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As a married man, you're expected to be the provider for your family. But you must be careful not to let your loved ones drain your finances.

It's time to be financially prudent, brothers! You must manage your money wisely, avoid unnecessary expenses, and prioritize your family's needs.

Don't let your family members turn you into an ATM! Set boundaries, communicate clearly, and make sure everyone understands the importance of financial discipline.

And to your wonderful wife, you need her support! She can help protect your family's finances by:

Cautioning her family members to respect your financial boundaries
Contributing to the family income (if she's not already doing so)
Supporting your financial decisions and helping you make wise choices

it is best to ghost

Na mumu dey accept such trash all in the name of love and marriage.

Even after giving birth to my son and mother in-law was around taking care of the baby i.e my wife mother .

I keep telling and asking my wife when will she leave because I can not come and drain all in the name of love 😗

I hate what I don't like.

Tayorshd87:
Na mumu dey accept such trash all in the name of love and marriage.

Even after giving birth to my son and mother in-law was around taking care of the baby i.e my wife mother .

I keep telling and asking my wife when will she leave because I can not come and drain all in the name of love 😗

I hate what I don't like.

I gave an ultimatum for MIL never to pass the night in my house again because she misbehaved the last time.

Nnamdipapa:
I gave an ultimatum for MIL never to pass the night in my house again because she misbehaved the last time.

women naturally love to control even their son inlaw, while her daughter may even ask the hubby to obey her mum's selfish attempts at controlling him

Creamypie:
women naturally love to control even their son inlaw

She tried that with me and failed. She always said" I am old enough to be your mom" and I would reply my mom would never try half the shits I get to tolerate from her. I told my wife the day your mom steps in my house, I am walking out of the marriage and I will force her to choose between her mom and her marriage.

blackpanthar:
it is best to ghost

Bro the way you replied me the last time, it was not too cool, in addition you have not responded to the additional enquiries.

GarkiAccessory:
Bro the way you replied me the last time, it was not too cool, in addition you have not responded to the additional enquiries.

Oh so sorry, I don't know what you are referring to... kindly show me my reply... and based on what topic

ejitest1:
➜As a married man, you're expected to be the provider for your family. But you must be careful not to let your loved ones drain your finances.
It's time to be financially prudent, brothers! You must manage your money wisely, avoid unnecessary expenses, and prioritize your family's needs. Don't let your family members turn you into an ATM! Set boundaries, communicate clearly, and make sure everyone understands the importance of financial discipline. And to your wonderful wife, you need her support! She can help protect your family's finances by: Cautioning her family members to respect your financial boundaries. Contributing to the family income (if she's not already doing so). Supporting your financial decisions and helping you make wise choices

Man go go carry another full-grown adult as dependent only to then complain and cry foul when that fully grown adult reveals she is exactly that, a fully grown adult with a will of her own. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Stop deceiving yourselves with this nonsense of being a provider for your family and all. If you are not very well off then you have no business marrying a woman who does not equally bring in income to support the household which is EQUALLY hers to provide for and nurture. If you are not very well off and you cannot stand being your woman's equal in marriage, then maybe marriage— and probably the raising of children— isn't at all for you.

Nnamdipapa:
She tried that with me and failed. She always said" I am old enough to be your mom" and I would reply my mom would never try half the shits I get to tolerate from her. I told my wife the day your mom steps in my house, I am walking out of the marriage and I will force her to choose between her mom and her marriage.

Charlie, it is not in your good interest quarrelling with your wife's mother. Na tact you go dey use follow her

gerizzim:
Charlie, it is not in your good interest quarrelling with your wife's mother. Na tact you go dey use follow her

Na, I am a triuble maker and I already drew the line for her. I won't take shit in my family.

Creamypie:
women naturally love to control even their son inlaw, while her daughter may even ask the hubby to obey her mum's selfish attempts at controlling him

Only an immature, poor or foolish man will let anybody control him especially his in-laws.

gerizzim:
Charlie, it is not in your good interest quarrelling with your wife's mother. Na tact you go dey use follow her

A man must stand his ground. Moreover, you don't know exactly what transpired between them.

Marriage no be for children...everybody wan pursue their mother in law...while me dey here dey miss my lovely and most beautiful hearted woman I have ever known (my late mother in law).

Marriage without stable finance na see finish.

U see this 2025,every man should go and learn about financial education. That is the only thing that would save u from Marriage wahala,with money not stolen money,u can tolerate any kind of human beings.

After the actions my inlaws put up, I banned all of them from ever nearing my house. Shishi I no dey send anybody. I don't have time for that in-law rubbish.

gerizzim:
Charlie, it is not in your good interest quarrelling with your wife's mother. Na tact you go dey use follow her

You never meet some useless mother-in-laws wey no dey consider the interest of their daughters marriage. They will want to frustrate you and instead of your wife to caution her mom, she will just be looking. So if you don't take matters into your own hands then what are you doing?

Nnamdipapa:
She tried that with me and failed. She always said" I am old enough to be your mom" and I would reply my mom would never try half the shits I get to tolerate from her. I told my wife the day your mom steps in my house, I am walking out of the marriage and I will force her to choose between her mom and her marriage.

no mind her, when she marry her own na so them com sitdon for her head, me i no go talk but my attitude go show you no longer accepted here. i hate nonsense

Pootle:
no mind her, when she marry her own na so them com sitdon for her head, me i no go talk but my attitude go show you no longer accepted here. i hate nonsense

I tried using attitudes, he nor work so I had to tell her my mind straight up. It is my house and I gat to set my rules.

Yk

blackpanthar:
Oh so sorry, I don't know what you are referring to... kindly show me my reply... and based on what topic

On the Gmail

And also about the project you reffered me and others to, the person said that they have suspended the project until further notice

Is it by force to date or marry? As a broke man, why chose to marry and start writing epistles on Nairaland.

I cannot date such a man.

TheGreatIyaebe:
Is it by force to date or marry? As a broke man, why chose to marry and start writing epistles on Nairaland.

I cannot date such a man.

why none of d guys wey d service ur toto in the name of date never marry u?

are u wet right now?

Tayorshd87:
Na mumu dey accept such trash all in the name of love and marriage.

Even after giving birth to my son and mother in-law was around taking care of the baby i.e my wife mother .

I keep telling and asking my wife when will she leave because I can not come and drain all in the name of love 😗

I hate what I don't like.

as ur wife born, her toto wide add abi e still be like before?

Nnamdipapa:
I gave an ultimatum for MIL never to pass the night in my house again because she misbehaved the last time.

u fit borrow me ur wife make i use empty my balls this week?

As a man, take charge of your home

If u looseguard, na u sabi

And besides respect should be reciprocal, so the mother inlaw should know her limit in the son inlaw's house. Then if she fail's in that aspect, nothing wrong for the son inlaw to put her in order

GarkiAccessory:
On the Gmail

And also about the project you reffered me and others to, the person said that they have suspended the project until further notice

Good Day sir, BHI resumed today and work has started. You are still in a new batch and your turn would come. Nevertheless, speak with any of the admins in your group. Sorry for the late reply, I have not been around.

blackpanthar:
Good Day sir, BHI resumed today and work has started. You are still in a new batch and your turn would come. Nevertheless, speak with any of the admins in your group. Sorry for the late reply, I have not been around.

Okay Sir,
Thank you very much for your response, I appreciate. I will contact the admin right now.

blackpanthar:
Good Day sir, BHI resumed today and work has started. You are still in a new batch and your turn would come. Nevertheless, speak with any of the admins in your group. Sorry for the late reply, I have not been around.

Boss I am still on standby waiting, I have contacted them
They said they were sorry for the late response

TheGreatIyaebe:
Is it by force to date or marry? As a broke man, why chose to marry and start writing epistles on Nairaland.

I cannot date such a man.

na for which store u dey do sales girl?
abi u still dey tell people say u dey work for imaginary FG ministry ?