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Gabazin080

If u like listen to this and think like a man, uf u like be a pvssy and reason like a lily-livered man...na ur everla pro.blem be that.

Namaster:
Oh boy!

1. Married for 10 years.
2. Has 3 kids.
3. RECENTLY got a job with BETTER pay.
4. NEVER initiates sex.
5. RATIONS sex and it's down to just 4 times in 30 days.
6. CONSTANTLY complains of stress.
7. BLATANTLY tells you to get your sex elsewhere.

Dude, this woman NO LONGER finds you attractive if she ever did.

She has achieved her goal in marriage. She has 3 kids and has gotten a job with MORE money so she does not need yours anymore.

By the way, realise this:

NO man ever thinks his wife is even CAPABLE of cheating on him.

They'd SLAM their chest with confidence and proclaim it to the world. Meanwhile, the said wife is giving professional porrnstars a run for their money with ANOTHER man.

So NEVER discount the possibility that she's cheating on you.

BUT even if she's not, the fact remains that she is NOT attracted to you anymore.

Sex is an INCREDIBLE way to relieve stress.
A stressed woman who finds you attractive would be EAGER to jump your bones. Not refuse you.

Also, a wife who STILL loves her husband and finds him attractive would NEVER advise him to go out and fuccck OTHER women. Instead, she'd do better.

The fact that she was even the one who brought it up should be a HUGE warning siren inside your skull.

She could be INSTIGATING you to cheat because she ALREADY cheated and is attempting to assuage her guilt.

Someone suggested you do MORE chores with the hope of getting MORE sex.

That's RIDICULOUS!

It has NEVER worked. And it'll NOT work for you, either. In fact, it could AGGRAVATE the issue.

Women HATE it when men do "nice things" for them with the hope of getting sex.

They find it REPULSIVE. And close their legs, padlock their pussies and melt down the keys for good measure.

Doing more chores will NEVER get you more sex 'cause she'd counter with the argument that it's something you should have been doing anyway.

So, it'll NEVER work!

The fact is something FUNDAMENTAL has changed for your wife and she has REPLACED you.
Either with ANOTHER man or her new job.

You have 2 SIMPLE choices:

1. STAY in a sexless marriage.
2. DON'T stay in a sexless marriage.

It's up to you.

But before you make your decision, consider this:

Your wife no longer cares whom you stick your dick in, as long as it's NOT her.

9ise:
Yea..
It feels better to be the one making the decisions than being commanded around all in the name of submission..

They lose interest easily because they are not with the man of their dream to start with. A woman wouldn't lose interest in you because she's suddenly richer than you. There are instances of women sending their men to school and standing by them

Namaster:
Oh boy!

1. Married for 10 years.
2. Has 3 kids.
3. RECENTLY got a job with BETTER pay.
4. NEVER initiates sex.
5. RATIONS sex and it's down to just 4 times in 30 days.
6. CONSTANTLY complains of stress.
7. BLATANTLY tells you to get your sex elsewhere.

Dude, this woman NO LONGER finds you attractive if she ever did.

She has achieved her goal in marriage. She has 3 kids and has gotten a job with MORE money so she does not need yours anymore.

By the way, realise this:

NO man ever thinks his wife is even CAPABLE of cheating on him.

They'd SLAM their chest with confidence and proclaim it to the world. Meanwhile, the said wife is giving professional porrnstars a run for their money with ANOTHER man.

So NEVER discount the possibility that she's cheating on you.

BUT even if she's not, the fact remains that she is NOT attracted to you anymore.

Sex is an INCREDIBLE way to relieve stress.
A stressed woman who finds you attractive would be EAGER to jump your bones. Not refuse you.

Also, a wife who STILL loves her husband and finds him attractive would NEVER advise him to go out and fuccck OTHER women. Instead, she'd do better.

The fact that she was even the one who brought it up should be a HUGE warning siren inside your skull.

She could be INSTIGATING you to cheat because she ALREADY cheated and is attempting to assuage her guilt.

Someone suggested you do MORE chores with the hope of getting MORE sex.

That's RIDICULOUS!

It has NEVER worked. And it'll NOT work for you, either. In fact, it could AGGRAVATE the issue.

Women HATE it when men do "nice things" for them with the hope of getting sex.

They find it REPULSIVE. And close their legs, padlock their pussies and melt down the keys for good measure.

Doing more chores will NEVER get you more sex 'cause she'd counter with the argument that it's something you should have been doing anyway.

So, it'll NEVER work!

The fact is something FUNDAMENTAL has changed for your wife and she has REPLACED you.
Either with ANOTHER man or her new job.

You have 2 SIMPLE choices:

1. STAY in a sexless marriage.
2. DON'T stay in a sexless marriage.

It's up to you.

But before you make your decision, consider this:

Your wife no longer cares whom you stick your dick in, as long as it's NOT her.

‘A stressed woman who finds you attractive would be EAGER to jump your bones. Not refuse you’

I’ve read many many many many foolish things in my short life but this statement is king

I know the writer is not foolish but the statement is extremely foolish

This is why I rarely talk, when you talk too much you end up a fool

gabazin080:
I have been married for 10 years and we have 3 wonderful kids. She took a well paying but stressful job recently and her sex drive has reduced drastically. We now have sex like just 4 times in a month.

She doesn't ask and if i ask it is always excuse of fatigue.

She doesn't cheat, i am 100% sure of that.
She even told me she wont mind if i find another girl to satisfy my urge.

I am not the type that can cheat too.
So I am worried on what could cause this change. Someone told me it could be an infection

Just remember that most of the people that will advise you here are not married. Either they are young people still navigating dating scenes or they are over old unmarried because they have bigger relationship problems themselves.

My advise is not to jump to conclusions of what is the root of the issue. I want you to look deeper.

Apart of sex, has she stopped investing into the relationship or the family in any other ways? Has she stopped supporting the family financially? Has she stopped cooking for you? Has she stopped taking care of you differently compared to before?

Generally, what else has changed financially, emotionally, supports, communication etc.?

Though, family dynamics changes when a major change like this financial change of getting a new well paid and stressful job happens. Sometimes the changes are genuine and the relationship is still solid. While sometimes the changes has jeopardized the relationship.

kestolove95:
How can you b fvcking one woman for 10yrs? You people are really trying oo

Why is one Toto for 20 years a problem

J2ff:
➜When she says she's tired try to reach agreement with her to use her hand to jerk you off so you can release oga

She says she is tired but you reason that that doesn't equally mean her hands and mind are tired?

Well sha, the major achievement of the average black man remains linked to his craving for sex over everything else. Continued population growth even in the face of high poverty rates coupled high with mortality rates in Africa—children are about 16.5 times likely to die before age 5— is evidence of this. Make una continue!

Hmmmmmm....interesting

Obaaderemi2:
They lose interest easily because they are not with the man of their dream to start with. A woman wouldn't lose interest in you because she's suddenly richer than you. There are instances of women sending their men to school and standing by them

It was me that lost interest when I was tired of her bs. We both married as a virgin and now, I had to beg for sex?

I got myself a steady sidepiece that gives all the positions and still showers me with gifts. I never request for sex anymore.
Now, my wife begs for sex and I have turned down a lot with the excuse that I am either tired or busy. She woke men up around 2 am one night begging desperately for sex and I pretended to be sleepy, foggy, and confused.

BrotherJapa:
It was me that lost interest when I was tired of her bs. We both marriage as a virgin and now, I had to beg for sex?

I got myself a steady sidepiece that gives all the positions and still showers me with gifts. I never request for sex anymore.
Now, my wife begs for sex and I have turn down a lot with excuse that I am either tired or busy. She woke men up around 2am one night begging desperately for sex and I pretended to be foggy and confused.

Exactly what I was telling the other guy @ bolded. Your wife starts acting up, find another woman on standby to save yourself unnecessary anxiety.

Kobojunkie:
She says she is tired but you reason that that doesn't equally mean her hands and mind are tired?

Well sha, the major achievement of the average black man remains linked to his craving for sex over everything else. Continued population growth even in the face of high poverty rates coupled high with mortality rates in Africa—children are about 16.5 times likely to die before age 5— is evidence of this. Make una continue!

You don't understand. We're not talking about producing children . We're talking about sex. What happened to family planning? Couples can still have a lot of sex without producing kids from it. Families are even getting smaller in Africa too. And don't gaslight us with that common idea that black people only think about sex. People all over the world are all doing it maybe even more than black people. Martin Luther King jr was once caught on tape saying: "Fucking is an anxiety reductor."

Obaaderemi2:
➜You don't understand. We're not talking about producing children . We're talking about sex. ➜What happened to family planning? Couples can still have a lot of sex without producing kids from it.
➜Families are even getting smaller in Africa too.
➜And don't gaslight us with that common idea that black people only think about sex. People all over the world are all doing it maybe even more than black people. Martin Luther King jr was once caught on tape saying: "Fucking is an anxiety reductor."

No be sex dem they use produce children? Are you attempting to suggest here that Nigerians only have kids when they plan to have them? 🙄🙄🙄

2. Family planning in a country with over 5 million homeless children roaming the streets every night and with at least 20 million out-of-school children. How many couples in Nigeria have sex without producing children? 🙄🙄🙄

3. Recently, I watched a video of a man who had 33 children but 20 of them eventually died. Is that what you mean by families getting smaller in Africa? 🙄🙄🙄

4. But there is no gaslighting necessary since the data exists to show this to anyone with open eyes. 🙄🙄
https://lifeissues.org/world-population-status-by-country-map/

Kobojunkie:
No be sex dem they use produce children? Are you attempting to suggest here that Nigerians only have kids when they plan to have them? 🙄🙄🙄

2. Family planning in a country with over 5 million homeless children roaming the streets every night and with at least 20 million out-of-school children. How many couples in Nigeria have sex without producing children? 🙄🙄🙄

3. Recently, I watched a video of a man who had 33 children but 20 of them eventually died. Is that what you mean by families getting smaller in Africa? 🙄🙄🙄

4. But there is no gaslighting necessary since the data exists to show this to anyone with open eyes. 🙄🙄
https://lifeissues.org/world-population-status-by-country-map/

So did your own parents and family members produce children anyhow? because I know mine didn't

The birth rate for Nigeria in 2024 was 35.683 births per 1000 people, a 0.95% decline from 2023. The birth rate for Nigeria in 2023 was 36.026 births per 1000 people, a 1.14% decline from 2022. The birth rate for Nigeria in 2022 was 36.440 births per 1000 people, a 1.13% decline from 2021

You can see that people are actually having fewer children. Is there room for improvement? Sure, we seriously need to do more

Obaaderemi2:
➜So did your own parents and family members produce children anyhow? because I know mine didn't
➜You can see that people are actually having fewer children. Is there room for improvement? Sure, we seriously need to do more

1. Nigerians ehn!

2. You are quoting data conjured up by your government at me, right? This is data from a country that has refused to conduct a census since 2006 ooo, almost 20 years ago. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

My brother. Ur wife don run u street. Women love sex more Dan men. It helps them relax and ease mental emotional stress. No married woman will have sex only 4 times in a month with abeg even wen d husband is available and healthy... you know how u guys started, u can tell there is a drastic change. Even if she have infection my brother body no be fire wood.. Am sorry to say. But am 100% sure she is cheating with men better Dan u. On bed and financially too. She is just seeing u as 1 of her children now. No woman will tell u to get another woman to be sleeping with in her place. Even doz dat re cheating will neva give u dat option. For her to tell u dat. It simply means she is done with u. She will soon seek divorce. Or start giving u headache so u will let her go. If I may ask. How did she get d job? There is 98% chance she is cheating on u. If u will not take oda comments here seriously. Please take this 1 seriously. U have lost ur wife. She is cheating.. she is cheating she is cheating. She is gone already. Am sorry my brother. May God comfort you.

gabazin080:
I have been married for 10 years and we have 3 wonderful kids. She took a well paying but stressful job recently and her sex drive has reduced drastically. We now have sex like just 4 times in a month.

She doesn't ask and if i ask it is always excuse of fatigue.

She doesn't cheat, i am 100% sure of that.
She even told me she wont mind if i find another girl to satisfy my urge.

I am not the type that can cheat too.
So I am worried on what could cause this change. Someone told me it could be an infection

Age factor is not thing...some women libido reduces has they approach menopause. Is she close to 40

Maysdevices:
‘A stressed woman who finds you attractive would be EAGER to jump your bones. Not refuse you’

I’ve read many many many many foolish things in my short life but this statement is king

I know the writer is not foolish but the statement is extremely foolish

This is why I rarely talk, when you talk too much you end up a fool

It is not extremely foolish for a wife to deny the husband his legitimate rights to sexual congress?

Fiscus105:
I pity for people around you, if they dnt keep you at bay, you are a cancer to them.

In all your submissions, you didn't even have a second thought "if" ......it can be as a result of medical or psychological complications? Well online posts aren't meant for rational human beings alone, the agberos, touts, hopeless teenagers,the foolish, even satanic minded, are all there to give all sorts of rubbish and lunatic opinions/ advice.

In as much infidelity as you mentioned cannot be ruled out, the way you presented your submission, says a lot about your upbringing and mental capacity.


Below is one of rubbish that usually coming from your gutter mind as posts. I biliv you had checked the comments that was attracted to confirm my submission about your personality.
Bye.

💯

gabazin080:
I have been married for 10 years and we have 3 wonderful kids. She took a well paying but stressful job recently and her sex drive has reduced drastically. We now have sex like just 4 times in a month.

She doesn't ask and if i ask it is always excuse of fatigue.

She doesn't cheat, i am 100% sure of that.
She even told me she wont mind if i find another girl to satisfy my urge.

I am not the type that can cheat too.
So I am worried on what could cause this change. Someone told me it could be an infection

You don't have a job? After 10 years of marriage, you still having sex 4 times in a month. Your own sex-drive is high. Take it easy.

kestolove95:
How can you b fvcking one woman for 10yrs? You people are really trying oo

ah swear! And he's having it 4 times in a month. In fact, she'll notice it in me first that I'm not interested in sex anymore. Wtf?

Namaster:
Oh boy!

1. Married for 10 years.
2. Has 3 kids.
3. RECENTLY got a job with BETTER pay.
4. NEVER initiates sex.
5. RATIONS sex and it's down to just 4 times in 30 days.
6. CONSTANTLY complains of stress.
7. BLATANTLY tells you to get your sex elsewhere.

Dude, this woman NO LONGER finds you attractive if she ever did.

She has achieved her goal in marriage. She has 3 kids and has gotten a job with MORE money so she does not need yours anymore.

By the way, realise this:

NO man ever thinks his wife is even CAPABLE of cheating on him.

They'd SLAM their chest with confidence and proclaim it to the world. Meanwhile, the said wife is giving professional porrnstars a run for their money with ANOTHER man.

So NEVER discount the possibility that she's cheating on you.

BUT even if she's not, the fact remains that she is NOT attracted to you anymore.

Sex is an INCREDIBLE way to relieve stress.
A stressed woman who finds you attractive would be EAGER to jump your bones. Not refuse you.

Also, a wife who STILL loves her husband and finds him attractive would NEVER advise him to go out and fuccck OTHER women. Instead, she'd do better.

The fact that she was even the one who brought it up should be a HUGE warning siren inside your skull.

She could be INSTIGATING you to cheat because she ALREADY cheated and is attempting to assuage her guilt.

Someone suggested you do MORE chores with the hope of getting MORE sex.

That's RIDICULOUS!

It has NEVER worked. And it'll NOT work for you, either. In fact, it could AGGRAVATE the issue.

Women HATE it when men do "nice things" for them with the hope of getting sex.

They find it REPULSIVE. And close their legs, padlock their pussies and melt down the keys for good measure.

Doing more chores will NEVER get you more sex 'cause she'd counter with the argument that it's something you should have been doing anyway.

So, it'll NEVER work!

The fact is something FUNDAMENTAL has changed for your wife and she has REPLACED you.
Either with ANOTHER man or her new job.

You have 2 SIMPLE choices:

1. STAY in a sexless marriage.
2. DON'T stay in a sexless marriage.

It's up to you.

But before you make your decision, consider this:

Your wife no longer cares whom you stick your dick in, as long as it's NOT her.

Not really. I know of someone who took a stressful job and his sex drive and stamina nosedived after around a year.

gabazin080:
1. She doesn't cheat, i am 100% sure of that.

2. She even told me she wont mind if i find another girl to satisfy my urge.

Hehehe... What a finished man.

Namaster:
Oh boy!

1. Married for 10 years.
2. Has 3 kids.
3. RECENTLY got a job with BETTER pay.
4. NEVER initiates sex.
5. RATIONS sex and it's down to just 4 times in 30 days.
6. CONSTANTLY complains of stress.
7. BLATANTLY tells you to get your sex elsewhere.

Dude, this woman NO LONGER finds you attractive if she ever did.

She has achieved her goal in marriage. She has 3 kids and has gotten a job with MORE money so she does not need yours anymore.

By the way, realise this:

NO man ever thinks his wife is even CAPABLE of cheating on him.

They'd SLAM their chest with confidence and proclaim it to the world. Meanwhile, the said wife is giving professional porrnstars a run for their money with ANOTHER man.

So NEVER discount the possibility that she's cheating on you.

BUT even if she's not, the fact remains that she is NOT attracted to you anymore.

Sex is an INCREDIBLE way to relieve stress.
A stressed woman who finds you attractive would be EAGER to jump your bones. Not refuse you.

Also, a wife who STILL loves her husband and finds him attractive would NEVER advise him to go out and fuccck OTHER women. Instead, she'd do better.

The fact that she was even the one who brought it up should be a HUGE warning siren inside your skull.

She could be INSTIGATING you to cheat because she ALREADY cheated and is attempting to assuage her guilt.

Someone suggested you do MORE chores with the hope of getting MORE sex.

That's RIDICULOUS!

It has NEVER worked. And it'll NOT work for you, either. In fact, it could AGGRAVATE the issue.

Women HATE it when men do "nice things" for them with the hope of getting sex.

They find it REPULSIVE. And close their legs, padlock their pussies and melt down the keys for good measure.

Doing more chores will NEVER get you more sex 'cause she'd counter with the argument that it's something you should have been doing anyway.

So, it'll NEVER work!

The fact is something FUNDAMENTAL has changed for your wife and she has REPLACED you.
Either with ANOTHER man or her new job.

You have 2 SIMPLE choices:

1. STAY in a sexless marriage.
2. DON'T stay in a sexless marriage.

It's up to you.

But before you make your decision, consider this:

Your wife no longer cares whom you stick your dick in, as long as it's NOT her.

This your advise cold pass Moscow

But some men dey try o. 10 years and you still never tire for same pussy. Even my gf of 2 years I’m already tired of fucking her. Sometimes we Bleep once in a month she be the one complaining. Well some people are wired differently so what can i say

Kobojunkie:
1. Nigerians ehn!

2. You are quoting data conjured up by your government at me, right? This is data from a country that has refused to conduct a census since 2006 ooo, almost 20 years ago. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You always talk like someone without a brain. United Nations is now a Nigerian agency

Obaaderemi2:
They lose interest easily because they are not with the man of their dream to start with. A woman wouldn't lose interest in you because she's suddenly richer than you. There are instances of women sending their men to school and standing by them

Only a married man will understand those statements.. not BFs

Obaaderemi2:
Exactly what I was telling the other guy @ bolded. Your wife starts acting up, find another woman on standby to save yourself unnecessary anxiety.

These as gone beyond acting up, dont you get .. its one thing for women to complain nd lock up there legs But when your woman that encouraging you to cheat or look outside thats completely on another level

its not sumtin to call pasuma over and start dancing, esp. if he has thinking faculty

sumtin is Up

Obaaderemi2:
You don't understand. We're not talking about producing children . We're talking about sex. What happened to family planning? Couples can still have a lot of sex without producing kids from it. Families are even getting smaller in Africa too. And don't gaslight us with that common idea that black people only think about sex. People all over the world are all doing it maybe even more than black people. Martin Luther King jr was once caught on tape saying: "Fucking is an anxiety reductor."

Dont mind that oversabi village headmaster, i guess china and india with a over 1 billion population are africans/black

LilMissFavvy:
That's cuz you lack self control. You are the abnormal one.

Take it or leave it,sex is closely related to the law of diminishing return.

Acidosis:
Hehehe... What a finished man.

You too?

Esthered:
You too?

Yes, dear. I mean, it's fine to lose interest in sex, but encouraging one's spouse to get it elsewhere? 🙄

Obaaderemi2:
You always talk like someone without a brain. United Nations is now a Nigerian agency

Did The UN do an independent census of Nigerians? So, you never figure out at this point in time that many of the numbers we obtain from the UN and other organizations incorporate the erroneous figure fed them by your government which has not conducted a census since 2006? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄