If a man doesn't marry when he is broke. Marriage become difficult when he is rich. Especially getting the right one without money influence or family interference.

Ask any successful rich guys they will admit the simple fact about getting the right one since everyone is drawn to success.

When u begin to afford any woman u want... That is where concentration and integrity matters because your money will always want to use ur head..

Feminism and socialism go hand in hand. Just like in the 10s and 20s of 1900, we now see a resurgence of socialism in the form of woke-ism.

The goal is to destroy family, because family is a strong unit. Humans can be very strong IF they have the support of a healthy family. Take that away and you can easily manipulate and control them.

That's why governments gladly help women to become totally privileged and for men to be broken down and brainwashed. It will hurt humanity, the country and the government economically, but I guess they either ignore that or have some plan for after the big crash.

Feminism (whether Nigerian feminism or Somalian feminism) is all about pulling men down, making men miserable, and breaking men in any way and every way possible. Don't ever believe the definition they give it in any dictionary. The earlier you know this the better.

Men should man up and put women where they belong. Stop encouraging women to become firefighters. In case you don't know, the moment they start doing these risky jobs and succeeding, that is the end of your happiness as men. That is when you will know that men are "scum".

The reason why feminism has become this successful is due to men like you and me ignorantly encouraging women to take over your responsibilities. Men should be alive to their responsibilities and build up their fellow men.

WiszyFraud:
Did you know??
Kenya’s Supreme Court ended the 50/50 sharing formula of properties by divorced couples.
Divorced people will only take what each person owns now.

You are the one fooling urself...

Caaz:
Expect lots of frustrated damaged men to invade this thread to cap nonsense.

The agba redpillers misleading you dolts on this nairaland are happily married and playing with their kids when they returned from work.

Most of them are docile husbands at home, whilst some of you empty dolts are frustrated smoking cannabis wasting your minuted lives away.

This bitch is fighting depression so becareful with her....

Caaz:
Expect lots of frustrated damaged men to invade this thread to cap nonsense.

The agba redpillers misleading you dolts on this nairaland are happily married and playing with their kids when they returned from work.

Most of them are docile husbands at home, whilst some of you empty dolts are frustrated smoking cannabis wasting your minuted lives away.

E be like say one Nigga don show you shege. You go dey alright las las

Caaz:
Expect lots of frustrated damaged men to invade this thread to cap nonsense.

The agba redpillers misleading you dolts on this nairaland are happily married and playing with their kids when they returned from work.

Most of them are docile husbands at home, whilst some of you empty dolts are frustrated smoking cannabis wasting your minuted lives away.

Frustrated and Lonely ENP😂

In this age of technology nd sophistication i'm yet to see a girl that's ready to have something serious with a poor man. Maybe, our moms were the last set that could comfortably do that without thinking of what they'll eat or wear after the marriage. The olden days women married by faith while the ones of this age marry by sight. In those days what u wrote up there was possible but not now. For instance, my dad went for youth service in Edo state, met the daughter of a senior army general nd woo her nd now she's my mom. Dad is a christian but had to join Islam just to marry my mom. They got married when dad was a nobody nd relocated to our state after his program. But that is very rare in this age. So as a poor man it'll also be hard to marry the right person this days.

ecolime:

E be like say one Nigga don show you shege. You go dey alright las las

And I use to think you have that substance called a brain all these while,what a disappointment.

Caaz:
Expect lots of frustrated damaged men to invade this thread to cap nonsense.

The agba redpillers misleading you dolts on this nairaland are happily married and playing with their kids when they returned from work.

Most of them are docile husbands at home, whilst some of you empty dolts are frustrated smoking cannabis wasting your minuted lives away.

You are not making sense at all.

Caaz:
Expect lots of frustrated damaged men to invade this thread to cap nonsense.

Why the bitterness?

SyrusdeHansome:
In this age of technology nd sophistication i'm yet to see a girl that's ready to have something serious with a poor man. Maybe, our moms were the last set that could comfortably do that without thinking of what they'll eat or wear after the marriage. The olden days women married by faith while the ones of this age marry by sight. In those days what u wrote up there was possible but not now. For instance, my dad went for youth service in Edo state, met the daughter of a senior army general nd woo her nd now she's my mom. Dad is a christian but had to join Islam just to marry my mom. They got married when dad was a nobody nd relocated to our state after his program. But that is very rare in this age. So as a poor man it'll also be hard to marry the right person this days.

My dad also married my mum with virtually nothing.
As a matter of fact, it was the money they were given that they used to buy the mattress they slept with on that wedding night. That was how bad it was.
Funny enough, my mum was a graduate.
I do think to myself that the man was very very lucky.
If he had come in this age, even a pepper seller won't touch him with a long pole not to talk of a graduate.
Which graduate go marry you for room wey no even get mattress? He was lucky he married in the 80s

Hmmmm. Even at that, things still go astray with some when the money comes.

Arrrrrrrh

Op your assertion about the Hausa is very wrong. As a matter of fact, civilization is evolving now and the upcoming northern boys don't buy this kind of marriage idea you portrayed above. I don't know of the Igbo people despite the fact I am affiliated to the Igbo linage. As a born middle belt man I am here to correct your notion on that.

emmaodet:


My dad also married my mum with virtually nothing.
As a matter of fact, it was the money they were given that they used to buy the mattress they slept with on that wedding night. That was how bad it was.
Funny enough, my mum was a graduate.
I do think to myself that the man was very very lucky.
If he had come in this age, even a pepper seller won't touch him with a long pole not to talk of a graduate.
Which graduate go marry you for room wey no even get mattress? He was lucky he married in the 80s

My mom was in ss3 when my dad met her.

Na frustration'' just pity her....

izonborn098:
You are the one fooling urself...

SyrusdeHansome:
In this age of technology nd sophistication i'm yet to see a girl that's ready to have something serious with a poor man. Maybe, our moms were the last set that could comfortably do that without thinking of what they'll eat or wear after the marriage. The olden days women married by faith while the ones of this age marry by sight. In those days what u wrote up there was possible but not now. For instance, my dad went for youth service in Edo state, met the daughter of a senior army general nd woo her nd now she's my mom. Dad is a christian but had to join Islam just to marry my mom. They got married when dad was a nobody nd relocated to our state after his program. But that is very rare in this age. So as a poor man it'll also be hard to marry the right person this days.

But poor men are marrying every weekend, are they marrying stones?

emmaodet:


My dad also married my mum with virtually nothing.
As a matter of fact, it was the money they were given that they used to buy the mattress they slept with on that wedding night. That was how bad it was.
Funny enough, my mum was a graduate.
I do think to myself that the man was very very lucky.
If he had come in this age, even a pepper seller won't touch him with a long pole not to talk of a graduate.
Which graduate go marry you for room wey no even get mattress? He was lucky he married in the 80s

Be like say only nairaland guys live inside caves

There are poor graduates marrying themselves every weekend, and pepper sellers marrying bricklayers too, why do you guys like to go with a narrative simply to castigate women? Na only rich people dey marry?

50% right

Caaz:
Expect lots of frustrated damaged men to invade this thread to cap nonsense.

The agba redpillers misleading you dolts on this nairaland are happily married and playing with their kids when they returned from work.

Most of them are docile husbands at home, whilst some of you empty dolts are frustrated smoking cannabis wasting your minuted lives away.

. No one should have replied you in the first place....

Cuz , it's very obvious that you aren't only myopic but also very shallow minded...

ecolime:

E be like say one Nigga don show you shege. You go dey alright las las

You want to put her to shame because of the behavior of a past lover?


When it's obvious the lover is at fault


I hope you realize your mental deprivation before it's too late

SyrusdeHansome:
In this age of technology nd sophistication i'm yet to see a girl that's ready to have something serious with a poor man. Maybe, our moms were the last set that could comfortably do that without thinking of what they'll eat or wear after the marriage. The olden days women married by faith while the ones of this age marry by sight. In those days what u wrote up there was possible but not now. For instance, my dad went for youth service in Edo state, met the daughter of a senior army general nd woo her nd now she's my mom. Dad is a christian but had to join Islam just to marry my mom. They got married when dad was a nobody nd relocated to our state after his program. But that is very rare in this age. So as a poor man it'll also be hard to marry the right person this days.

If you're a good man, you will find your woman, but you people want to eat your cake and have it.

Her statement and yours shows that u both are passing through the same thing...

Saintmary:



You want to put her to shame because of the behavior of a past lover?


When it's obvious the lover is at fault


I hope you realize your mental deprivation before it's too late

insulting people for no reason seems right to u..

Fountainofyouth:



But poor men are marrying every weekend, are they marrying stones?

Pple are marrying every weekend u say? We're talking abt marrying right nd u're here saying something else. If they're marrying right we won't be having the rate of divorce we're currently have.

SyrusdeHansome:


Pple are marrying every weekend u say? We're talking abt marrying right nd u're here saying something else. If they're marrying right we won't be having the rate of divorce we're currently have.

No that's not what your comment implied, you said women don't marry poor men, and I said poor men are getting married every weekend. Are you blaming women for high divorce rate or what?

Fountainofyouth:


No that's not what your comment implied, you said women don't marry poor men, and I said poor men are getting married every weekend. Are you blaming women for high divorce rate or what?

Read the last line of my comment. It's not a matter of getting married, it's abt getting married to the right person irrespective of his or her present condition. That's my emphasy.

izonborn098:
Her statement and yours shows that u both are passing through the same thing... insulting people for no reason seems right to u..

I said your brain needs check up, if that looks like an insult to you, then it's really long overdue.

Frustration bad....

Saintmary:


I said your brain needs check up, if that looks like an insult to you, then it's really long overdue.

funny enough, this is true...



😁😁😁😁😁

O boy no need to reply some women here...

izonborn098:
Frustration bad....

by their statement u will know what they are passing through.. From xprience

SyrusdeHansome:
In this age of technology nd sophistication i'm yet to see a girl that's ready to have something serious with a poor man. Maybe, our moms were the last set that could comfortably do that without thinking of what they'll eat or wear after the marriage. The olden days women married by faith while the ones of this age marry by sight. In those days what u wrote up there was possible but not now. For instance, my dad went for youth service in Edo state, met the daughter of a senior army general nd woo her nd now she's my mom. Dad is a christian but had to join Islam just to marry my mom. They got married when dad was a nobody nd relocated to our state after his program. But that is very rare in this age. So as a poor man it'll also be hard to marry the right person this days.

The Global Economic Meltdown is Clearing Everybody Eyes.

izonborn098:
Her statement and yours shows that u both are passing through the same thing... insulting people for no reason seems right to u..

It's really well with you,take time out of nairaland and fix your issues.
I don't know what you're dealing with... probably rejection,but work on yourself and your low esteem

You really need Jesus in your life.
I say to you again....it's well with you,it's well with everything that concerns you.