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[center][b][b]want to put an end to this, but I don’t want to get her into trouble with the law.[/b][/b][/center]you don't want to get her in trouble ?you should know that she is the one you should call trouble and why don't you tell her family be a man or go to glo ,mtn and airtel report to them and if she is not the one that do almost 99 % at home ,tell her that you are giving her days to stop the nonsense or the marriage will come to end

She's your wife not the other way round. If you don't have any skeleton in your cupboard then don't complain.

SouthSouth1914:
She has the right to! You should be happy she can.. Only legends can understand

Understand what exactly?

deluckiest:
Like I said, my wife and I have been married for 11 years, but she never told me from the beginning that she could monitor and access my phone anytime she likes. I think the only reason she confessed was when I introduced my female business partner to her.

My friend and I were working on a project, and I told my wife about it. I had the technical skills, while my partner was the sponsor. But my wife insisted I end the partnership and look for a male partner instead. She believed something was going on between us, even though there was nothing like that. Because of this, the business was put on hold and eventually failed.

For those asking, there’s no problem with my marriage. We are living peacefully, and both of us are doing well in our jobs.

The only challenge I have with her is that she invades my privacy.

So you stop a business that would fetch you money because of a woman? People dey sha!

deluckiest:
Like I said, my wife and I have been married for 11 years, but she never told me from the beginning that she could monitor and access my phone anytime she likes. I think the only reason she confessed was when I introduced my female business partner to her.

My friend and I were working on a project, and I told my wife about it. I had the technical skills, while my partner was the sponsor. But my wife insisted I end the partnership and look for a male partner instead. She believed something was going on between us, even though there was nothing like that. Because of this, the business was put on hold and eventually failed.

For those asking, there’s no problem with my marriage. We are living peacefully, and both of us are doing well in our jobs.

The only challenge I have with her is that she invades my privacy.

If you're living peacefully then I see no reason for your worries.

deluckiest:
For the past 6 years, my wife has been monitoring all my phone lines—MTN, Glo, and Airtel. She screenshots my chats, records my calls, and even gathers proof with pictures. Changing my phone numbers doesn’t help because she says as long as I use my NIN to register a SIM, she can still track everything I do, whether openly or secretly, unless she chooses not to.

I want to put an end to this, but I don’t want to get her into trouble with the law.

Has anyone gone through something like this? How did you handle it? Please share your advice.

N0 1. Your wife is a chronic cheat and as such she believes you are doing same.
No 2..You are a man but you sounded like a woman with dike and it's like your wife controlled you.

Emdebby2:
She's your wife not the other way round. If you don't have any skeleton in your cupboard then don't complain.

hmmmmm why can she too let her husband do same to her phone too

The best form of defence is to attack, that's the strategy your wife is using and you're dancing to her tunes.


Sorry to say this, women like her are the cheating type but she's cunningly brainwashing you to believe she's a virtuous woman.


When dem catch thief for adugbo na the thieves wey hand never touch dey beat am pass.

Simp that’s what your ..shame on you I know she beats you up too .many men are simps Tufiakwa goo these man ..these ain’t love these slavery your into wake up before you die ..light my weed in peace WTF

What do you mean to say monitoring, your wife for that

You wife is entitled to your property and you are entitled to hers

May God help una

She's working with an IT firm or she's having an IT friend who's helping her out.
But if you ain't doing shit then you shouldn't worry, as she's monitoring yours I hope you are monitoring her's as well ..

There's no such thing like someone is feeling insecure.No one , I repeat no one in any relationship that will accuse his or her partner or repeatedly tagging him or her insecure that's not actually cheating. Baba your wife don sabi your game , no dey tag the innocent woman as insecure person.

Solution:
A. Change your security settings (password/pattern)
B. Apply SIM PIN
C. Switch off your phone whenever you want to sleep
Thank me later... She will come and complain to you why you have been switching off your when you sleep you don bounce her be that.

Also go through your Installed apps just to be sure there is no spy app installed on your phone.
The 3steps up will stop her.

deluckiest:
She's feeling insecure. She has no reason to doubt my loyally. She's one of those ladies who always support their gender. She believes no woman.can misbehave without the influence of the man.

I want to put an an end to it. I don't want to continue tolerating her.This is 2025.

You are taking this whole thing too personal. You’re just like a man who is in a dressing room and telling someone not to come in that you’re undressed when you should have won your boxers since in the bathroom. You have nothing to hide from your wife be it incriminating or not. If I were you give her your phone to handle completely. Be open, that is what she wants to see you do, don’t quarrel about it, when she see your free mindedness on that, na she go leave am for you. Use the matter tire her. That is what they want to see. Are you afraid of her due to the fact that you do secret things at her back? If I may ask, who pay the bills? What is your percentage quota/ contribution in total funding towards general family affairs ? If you are the highest bidder, then nothing wrong in you opting to bring up a discussion for a second wife and hear what she has to say. You’re a man, it’s your right! If you do, the monitoring will stop. Women needs rivals to checkmate their excesses. But if it is a 50/50 in household matters, please do not try it if not you can be poisoned by her. Better getting a 2nd wife than to be dating secretly especially with that kind of a woman. If you don’t want to, then simply free yourself. Nothing wrong, she’s your wife! Na she go taya las, las…! As you’re busy doing your thing! Women love it when they see you are uneasy over their activities with you. It gives them room to pry more and be more investigative as you try to me secretive. Don’t try them oh! Them no get work for that area. Mothers, wives, sisters, even female co-workers are all same. God made them so…

By not having skeletons in your cupboard and not hiding anything from her.

It's a dangerous thing for her to monitor your dick 24/7 , trust issues is real so if she can't trust you why should you trust her?. It's time to up ur game by putting an end to this endless tagging. Although times is dangerous but u as a man meeds space to breathe

I don't like seeing such headlines from simpish effeminate men.

Does your wife feed you?

Ignore her whenever she complains about the stuffs she sees in your phone. E be like say she dey control you. That's what you get when you put women on a pedestal.

Lol.. feeling insecure indeed..
She's gathering evidences so that she will use them to sue you in court and claim 75% of all you own. Shebi una do court wedding

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deluckiest:
we've been married for the past 11 years. I can't really tell why she's doing it. But it started when I was in the University and warned me not to have any female friend. Guess, she's feeling insecure.

If she checks and she doesn't find anything against you, she will stop naturally but as long as she keeps gathering evidence, there is nothing you can do.

The ball is in your court.

frozen70:
If you have anything secret, switch to Nokia touch light phone and use your android for free conversation

With Nokia touch lights, there are no pictures or anything to screen shot

But she get enough sha to dey monitor man

One day she will see what she is looking for

Na woman dey do woman

pretydiva:
Stay faithful to your wife, then she will stop monitoring your phone.

Chikena

Naijaprosper:
I don't know how degraded humans have become.

Why should spouses not have access to each other's phones? What should you be hiding? Don't accountability and faithfulness remain the standard anymore?

Wetin she dey find for my phone? She no get her own phone?
Foolish men die like rat . When they allow their wife or wives get away with certain things.....e g having access to your major bank account, weakness, your capability.....

deluckiest:
For the past 6 years, my wife has been monitoring all my phone lines—MTN, Glo, and Airtel. She screenshots my chats, records my calls, and even gathers proof with pictures. Changing my phone numbers doesn’t help because she says as long as I use my NIN to register a SIM, she can still track everything I do, whether openly or secretly, unless she chooses not to.

I want to put an end to this, but I don’t want to get her into trouble with the law.

Has anyone gone through something like this? How did you handle it? Please share your advice.

Are you the man in that relationship?

deluckiest:
we've been married for the past 11 years. I can't really tell why she's doing it. But it started when I was in the University and warned me not to have any female friend. Guess, she's feeling insecure.

wait wait... she told u this and u still went on with marrying her... Some of you sha.. Be very careful oh cos such women could be very dangerous and the funny thing is that na this kind of insecure women they cheat serially pass...

deluckiest:
She's feeling insecure. She has no reason to doubt my loyally. She's one of those ladies who always support their gender. She believes no woman.can misbehave without the influence of the man.

I want to put an an end to it. I don't want to continue tolerating her.This is 2025.

You must be a mumu man to allow your wife that you married with your money to torment and control you .wise up and be a man.dont be a simp

budaatum:
11 years and she hasn't found anything incriminating on your phone yet?

If so, consider her a blessing, and continue as you have. You'd appreciate her more when you celebrate your 50th wedding anniversary.

And yes, she's doing it because she's insecure. And your trustworthiness is her blessing, and the fact you are not a pig.

Consider an insecure,monitoring spirit a blessing?

Arrant nonsense..

Arrant,nonsensical nonsense.

deluckiest:
Like I said, my wife and I have been married for 11 years, but she never told me from the beginning that she could monitor and access my phone anytime she likes. I think the only reason she confessed was when I introduced my female business partner to her.

My friend and I were working on a project, and I told my wife about it. I had the technical skills, while my partner was the sponsor. But my wife insisted I end the partnership and look for a male partner instead. She believed something was going on between us, even though there was nothing like that. Because of this, the business was put on hold and eventually failed.

For those asking, there’s no problem with my marriage. We are living peacefully, and both of us are doing well in our jobs.

The only challenge I have with her is that she invades my privacy.

Ur wife wants to control u which is bad, She can know about ur dealings and even monitor u if it gives her peace of mind but controlling u is bad and out of it.

How can she interfere in ur business like that? So If u can't get a male sponsor ur business shuts down or gets held back? Just because of her?

Ok do u monitor her friends and business partners? Cos guilty people are the most paranoid people and they think everybody is like them. And then people who have been cheated on before also get paranoid.

Lionnation:
Just order her to stop monitoring your phone that's all

As per say him be Tinubu..🤔

Na wetin dey land some women for prison for Texas she dey do so. That's invasion of privacy. She just have to mind her business before she gets into trouble someday.

The laws I mentioned are specific to the state of Texas and may not be applicable in other states. However, there are federal laws that protect individuals' privacy and property rights, which apply across the United States.

Federal Laws
1. *Electronic Communications Privacy Act (ECPA)*: Prohibits unauthorized access to electronic communications, including emails, texts, and phone calls.
2. *Computer Fraud and Abuse Act (CFAA)*: Makes it a crime to intentionally access a computer without authorization or to exceed authorized access.
3. *Stored Communications Act (SCA)*: Protects the privacy of stored electronic communications, such as emails and texts.

State Laws
While federal laws provide a baseline level of protection, individual states may have their own laws and regulations regarding privacy and property rights. Some states, like California, have enacted stricter privacy laws, such as the California Consumer Privacy Act (CCPA).

In summary, while the specific Texas laws I mentioned earlier only apply within the state, federal laws and other state laws provide broader protections for individuals' privacy and property rights across the United States.

benini56:
Just try and stop cheating on her.
Try and be faithful to her alone.

She did not accuse me of cheating on her. She's just being insecure and too suspicious of my movess. I have not wronged her.

Simply go back to using Nokia 3310 and the likes. Those ones cannot be tracked except the network gives her access to your call records.

Kobojunkieee:
Guess?

"Guess" when you don't want wifey to see those "small gals" big oga text asking for suya money