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The rate of depression and anxiety man is facing right now is getting beyond being a real man. Friends abandonment, falling to travel 419 agent, wife abandonment, failed and paralyzed business, hatred, debt every angle. Threat from creditors etc. prayed no result, depression upon depression. If such man killed himself is it bad.

Duduyankee1:
The rate of depression and anxiety man is facing right now is getting beyond being a real man. Friends abandonment, falling to travel 419 agent, wife abandonment, failed and paralyzed business, hatred, debt every angle. Threat from creditors etc. prayed no result, depression upon depression. If such man killed himself is it bad.

I believe you are asking the wrong question.

At kobojunkies wrong question how?

Duduyankee1:
At ... wrong question how?

➜If you are in Nigeria right now, what does it matter whether you are a real man or not?
➜Are you struggling with depression and anxiety? What does it matter to your mental health whether you are living in poverty or not when your focus should instead be on finding out what you can do to resolve your mental issues? And no, money and material things don't resolve mental illness.
➜Suicide? Isn't that a symptom of mental illness?
➜ As for all of the other issues you listed, well, you can't erase the mistakes of your past(many of them probably seem to be due to bad decisions made) but you can at least begin now to make better(more informed) decisions and hope for the best.

At worst case scenario you go back to agriculture and ease the burden of city pressure

Na still you get your life, don't give it a knife

Duduyankee1:
The rate of depression and anxiety man is facing right now is getting beyond being a real man. Friends abandonment, falling to travel 419 agent, wife abandonment, failed and paralyzed business, hatred, debt every angle. Threat from creditors etc. prayed no result, depression upon depression. If such man killed himself is it bad.

2Timothy 3:1

Only a fool kills himself. Many of you fall into depression because you use society standards to judge success.

You are only interested in what others are saying about you instead of what God is saying about you.

That is why you see a 17 year old boy already having high BP because he has not made it in life.

But even the man who founded KFC Succeded with KFC after suffering with menial jobs for over 60 years of his life.

Till he discovered there was another way of preparing chicken that would become a worldwide phenomenon.

Any human being going to take credit is not wise because why will you be longing for what you can't afford and fall into the debt of creditors?

It is because many people want to belong. They don't want to feel left behind.

As for me, what concerns me? At over 40 years, I have zero friends and belong to zero associations. This was something I started as a child to avoid human katakata. Human wahala too much.

If you take your life, straight to hell fire.

Better allow the raging storm around you to calm on its own. Those you are owing will shout and shout. But they will not kill you.

Whenever they come shouting, be begging them with "please and ejoor". It works. Humans like their overbloated ego massaged. Be calling them chairman. Fall down on the floor if you have to.

Then work hard to pay up. Above all, LIVE ACCORDING TO YOUR MEANS AND BE CLOSER TO GOD.

BYE