lady wants them to be together and the guy refused! I think rhe story is more than what you wrote here.

The guy was not mature in handling this issue because students in UK also work while schooling the authority encouraged them to do so, lazy guy waiting for the Lady to pay all that money, contract can be amended base on situations. Black man's mentality of entitlement

We need to hear the Lady's side of the story!

Omo no be everybody get sense and some get but they are senseless

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Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by advanceDNA: 3:36pm On Dec 23, 2024

folks4luv:
The agreement was very silly to begin with, guess that's what desperation will do to people.
Apart from an opportunity to leave Nigeria, she was expected to help offset over 18k school fees while sustaining herself and building her future, all for a man that was neither related nor married to her? Likeeee, that's so silly. I'd still condemn her breach of contract but that guy was also a user.

She was the one using him because right from the start the risk was more higher on the guy...she had more leverage from the start and that's why She took the deal in the first place because she never had intension of paying any half tuition , and has a higher chance of getting a sponsorship job than the guy who works only 20hrs per week.
... She just didn't get her hustle right and now resulted to cheap juju....

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by advanceDNA: 3:37pm On Dec 23, 2024

wallarwallar:
Omo no be everybody get sense and some get but they are senseless

Lol

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by DuttyChuks: 3:45pm On Dec 23, 2024

How can you do the right thing and still be asking us if you had done the right thing. The evil she did backfired! Nothing to be afraid of. The gods of the land won't do anything about this instead they will punish the said stúpïd girl. Move on bro! We're about sending our cousin to school in uk too. My cousin is with HND in Accountancy and we are planning to send him to UK to further his studies; but he is saying "he wants to switch to another course of study. " My dear people; which course will you suggest for him. He did Art according to his waec result. Thanks

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Sucre6: 3:46pm On Dec 23, 2024

[quote author=Oldhead post=133412654][/quote]I dey tell u

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Ipobfraud: 3:47pm On Dec 23, 2024

In the first instance, na mumu man they marry for court. Who tell you he needs to marry for court to marry again. Nothing about marriage benefit man in the first place, then you still go again go marry for court, people get mind sha.

emmy512:
When that guy arrives Nigeria, he will understand the mistake he made by marrying her legally.

Right now she is his wide , and she can do and undo him when he comes to Nigeria.

How does he want to marry again in court when this one has not been dissolved.

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Beuberry(f): 3:50pm On Dec 23, 2024

advanceDNA:
In what way?? ..i know u can't mention because .u just want to blame men which brings us back to earlier point....u gender doesn't like being accountable or responsible....u just blame the men and expect the men to take the hit

Ahhh. Men run most affairs so what else can I say?
Na una dey do bad pass for relationship matters.

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Oluwaseunomo: 3:55pm On Dec 23, 2024

emmy512:
Yes it is untill she wants to frustrate him in court

Which useless nigerian court make i hear word jare

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by advanceDNA: 4:03pm On Dec 23, 2024

Beuberry:
Ahhh. Men run most affairs so what else can I say?
Na una dey do bad pass for relationship matters.

So now u have shifted goalpost to relationship matters..??.

Na men they chop money and run after training ur gender in school....
Na men dey commit paternity fraud??
Na men dey demand for phone, wig, money, in relationships..??

Ok..tell me how men re bad in relationship matters??

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by djon78(m): 4:03pm On Dec 23, 2024

KingintheNorth:
There's nothing to back it up. The whole process was legit. It was just a verbal agreement.

I think the agreement was rigged against the girl
She wasn't smart

The girl would have agreed
That after the guy graduates
She will go her own school under the guys Visa

Instead she went started catching feeling
She wasn't smart

When entering into any kind of agreement/contract
One must check out the best option

Because the guy needed her to get the Visa But she didn't think her part of the the whole agreement through
She should learn her lesson

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Usonkwu: 4:13pm On Dec 23, 2024

Op wanted the girl to co-sponsor the guy's education while not relatives? Na wa o. I guess the guy is Yoruba. See, I like Yoruba guys humility, but sometimes they act like without character.
I'm not exonerating the girl, but maybe, she entered the deal, thinking there might still be future for both, despite verbal agreement. There's a legal document stating so!

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Ipobfraud: 4:14pm On Dec 23, 2024

The guy doesn’t need her to get visa, you don’t need to be married to get masters/ pg visa. The guy have gotten the admission already, tagging the lady along as beneficiary will make the guy pay half the remaining tuition fee and lady pay half. The guy benefited by only have to pay half of tuition fee, the lady benefited by getting to uk without the huddle of admission and able to work 40hrs and even overtime with higher chance of getting sponsor even before the guy finish is pg study.

NEVER ENTER A DEAL WITH A WOMAN, NO BODY CUT DEAL WITH DEVIL AND WIN, DEVIL ALWAYS WIN.

djon78:
I think the agreement was rigged against the girl
She wasn't smart

The girl would have agreed
That after the guy graduates
She will go her own school under the guys Visa

Instead she went started catching feeling
She wasn't smart

When entering into any kind of agreement/contract
One must check out the best option

Because the guy needed her to get the Visa But she didn't think her part of the the whole agreement through
She should learn her lesson

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Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by djon78(m): 4:31pm On Dec 23, 2024

Ipobfraud:
The guy doesn’t need her to get visa, you don’t need to be married to get masters/ pg visa. The guy have gotten the admission already, tagging the lady along as beneficiary will make the guy pay half the remaining tuition fee and lady pay half. The guy benefited by only have to pay half of tuition fee, the lady benefited by getting to uk without the huddle of admission and able to work 40hrs and even overtime with higher chance of getting sponsor even before the guy finish is pg study.

NEVER ENTER A DEAL WITH A WOMAN, NO BODY CUT DEAL WITH DEVIL AND WIN, DEVIL ALWAYS WIN.

Anyway she renaged on the agreement they had
Because if she had surported the guy to complete his academic work, she would have seen the best way/option on how to remain or improve her UK Visa status

So all the blame goes to her
She ran away when the battle was very intense
She shouldn't blame anyone
But rather learn her life's lessons

Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by TossTos(m): 4:36pm On Dec 23, 2024

E don happen already ..

You see ,in my perspective, she tried and at the other hand she fumbled .. for the lady to accept such , you said it that , she has feelings for you .. she acted accordingly because of the feeling, when you guys got there , she paid £2k base on the feeling that in no time you will accept her , you ignored her too , she got angry and forgot about you .. thinking she will never have anything to do with you again and all that . You also blocked her , this show her the more that you don't even care about her . But she had forgotten she might need your help in the very near future.. And I like the fact that you man-up and acted independently, I respect you .. but you may have shown a true leadership style of doings to her . You know , this will make her regret her action the more , you will have a say over her. And I am very sure she will never do such to you again and to anyone .. now you make her have some feelings that she acted right by doing all she did because you don't show her love ( she'll claim )..

Everything rises and falls on leadership

I don't know why you don't have a back up plan already , what if she fumbled.but anyways you've scaled through that ..

We even have some ladies that will not pay anything, but stay on your neck to still fend for them there and you will not have option than to do it with their tricks and cunning ways ..

She's sees what you did as a revenge and she also want to revenge..
That's why some say it is not good to pay evil with evil ..

Be prayerful ( if it requires you to fast , do ), move on , you may even call your people at home ( like your mom to pray a protection prayer for you )

My little path and how me go react to it ..

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