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iamoyindamola:
Exactly my thought
Them never born any woman well sha, either the guy is entitled or not

Lolz. 😂

If u are Mr Eazi and ur wife is Temi Otedola, will u still hold on to this belief ?

iamoyindamola:
Exactly my thought
Them never born any woman well sha, either the guy is entitled or not

[color=royalblue]So your wife has no right to put your brother in check in your house?

Is this what you're saying?[/color]

BlueRayDick:
They are both wrong . The man has no business overstaying his welcome in his brother’s house .

The wife too should not be shouting and disrespecting her brother-in-law.

That’s why I said as a man it’s better u Dey chop 1 meal a day in ur one bedroom apartment based on ur hustle than for u to pack to ur brother’s big house where u will be eating free food and free insult served by the wife .

There’s nothing as good as u going to visit ur brother and going back to ur house at the end of the day . The wife no go see u finish and there won’t be any reason for her to disrespect u. The moment a woman knows it’s her husband that feeds u , cloth u and shelter u; whatever level of respect she has for u reduces .

but this thing dey somehow oo

No one knows the days of their little begining.. how they helped each other and sacrificed for each other whilst growing up..

Now all of a sudden as soon 🔜 as woman enter, the love and cooperation reduces..

If na person wey sacrificed his sweat for his brother and vice versa.. and now woman wey no know where Una start wey enter when things don dey stew go come dey tel U all these insults.. Omo e get as e bee oo

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Can't judge because there's no context

But that guy should win the Shameless D'or of the year.

"Is it not my brother's money?" [/color]

Hahaha. You no wan judge but you come give am award.
You don judge already nah. LOL.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]So your wife has no right to put your brother in check in your house?

Is this what you're saying?[/color]

your brother wey you grow up with and shared bonds and sacrifices.. if care is not taken now the guy has done ✅ so much sacrifices for the brother..

Some brothers forfeit their own portion of land sale proceeding share just to send one of the siblings abroad or open business..now if that brother make am, and marry,the wife wey no know Una story and history go come dey pursue the brother from the house 🏠🏡

If na u be the brother, how u go feel

seankafor:
but this thing dey somehow oo

No one knows the days of their little begining.. how they helped each other and sacrificed for each other whilst growing up..

Now all of a sudden as soon 🔜 as woman enter, the love and cooperation reduces..

If na person wey sacrificed his sweat for his brother and vice versa.. and now woman wey no know where Una start wey enter when things don dey stew go come dey tel U all these insults.. Omo e get as e bee oo

[color=royalblue]So what if the woman sacrificed her sweat too?

Abi that one no dey possible?[/color]

izzou:
[color=royalblue]So what if the woman sacrificed her sweat too?

Abi that one no dey possible?[/color]

woman sacrifice sweat for man in this Nigeria part of Africa

What are the odds

seankafor:
your brother wey you grow up with and shared bonds and sacrifices.. if care is not taken now the guy has done ✅ so much sacrifices for the brother..

Some brothers forfeit their own portion of land sale proceeding share just to send one of the siblings abroad or open business..now if that brother make am, and marry,the wife wey no know Una story and history go come dey pursue the brother from the house 🏠🏡

If na u be the brother, how u go feel

[color=royalblue]Your wife wey follow you hustle nko?

Collect her papa money to invest in your business

Suffer with you and fed you when you were down.

If na you be the wife, how you go feel?[/color]

seankafor:
woman sacrifice sweat for man in this Nigeria part of Africa

What are the odds

[color=royalblue]I don't know the odds.

I'm glad you didn't rule it out[/color]

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Your wife wey follow you hustle nko?

Collect her papa money to invest in your business

Suffer with you and fed you when you were down.

If na you be the wife, how you go feel?[/color]

what are the odds say woman sacrifice for man and brother sacrifice for brother...

There is more possibilities that brother sacrifice for brother than for woman to sacrifice for man..


Imfact sef, na man dey sacrifice for woman most of the time

afrodoc2:
Hahaha. You no wan judge but you come give am award.
You don judge already nah. LOL.

[color=royalblue]I tried, my doc

[/color]

izzou:
[color=royalblue]I don't know the odds.

I'm glad you didn't rule it out[/color]

I mean in general perspective..

If dem give you 50m to be that generally,brother sacrifices for brother and woman sacrifice for man in this Naija

Where will your money 💰 go?

Amigoss:
Nice but tell her make she no climb stage ooo

Na old woman. She's 50 plus and a Doctor. Na Afrodoc guy sister. She no fit do such. But she's a crazy Burna fan.

seankafor:
what are the odds say woman sacrifice for man and brother sacrifice for brother...

There is more possibilities that brother sacrifice for brother than for woman to sacrifice for man..


Imfact sef, na man dey sacrifice for woman most of the time

[color=royalblue]I no talk about who sacrifice for who.

Do you agree that the wife too may have sacrificed for him?

You should be more concerned about how a grown up man is saying "He will eat his brother's money", rather than doing something for himself [/color]

seankafor:
but this thing dey somehow oo

No one knows the days of their little begining.. how they helped each other and sacrificed for each other whilst growing up..

Now all of a sudden as soon 🔜 as woman enter, the love and cooperation reduces..

If na person wey sacrificed his sweat for his brother and vice versa.. and now woman wey no know where Una start wey enter when things don dey stew go come dey tel U all these insults.. Omo e get as e bee oo

Do u know whether the husband and wife keep a joint account in which they both contribute to run their home ?

Whatever u sacrificed for ur bother when growing up ,it has nothing to do with his home that he now runs with his wife .

Ideally when a man is married , his first priority/responsibility is the family he’s building with his wife ; that’s his nuclear family .

You may not see it that way , but that brother right there is trespassing because that house is definitely not their family house .

iamoyindamola:
Make she no go collect kick abi😂😂
Odogu no know gender o, you gatecrash you collect

But I trust sir ibime, he will book the VIP stand

Common normal stand dey make vex for the price talkless of VIP

I do have a friend in Manchester who is always backstage at Burna events though. I may reach out to her to see if she can organise something for us. Na one of our mutual friend we always meet at parties, but recently one our guys discovered say she get Onlyfans account, maybe na so she take know Burna 🙆🏽‍♂️

seankafor:
I mean in general perspective..

If dem give you 50m to be that generally,brother sacrifices for brother and woman sacrifice for man in this Naija

Where will your money 💰 go?

[color=royalblue]I don't know.

In my extended family, brothers dey fight themselves to the point say their children no dey talk sef.

We have seen brothers not help their fellow brothers. No be new thing

The person that has my back is my family, and if my wife has it, she has my permission to chase any family member that wants to be entitled over what they didn't sow.[/color]

Ibime:
Common normal stand dry make vex for the price talkless of VIP

I do have a friend in Manchester who is always backstage at Burna events though. I may reach out to her to see if she can organise something for us. Na one of our mutual friend we always meet at parties, but recently one our guys discovered say she gets Onlyfans account, maybe na so she take know Burna 🙆🏽‍♂️

One of our guys 🤔🤔

Melvyn11:
If they both discussed it and the man gives her the go ahead then she has the right.

The man shouldn't give her the right, he should handle it himself

Both her and the husbands brother are very foolish people. The brother is foolish for talking as if he's entitled to his brother's generosity. The woman also knows anything spent on the brother is taking away future savings for her kids. But she's very foolish for approaching the brother herself

seankafor:
what are the odds say woman sacrifice for man and brother sacrifice for brother...

There is more possibilities that brother sacrifice for brother than for woman to sacrifice for man..

Dey play

I never see wetin woman no fit do for man when he touch her mumu button

Ibime:
Dey play

I never see wetin woman no fit do for man when he touch her mumu button

Exactly !

Na only when man marry wrongly he go Dey value his extended family more than the family himself and his wife built together .

If a man marries right and his wife is down with him, he will always put his his wife and kids first while other family members can now follow in order of priority .

Look at Eedris Abdulkarim’s wife , she gave him a kidney when he was down and out . She literally gave him a second chance to live ; something none of his extended family can do . I’m sure if his brother wanted to donate to him , that one’s wife will not allow him. That’s the time he will start remembering the times Eedris did not buy car for him when he was hot .🥵

Make man just get better wife , he will enjoy his marriage and will not allow any of his extended family to intrude on their home .

Ibime:
Common normal stand dey make vex for the price talkless of VIP

I do have a friend in Manchester who is always backstage at Burna events though. I may reach out to her to see if she can organise something for us. Na one of our mutual friend we always meet at parties, but recently one our guys discovered say she get Onlyfans account, maybe na so she take know Burna 🙆🏽‍♂️

BlueRayDick:
Exactly !

Na only when man marry wrongly he go Dey value his extended family more than the family himself and his wife built together .

If a man marries right and his wife is down with him, he will always put his his wife and kids first while other family members can now follow in order of priority .

Look at Eedris Abdulkarim’s wife , she gave him a kidney when he was down and out . She literally gave him a second chance to live ; something none of his extended family can do . I’m sure if his brother wanted to donate to him , that one’s wife will not allow him. That’s the time he will start remembering the times Eedris did not buy car for him when he was hot .🥵

Make man just get better wife , he will enjoy his marriage and will not allow any of his extended family to intrude on their home .

20% of niggas with permanent residency in UK is because a woman with pali babied them, fed them when they couldn't work better work, and finally regularised their stay with marriage or kids. Most times even came up with the deposit for their first family home while he was battling immigration. Na nigga wey no know the power of gbola go say brothers do more for a man than a woman will.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]So your wife has no right to put your brother in check in your house?

Is this what you're saying?[/color]

What do you mean by putting him in check
To send him away?
She no fit just the way I can't send my in-law out of the house, but I can tell my wife to do so which is what the wife should have done

BlueRayDick:
Lolz. 😂

If u are Mr Eazi and ur wife is Temi Otedola, will u still hold on to this belief ?

How many of Mr eazi do we have?
I prefer looking at it from majority

seankafor:
but this thing dey somehow oo

No one knows the days of their little begining.. how they helped each other and sacrificed for each other whilst growing up..

Now all of a sudden as soon 🔜 as woman enter, the love and cooperation reduces..

If na person wey sacrificed his sweat for his brother and vice versa.. and now woman wey no know where Una start wey enter when things don dey stew go come dey tel U all these insults.. Omo e get as e bee oo

Exactly you they mind them

Ibime:
20% of niggas with permanent residency in UK is because a woman with pali babied them, fed them when they couldn't work better work, and finally regularised their stay with marriage or kids. Most times even came up with the deposit for their first family home while he was battling immigration. Na nigga wey no know the power of gbola go say brothers do more for a man than a woman will.

Baba this one na fact sha especially for Nigeria. Nor go put your hope for woman o.

Ibime:
20% of niggas with permanent residency in UK is because a woman with pali babied them, fed them when they couldn't work better work, and finally regularised their stay with marriage or kids. Most times even came up with the deposit for their first family home while he was battling immigration. Na nigga wey no know the power of gbola go say brothers do more for a man than a woman will.

No be lie !

One of my friends back in the university , he’s in Canada today on PR courtesy of his wife . He was dating the lady when we were in 100Level and they later broke up .

Like 7 years after graduation they both reconnected , both having had different failed relationships. As at the time they reconnected the lady was already processing her Canada PR to japa.It didn’t even take up to 6 months they reconnected my guy quickly rush do introduction with her and she travelled the next Monday .

To cut long story short , she came back to wed him less than 6 months after settling down and then filled for him to join her as her legal spouse . He quickly resigned here and moved to Canada ASAP .

Ibime:
The man shouldn't give her the right, he should handle it himself

Both her and the husbands brother are very foolish people. The brother is foolish for talking as if he's entitled to his brother's generosity. The woman also knows anything spent on the brother is taking away future savings for her kids. But she's very foolish for approaching the brother herself

We don't actually know the main Koko. We are just looking at from different angles. They might have been using style to tell him to leave but he didn't listen so the women was fed up. You know women talk a lot when angry. He fit don for serve food for kitchen chop without permission

iamoyindamola:
How many of Mr eazi do we have?
I prefer looking at it from majority

See as u use style dodge the question 😂.

But on a serious note we don’t really know what led to their argument/altercation . We don’t know if the man had gotten on her nerves and she just had to put him in her place .

If we know the origin of their misunderstanding, then we would be able to put things into perspective .

You should also know that there are some men who are weak and don’t know how to put their wife and kids first before any brother or sister .

For example if u work in a good organization where they do life insurance for all their staff so that when a staff dies, the insurance company pays the beneficiaries of the staff a lump sum of money for insurance benefits ; it is ideal for u as a man to put ur wife as the beneficiary . This is because ur wife is the only person that can take care of ur kids like u would in the event of ur demise .

However , I have seen some people making their brothers and sisters as beneficiaries . Such people , when they die and insurer pays the brother or sister , the wife and kids will be at the mercy of their siblings who may not really care about them .

These are some of the mistakes some men make .

Ibime:
Dey play

I never see wetin woman no fit do for man when he touch her mumu button

Ibime:
20% of niggas with permanent residency in UK is because a woman with pali babied them, fed them when they couldn't work better work, and finally regularised their stay with marriage or kids. Most times even came up with the deposit for their first family home while he was battling immigration. Na nigga wey no know the power of gbola go say brothers do more for a man than a woman will.

i was not sure - but you have spelt it out

even for naija - we all have friends or relatives whose wives or gfs have carried them. one of my guys - his madam literally got the guy a job , a serious job - but the guy fkd it up. head of l**** dept. dude had it made but his egi git in the way. he also had a lot of alpha male type issues [before alpha male was a thing] and eventually his wife's mumu button wore out. they are separated now and i always feel sad when i see the guy. he has gone downhill. he is living in the house he and his wife built - which she has basically left for him. but that is all the guy has. he came to see me the other day in his year 2000 car that is start and stop and should have been scrapped.

Ibime:
The man shouldn't give her the right, he should handle it himself

Both her and the husbands brother are very foolish people. The brother is foolish for talking as if he's entitled to his brother's generosity. The woman also knows anything spent on the brother is taking away future savings for her kids. But she's very foolish for approaching the brother herself

the summary is it is never good to stay for too long in your relatives place - especially if it is not a big house with a separate wing or bq. people wear out their welcome. people encroach on others perceived territory ; people unwittingly enable some kain behaviors