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There is nothing related with being indoors, introverted with stepping out!

Sirchiboy:
Being an introvert and staying indoors for years before realizing that I need to step out if I want to make it and succeed

Can you tell me how i can get my novels published?

richiemcgold:
Printing press and educational publishing

Matheusmartin:
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Most Nigerians are not even comfortable.

You are very right, I lived in the UK I just didn't want to be comfortable I wanted to live life and provide for my family to the fullest.

Nigeria might seem bad but maybe because of my experience I was able to penetrate. Although the suffering the people in niaja goes through breaks my heart. My reason for serving was to protect and defend the defenseless, so my mind and soul took this literally. So when I can't do anything for people situations it affects me, but over time I have had to grow a strong mindset been in Nigeria.

Sirchiboy:
Being an introvert and staying indoors for years before realizing that I need to step out if I want to make it and succeed

The problem with most of you is you imagine that introversion is like a situation where you are presented with two choices and you pick one. In case you don't know, what you call introversion may very well be social anxiety, which is an actual mental illness. People choose to isolate as a way of coping with the overwhelming feelings that come from past trauma. I don't know about you sir but I will never regret staying indoor because I didn't know a better way to manage my PTSD at the time. And by the way, regret is a waste of time and energy.

Factcheck0001:
as a married man I will advice u to marry d one that love u not d other way round n u will enjoy it

I am beginning to feel your pain, these days I go do u something

U are an og but I wish u could turn down on faking things n get more serious

These days you go do me something? I no det you oo

Walexz02:
Count your blessings bro... It's better for you

It is not better for me...the one I bought and left in my wallet with 5k since 2015 is more than #1.2million naira.

Factcheck0001:
Sonofgod1990 go n marry your baby mama n stop being irresponsible

If l call you goat now
You go dey vex
Your brain no dey for decoration, dey use am reason atimes, no jump enter matter wey you no understand.

Maitunbi:
The problem with most of you is you imagine that introversion is like a situation where you have two choices and you pick one. In case you don't know, what you call introversion may very well be social anxiety, which is an actual mental illness. People choose to isolate as a way of coping with the overwhelming feelings that come from past trauma. I don't know about you sir but I will never regret staying indoor because I didn't know better at the time.

So have mental problems

Elzazzi:
Many that are playing sportybet today are still regretting it.

Those that are regretting it no Sabi run am. They will like to chop 30 million with 200#. Reason am . Before I spend reach 200k on 3 tickets I go don make not less Dan 500k. We dey run am with sense

Love800:
Can you tell me how i can get my novels published?

You can mail me. I'll give you a comprehensive detail.

Omalicious1:
I had fake friends around me, but with one litmus test, I was able to send them all away

kindly expatiate on this,

Going to university. I should have learned hand work or venture in to trade after secondary school.

Elzazzi:
That's why it is said that any man who can control his third leg will go far in life.

Third leg and alcohol. Aswear

sslcrypt:
Lots of confessions, well the only opportunity I had to travel to the UK I used it collect passport via serving in the British army.

So young folks schooling in the UK you can give it shot, I don't know if it's still on tho. Nigeria is a common wealth country and your visa enabled you meet other requirements.

Especially those studying engineering or in the medical field, it's an avenue to get the UK residence. I got mine years ago, so I can go and come niaja as I want. Currently in Nigeria tho because running business here is lot easier.

Thanks for sharing! Pls what kind of passport did you collect?

Sirchiboy:
Na money I need to have

Me i be introvert myself.... But I de try move things on my own small small. Abeg na bird when fly solo de las las get the strongest wings. You de few years older than me but i get kid for university and the last na secondary. Just two sha.......
I nor get money too, i nor even get car sef... So if you say na money be your problem then you never really understand this life... Kick start and then de drive am small small normally e go break down few times but time nor go pause, E go start again too. Nor let them use money pressure you because most of your mates too when marry very young with money don still divorce and kids scatter

Sirchiboy:
So have mental problems

No. I have dealt with it.

jayce232:
How true is this?
I have seen a lot of men saying things started going bad for them after sleeping with some lady.

Sleeping with a used woman can make things sour for a that was doing well.

I’m not 30 yet , but my regrets are
1. Using my first millions to build house
2. Not investing in crypto early
3. Not going into this my business early

gigabyte13:
If l call you goat now
You go dey vex
Your brain no dey for decoration, dey use am reason atimes, no jump enter matter wey you no understand.

Watin concern you with watin him talk😳

FAT17:
My regret is not getting married when I had the opportunity though I was very young then I tot marriage will stop me from enjoying and exploring life.... this guy really loved me and spoilt me with a lot of gift and money and he never disturbed me for sex in fact have always been the one demanding for sex when I need it.....we even did introduction b4 I scattered everything which made him travelled out am still in pain ooooo because all the guys have been meeting are for sex and money no real love talk less of marriage.

Is that you @dp

Cybersecurity is not useful?

Sirchiboy:
Learn cyber security but not making money.
Spend 300k to learn it in ph.
Not useful in Nigeria

Kavod:
Me i be introvert myself.... But I de try move things on my own small small. Abeg na bird when fly solo de las las get the strongest wings. You de few years older than me but i get kid for university and the last na secondary. Just two sha.......
I nor get money too, i nor even get car sef... So if you say na money be your problem then you never really understand this life... Kick start and then de drive am small small normally e go break down few times but time nor go pause, E go start again too. Nor let them use money pressure you because most of your mates too when marry very young with money don still divorce and kids scatter

You married early.
How old are you

Maitunbi:
The problem with most of you is you imagine that introversion is like a situation where you are presented with two choices and you pick one. In case you don't know, what you call introversion may very well be social anxiety, which is an actual mental illness. People choose to isolate as a way of coping with the overwhelming feelings that come from past trauma. I don't know about you sir but I will never regret staying indoor because I didn't know a better way to manage my PTSD at the time. And by the way, regret is a waste of time and energy.

I can relate with what you just said. I have social anxiety due to past bullying experiences.

Elzazzi:
Is that you @dp

Lol.
You don see big and fresh oranges..
Those oranges are for big men

Risingblue008:
To me
Let me truthful,
I regret goin to university,studied economics with 2nd class lower.EKOPMA,graduated 2009,
Brothers
I for now whr i for dey by now.
School na scam
We have millions of graduates sunce 2003 and yet no work
I thank God for bet9ja oo

Ahh boss man, sorry to say, you go school but you no learn, like how do you study economics and you be thanking God for betnaija

Sirchiboy:
You married early.
How old are you

late 30s.... I nor marry, i just found it wise to impregnate few of my early babes.

Masturbation might ruin you

seanwilliam:
I’m not 30 yet , but my regrets are
1. Using my first millions to build house
2. Not investing in crypto early
3. Not going into this my business early

Which business gave you that profit to build your first house chief

Is marriage and burial banners included in this printing stuff?

richiemcgold:
Printing is a big money making investment bro and it is always on demand. Just take a look around you at wherever you are. I'm sure you can see papers everywhere. And probably things are printed on them, aren't they? Even the biscuits sachets have something printed on them. Campaign posters of politicians and polical parties alone can get you a multimillion naira contract.

I used to say I don't have regrets, but when I remembered how gullible Nigerians can be I regret not investing in religion and politics

I regret nothing. All my mistakes were lessons.

My only regret is not networking and making friends with my coursemates due to social anxiety and fear of being embarrassed. This was caused by my passed bullying experiences.