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Abeg before you do gather enough funds, so that we can start livestock farming together.

As if you consulted us before, going!

Look for a very large land to buy or lease long term and go into agriculture
Make sure it’s not an area riddled with Fulani bandits or ipob
Study well on agricultural products that are easy to produce and with short time to market that has a very high consumption rate in Nigeria

Namaster:
Returning to Nigeria should NEVER be an option unless you are 83 and waiting to DIE.

This your last statement should be declared a HATE SPEECH. Wetin happen?

Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

Make your peace and self care a priority.
We have just one life to live, so enjoy it to the fullest.

Concerning the amount you need to start back, it all depends on what you have in mind. That, to a large extent will help to give an estimate of how much you would need.

Coldie:
Depression is making me begin to have mental health issues, it’s going out of control, that’s y I want to mk a step to leave the system

...it's well...Just be engaging with your time..do what you are passionate about and surround yourself with people that can uplift you and your spirits.. whether home or overseas..that is all what we need we move through the ups and downs of life...stay alive bro

Bro, your mental health matters, not everyone is meant for the UK

There are a lot of people who returned from the UK back to Nigeria and are doing well here

Many musicians, many others returned and are doing well here

just follow your mind, you will be glad you did

Just make sure you draw out the plan of what to do here when you return before taking the flight

Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

Oga talk like a serious person so you can get serious advice. What is your profession? What experience do you have? What do you thi k you want to do when you come back?

Dey play.

Ask your self the 5 WHYs..

Why are you tired of UK, because it's swallowing you up and you're getting depressed.

Why are you getting swallowed up leading to depression? Because you work 247 along side school with no friends.

Why working 247?

Just keep asking till there is no more why to ask, there after start sorting and providing action plan for your identified issues.

Wish you well.

Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

Goggle about Nigeria by yourself and stop making noise here.

It's your neck bro. You can break it...!

Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

Personally, I can't give you a particular estimate, but make sure you do the following before returning home:

- Gather as much funds as possible, enough to start a small or medium sized business.
- Try to build a house, even if it's just a 3-bedroom bungalow somewhere in or close to your desired city. Trust me, you don't wanna deal with tenants, house agents and landlords in Nigeria...
- Approach the move prayerfully and do your research.

Also, don't be quick let go of anything that can help you resettle in the UK in case of any issues back home, things such as your residence permit, connections, relationships etc. There's a possibility that you might want to return after a few months back home, so be careful.

All the best!

Toneypen247:
It's your choice to make. The struggle is everywhere

Struggle for success or failure?

them go chop your skull that side oh

RealityKings1:
Ok you can relocate to Ogun State, it's a good state in South west.

Coldie:
I am not living my life, am tired of this lifestyle here

You're not alone.

Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

Village people at work

Visit more often. DO NOT RELOCATE. Thank me later.

Na the Ogun state I know abi which one.quote author=RealityKings1 post=133934692]

Ok you can relocate to Ogun State, it's a good state in South west.[/quote]

O.p, just save up very well. There are a lot of people who hold UK passport but choose to live in Nigeria. My advice is save up well, pack your bags and zoom. Make sure you save up and plan well on what to do when you get here. You'll surely live a happier life here in Nigeria. We make fun of everything here. Good luck.

Come home but make sure to look inward and solve whatever is eating at your mind before you make the move or try another country with sun and beach to reboot your mind. UK is a depressing country if you don't have a family or close knit circle around you. All the best mate.

Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

Nothing really special about abroad than the exchange rate, that exchange rate self only values here, it’s nothing if you spend it there, cool environment, ease to Get job, etc. but it lacks building relationships with people, major people there are always working round clock to make money that will be used in paying bills. No building of relationship, Friendship. You might not really have a good life like you want. Loneliness and boredom alone can kill one.

Living in the UK is like enslaving yourself, living from paycheck to paycheck, no time to have fun and enjoy your life.

Do mistake lose job lasan it's back to the streets

You can relocate to pH but you gats hold enough funds

Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

Nothing will make me leave Nigeria

Even if I am promised 10k dollars monthly

I swear

Try and build a house here, and ensure you have solar power for 24hrs power, so you don’t end up regretting

Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

If you return.. You will.wish to go back. Look for trusted persons and do business. Occupy yourself and stop being depressed except its spiritual. Load drums and ship to naija. I know someone who uses plastic drums to bring in items. Rice, supplements, clothes and the rest. If you recharge electricity for two months and fuel your car .. steady for 3 months .. your little savings you came back to naija with will disappear. Manage and stay. Keep in touch with people back home and don't isolate. I wish you well. ✌️

Roboto11:
Family gives better support.

Suicide is rife in UK, especially amongst yourng men.

Loneliness is a great factor in depression.
Being in the midst of family and friends could be a great comfort and therapy for people suffering depression.

You don ever go UK before?

Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

Dont come back here things may get worse just try to stay positive and find something meaninful doing.

Coming wont solvw your problem unless .you have your own mansion to live peacefully and you have a good security system in place because the averagw nigerians dont sleep with 2 eyes anymore.

Try think well you will be fine .if you want morr suggestion from me i can help.

Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

No matter how the system their swallow you, its far better than coming back to Nigeria. As a Christian, move nearer to non tithe pastor or muslim, move nearer to responsible imam for righteous life over there, you will see change in your life by special grace of God. No matter how you bring come Nigeria, especially if you have not built a house of yours; within a year, it will finish.