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Me and my wife
Me and my husband

We are going to have Atleast 7 kids

EmperorCaesar:
Thats their useless opinion

They get wiped off the population pool in the next 4 generations


I dont think there's a direct link between being rich and the choice of the number of children people want

Super wealthy people in Saudi have large families

Very valid point. What exactly is the reason for acquiring wealth? If anyone can answer that, you will realise why some rich have children while others choose to have none.

Dtruthspeaker:
And another reason is that they are very very bad and evil people who have done unspeakable things and it appears that they have gotten away with it

And people think that they are good normal people as they portray to the the world

But they know that having children will expose and disgrace them, so they are dodging it.

absolute nonsense

there are enough evil people in the world who have had children - some were leaders whose children became ven more evil than them

a person can take a conscious decision not to have children for any number of reasons.

unfortunately africans seem to think raising a child is simply about being an ATM . which is why you see some rich people with a several badly raised children [because they never actually took the time to raise them]

raising a child requires discipline and focus and changing on your own part
not everyone wants to change their lifestyle

in any event - they also look at you the same way -

Hmm you know apart from the curiosity factor to know what the child would look like,, apart from that it’s really a curse to give birth. You have to understand you are not birthing a new entity. You are just recycling souls back into this realm via the vajayjay and then the universe burdens you with taking care of this burden. It’s hard work and a burden . And most rich people have that extraterrestrial wisdom so they have figured out it’s just a burden . Of course not all rich people think alike . And pray that you are not birthing your own killer 😆😆

All the prophets of old use to curse the day they were born. These flesh are prison walls for the soul. The flesh is the demon . Downloading a soul into flesh is a curse

Dtruthspeaker:
And another reason is that they are very very bad and evil people who have done unspeakable things and it appears that they have gotten away with it

And people think that they are good normal people as they portray to the the world

But they know that having children will expose and disgrace them, so they are dodging it.

Soon as I know Demiurge I felt like not having children, you do not know what they know don;t judge

Angelfrost:
Lol... Op needs to calm his brain down a bit.

Birthing and raising kids takes a huge chunk of every man and woman's time and life.

It takes serious sacrifice and commitment to be a parent whether you are wealthy or wretched.

While there are rich people not desirous of parenting, there are also poor people with the same mindset and goal... Yes, it's just a mindset.

You are right. I know rich people with large families. The only difference between them and the poor is they have the resources to take care of these kids.

However, large families is one of the stumbling blocks to a youth from a lower tier average home. Too many dependents (black tax) makes it harder to save and invest.

Jayz has 3 kids but we get the point

Dtruthspeaker:
And another reason is that they are very very bad and evil people who have done unspeakable things and it appears that they have gotten away with it

And people think that they are good normal people as they portray to the the world

But they know that having children will expose and disgrace them, so they are dodging it.

It is better to deviate from this mentality that rich people are bad, have you heard of the unspeakable things that have been done by poor people? Some of the most morally sound people that I've seen or met have come from wealthy homes. I grew up in the ghettos, and that is a place I never wish to go back to cos it's home to many of the atrocities you can think of. Remember, being poor is not just about your pockets, but the mind also and from what I've seen and experienced, poor people have some of the most evil minds.

Is cool not to have kids.

Until you hear have you cleaned number tt nyash, then one wicked Nigerian nurse will come to you and said abeg turn, mumu old man , na me telling you make I no born.

Then U will remember the days of your youth.

Why do you think most white leave a reckless life
The plan is to go quick and go swift

pocohantas:
You are right. I know rich people with large families. The only difference between them and the poor is they have the resources to take care of these kids.

However, large families is one of the stumbling blocks to a youth from a lower tier average home. Too many dependents (black tax) makes it harder to save and invest.

depends on how we define taking care of kids though
actually raising kids is HARD. and i dont know how a rich person will actually juggle business and a large family
the last kid disturbs me every day - talking about how the book he is writing, his idea for a game, what happened in school.
i am constantly chasing his older brother and sister to do their chores , manage things in the house , reduce computer use, reduce internet use, be responsible

one guy was telling me children are blessing from God and all that.


he was celebrating a rich man with four wives and several children. i asked - so who will raise these children? his answer - that’s the woman’s job.

GloriousGbola:
depends on how we define taking care of kids though
actually raising kids is HARD. and i dont know how a rich person will actually juggle business and a large family
the last kid disturbs me every day - talking about how the book he is writing, his idea for a game, what happened in school.
i am constantly chasing his older brother and sister to do their chores , manger things in the house , reduce computer use, reduce internet use

one guy was telling me children are blessing from God and all that. was celebrating a rich man with four wives ans several children. i asked - so who will raise these children? his answer - thats the womans job.

Resources in that post is all encompassing.🙏

Dtruthspeaker:
I believe there is something dark and evil in when rich people say that they do not want children.

I have checked and I still cannot find any good reason.

I believe they are trying to void God's Punishment via Natural Law aka Karma is why they do this

Wait so you think having children is a punishment from your god?

[When bible says be fruitful and multiply your seeds where part of it, in the case of Abrahams twas two children isaac, two.

It musnt be soo much but then, there is need for a seed off you.
And this has nothing to do with being rich or not.

Nnamdipapa:
People work very hard to be rich and you believe they are evil for being rich? The most wicked are the poor people.

Not all of them are evil though but most of Nigerian rich men are evil

Some do real business and also attach hard drug snuggling to it

Some are into yahoo coupled with MONEY rituals and that's why you see different girls running mad recently

Some also do real business and also attach terrible voodoo

Some of these people will open their shop early morning and start spraying different black or arsh powders before 9am

Only God will save us

pocohantas:
You are right. I know rich people with large families. The only difference between them and the poor is they have the resources to take care of these kids.

However, large families is one of the stumbling blocks to a youth from a lower tier average home. Too many dependents (black tax) makes it harder to save and invest.

Yeah... That Black Tax is a serious stumbling block for a lot of young men and women.

Dtruthspeaker:
I believe there is something dark and evil in when rich people say that they do not want children.

I have checked and I still cannot find any good reason.

I believe they are trying to void God's Punishment via Natural Law aka Karma is why they do this

Not quite

It's called CHOICE, seems Nigerians don't understand what it means.

Negroid001:
Let me put it this way.
My street is a kind of vip close with security and all. A street filled with high income earners.

The street after ours is the opposite, it's rural, noisy and you get where I'm driving at.

No one under the age of 30 has given birth in my street including females.
This is a stark contrast to the one after ours. Teenage pregnancy is rampant, childbirth out of wedlock, baby mama baby daddy ish.

Why is this so? It's not just about being rich, it's the fact we're well aware of the responsibilities that comes with childbirth. It's not a joke.
Many couples are struggling today because of one silly mistake.

My friends from the other street, most of have given birth, I'm older than some. They advise me to give birth and not worry that God will take control.

Nah we don't do that here. We're F**** accountable

On the contrary.
Promiscuity is not better with Rich kids than with Poor kids.
The difference is Education, Information and Ability to purchase safety with money!

A rich coupe will never trust withdrawal method for birth control, only poor people convince themselves that they are masters of pulling out.

Rich people have many other source of recreation other than sex, sachet hot drink and Ludo like the poor people.


>Poverty make people take decisions with generational consequences.
>Poverty will make a parent sent their children to a school where the principal cannot even write one correct sentence in English language, then we wonder why the children cannot cope with school and hence drop out. Unlike a dullard child of a Millionaire who will still manage to have a first degree
>Poverty will make parents send their children to live with Uncles and Aunties who will use them as house maids
>Poverty will make a child have inferiority complex that make it even difficult to aim high.

Poverty is a curse and a Disease, may we not be infected with its virus.

johnog4sure:
Soon as I know Demiurge I felt like not having children, you do not know what they know don;t judge

Do you have any VALID explanation about the concept of the Demiurge, please shed more light.

suckprick:
The rich and successful people are busy thinking of ways to grow in every aspect of their life. Poor people mind and thoughts are clouded with big yansh, big breast and sex- sex - sex all the time (reason they born plenty). Now you know why they are poor.

why are they adopting then

suckprick:
The rich and successful people are busy thinking of ways to grow in every aspect of their life. Poor people mind and thoughts are clouded with big yansh, big breast and sex- sex - sex all the time (reason they born plenty). Now you know why they are poor.

Elon musk has 7 plus kids

Other billionaires have kids and are married

but cr7 and kyle walker has 4 to 5 children each and they fucking rich, so does it mean they are poor and their mind is clouded im sex

suckprick:
The rich and successful people are busy thinking of ways to grow in every aspect of their life. Poor people mind and thoughts are clouded with big yansh, big breast and sex- sex - sex all the time (reason they born plenty). Now you know why they are poor.

That's how baba Emeka wey no get money dey born pikin like rats .....
. Poor people are the most useless people on earth.....

Melonsmasher:
Marriage is bondage

No worri
Remain baren then

having child(ren) is a choice ......

knowing the financial implications of having child(ren) is very important.

A lot rich people also understands that their jobs might make dem unable to achieve their aspirations and goals hence the resolution not to try because they also understands that bringing kids to this earth and not giving them the best is criminal.

Do what works for you but the era of GOD WILL HELP ME RAISE THE KIDS are gone.

Be wise, Be smart....

LordReed:
Wait so you think having children is a punishment from your god?

For some people.

Their choice. That doesn't mean other people will not have kids, God created us to procreate. Meanwhile, they can 3 dogs, 4 cats and be taking care of them like children. Who send them

MrPresidon:
It is better to deviate from this mentality that rich people are bad, have you heard of the unspeakable things that have been done by poor people? Some of the most morally sound people that I've seen or met have come from wealthy homes. I grew up in the ghettos, and that is a place I never wish to go back to cos it's home to many of the atrocities you can think of. Remember, being poor is not just about your pockets, but the mind also and from what I've seen and experienced, poor people have some of the most evil minds.

I did not say "all rich people are bad" I said "when rich people say.."

There is too much hatred for poor people in Nigeria

johnog4sure:
Soon as I know Demiurge I felt like not having children, you do not know what they know don;t judge

Ok.

GloriousGbola:
absolute nonsense

there are enough evil people in the world who have had children - some were leaders whose children became ven more evil than them

a person can take a conscious decision not to have children for any number of reasons.

unfortunately africans seem to think raising a child is simply about being an ATM . which is why you see some rich people with a several badly raised children [because they never actually took the time to raise them]

raising a child requires discipline and focus and changing on your own part
not everyone wants to change their lifestyle

in any event - they also look at you the same way -

I understand but my interest is what are the reason or reasons why a rich person will say he does not want to have children! I can not find any valid reason at all.

The only reasons standing are bad reasons

Ladoja19:
No worri
Remain baren then

Boy I have 2 kids ok.. But their mom is a pain in the ass, you can't understand