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Do do guys know people that hold grudges without even speaking up yet you keep hearing your name in their conversation and when you ask the matter. They'll just smile and would starting laughing when you look at them when maybe you or pretend like you are asleep you see the look on their face.


Like they keep piling up your mistakes are there people that actually do this that you know. I'm someone that if you offend I speak my mind and let go. I want to confront this person walai I have asked before the reply was nothing. That's their problem, this is a new year dey for who dey for you. With the way life is you go still dey carry person for mind God abeg oh.

Jozilinn:
Do do guys know people that hold grudges without even speaking up yet you keep hearing your name in their conversation and when you ask the matter. They'll just smile and would starting laughing when you look at them when maybe you or pretend like you are asleep you see the look on their face.


Like they keep piling up your mistakes are there people that actually do this that you know. I'm someone that if you offend I speak my mind and let go. I want to confront this person walai I have asked before the reply was nothing. That's their problem, this is a new year dey for who dey for you. With the way life is you go still dey carry person for mind God abeg oh.

There's no need bro. Save your energy for better things.
You have asked them before and they said nothing
Just ignore them as if they don't exist. But be extremely careful with such people.

Jozilinn:
➜Do do guys know people that hold grudges without even speaking up yet you keep hearing your name in their conversation and when you ask the matter. They'll just smile and would starting laughing when you look at them when maybe you or pretend like you are asleep you see the look on their face.
Like they keep piling up your mistakes are there people that actually do this that you know. I'm someone that if you offend I speak my mind and let go. I want to confront this person walai I have asked before the reply was nothing. That's their problem, this is a new year dey for who dey for you. With the way life is you go still dey carry person for mind God abeg oh.

One, people are different in the way they handle things. Two, confronting someone who has not even committed a criminal offense is probably going to leave you at a disadvantage. Three, if a person has a grudge against you and you cannot handle that fact, then try to move away from the person or focus your attention instead on bettering yourself so those he gossips to will see that he is in fact wrong about you. Life is short and hard. No point in engaging in meaningless endeavors.

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oluplus:
There's no need bro. Save your energy for better things.
You have asked them before and they said nothing
Just ignore them as if they don't exist. But be extremely careful with such people.

Thank you dear I really appreciate 🙏

AcrossTheEarth:
Would that make any difference in any way? If yes, go ahead.

It might not yield any difference they might never admit it but can you imagine that my name was mentioned repeatedly like I did something I had to come out two solid times to ask, but I was told nothing I just relax but noticed the attitude. If na to dey my own dey run my thing no wahala, gap need to dey oh better gap because I even asked someone close and they are of the same language but because of say some kind things them change language.


Some people love ass licking so much they don't mind doing it to look good. If you correct me I no dey mind because I need to do better buy you see this people if you correct them you automatically become an enemy. Too much don do me for this life I don't need toxic people around.

Kobojunkie:
One, people are different in the way they handle things. Two, confronting someone who has not even committed a criminal offense is probably going to leave you at a disadvantage. Three, if a person has a grudge against you and you cannot handle that fact, then try to move away from the person or focus your attention instead on bettering yourself so those he gossips to will see that he is in fact wrong about you. Life is short and hard. No point in engaging in meaningless endeavors.

Exactly life is too short just the quote I need do better in life.

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AcrossTheEarth:
Who exactly are these people? Since you've asked and they they didn't have anyone to say, then face front and leave them be. You can't let them bother you. There's no need to confront them again.

you're absolutely right thank you dear.