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Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by NairaLTQ: 9:11pm On Dec 28, 2024
GistMedia0:
Nigerian businesswoman Oluwatofarati has stirred up conversations online with her strong opinion on DNA tests after childbirth. In a recent statement, she made it clear that if she found out her husband had secretly conducted a DNA test on their newborn, she would not hesitate to take drastic action.

“If I find out my husband had a DNA test done after I just pushed a baby out, immediately I leave the hospital, I’m leaving with my child and serving divorce papers,” Oluwatofarati boldly stated. Her remarks highlight the deep sense of betrayal and lack of trust she would feel in such a situation. shocked

The businesswoman's comments have sparked a heated debate online, with many supporting her view that trust should be paramount in marriage, while others question whether DNA tests are justified in today’s world.
If you married him as a virgin, no problem you can go ahead...but if you were not a virgin, madam explain why you should be trusted?
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by BondRiv: 9:12pm On Dec 28, 2024
Leave! A man has every right to get a DNA test.

Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Usmanovic95(m): 9:12pm On Dec 28, 2024
No wahala, you go change husband tire.You cant guilt trip a man in this generation not to conduct DNA test if he has the money to do that.
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Mathewrichard99: 9:13pm On Dec 28, 2024
You are damn so funny. Even your dogs wouldn't escape DNA test under your roof... 😂 😂


Better to do the test very early than to sorrow later in life for a long time....

I think she should be grateful that the man is doing that very early, at least if cargo no be the guy's own, she go quickly run after the other dud wey penetrate within that period also.


Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Normal native hen mentality..

For a man to have the balls to splash thousands of naira on DNA test alone should be an enough reason to show to the cockerel that the husband has got value for his future peace of mind......

Even my dogs and their puppies will never escape from DNA test so long they're under my roof undecided

DNA test is way cheaper than naming ceremony and ignorantly and foolishly training another man's child for free of charge..So it's left for a reasonable man to decide on which one to go for undecided...

So therefore make she get out and get lost too undecided
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Sleekfingers: 9:14pm On Dec 28, 2024
🤣😆😆😆

Is like this one is smoking some shit....

Nigeria is the headquarter of paternity fraud. No sensible Nigerian men won't do DNA for their kids . Especially if their wives are Nigerian. .
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Bahamas95(m): 9:14pm On Dec 28, 2024
Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.
It's just a question of time, truth will surely prevail someday.


Stop supporting nonsense, we got the right to conduct DNA test on our child(ren) if we're having doubts.
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Sleekfingers:
EmperorCaesar:
cheesy

I understand where is coming from and sincerely, wheres the point of the whole union if theres not trust and confidence in your partner?

If i were a lady, I would sure leave too but as per say I be man, I dont have time for this chicken reasoning and yes, I would stand by the husband and its definitely her loss


A man's world, they say
Paternity fraud is prevalent in Nigeria. So trust is something any man shouldn't bank on.
She may feel bad about it. But it is not my business. That's her problem.
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by APOPTOSIS: 9:18pm On Dec 28, 2024
So many married men are praying for their wives to divorce them.
Seems she doesn't know the statistics yet.
An offer many wealthy productive men will gladly accept.
Only unproductive men weep at the departure of their wives.
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Oturatetuala(m): 9:19pm On Dec 28, 2024
See weerey
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Samantha125(f): 9:20pm On Dec 28, 2024
I have no issues with you conducting the DNA,, just do it in private, in case the child is yours.
Bahamas95:
It's just a question of time, truth will surely prevail someday.


Stop supporting nonsense, we got the right to conduct DNA test on our child(ren) if we're having doubts.
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by ukaface(f): 9:21pm On Dec 28, 2024
beyep:
If i did dna testing she finds out and want a divorce i will gladly give her d divorce, used species think they are special, stupid empty leeches with only child bearing to offer
If you have this mentality about females, then you shouldn’t have any relationship with her talk more of getting the used specie pregnant.

Just wondering
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by gabbytabby: 9:21pm On Dec 28, 2024
Personally I would not have a problem with it only say he needs to provide an annual physical to confirm him no get any STI cos people measure others by their own standards.
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Samantha125(f): 9:22pm On Dec 28, 2024
Just do the DNA in private...🤦🤦🤦
lagabush:
They whine urself. So na only her fit born pikin. It's her loss, if she comot he no fit born another pikin in 9 months time. Na she lose her home, maybe her husband self get money, lose dat privilege.
I go do am 200% time. She will not even know cus if it positive dere is no reason taken the paper out, destroy it and go enjoy but if negative just drop am for her bed and go home. No stress
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Magnetic010: 9:23pm On Dec 28, 2024
Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.
I want to play the devil's advocate here- If she chooses to take the child and raise by herself hasn't she done the man a huge favor by relieving him of the financial burden? what is stopping the man from getting another woman pregnant to give him another child?...And don't get me started about the child hating the father there are many kids who wetr raised by their fathers who still ended up hating their fathers....Unless you are in western wrold where divorce favours woman so much threatening a nigerian man with divorce in nigeria is just silly
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Nigerianization(m): 9:23pm On Dec 28, 2024
Samantha125:
If you take the child after 6 years, will you look after him or her yourself? Or you'll only toss him or her amongst your family members?
Good question......

Please note that most women also toss those children to their family members. The case we just finished with, baba owns his own house and pays 500k monthly as child support. Babe wanted an increment to 1m citing Tinubu's economy as excuse. Oga refused and she denied him access to the child, sending the child to Lagos to stay with the mum that lives in a public yard. The child is currently in the UK.

So women too toss children amongst family members.

But as for me, if my child is with me at six, I'll raise him myself. If the child is female, I have capable family members that can do the job for me.
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by mymadam(m): 9:24pm On Dec 28, 2024
beyep:
u watch too much Nollywood movies
💯
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Nigerianization(m): 9:25pm On Dec 28, 2024
Samantha125:
Being a billionaire wouldn't change anything because money alone won't make people love you.

The child will only hate you even more for not fighting to be in his or her life since you'd have had the money and resources to do so.
That's Telemundo. Real life is different. Tell me, what would a child's love do for a man like Ned Nwoko?
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Zonefree(m): 9:27pm On Dec 28, 2024
brain54:
Lol...

Some of them that talk tough like this are actually sisi's in real life and would cry and beg to get attention and affection from women.

The mouth they make is only on the internet.

I wonder why some of them seem so angry at the mention of things like this.

Some of the angry ones are already above... More coming!
Your mumu is legendary!
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by bixton(m): 9:27pm On Dec 28, 2024
GistMedia0:
Nigerian businesswoman Oluwatofarati has stirred up conversations online with her strong opinion on DNA tests after childbirth. In a recent statement, she made it clear that if she found out her husband had secretly conducted a DNA test on their newborn, she would not hesitate to take drastic action.

“If I find out my husband had a DNA test done after I just pushed a baby out,
immediately I leave the hospital, I’m leaving with my child and serving divorce papers,”
Oluwatofarati boldly stated. Her remarks highlight the deep sense of betrayal and lack of trust she would feel in such a situation. shocked

The businesswoman's comments have sparked a heated debate online, with many supporting her view that trust should be paramount in marriage, while others question whether DNA tests are justified in today’s world.
If any woman would think like this why then will any man want to marry any woman in the court registry!!!!!huh?
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by koyeni(m): 9:28pm On Dec 28, 2024
Women overate themselves sha
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by brain54(m): 9:29pm On Dec 28, 2024
Zonefree:
Your mumu is legendary!
I don know say you go come...

Na here they go see you.

Otondo!
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by casualobserver:
Like I said in a previous test, do your test secretly and don’t use your real name. Destroy all evidence, you are doing the test for yourself not for the world or the woman. If it confirms the child is yours, nobody needs to ever know. But as a man you must do test.

No woman will ever forgive you if she knows you did a test and the child turns out to be yours and I won’t blame her. From the day she finds out never sleep with both eyes closed again and be very afraid once those children are grown and educated and hence you are no longer needed.
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Samantha125(f): 9:31pm On Dec 28, 2024
It will bring him peace of mind... Money alone will never buy you happiness if you don't have any inner peace.

That's why some millionaires and billionaires still suffer from depression despite having a lot of money.
Nigerianization:
That's Telemundo. Real life is different. Tell me, what would a child's love do for a man like Ned Nwoko?
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Solseal007: 9:33pm On Dec 28, 2024
That is why it is called rant !
She has no idea the label she just gave herself!

How would a man ever approach again a woman who fights against DNA testing!!!

Use ur sense naa madam
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by jeromestarks: 9:33pm On Dec 28, 2024
Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.
So how does that stop him from living a fulfilled life? Any woman that left her husband is bound to suffer and nothing will happen to the man.
Out of 8 billion people on the surface of the earth, one child decides to hate his "father"? 🤣
Do you know how many haters I have currently?
Aunty, gerrout jorrr
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Ziggy02: 9:36pm On Dec 28, 2024
I think what she's saying is men should generally trust their partners and going for DNA 🧬 is a bridge of trust..but then again generally many men wouldn't find out how they have spent their lives raising another man's child because they trust exactly the way she wanted and never gave DNA 🧬 a thought 🤔 from the onset...
Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Eboofa: 9:36pm On Dec 28, 2024
GistMedia0:
Nigerian businesswoman Oluwatofarati has stirred up conversations online with her strong opinion on DNA tests after childbirth. In a recent statement, she made it clear that if she found out her husband had secretly conducted a DNA test on their newborn, she would not hesitate to take drastic action.

“If I find out my husband had a DNA test done after I just pushed a baby out, immediately I leave the hospital, I’m leaving with my child and serving divorce papers,” Oluwatofarati boldly stated. Her remarks highlight the deep sense of betrayal and lack of trust she would feel in such a situation. shocked

The businesswoman's comments have sparked a heated debate online, with many supporting her view that trust should be paramount in marriage, while others question whether DNA tests are justified in today’s world.
Leaving with "your" baby! Nigeria is not America! Na papa get piking in Nigeria o!
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by sslcrypt: 9:38pm On Dec 28, 2024
Factcheck0001:
oga calm down now

E never reach like this

Who dey fight u like this cos I no understand, this one no too much

People dey Para ooo

grin grin grin grin
Hahahhah the insult too much from that guy 😂😂😂
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by godofuck231: 9:41pm On Dec 28, 2024
After confirmation you can get lost
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Layi4real(m): 9:41pm On Dec 28, 2024
Ur loss bcus immediately the child reach certain age I'll file to take over my child.
ill neva allow any woman to poison my children against me
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by Thewrath: 9:43pm On Dec 28, 2024
Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.
You better wake up..
1)DNA test is within his writes!
2)having full access to his child(if that baby turns out to be his) is still within his rights!.
3)she could be arrested for abduction if she tied to hinder the father from seeing his child,infact on a normal street level,she is risking her own life and that of her family,attempting to flee with someone’s child..this is Nigeria o
Re: I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants by ElliotP: 9:43pm On Dec 28, 2024
With the level of paternity fraud going, any man that wants to carry out a DNA test can go ahead, because those that trusted their wives still fell victim, so I urge any man who has doubts to do it, and even if you don't have doubts still do.
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