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Pojomojo:
Never stay too long in any unrewarding organization.

Obakoolex:
I realized this fact late:

At 20s.... What will people say

At 30s..... I won't let what people say bother me much

Now at 40.... I realized it's all in my head, people are not saying anything because whatever they said about you yesterday, they have forgotten about it today and start saying another thing. So whatever they say is very inconsequential and should never let you loose your focus!

Karleb:
Is house the only asset one can get?

I am not against getting a house but don't get it with all your savings while you are still young.

If after buying a house you won't have at least half of the house worth in savings, don't touch it.

Leave that to old people.

You can do what works for you sha. It's a free world.

Sirchiboy:
Na money I need to have

Pojomojo:
How?

wiseone28:
My only regret is i don't have regrets

Yungmil:
Am 36 no wife no kids too


But am scared and worried most of my mate are married. I feel I can't keep a pretty and high class woman at home. But that's the kind of lady I think I need.

Mistral:
Should I wish you regrets so you could have one?

FaAbData:
We are same age, same situation and with same fear. U bee my twins 😁

sslcrypt:
Lots of confessions, well the only opportunity I had to travel to the UK I used it collect passport via serving in the British army.

So young folks schooling in the UK you can give it shot, I don't know if it's still on tho. Nigeria is a common wealth country and your visa enabled you meet other requirements.

Especially those studying engineering or in the medical field, it's an avenue to get the UK residence. I got mine years ago, so I can go and come niaja as I want. Currently in Nigeria tho because running business here is lot easier.

Mathew2307:
Are you still serving in the British Army?
How are you able to stay in Nigeria for long without being required to be on duty?

uuzba:
The feeling of being 40.
You can't run fast again.
In your mind, you're still thinking you are Ronaldo or Usain Bolt. But in real life,
You can't run. Even if you try it,
back pain, waist pain will follow, Daily.
Even without doing anything, body pains

olamilekan9:
about this please explain more cuz i love been indoors all my life and i have made mostly 100% of my money being indoors, as a matter of fact i make money indoors and go out to spend it with ungrateful people outside

virginboy1:
1. Buying my virgin girlfriend BS of waiting for her till our wedding night, last last another sharp guy popped the cherry...She still blamed me instead... .. (women and accountability ehnnn)
2. Playing Virtual bets... omo ... I see shege promax.
3. Trusting pastor... , now if you tell me say you be pastor... na extra extra eyes i go use dey look you.
4. Selling my 2 plots of land...

FaAbData:
We are same age, same situation and with same fear. U bee my twins 😁

fitinwell:
Introvert doesn't stop progress..,.

It's just that certain things in this life are beyond human control...

Even if you like be an extrovert...

Doesn't stop you from being stagnant and confused.

Most especially if you are born in Africa.

You loose aalot of opportunities.

marcyme:
Returning to Nigeria from South Africa where I was making the right connections and after I moved I lost them. One contact I made who lived in the same apartment complex in Pretoria West then is now a a key political figure and chairman in Osun State very close to the governor but I have no access to him anymore as I lost contact. Seeing him on the internet and tv breaks my heart cos he liked me so much for being a very quiet and ambitious young fellow.

Exchanging my Bitcoin for naira to buy a house which I later sold for a business that didn't pan out. My Bitcoin worth would have been around 135million today at current market price.

Cutting off good ladies who really loved me and settling for an ibo demon in a relationship for 8 years and simping wasting time and resources, I am unmarried now because I do not trust ladies anymore except for a chick from a wealthy home who I am wondering what she sees in me cos she doesn't care about my current financial status

Cutting of acquaintances because I was expecting perfection from people forgetting the world and everything in it stands on "balance" and not judgement.

Being an introvert and not going out very often anymore as I lost a lot of good people who really liked me but because I was egoistic and thinking because I had the favour of God I would not need people anymore forgetting God and the devil works through people and I must learn to live and tolerate humans.

Being too churchy and allowing religious teachings to cloud my judgement instead of reading the Bible and knowing God for myself but later realising that the most cruel humans can also be found in church male and female.

Fucking a bad luck pvssy. Money just dry for person hand until I cut her off

I am still an introvert due to the many mistakes and bad decisions I took but I have now decided to put myself out there but don't know how to start anymore as all my friends are either out of the country or married or dead...

HenryThegreat1:
During my undergraduate days, focusing more on reading and reading stead of thinking how to make money as well.

motionarena:
Going to school in naija to waste time and money

Parents please do not allow your children pursue a career in Nigeria. There is no professional career now in Nigeria that will guarantee you financial freedom. You will just suffer and pay bills.

Sad thing it was never always like this APC is a real curse to humanity

Send dem to study abroad or push dem towards a business oriented line

YoungestPapa:
I can be you friend. We can find our bearing together.

seanwilliam:
I’m not 30 yet , but my regrets are
1. Using my first millions to build house
2. Not investing in crypto early
3. Not going into this my business early

johnog4sure:
I used to say I don't have regrets, but when I remembered how gullible Nigerians can be I regret not investing in religion and politics

Light777:
Mike Adenuga owner of GLo is an introvert..

Femi Otedola the known billionaire is an introvert..

You can be an introvert and still be smart to identify meaningful relationships that will help you without necessarily being the going out type.

mcdokwe:
Having a Child with someone I couldn't build a life with.

When I think about it, it hurts that no matter how it goes, my daughter may never know what it means to have two loving biological parents doting on her without making it look like a competition.

Omalicious1:
I requested for a 2 month off from my place of work, then told my "friends" that I've been laid off and that I've lost all my life's saving in a ponzi scheme. Gradually they started avoiding me, including my baby. I was looked down upon and treated like trash. It was there I knew that I had the wrong people around me, I just had to cut them off and focus on myself.

Xenry:
I think you should be real first before faking your downfall.

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LOYALTY TESTING, SIMULATE YOUR DOWNFALL:
“Simulate your downfall to see who folds and sells you out. Loyalty is gauged in the face of failure, not success.” -IM
It is often possible to simulate your downfall; make it look like everything is falling apart, when in reality everything is perfectly fine. Do this, see who stays loyal, and who abandons you.
The appearance of catastrophe has to last for at least a few months. With most of the mercenaries surrounding you, it is unlikely that they will abandon you the day after your downfall comes; for most it will take at least a few weeks.
If a person stays loyal even after 3 months of you appearing to have been destroyed, you can safely assume their loyalty is real.
This may sound like a drastic and unnecessary exercise in deception in return for nothing. In reality, it is a deception that serves a critical purpose; finding out who the real loyalists are.
You cannot build an empire on the backs of mercenaries. History is filled with kings who were destroyed by their closest allies abandoning or outright backstabbing them.
Betrayal from your allies is far more dangerous than any attack from an enemy. In the case of backstabbing, the closer someone is to you the easier it will be for them to destroy you since they are more familiar with your vulnerabilities than anyone else. In the case of abandonment, the closer someone is to you the more you depend on them, and so it is all the more damage that their disappearance will cause.
There is one limiting factor; the downfall you simulate must be easily reversible, so that you can make everything appear normal (good) after you are done with the simulation.
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