₦airaland Forum

Calitoscassius:
What kinda advice is this? this would make him even more depressed. You think all you mentioned above are that easy to achieve? houses? Yea right! How many houses. If he had the money to build houses he would need to re locate back to Liegeria.

Did he tell you; he did not have some money? He needs sellable skills. there are many opportunities in Nigeria and with the little funds and careful planning. He can get his life back, full time and still be a blessing to others.

This is where you are missing it. Most of you think it is all about money, all the time. This life is more than money. Fulfilment of purpose and peace of mind surpasses all.

Even if it is 1 or 2 houses (plus landed secured somewhere properties) that he is getting some rentage form and a few other stuffs that he does that brings money. then he is averagely secured financially at least until he finds his feats.

One thing most of you don't realize is...you sow what you reap into an environment. if you sow negativity, then you will reap the reward, but if you decide to sow positivity, you will always see opportunities where others are complaining.

Nigeria remains one of the best places to make it easily and legit too.

And Africans with dark skin need vitamin D in the west to improve their mood and strengthen the bones, because its supports calcium absorption.

CoronaVirusPro:
False! You are more likely to get depressed in the west than any part of the world.

Africans have a community spirit imbedded in them. They are naturally fun, poor or rich.

Western world is “All man for himself”. Bills be chasing you like gonna get killed.

Talk about food, you will feed on GMO till you become obese.

The West is just an over exaggerated world. It’s world where you just have to keep moving. It’s very easy to lose all in the west and knowing that will keep you on your toes forever.

Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

The way you feel about UK is the same way I feel about Nigeria.
I wish we could switch places right now.

If you have up to 900 million naira then you can come back permanently

Namaster:
First of all, you need to realise that depression is like body odour. It'll follow you EVERYWHERE you go.

If you feel so depressed that you're already suicidal, you need to get it treated ASAP.

DON'T let your depression push you into making a life-threatening MISTAKE.

TACKLE your depression in UK.
DON'T make any DRASTIC decision until you've done that.

If you think your life is HAR D in UK, Nigeria would make it look like a tutorial.

Returning to Nigeria should NEVER be an option unless you are 83 and waiting to DIE.

Big fat lie

You obviously know nothing about western societies

At the age you mentioned, you are already abandoned by society and if you are lucky, they dump you in old people’s home

Coldie:
Depression is making me begin to have mental health issues, it’s going out of control, that’s y I want to mk a step to leave the system

Which city are you in the UK?

Namaster:
First of all, you need to realise that depression is like body odour. It'll follow you EVERYWHERE you go.

If you feel so depressed that you're already suicidal, you need to get it treated ASAP.

DON'T let your depression push you into making a life-threatening MISTAKE.

TACKLE your depression in UK.
DON'T make any DRASTIC decision until you've done that.

If you think your life is HAR D in UK, Nigeria would make it look like a tutorial.

Returning to Nigeria should NEVER be an option unless you are 83 and waiting to DIE.

Nigeria is actually not as bad as you think.
At least, you have people around you you relate with.
You wouldn't know the value of that until you don't have it.

U wan relocate back to Nigeria from the UK for whatever reason? Omooo. Abeg no try ham ooooo. Just die for UK abeg.

Coldie:
Am in the UK and I am feeling very depressed, am even beginning to feel . I need to leave this evil country

Happiness and mental health is important to life and whatever money or achievements u have made for urself so pls return back if u want to. Some succeed by travelling out and others by returning back...

Look at Davido, dbanj and burna they all returned home to kickstart the careers and the rest is history.

Don't panic just plan correctly to the best of ur ability and follow through. Godbless

Kobojunkie:
Better support system in Nigeria where depressed people are generally looked down upon by family and society? Are you OK?

Mention some depressed people in Nigeria that family and society looked down upon..?

RealityKings1:
Ok you can relocate to Ogun State, it's a good state in South west.

Bad person

U wan make dem cut his head for ritual?

hosemujica:
Many unfortunate idiots will come for you because of your last paragraph. Be ready.

Thanks for your observation!

I do have the inkling something of such would happen. I will hope a few people would read in-between the lines and gain a few insights and learn of me. Otherwise, I will leave them to their reprobate mind about Nigeria.

One thing I have realized it. One can never make any good of an environment he/she sows negativity always. Such a soul would always reap negativity and will never see any good thing about that environment be it UK, US or Canada or even heaven.

You may take a long time off, sir - like 1 year, since you said you have stayed longer abroad.

Changing location, would, definitely, help your mental health sir.

Hit. Nigeria with some cash, lead a low-key life because of our security situations and to know who really likes you.

You would, additionally, need to invest (that’s if you haven’t done that, sir) in something that would take care of your bills while you are in Nigeria eg., like buying a rental property in better location where daily or monthly rental income is guaranteed. You can take 2 years’ rental as you are landing and that would take care of Naija expenses on families and friends who would be looking up to you for something.

While you are home, study all ‘studyable’ to know what you may really like to properly invest in, when you eventually choose to finally relocate.

Believe this story and I will sell you a mansion.

GeneralPula:
➜Mention some depressed people in Nigeria that family and society looked down upon..?

I see.... the robust mental health care system in everywhere Nigeria is clear evidence that mentally ill Nigerians are not looked down on by both family and society, abi?

Abeg how bad is the uk? why are people depressed in UK, something that most 9ja guys are wishing to japa to. Please can you throw more light? thanks

Coldie:
Am in the UK and I am feeling very depressed, am even beginning to feel . I need to leave this evil country

Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

Are you self employed ?
Can you work remotely?

How about you consider Ghana? It's one of the safest country in Africa.

CondemnBattery:
➜Abeg how bad is the uk? why are people depressed in UK, something that most 9ja guys are wishing to japa to. Please can you throw more light? thanks

Depression is likely caused as a result of experiencing unresolved stress by them in a system completely different and removed from that which their minds and heads had formerly become used to.

The thing about depression is that rather than push the victims towards facing the trauma, depression suggests other irrational ideas shifting the mind away from the problem itself.

Coldie:
I am not living my life, am tired of this lifestyle here

Bro come back to Nigeria, I swear u won't regret it..forget the abroad brouhaha, u will live ur life here.

This ur story is exactly why I ditched my Canada dream to stay here, I can't live another person life laye.

I see abroad as a school life, just like higher institutions life of a Christian fellow. From work to house to work to house to work to house. And u only do this to pay bills... even ur savings are irrelevant unless u come to a country where their currency is lower in strength.


But please while coming, plan it well.

U can get a contact in ur UK who will be supplying you some UK gadgets phones and accessories, if u no drive benz make I know why.

RealityKings1:
Ok you can relocate to Ogun State, it's a good state in South west.

hahahahaha... This one no b curse?

Namaster:
First of all, you need to realise that depression is like body odour. It'll follow you EVERYWHERE you go.

If you feel so depressed that you're already suicidal, you need to get it treated ASAP.

DON'T let your depression push you into making a life-threatening MISTAKE.

TACKLE your depression in UK.
DON'T make any DRASTIC decision until you've done that.

If you think your life is HAR D in UK, Nigeria would make it look like a tutorial.

Returning to Nigeria should NEVER be an option unless you are 83 and waiting to DIE.

😅😂

Coldie:
Am in the UK and I am feeling very depressed, am even beginning to feel . I need to leave this evil country

Where are your friends and family? You need to share your thoughts with someone physical. If you're legally living in UK, this may not be the best of time to return.

Sit down and make your plans clear. All will be well with you in Jesus' Name. Amen

Come and die in naija ...I have no advice for you ...

Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

.

I'm not scaring you o but just being objective. No way I can explain Nigeria situation to you here that can really paint the picture but by the time you move from Airport reach home, the transportation will give you enough signal

Namaster:
First of all, you need to realise that depression is like body odour. It'll follow you EVERYWHERE you go.

If you feel so depressed that you're already suicidal, you need to get it treated ASAP.

DON'T let your depression push you into making a life-threatening MISTAKE.

TACKLE your depression in UK.
DON'T make any DRASTIC decision until you've done that.

If you think your life is HAR D in UK, Nigeria would make it look like a tutorial.

Returning to Nigeria should NEVER be an option unless you are 83 and waiting to DIE.

i can't stop laughing. The last sentence eeh

budaatum:
You are blaming a country for how you feel instead of seeking why you feel how you feel. And you think you can run away from how you feel where you are and it wouldn't follow you where you go.

I tried that once. Ran away from UK to Mexico City only to find I'd packed what I was running from and took it with me. I was on a year contract, so got stuck with it there in a foreign land too.

It was really yuck being irresponsible.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ek4q6vZfmyw?si=vzY5mSx2Zj5_He12

If he had said this while living in Nigeria I am sure u would not have said the emboldened ur narative would have bn how Nigeria can kee someone before his time and blablabla ....lol

Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

Don't do it bro, Nigeria is like Hell atm

; diamond68, con carry your friend oo

RealityKings1:
Ok you can relocate to Ogun State, it's a good state in South west.

SadWest children are not difficult to know, Ogun State is better and safer than the entire Dot in a ⭕ Biafra region.

Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

How i wish we cud exchange location, me coming there and u staying in chibani in niger state here

Come with at least £10 & you are
good to go...



But, wait ohhh..


People are heading to Europe in thousands and
you want to face opposite direction?