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We all know how painful breakup and divorce can be like, atleast i've experienced one before. During my own phase, i couldn't get myself for the first 3 days and afterwards depression set in because of the love i had for her. We were married for 5years. I couldn't believe she left me, i kept on checking my phone to see if she would call and when I was getting me all worked up, I decided to change my line despite the disadvantages it posed on me like loosing some business deals, some important connections etc. But to my mental health was more important. Changing my phone number really helped me to move on. I don't know how she later got my line and called me but I'd already moved on....

So what do you think about one changing his/her contact inorder to move on after a breakup/divorce?

No.

Changing your phone number is just like changing your clothes. Changing your clothes cannot keep your body clean if you have not bathed.

Trying to use changing of your phone number to solve the problem is like chasing the shadow. Whoever you want to avoid can get and call your new number. The same person you want to avoid can stop calling your old line and will even delete it on his or her phone. So, the solution lies in your attitude, not in whichever phone number you use.

immortalcrown:
No.

Changing your phone number is just like changing your clothes. Changing your clothes cannot keep your body clean if you have not bathed.

Trying to use changing of your phone number to solve the problem is like chasing the shadow. Whoever you want to avoid can get and call your new number. The same person you want to avoid can stop calling your old line and will even delete it on his or her phone. So, the solution lies in your attitude, not in whichever phone number you use.

100% well said

My number means more to me than any woman. Why will I change it? We break up, yes I get hurt but there's countless women around I can use to suppress the hurt.

When i had marital issues and my wife left home, it shook me yes. But in the three months of her absence, I slept with 23 women. These are not hookups for money. Once you realize that a woman will readily sleep with a man if it is discrete enough, you'd have no problem bedding them.

Once my wife realized that I didn't even send her and neighbors were informing her of my escapades, na she return herself. I still no send her.

Dogalmighty17:
My number means more to me than any woman. Why will I change it? We break up, yes I get hurt but there's countless women around I can use to suppress the hurt.

When i had marital issues and my wife left home, it shook me yes. But in the three months of her absence, I slept with 23 women. These are not hookups for money. Once you realize that a woman will readily sleep with a man if it is discrete enough, you'd have no problem bedding them.

Once my wife realized that I didn't even send her and neighbors were informing her of my escapades, na she return herself. I still no send her.

23 women and you are even proud of it. SMH

Rockzy1:
➜We all know how painful breakup and divorce can be like, atleast i've experienced one before. During my own phase, i couldn't get myself for the first 3 days and afterwards depression set in because of the love i had for her. We were married for 5years. I couldn't believe she left me, i kept on checking my phone to see if she would call and when I was getting me all worked up, I decided to change my line despite the disadvantages it posed on me like loosing some business deals, some important connections etc. But to my mental health was more important. Changing my phone number really helped me to move on. I don't know how she later got my line and called me but I'd already moved on....
So what do you think about one changing his/her contact inorder to move on after a breakup/divorce?

Have you been able to confirm that she is alive still? Have you confirmed with her friends and family that she is still alive and well?🤔

Have you formally divorced her? If she is alive and you are still legally married to her, changing your phone number will not change the legal facts here. 🤔