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Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by imustsaymymindo: 2:43pm On Jan 22, 2025
That's because little children have less social conditioning than the grown-up.

The natural response to fear/grief etc. is what kids displays.

That's why if you really want to study an hypothesis, it is sometimes more important to observe how little children and animals respond to it than what an average social conditioned adult tells you. Adults are filled with ideologies, beliefs, systems, norms, approaches, that are lies evolved from redefined truths.

But kids just see it the way it is. Objectively. Till they start to grow up and behave like every one else and start to want things that every other person "should have(conditioned belief)" such as living Parents.
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by Johnn74: 2:57pm On Jan 22, 2025
guobe:
The 10 years old no even send as he was just pressing computer.
They will be okay certainly with time.
Na mumu 10yo . Lost dad 10yo , younger bro was 8yo. No be small cry we cry that day. Dad was sick for a long time; and we were really hoping he would recover.

The Sickness wore my mother down. Daddy was complaining bitterly, he felt alone we didn't visit him enough. Mi almost 12yo sibling (11years; 8months old) volunteered to begin sleeping at his bedside in the hospital for
months. After school 2pm; stroll to hospital to spend some nights besides daddy.😥😩
His sickness changed the household.

Week doctor finally discharged him ; after several months in hospital;
Oga come die for house
😐😭😭😭😭😭
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by HenryWilliams(m): 3:05pm On Jan 22, 2025
Gotocourt:
John F. Kennedy Jr. salutes his father's (John F. Kennedy whom was assassinated) coffin motorcade shocked

Kids are kids, so innocent just like water that quenches thirst
The boy was coached by his uncle several days before the funeral to salute .
He wasn't aware to whom he was saluting and even the meaning of the gesture
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by OZIOGU1: 3:09pm On Jan 22, 2025
Flavouy:
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The other thread you are niraland4 and here you are[b] Flavouy[/b], just to scam people, why are you doing this? and it sadden my heart that you are using my younger sister name sake to commit evil.

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Aa na vika anebira uvini either onoru or onyene you must be a bastard....i called you to ascertain your genuine request and you block me, na so i dey use catch una, those that genuinely needs help here got real time.
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by franchasofficia: 3:11pm On Jan 22, 2025
They won't feel it much if the parent that died isn't the breadwinner.


If the parent that died is the breadwinner, with time they will feel it because there won't be money to subscribe data for them to browse or watch digital TV or replace the computer and games when they spoil. They won't be eating as often and healthy as they feed before. When financial struggles sets in, they will remember the parent that died if that parent is the breadwinner but if the parent that died is a passive parent and not the breadwinner, they won't feel his or her absence that much
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by guobe(op): 3:21pm On Jan 22, 2025
Johnn74:
Na mumu 10yo . Lost dad 10yo , younger bro was 8yo. No be small cry we cry that day. Dad was sick for a long time; and we were really hoping he would recover.

The Sickness wore my mother down. Daddy was complaining bitterly, he felt alone we didn't visit him enough. Mi almost 12yo sibling (11years; 8months old) volunteered to begin sleeping at his bedside in the hospital for
months. After school 2pm; stroll to hospital to spend some nights besides daddy.😥😩
His sickness changed the household.

Week doctor finally discharged him ; after several months in hospital;
Oga come die for house
😐😭😭😭😭😭
Eya so sorry
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by guobe(op): 3:22pm On Jan 22, 2025
franchasofficia:
They won't feel it much if the parent that died isn't the breadwinner.


If the parent that died is the breadwinner, with time they will feel it because there won't be money to subscribe data for them to browse or watch digital TV or replace the computer and games when they spoil. They won't be eating as often and healthy as they feed before. When financial struggles sets in, they will remember the parent that died if that parent is the breadwinner but if the parent that died is a passive parent and not the breadwinner, they won't feel his or her absence that much
Ok
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by guobe(op): 3:23pm On Jan 22, 2025
imustsaymymindo:
That's because little children have less social conditioning than the grown-up.

The natural response to fear/grief etc. is what kids displays.

That's why if you really want to study an hypothesis, it is sometimes more important to observe how little children and animals respond to it than what an average social conditioned adult tells you. Adults are filled with ideologies, beliefs, systems, norms, approaches, that are lies evolved from redefined truths.

But kids just see it the way it is. Objectively. Till they start to grow up and behave like every one else and start to want things that every other person "should have(conditioned belief)" such as living Parents.
So true
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by idonhammer: 3:31pm On Jan 22, 2025
Not my son
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by crixlight2(m): 3:43pm On Jan 22, 2025
guobe:
That means they are built differently from adults
They are not build any different, na kids Dey grow to adult , na because Dey are still naive and they don’t really know what is happening
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by Afolue(m): 3:57pm On Jan 22, 2025
guobe:
When e go clear.
hunger go make their eyes clear as them dey grow…
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by Kingking001(m): 4:02pm On Jan 22, 2025
Wish the adults will do same.it will surely reduce overthinking,depression,HBP e.t.c
May the souls of all the departed keep resting in peace
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by pooozeee(m): 4:03pm On Jan 22, 2025
Because their brain is not yet fully developed in the capacity to detect bereavement
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by Germi9: 4:35pm On Jan 22, 2025
Rest in Peace Daddy. 32 years in mind sad
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by guobe(op): 4:40pm On Jan 22, 2025
Afolue:
hunger go make their eyes clear as them dey grow…
Lol
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by TheOldGods: 5:20pm On Jan 22, 2025
Kokaine:
The people who make the things you use and you regard them very highly and specially as scientists, have started turning to God, while you a villager who couldn't even pass integrated science in just talkless of chemistry and biology, you're telling us about something that's greater than science. Hmmm....

Which scientist are turning to god? You must be a joker. There is no god, you can keep believing th nonsense you were told as a kid, or take the red pill like matrix and see reality as it is.

Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by Etosha: 6:20pm On Jan 22, 2025
chypotenti:
My younger sister lost her husband few days ago but her little Boy of A year and 6months showed some signs two days before the dad died cos I was the one with him all through... He will be sleeping at night and shiver as if he's scared of something and start crying... He also did something that surprised me too, the position his father always lay at the sitting room, one of my cosusin who came visiting occupied same position while sleeping, this little Boy went straight there, climbed the soafer and was staring at my cousin to check if the person there was his Dad but after some minutes he discovered that wasn't his Dad... He left... I know his feeling it but can't express it as a child
My mom told me that the day my father was brought home sick, I went to the farm with her that day and ( he was brought home when I was on the farm with mother) according to her, I cried all the day on the farm for reason. She tried to console me but I wouldn't...
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by Kokaine(m): 6:21pm On Jan 22, 2025
TheOldGods:

Which scientist are turning to god? You must be a joker. There is no god, you can keep believing th nonsense you were told as a kid, or take the red pill like matrix and see reality as it is.

Are you guessing or you are very sure of what you're saying. How do you know what you're saying when you're just a human among all things that God created?
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by Etosha: 6:23pm On Jan 22, 2025
chypotenti:
My younger sister lost her husband few days ago but her little Boy of A year and 6months showed some signs two days before the dad died cos I was the one with him all through... He will be sleeping at night and shiver as if he's scared of something and start crying... He also did something that surprised me too, the position his father always lay at the sitting room, one of my cosusin who came visiting occupied same position while sleeping, this little Boy went straight there, climbed the soafer and was staring at my cousin to check if the person there was his Dad but after some minutes he discovered that wasn't his Dad... He left... I know his feeling it but can't express it as a child
My mom told me that the day my father was brought home sick, I went to the farm with her that day and ( he was brought home when I was on the farm with mother) according to her, I cried all day on the farm for no reason. She tried to console me but I wouldn't...he died few days later.
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by chypotenti(m): 6:28pm On Jan 22, 2025
Etosha:
My mom told me that the day my father was brought home sick, I went to the farm with her that day and ( he was brought home when I was on the farm with mother) according to her, I cried all day on the farm for no reason. She tried to console me but I wouldn't...he died few days later.
chai!!!
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by We4all: 7:11pm On Jan 22, 2025
It depends on the kid sometimes. Any kid above six years who doesn't understand the concept of death is not so smart.

Times have change and kids these days should know better.
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by femi4: 8:37pm On Jan 22, 2025
guobe:
Kids are really differently built humans by God.
They just lost a parent and they are still smiling,laughing and playing computer games on phone.
While the adults are wailing and rolling on the floor,you see the kids keeping their self busy by playing.
It's a different world most kids live in.
Ki lomode mo

Back then, my friend lost his Dad but still came around to watch voltron in my house. Kids just want to eat n play...no worries
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by Kobojunkie: 8:55pm On Jan 22, 2025
guobe:
➜Kids are really differently built humans by God. They just lost a parent and they are still smiling,laughing and playing computer games on phone. While the adults are wailing and rolling on the floor,you see the kids keeping their self busy by playing.
➜It's a different world most kids live in.
Are you describing kids who in fact have a clear understanding of what it means to have lost a parent or a group of Chuckys? undecided

2. Stop spreading this nonsense abeg! 🙄🙄🙄
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by Kobojunkie: 8:56pm On Jan 22, 2025
We4all:
➜It depends on the kid sometimes. Any kid above six years who doesn't understand the concept of death is not so smart. Times have change and kids these days should know better.
Imagine!! undecided
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by We4all: 9:22pm On Jan 22, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Imagine!! undecided
Lol...Na lie?
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by guobe(op): 9:23pm On Jan 22, 2025
femi4:
Ki lomode mo

Back then, my friend lost his Dad but still came around to watch voltron in my house. Kids just want to eat n play...no worries
Lol the guy no want any distraction
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by Bodydiialect57: 10:06pm On Jan 22, 2025
guobe:
That means they are built differently from adults
Not really because they're built differently, but because their slates are still clean.

Worries, anxieties have not been written on them.

When reality comes knocking, God help them to have shoulders to learn on, if not, that's when the pain of their loss will be greatly felt.
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by femi4: 10:11pm On Jan 22, 2025
guobe:
Lol the guy no want any distraction
The fact is whatever you do after the incident won't bring back the dead
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by TheOldGods: 10:38pm On Jan 22, 2025
Kokaine:
Are you guessing or you are very sure of what you're saying. How do you know what you're saying when you're just a human among all things that God created?
I'm not guessing bro, there is no god anywhere. Anything you can't see, feel or touch doesn't exist until it manifests itself. Anything else is superstitious beliefs
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by Kokaine(m): 10:57pm On Jan 22, 2025
TheOldGods:
I'm not guessing bro, there is no god anywhere. Anything you can't see, feel or touch doesn't exist until it manifests itself. Anything else is superstitious beliefs
But this is not the truth. Because you were in the womb for 9months and didn't have what takes to pwrceive this world. It maybe thst in our mortal state, we just don't have the senses and capacities to relate with or perceived. Our knowledge and capacity limits us to only the things we see, feel and touch. Phenomenon exist that we cannot feel, see, smell and touch. We don't deny them. You cannot see gravity or upthrust, nor surface tension, yet we have parameters that show they exist. We also cannot logically say this beautiful universe and intelligent beings like you are all by virtues of mere happenstance. It is not logical at all.
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by guobe(op): 11:25pm On Jan 22, 2025
Bodydiialect57:
Not really because they're built differently, but because their slates are still clean.

Worries, anxieties have not been written on them.

When reality comes knocking, God help them to have shoulders to learn on, if not, that's when the pain of their loss will be greatly felt.
Ok
Re: Kids Smiling, Laughing And Playing Computer Games After Losing A Parent by guobe(op): 11:26pm On Jan 22, 2025
femi4:
The fact is whatever you do after the incident won't bring back the dead
True
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