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Last year, just after we got married, my husband lost his job. It was a difficult time for us financially. He isn't the social media type. I was the one that encouraged him to open twitter, TikTok and Youtube because of their monetizable options.

He got more frequent using Twitter. Says he prefers how he doesn't need to show his face. He's quite good with words and not long after, started getting views and followers. After he got paid for the first time, he went ballistic. He was still looking for a job but it was around the time I gave birth to our first child. Honestly, him being around has been helpful.

Three months ago, I noticed he started retweeting Onlyfans girls in the reply section of his tweets. Mainly any of his tweets that get from 100K views. We had a serious fight when I told him to stop. He says he can't because they pay him to retweet their content on his viral tweets.

He has always been transparent with me with what he earns online. Last November, he earned over 2K dollars. The money is good but I don't feel comfortable knowing he is retweeting onlyfans girls. We a serious fight in early December and I had to call our Pastor to address the issue. He is a member of the choir. He stopped in December. he even changed the style of his content but they didn't get views like the contents he was posting before. He called me two days ago and told me he was going back to posting his regular stuff. I called the Pastor and he told the Pastor that the Assistant Pastor was a top official in one of the brewing companies but He still preached often. He mentioned another Deacon that owns a restaurant that doubles as a Night club.

Yes he makes good money from the platform he uses to get ads from these onlyfan girls but I asked him if it was okay if I was posting pictures of naked men on my social media. He said it's not his personal page. According to him, the only reason he liked Twitter from the jump was because he didn't have to show his face. He even encouraged me to open a new twitter account and start posting. so that we can both make money posting these adverts.

I have decided to leave him. I cannot be with a man that his comfortable posting such stuff. I have told him when he decides to stop, he knows where to find me.

Can't say I blame ya
Just make sure you have something that can replace him and the money he brings in

Sorry I don't understand what you mean by 'onlyfans girls'. What are the contents of his posts please? But it's not like he is seeing other women outside your marriage na! Calm down madam! Don't just give up on your marriage so easily na! He isn't maltreating you nor refusing to handle his responsibilities at home. You also said he assist you. I hope you don't go ahead and lose your husband based on flimsy reasons o. There is no perfect man anywhere but he is a good man from the looks of things.

Please, what is "Onlyfan Girls" about?

Guy, Reddit posts are too advanced for Nairaland. What should we do with this one? Posting, reposting and creating write-ups are his form of livelihood. It seems the woman preferred a life of penury.

oritameta:
Last year, just after we got married, my husband lost his job. It was a difficult time for us financially. He isn't the social media type. I was the one that encouraged him to open twitter, TikTok and Youtube because of their monetizable options.

He got more frequent using Twitter. Says he prefers how he doesn't need to show his face. He's quite good with words and not long after, started getting views and followers. After he got paid for the first time, he went ballistic. He was still looking for a job but it was around the time I gave birth to our first child. Honestly, him being around has been helpful.

Three months ago, I noticed he started retweeting Onlyfans girls in the reply section of his tweets. Mainly any of his tweets that get from 100K views. We had a serious fight when I told him to stop. He says he can't because they pay him to retweet their content on his viral tweets.

He has always been transparent with me with what he earns online. Last November, he earned over 2K dollars. The money is good but I don't feel comfortable knowing he is retweeting onlyfans girls. We a serious fight in early December and I had to call our Pastor to address the issue. He is a member of the choir. He stopped in December. he even changed the style of his content but they didn't get views like the contents he was posting before. He called me two days ago and told me he was going back to posting his regular stuff. I called the Pastor and he told the Pastor that the Assistant Pastor was a top official in one of the brewing companies but He still preached often. He mentioned another Deacon that owns a restaurant that doubles as a Night club.

Yes he makes good money from the platform he uses to get ads from these onlyfan girls but I asked him if it was okay if I was posting pictures of naked men on my social media. He said it's not his personal page. According to him, the only reason he liked Twitter from the jump was because he didn't have to show his face. He even encouraged me to open a new twitter account and start posting. so that we can both make money posting these adverts.

I have decided to leave him. I cannot be with a man that his comfortable posting such stuff. I have told him when he decides to stop, he knows where to find me.

immortalcrown:
Please, what is "Onlyfan Girls" about?

A site that promotes ponography. Sex workers use the site.

dahmie2013:
A site that promotes ponography. Sex workers use the site.

Hmmm! No wonder the man earned 2k Dollars.

But why is the woman complaining? Did she see him as a morally upright man before now? Or, is she complaining now because she is about to find herself at the receiving end of what she has been condoning?

This one no serious with im life. You are only jealous nothing more. It's not like he's sexing them or you caught him masturbating to their photos. A man will do all he can do fend for his family. As long as he's not the one nuditing or exposing himself then it means you are just selfish. Leave him all you want but he won't leave what he does for your selfish attitude.

Why are women soooooo stupid?!!!
A man lost his job, he didn't sit around mopping and sulking. He got engaged and through shear dent and determination, built himself up to a point where he makes good money in dollars. He puts food on the table for his family and a smile on their faces.

Now this senseless hanty that calls herself his wife is growing all righteous about how he earns his money. Mumu wey you be. Has your church ever refunded any ashawo her tithe? Civil servants that steal money has your church ever rejected their offerings?

Divorce that man let a better and more deserving woman take your place. I don't blame you. Na belleful dey worry you.

This is 2025. Stupidity is very expensive.

Nice story

You married a man without integrity. Lazy to boot.
I am sorry but you are both incompatible. Your core values are 2 parallel lines.

oritameta:
➜He has always been transparent with me with what he earns online. Last November, he earned over 2K dollars. The money is good but I don't feel comfortable knowing he is retweeting onlyfans girls. We a serious fight in early December and I had to call our Pastor to address the issue. He is a member of the choir. He stopped in December. he even changed the style of his content but they didn't get views like the contents he was posting before.
➜He called me two days ago and told me he was going back to posting his regular stuff. I called the Pastor and he told the Pastor that the Assistant Pastor was a top official in one of the brewing companies but He still preached often. He mentioned another Deacon that owns a restaurant that doubles as a Night club.
➜Yes he makes good money from the platform he uses to get ads from these onlyfan girls but I asked him if it was okay if I was posting pictures of naked men on my social media. He said it's not his personal page. According to him, the only reason he liked Twitter from the jump was because he didn't have to show his face. He even encouraged me to open a new twitter account and start posting. so that we can both make money posting these adverts. I have decided to leave him. I cannot be with a man that his comfortable posting such stuff. I have told him when he decides to stop, he knows where to find me.

1. Are the pictures he retweets those of underage girls or something?

2. Religion ehn! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

3. So, your reason for wanting to leave has more to do with the fact that your denominational leaning no longer fits in with his denominational leanings, right? Christianity boasts of over 45,000 different denominations with essentially no unity between people of the different denominations so clearly, I can see how you would believe it right to divorce him on this ground.

missjekyll:
You married a man without integrity. Lazy to boot. I am sorry but you are both incompatible. Your core values are 2 parallel lines.

Lazy ke? The man has established himself as a gigolo and now makes money according to his wife, yet you dey call am lazy.

dahmie2013:
➜A site that promotes ponography. Sex workers use the site.

Oh, I see! So, the wife is indeed irate that her husband has chosen to live as a gigolo!

Fake Story, dont fall for it.

oritameta:
Last year, just after we got married, my husband lost his job. It was a difficult time for us financially. He isn't the social media type. I was the one that encouraged him to open twitter, TikTok and Youtube because of their monetizable options.

He got more frequent using Twitter. Says he prefers how he doesn't need to show his face. He's quite good with words and not long after, started getting views and followers. After he got paid for the first time, he went ballistic. He was still looking for a job but it was around the time I gave birth to our first child. Honestly, him being around has been helpful.

Three months ago, I noticed he started retweeting Onlyfans girls in the reply section of his tweets. Mainly any of his tweets that get from 100K views. We had a serious fight when I told him to stop. He says he can't because they pay him to retweet their content on his viral tweets.

He has always been transparent with me with what he earns online. Last November, he earned over 2K dollars. The money is good but I don't feel comfortable knowing he is retweeting onlyfans girls. We a serious fight in early December and I had to call our Pastor to address the issue. He is a member of the choir. He stopped in December. he even changed the style of his content but they didn't get views like the contents he was posting before. He called me two days ago and told me he was going back to posting his regular stuff. I called the Pastor and he told the Pastor that the Assistant Pastor was a top official in one of the brewing companies but He still preached often. He mentioned another Deacon that owns a restaurant that doubles as a Night club.

Yes he makes good money from the platform he uses to get ads from these onlyfan girls but I asked him if it was okay if I was posting pictures of naked men on my social media. He said it's not his personal page. According to him, the only reason he liked Twitter from the jump was because he didn't have to show his face. He even encouraged me to open a new twitter account and start posting. so that we can both make money posting these adverts.

I have decided to leave him. I cannot be with a man that his comfortable posting such stuff. I have told him when he decides to stop, he knows where to find me.

Well just make sure you are taking the right decision

I didn't read where you caught him or where you saw that he sleeps with those women or ladies

Why not calm down and understand if he is open and faithful to you

You may leave the marriage and he will get worst and still get a woman that will support what you don't like that he is doing

We all just have to be patient pls

frozen70:
Well just make sure you are taking the right decision

I didn't read where you caught him or where you saw that he sleeps with those women or ladies

Why not calm down and understand if he is open and faithful to you

You may leave the marriage and he will get worst and still get a woman that will support what you don't like that he is doing

We all just have to be patient pls

You guys are hilarious, so a married man should keep reposting only fan pictures of women.

Nigerian moral code stops where money comes in, you guys are all money mongers.

All of you, shior.

tosinhtml:
➜You guys are hilarious, so a married man should keep reposting only fan pictures of women.
➜Nigerian moral code stops where money comes in, you guys are all money mongers. All of you, shior.

Why exactly is it against marriage to do such in order to earn money though?

2. What detail of the moral code says in marriage one absolutely cannot repost those pictures for money?

and I had to call our Pastor to address the issue.

Even pastors view and follow OnlyFans models. They just need to lead a double life to confuse you.

Foolish woman, but you ask him to open it,why are you angry

Please somebody should teach

You are simply overreacting.

Please somebody should teach me. How do i learn this style of hussle? To be retweeting Onlyfans page.

This aunty is joking, right? It's so interesting how your mind works

tosinhtml:
You guys are hilarious, so a married man should keep reposting only fan pictures of women.

Nigerian moral code stops where money comes in, you guys are all money mongers.

All of you, shior.

And you Americans are not money mongers, eh?
Shior to you too

Pentagon007:
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Kobojunkie:
Lazy ke? The man has established himself as a gigolo and now makes money according to his wife, yet you dey call am lazy.

Making money from what? Or it doesn't matter? Yuck

missjekyll:
✓ Making money from what? Or it doesn't matter? Yuck

So long as a crime is not being committed, should it matter? It comes down to personal preference although OP seems to want to make it religious even with her Pastors being against her doing so.