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‘I Hate Being A Second Wife At My Young Age’- Nigerian Woman Laments by Segzee1(op):
Shakirah Romoke Razak, a Nigerian woman, has bemoaned being a “young” first wife following her husband’s marriage to someone else.

She made this statement in a Facebook post about a Nigerian man and his second wife.




https://primenaija.com/i-hate-being-a-second-wife-at-my-young-age-nigerian-woman-laments/

Re: ‘I Hate Being A Second Wife At My Young Age’- Nigerian Woman Laments by dawnomike(m): 9:48pm On Jan 20, 2025
Segzee1:
Shakirah Romoke Razak, a Nigerian woman, has bemoaned being a “young” first wife following her husband’s marriage to someone else.

She made this statement in a Facebook post about a Nigerian man and his second wife.
Sorry madam...
Re: ‘I Hate Being A Second Wife At My Young Age’- Nigerian Woman Laments by Domainer1999: 10:16pm On Jan 20, 2025
Only if he met you a Virgin otherwise, our Elder Stateman @Lalami3232 has the golden message for you. grin
Re: ‘I Hate Being A Second Wife At My Young Age’- Nigerian Woman Laments by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 10:39pm On Jan 20, 2025
That one no be anything 😂 abeg.

Allow your husband his freedom of his rights.

Simple and easy. CSS.
Re: ‘I Hate Being A Second Wife At My Young Age’- Nigerian Woman Laments by Ki11YurSev: 1:15am On Jan 21, 2025
I don read her nonsense post, she don win
Re: ‘I Hate Being A Second Wife At My Young Age’- Nigerian Woman Laments by Kobojunkie: 1:18am On Jan 21, 2025
Segzee1:
✓ Shakira Romoke Razak, a Nigerian woman, has bemoaned being a “young” first wife following her husband’s marriage to someone else.
She made this statement in a Facebook post about a Nigerian man and his second wife.
🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱

On another note, all criminals should be made to face for their crimes, no matter how small. 🤔
Re: ‘I Hate Being A Second Wife At My Young Age’- Nigerian Woman Laments by Baronthecelebri(m): 8:20am On Jan 21, 2025
Wahala
Re: ‘I Hate Being A Second Wife At My Young Age’- Nigerian Woman Laments by Sharpsharp00123: 9:05am On Jan 21, 2025
When we tell them d consequences of marrying a Muslim dem no go hear word, for those who will want to attack me

Christian no go get mind marry second wife on top small girl like this n it's not really pronounced in Christianity like that
Re: ‘I Hate Being A Second Wife At My Young Age’- Nigerian Woman Laments by Iamicekid(m): 3:48pm On Jan 21, 2025
Nobody force you to remain there, if it’s as bad a u seem comot there simple and make nobody quote and be saying all that she dey stay there for the kids crap, cause we all know if the man no guide, she for don leave am kids be damned
Re: ‘I Hate Being A Second Wife At My Young Age’- Nigerian Woman Laments by Tayorshd87(m): 4:27pm On Jan 21, 2025
Don't really understand why she is telling us 😔

If u are tired or not ready to meek again then leave and let's hear word abeg
Re: ‘I Hate Being A Second Wife At My Young Age’- Nigerian Woman Laments by Dera25(m): 4:47pm On Jan 21, 2025
Sharpsharp00123:
When we tell them d consequences of marrying a Muslim dem no go hear word, for those who will want to attack me

Christian no go get mind marry second wife on top small girl like this n it's not really pronounced in Christianity like that
Na only Muslim de take second wives? This is individual choice and has nothing to do with religion
Re: ‘I Hate Being A Second Wife At My Young Age’- Nigerian Woman Laments by Kelklein(m): 8:13pm On Jan 21, 2025
First of..

The op should correct the topic to '..First wife..' ..not second wife.

Polygamy isn't about men having multiple women, but to make sure every woman has a husband.

And men without means to take care of even one woman shouldn't even dream it.

Women deserve better!!
Re: ‘I Hate Being A Second Wife At My Young Age’- Nigerian Woman Laments by Kobojunkie: 8:17pm On Jan 21, 2025
Kelklein:
First of.. The op should correct the topic to '..First wife..' ..not second wife. Polygamy isn't about men having multiple women, but to make sure every woman has a husband.
↪And men without means to take care of even one woman shouldn't even dream it. Women deserve better!!
That is a ridiculous claim to make regarding polygamy given there isn't any information to prove that the case. 😩😩😩

2. Given that the vast majority of men who dream of it — polygamous men— are men without the means of adequately caring for their many wives and children, it becomes imperative to discourage such practice if not for anything but at least for societal cohesion. undecided
Re: ‘I Hate Being A Second Wife At My Young Age’- Nigerian Woman Laments by Kelklein(m): 9:49pm On Jan 21, 2025
Kobojunkie:
That is a ridiculous claim to make regarding polygamy given there isn't any information to prove that the case. 😩😩😩

2. Given that the vast majority of men who dream of it — polygamous men— are men without the means of adequately caring for their many wives and children, it becomes imperative to discourage such practice if not for anything but at least for societal cohesion. undecided
The general population of women averages ratio two to one and it's so in most countries. In Nigeria constitute about 54% of the population according to the 2006 census..

So what happens to the extra numbers by the time you tag one man to one wife as a must. You think some would deserve to die single..
Re: ‘I Hate Being A Second Wife At My Young Age’- Nigerian Woman Laments by Kobojunkie: 9:53pm On Jan 21, 2025
Kelklein:
✓ The general population of women averages ratio two to one and it's so in most countries. In Nigeria constitute about 54% of the population according to the 2006 census..
✓ So what happens to the extra numbers by the time you tag one man to one wife as a must. You think some would deserve to die single..
So, your conclusion is based on the inane idea that all women must be married? Isn't that utterly ridiculous given the facts of reality as we all know it? undecided

What is the percentage of people, men and women alike, who never get married for one reason or another? You should start there. undecided
Re: ‘I Hate Being A Second Wife At My Young Age’- Nigerian Woman Laments by Fiscus105(m): 4:20am On Jan 23, 2025
Domainer1999:
Only if he met you a Virgin otherwise, our Elder Stateman @Lalami3232 has the golden message for you. grin
Is ur gender met her as virgin too? When did it start that only one gender must remain virgin before marriage?


Stop taking drink that too harmful to ur mental health for you not to become useless father without proper sense of judgement.
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