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Imagine he reaches to God and he is asked "how did you die?"


And he responds "I killed myself."


The kind beating en go chop en

cococandy:
You’d be surprised

Please inform me when the wedding is set.
I will attend. I'm not too far.
U seem you don't understand what TRAUMA is or possibly haven't been through one.

chatinent:
Imagine he reaches to God and he is asked "how did you die?"
And he responds "I killed myself."
The kind beating en go chop en

He has entered the state of permanent sleep.
He is sleeping as we chat.
...and that's the fact we know.
Every other thing remains postulation 4now until proven.

GloriousGbola:
the man did not lose any license . i googled him and his wife.

this is the latest from the Dad

i had said before that everything about this story is documented

in the

is the reputation of the guy that will be smeared in the mud

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/2/he-klled-himself-to-avoid-paying-1900-francis-van-lare-alleges-his-daughters-partner-who-took-his-life-was-a-dead-beat-dad-denies-report-of-15k-per-month-child-support.html

$1900 not 15k because he has a special needs son
he was asked to pay child support , not alimony because the daughter is self sufficient
he had restraining orders

Going by the evidence posted by Linda. The temporary child support is not 1900. You can go through it. For example, he paid twice in October 2024 to a total of 3668 dollars.

This is temporary order. I have checked their case online and I saw the court ordered final support amount on January 27, 2025.

We don't know how much is this final order.

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APOPTOSIS:
➜He has entered the state of permanent sleep. He is sleeping as we chat....and that's the fact we know. Every other thing remains postulation 4now until proven.

Sleeping or decaying aka becoming food for worms?🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Helpout12345:
Going by the evidence posted by Linda. The temporary child support is not 1900. You can go through it. For example, he paid twice in October 2024 to a total of 3668 dollars.

This is temporary order. I have checked their case online and I saw the court ordered final support amount on January 27, 2025.

We don't know how much is this final order.

child support is $1900 per month

at the minimum, you pay child support until your child is 18 years

from the documents they have been separated since august 2023.

this is simple maths

has he paid child support of 15 to 16 months

why do you think the FIL was calling him a deadbeat?

1900 is not material to the late dr.

GloriousGbola:
child support is $1900 per month

at the minimum, you pay child support until your child is 18 years

from the documents they have been separated since august 2023.

this is simple maths

has he paid child support of 15 to 16 months

why do you think the FIL was calling him a deadbeat?

1900 is not material to the late dr.

Go back to the screenshot uploaded by the FIL. You will see 2 payments in October 2024 total of 3668 dollars, 4 payments in July 2024, total of 4550 dollars, 2 payments in September 2024, total of 4000 dollars. Going by this, I can say the total monthly temporary child support was not 1900 dollars.

I called it temporary child support because the final order of child support was issued on January 27, 2025.

Go to this link below, and use case number C13FM22000282 to see that final child support order was issued on January 27 2025.

https://casesearch.courts.state.md.us/casesearch/inquiry-search.jsp

Kobojunkie:
Sleeping or decaying aka becoming food for worms?🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Exactly.
Meaning he's no longer in pains or conscious of events around him. But those left behind will suffer it, no matter what.
It will never be the same again.
They lost an indispensable character

APOPTOSIS:
Exactly.
Meaning he's no longer in pains or conscious of events around him. But those left behind will suffer it, no matter what.
It will never be the same again.
They lost an indispensable character

The woman just lost her ATM.

APOPTOSIS:
➜Exactly. Meaning he's no longer in pains or conscious of events around him. But those left behind will suffer it, no matter what. It will never be the same again. They lost an indispensable character

Abegi! Allow the woman make she move on make she find herself another man —abi na ATM una go tag them — o'jare! ... this man chose to kill himself. 🙄

Helpout12345:
Go back to the screenshot uploaded by the FIL. You will see 2 payments in October 2024 total of 3668 dollars, 4 payments in July 2024, total of 4550 dollars, 2 payments in September 2024, total of 4000 dollars. Going by this, I can say the total monthly temporary child support was not 1900 dollars.

I called it temporary child support because the final order of child support was issued on January 27, 2025.

Go to this link below, and use case number C13FM22000282 to see that final child support order was issued on January 27 2025.

https://casesearch.courts.state.md.us/casesearch/inquiry-search.jsp

link is blocked for some reason

but what you have posted invalidates the story the family and bloggers have been sharing

that the guy was being strangled by a hungry gold digger.

i can only assume he snapped after being served divorce papers or maybe finding his wife has moved on and is dating again.

Does it mean that the Dr. with all his smartness did not investigate this family before diving in?

hosemujica:
Does it mean that the Dr. with all his smartness did not investigate this family before diving in?

Investigate the family to what end? Na the family decide say him go pay $1900 every month for his own child?

Kobojunkie:
Investigate the family to what end? Na the family decide say him go pay $1900 every month for his own child?

Not at all really. But from a personal perspective, I will not marry into this family after going through her father’s facebook page . Not happening.

But I guess it’s his decision and it ended well for him.

He met jennyclay type of woman and she jennycalized him
The warning is everywhere about evil women but these simps always gets deceived by dopamine

No sympathy for simps

Now, it is clear why he lost his license and the likely reason he took his life.

hosemujica:
➜Not at all really. But from a personal perspective, I will not marry into this family after going through her father’s facebook page . Not happening. But I guess it’s his decision and it ended well for him.

Never heard of the saying, "Different strokes for different folks?" 🙄

The family did not pull the trigger to off him; this man did it to himself according to the story. Let's not take this where it should not even go.😩

GboyegaD:
➜Now, it is clear why he lost his license and the likely reason he took his life.

He lost his license because he was going through a divorce? Wetin concern AMA and state board with marriage abeg?

When I say Ibo hates Ibos, this is another example

GloriousGbola:
link is blocked for some reason

but what you have posted invalidates the story the family and bloggers have been sharing

that the guy was being strangled by a hungry gold digger.

i can only assume he snapped after being served divorce papers or maybe finding his wife has moved on and is dating again.

Or I think it is blocked because of IP address issue.

I am looking at the case file on that website. Any other person in the US should try to check that link and look at the case file.

1. It is a Custody case and not a divorce case.
2. Case started on Feb 18, 2022
3. As usual in such cases, court will issue temporary order of support while the case is ongoing. This temporary order was issued on August 31, 2022 called Pendente Lite Order. This can cover temporary child support amount.
4. In their case, court also issued more orders on child support on March 27 and 30, 2023.
5. These are the temporary child supports that the FIL screenshot and they are obviously more than 1900.
6. Court issued final order on the Custody and Child Support on January 27, 2025 and closed the case. This final order of support we don't know how much it is.
7. Ikenna killed himself on January 26, 2025 after learning of the outcome of their court hearing of January 21 and 22, 2025.

Helpout12345:
Or I think it is blocked because of IP address issue.

I am looking at the case file on that website. Any other person in the US should try to check that link and look at the case file.

1. It is a Custody case and not a divorce case.
2. Case started on Feb 18, 2022
3. As usual in such cases, court will issue temporary order of support while the case is ongoing. This temporary order was issued on August 31, 2022 called Pendente Lite Order. This can cover temporary child support amount.
4. In their case, court also issued more orders on child support on March 27 and 30, 2023.
5. These are the temporary child supports that the FIL screenshot and they are obviously more than 1900.
6. Court issued final order on the Custody and Child Support on January 27, 2025 and closed the case. This final order of support we don't know how much it is.
7. Ikenna killed himself on January 26, 2025 after learning of the outcome of their court hearing of January 21 and 22, 2025.

you can screencap and upload

Nnamdipapa:
I guess as much. This is what happens when we allow ourselves to be controlled by emotions as men. Why go to the extent of kidnapping your own family.
The Bible days " Ask and you shall receive"
You ask me for the kids, I give them to you and, within the week, I am cooling off in Nigeria with more pretty women on a sunset beach.

I do not even allow myself to get angry because of women.

Men out there your marriage or relationship may be sweet right now but I can tell you nothing is guaranteed in life, that woman who is heads over heels in love today can be on your jugular squeezing the very life out of you tomorrow.
Always have a plan B, and ask yourself, if this woman decides to divorce me tommorow, what are my options?

Study and be an expert in divorce laws of your countries. Learn to hide assets overseas and never have a joint account for your main source of income.

See finish is what leads to a lack of regard by your wife, never be in the position where you are fully known and your actions anticipated.

Do not be violent towards your spouse, it will always backfire, do not kidnap or threaten with a gun as things can quickly escalate.

When seriously angry, look for a bar to chill and have a drink, get a Vietnamese maseus to give a full body massage and a seperate hotel room to cool your anger.
Never resort into violence except you have a perfect alibi and able to get away with it.

Knowing that this Doctor spent some time in Nigeria still surprises me. His parents are also living . I wonder if they advised him and he refused to listen, he messed up by going into this relationship from the beginning based on what I’m finding out in the first place. ( there’s an Igbo adage that says , “ it’s not every woman you sleep with”)


And his “ United States or nowhere else” attitude ultimately became his undoing. Granted some women will make your life a living hell to the extent that living won’t be palatable. But how come no one told him he can always relocate and still have his fun.

And this is a cardiologist? How does his brain even work? I tire .

hosemujica:
Knowing that this Doctor spent some time in Nigeria still surprises me. His parents are also living . I wonder if they advised him and he refused to listen, he messed up by going into this relationship from the beginning based on what I’m finding out in the first place.


And his “ United States or nowhere else” attitude ultimately became his undoing. Granted some women will make your life a living hell to the extent that living won’t be palatable. But how come no one told him he can always relocate and still have his fun.

And this is a cardiologist? How does his brain even work? I tire .

People are often carried away with the notion that Nigeria is hellish existence devoid of any kind of fun which totally wrong.
I find that I can have more fun and live a well adjusted life in Nigeria.

GloriousGbola:
you can screencap and upload

Hopefully, the screenshots will show...

Simps everywhere. Take the red pill they say no. The silvery lining here is that one simp just left mother earth

The guy Bleep up big time, but the woman will suffer for it and her father that is talking nonsense will face karma in future.

Nnamdipapa:
I will never kill myself for a woman or marriage but if I ever get to that point, we are all going together.

Try live in US for a year with your wife and see if you can still rewrite this statement word for word.

virginchaser:
Try live in US for a year with your wife and see if you can still rewrite this statement word for word.

Ok, I hear you.

APOPTOSIS:
Now everyone go rest.
You have someone that earn such amount of money in the United States, rather than praying for him everyday for preservation of life, good health and peace of mind, na soo so torture.
If the court could ask him to pay that amount, then he was a treasure that should be cared for

Come collect money naaa...
At least for now he is resting in peace.
Let's see how the court will generate the $15,000 monthly payments for them?
Hope they will follow him to the morgue to ask for it. U go use ur hand invite wahala
You all knew he needed an active license to practice but you chose to frustrate him.
Now those kids will have an entirely different taste of life. It will never never be the same again. That I can assure.

I doubt if u read to where the man said, people should endeavour to do underground checks of spouse background, and that, many of experiences partners had from parents, they often bring it to their own marriages,.....
THAT IS, HUSBAND PARENTS' MARRIAGE MIGHT HAVE BEEN TOXIC AND NOTHING TO WRITE HOME ABOUT, as a result of that, he transferred the trauma and emotions, he passed through,to his own marriage. Hence, his marriage too, would be toxic.

Lesson for you to learn, if ur own parents' marriage is/was toxic, which made you experienced ugly upbringing(as per ur comment up thr), I will advice you to do whole lots of cleansing before u marry, provided you want to enjoy marriage, again, you must also do proper background checks of your partner before you married.

MARRIAGE IS NOT DIFFICULTY ONLY IF, THE TWO PARTNERS READY TO BE SELFLESS AND NOT SELFISH TOWARDS EACH OTHER.

Nnamdipapa:
If there is property involved, she will sell and get equity. The man is the ultimate loser for throwing away all his education and achievements.

Not to talk of life insurance payout

CoronaVirusPro:
Morafvcker fvcked up!

He should have taken that fvckin woman along with him when he made up his mind.

Now, that pvssy is gonna be on another D before he makes it to the grave!

Be constructive with your final decisions. If you have to let go, let go of all….You fvckin have nothin to lose!

only a terrorist will reason this way