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Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by Whatshallido: 9:41pm On Jan 16, 2025
Ah! Don't go there oòòo. I choose my mummy oo. My iyeh.
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by Meedon: 9:46pm On Jan 16, 2025
I would jump up and give a heavy kick to the stomach. Mama weh take care of me right from when I deh her belle.

I go remover the wife front teeths join
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by Lordbinsmar: 9:48pm On Jan 16, 2025
Samantha125:
Men leave their households all the time to go and work far from home... Some of you guys have left your wives in Nigeria and haven't been back in years.
E be like say this one don dey mental

Wetin be the rubbish wey you dey talk

angry
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by latiephwald: 9:49pm On Jan 16, 2025
You should know that mother can never be replaced while I can replace wife.
Samantha125:
Your mother is supposed to be your father's responsibility and not yours, she nurtured you because it was her duty as a mother.

Or do you now want to be her husband?
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by Lordbinsmar: 9:50pm On Jan 16, 2025
Starzo:
Una sabi quote bible when e favour una.


But when it gets to the part of wives being completely submissive to their husbands,una go begin talk another thing.
Naa crazy dey worry all of dem

Rubbish pipu
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by DimIsaac10(m): 9:51pm On Jan 16, 2025
My wife will never ask such but you see my mother, I can never joke with that woman forever.
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by tosyne2much(m):
pongwa:
I have never seen both nonsense and sense in one paragraph. You need to be studied
Haba! Oyah which nonsense I talk ooo? cheesy

All I'm trying to let you know is that there are some people's wives that are far better than some people's mothers.. Forget about all these stereotypes of mothers giving you unwavering support or loving you unconditionally even if you're an asshole. These stereotypes are just to fuel the ego of mothers, generally, including the undeserving ones

There are some useless mothers just as there are some useless wives and vice versa
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by Godwin4444: 9:52pm On Jan 16, 2025
Samantha125:
Hell yeah... Even my siblings and I never took care of our mother... Her husband is busy spoiling her .. grin grin grin
even if my mother have 50 billion I will still take care of her
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by Lordbinsmar: 9:52pm On Jan 16, 2025
Samantha125:
But your child needs to grow up at some point and you as a parent should know what it's time to let go.
Naa like that all your male children go forsake you for old age naa women dem go follow go while you languish in sufferness
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by Segzy19: 9:52pm On Jan 16, 2025
Only a foolish wife will do that nonsense
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by latiephwald: 9:52pm On Jan 16, 2025
The last person that can be with with you in that very terrible period is your mother. Death of a child can turn mother to stickler, while woman can only morn death of husband for less than a month before engaging in affair wit another man.
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by GboyegaD(m): 9:53pm On Jan 16, 2025
A spouse could ask such questions if the partner in question is not understanding where his or her allegiance should be. No big deal however, the presentation is what matters most. There are better ways to pass the message in a subtle and matured way that the spouse should understand.
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by Mariangeles(f): 9:53pm On Jan 16, 2025
doctor306:
Every wife is excessively possessive

Its the fear of the husband's reaction that limits that attitude.
Not really.

For instance, there was a guy on here who stated that he stayed out all night one time, just to see how his wife would react, but his wife didn't care.
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by SharonLoveth(f): 9:53pm On Jan 16, 2025
Going by the word of God, it is your wife first!
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by kessler53(m): 9:54pm On Jan 16, 2025
Samantha125:
But you guys would also be asking us to choose between our fathers and you.
but men hardly ask this kind question, because a man sees his father in law as his own biological father, while women doesn't see mother in laws as their own biological mother
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by okven: 9:55pm On Jan 16, 2025
Woman's are predominantly creatures. until they are always satisfied don't assume you have pleased her enough, both mother and wife
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by abobote: 9:56pm On Jan 16, 2025
My wife can't ask me coz she already knows. She usually says that the only one I can go extra mile for is my mother or kids
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by Lordbinsmar: 9:58pm On Jan 16, 2025
micflo28:
My Wife over my mother. But wouldn't let the needs of my mum go unmet. My mum is only deserving of my care and providence as a thank you gift for nurturing me but my wife owns my prioritization.
You be unfortunate son to be honest. Your mother is better off not giving birth to you at all
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by NewDea4: 10:03pm On Jan 16, 2025
Mariangeles:
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Genesis 2:24
That's bullshit

80% of the Bible is bullshit
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by Mariangeles(f): 10:07pm On Jan 16, 2025
NewDea4:
That's bullshit

80% of the Bible is bullshit
No, it's not.
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by Nooseman: 10:07pm On Jan 16, 2025
kroger:
Where is A.Y and his wife today. Wife will come and go but your mum is irreplaceable.
Wish I could like this comment a million times
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by etrange: 10:11pm On Jan 16, 2025
No need for a long epistle. Here:

1) If my wife asks me to choose between her and my mother, I’ll chose my mother.
2) If my mother asks me to chose between her and my wife, I’ll choose my wife.
3) Any one of them that thinks it’s okay to put me in that corner is not okay and should be the one to be lose.
4) OP, you creating this thread to compare wives and mothers, you’re also not okay at all. I don’t understand the kind of things that go up in you people’s head. Y’all just come up with funny things when there’s nothing left bash women about.
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by etrange: 10:13pm On Jan 16, 2025
kessler53:
but men hardly ask this kind question, because a man sees his father in law as his own biological father, while women doesn't see mother in laws as their own biological mother
Yet, it’s a man that created this thread out if his imagination. This thread is totally uncalled for. Any guy that created this is not different from the woman that asked this kind of questions. Why create a thread to compare wives and mothers? It’s as if the guys on the platform get bored when there’s nothing to bash women about.
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by mankan2k7(m): 10:15pm On Jan 16, 2025
My wife even know that it is my mother that I will choose.
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by Bowwow11(m): 10:17pm On Jan 16, 2025
Bahamas95:
No woman would try that rubbish with me.

Was she there when mumsy was nurturing me?
abi ooo you can say that again my brother.
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by Sempeyak01: 10:24pm On Jan 16, 2025
Samantha Abi watin u call yourself...
You're one of Nigerian problem you need to werey omo eleee!!


Samantha125:
Your mother is supposed to be your father's responsibility and not yours, she nurtured you because it was her duty as a mother.

Or do you now want to be her husband?
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by OlofofoCorner: 10:25pm On Jan 16, 2025
The same wife that can leave me ? My wife can never dare ask me such an idiotic question........right there she is a goner.
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by NewDea4: 10:29pm On Jan 16, 2025
Mariangeles:
No, it's not.
The same Bible says there's no marriage in heaven, isn't that a contradiction?
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by G12(m): 10:31pm On Jan 16, 2025
Samantha125:
Your mother is supposed to be your father's responsibility and not yours, she nurtured you because it was her duty as a mother.

Or do you now want to be her husband?
One day, you'll become a mother, a mother-inlaw too, and maybe a widow with just a son. And your daughter inlaw will ask your son to choose between you and her.

When you get to that stage, you'll definitely shift the goal post as most of you do.
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by Lanruze: 10:33pm On Jan 16, 2025
huh huh huh huh huh huh huh huh undecided




Samantha125:
Then get married to her.
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by Mariangeles(f): 10:34pm On Jan 16, 2025
NewDea4:
The same Bible says there's no marriage in heaven, isn't that a contradiction?
How is that a contradiction?
Re: If Your Wife Asks You To Choose Between Her And Your Mother by Afolue(m): 10:35pm On Jan 16, 2025
Samantha125:
What if her father's business is far from your house, but closer to her father's house and the position her father wants to give her comes with a reasonable salary?

What will you then do? Because there are some ladies who are in this situation as we speak.
in such a situation as this, the husband has the final say. No matter why! He is now her head by all standards acceptable Godly wise!
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