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Please it wasn't my wish to come back here again seeking for help but I have no choice since family abandoned me and I can't use my left hand anymore ** sobs**... I'm stock in the middle of nowhere. Please help me to get my life back guys.

After preparing to leave for the Hostel to resume work last year September, I woke up and took my drugs after which I became confused and everywhere was getting dark. I was salivating and out of fear I took more drugs to clear my eyes. When my sister got back from church, I tried to call her but couldn't talk again. So I touched her legs and waved to her that I'm dying. If I tried to talk I'll be humming. So she rushed me to the hospital where my blood was checked and discovered to be at 22% my sister started crying because she was still paying back the 400k she took from her office when I first came down with stroke. I felt for her but because I couldn't talk I requested for a pen and paper from the doctor and wrote out my account password for her to deposit for me and commence treatment because they said I'll need 3 pints of blood one pint was 35k so we could only afford 2
From the money I wanted to use and get a place we bought two because there are other treatments in between plus hospital bills. That was how we started using the money. Then they flushed my system with so many drips before I could talk again they said I over dosed on my medicine. The blood transfusion commenced.

I was also treated of high malaria.
The doctor checked my stomach and discovered I had huge fibroid he said it s like 18 weeks gestation. He asked us to go for test but the money in the account was already running low so I told him I can't afford anymore tests and that no money for operation even if we find out it's actually fibroid. He said but I'll keep loosing blood if we don't take it out. After one week I left the hospital and by the time they gave us bill the 250k coco and sheyi baby gave me was gone.

Since then I've been stalk here with my sister. She's been the one feeding and managing me. She used to by me tranexamic acid to reduce my flow but still not reducing it well at some point she said she's tired that I ll be buying it myself. With little help I've been getting from church members I've been buying it. December she said I should stop following her to church MFM because I'm going there to disgrace her by looking pathetic so people will be pitying me. I begged her but she didn't let me follow her again.

Last year she stopped giving me dinner and said should be sorting it out myself that she can only give me breakfast and I use the little change I have to complete what she gives me for breakfast or if I use what she gives me I'll be getting weak. January this year she stopped giving me both breakfast and said I should sort myself out knowing I'm not strong enough to work yet. Since then I've been feeling dizzy and weak and because I couldn't afford the tanexamic acid for three months now my menses have been overflowing without control and I feel more weak and dizzy these days after seeing it.

Please guys I want to leave her house before something happens to me and I need help. If I can live with anyone. I don't mind please help me guys please.
Pardon any errors because I can't see clearly because of too much dry garri I chew these days.

You can reach me here okolijudith15@gmail.com

Please who can help take me in let me be working with my functioning right hand gradually for you.

Oldnairalanderb:
Please it wasn't my wish to come back here again seeking for help but I have no choice since family abandoned me and I can't use my left hand anymore ** sobs**... I'm stock in the middle of nowhere. Please help me to get my life back guys.

After preparing to leave for the Hostel to resume work last year September, I woke up and took my drugs after which I became confused and everywhere was getting dark. I was salivating and out of fear I took more drugs to clear my eyes. When my sister got back from church, I tried to call her but couldn't talk again. So I touched her legs and waved to her that I'm dying. If I tried to talk I'll be humming. So she rushed me to the hospital where my blood was checked and discovered to be at 22% my sister started crying because she was still paying back the 400k she took from her office when I first came down with stroke. I felt for her but because I couldn't talk I requested for a pen and paper from the doctor and wrote out my account password for her to deposit for me and commence treatment because they said I'll need 3 pints of blood one pint was 35k so we could only afford 2
From the money I wanted to use and get a place we bought two because there are other treatments in between plus hospital bills. That was how we started using the money. Then they flushed my system with so many drips before I could talk again they said I over dosed on my medicine. The blood transfusion commenced.

I was also treated of high malaria.
The doctor checked my stomach and discovered I had huge fibroid he said it s like 18 weeks gestation. He asked us to go for test but the money in the account was already running low so I told him I can't afford anymore tests and that no money for operation even if we find out it's actually fibroid. He said but I'll keep loosing blood if we don't take it out. After one week I left the hospital and by the time they gave us bill the 250k coco and sheyi baby gave me was gone.

Since then I've been stalk here with my sister. She's been the one feeding and managing me. She used to by me tranexamic acid to reduce my flow but still not reducing it well at some point she said she's tired that I ll be buying it myself. With little help I've been getting from church members I've been buying it. December she said I should stop following her to church MFM because I'm going there to disgrace her by looking pathetic so people will be pitying me. I begged her but she didn't let me follow her again.

Last year she stopped giving me dinner and said should be sorting it out myself that she can only give me breakfast and I use the little change I have to complete what she gives me for breakfast or if I use what she gives me I'll be getting weak. January this year she stopped giving me both breakfast and said I should sort myself out knowing I'm not strong enough to work yet. Since then I've been feeling dizzy and weak and because I couldn't afford the tanexamic acid for three months now my menses have been overflowing without control and I feel more weak and dizzy these days after seeing it.

Please guys I want to leave her house before something happens to me and I need help. If I can live with anyone. I don't mind please help me guys please.
Pardon any errors because I can't see clearly because of too much dry garri I chew these days.

You can reach me here okolijudith15@gmail.com

I didn't read the story but can 10k help
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Hmnn... lost but found.

We4all:
Hmnn... lost but found.

How are you?

Oldnairalanderb:
How are you?

Good! Surprised to read your post though. I thought you were never coming back.

We4all:
Good! Surprised to read your post though. I thought you were never coming back.

If not for what happened I probably won't ever come back cos I never wanted to.

Smh

Would you live with a man ??

Did you have another stroke..


Why did your left arm go numb??


Besides there's nothing you can do for me in my house ..

I'd be sympathetic to your condition and would feel awful letting you work under that condition...


Why not working with your phone??

Since you teach.. teach online...

Silentgroper:
Would you live with a man ??

Did you have another stroke..


Why did your left arm go numb??


Besides there's nothing you can do for me in my house ..

I'd be sympathetic to your condition and would feel awful letting you work under that condition...


Why not working with your phone??

Since you teach.. teach online...

I can live with a man anyone at all provided there's enough space for me to breathe and exercise because this place I'm suffocating here and can't move freely. It's not her fault because the place is very small. Last night my Left arm was paining me so I lay facing up and she was harassing and pushing me that I should lie on my side. I couldn't sleep throughout. The torture is too much and she's doing this because she has asked me to leave but I don't want to be sounding ungrateful. Just pouring my her before something happens to me.

The left hand has been weak from day one I suffered the partial stroke but because proper care was not taken it's now paining me again. Though we did a few physio sessions and I try exercising it but it's no longer like before. I've tried so many online jobs but non is forth coming.
Please if you know anyone I can be staying with till I'm properly healed and can be going to work, I'll appreciate.
Thank you dear.

Hmmm...

Oldnairalanderb:
I can live with a man anyone at all provided there's enough space for me to breathe and exercise because this place I'm suffocating here and can't move freely. It's not her fault because the place is very small. Last night my Left arm was paining me so I lay facing up and she was harassing and pushing me that I should lie on my side. I couldn't sleep throughout. The torture is too much and she's doing this because she has asked me to leave but I don't want to be sounding ungrateful. Just pouring my her before something happens to me.

The left hand has been weak from day one I suffered the partial stroke but because proper care was not taken it's now paining me again. Though we did a few physio sessions and I try exercising it but it's no longer like before. I've tried so many online jobs but non is forth coming.
Please if you know anyone I can be staying with till I'm properly healed and can be going to work, I'll appreciate.
Thank you dear.

What if it involves leaving Lagos...


I for one live in ibadan...

Oldnairalanderb:
I can live with a man anyone at all provided there's enough space for me to breathe and exercise because this place I'm suffocating here and can't move freely. It's not her fault because the place is very small. Last night my Left arm was paining me so I lay facing up and she was harassing and pushing me that I should lie on my side. I couldn't sleep throughout. The torture is too much and she's doing this because she has asked me to leave but I don't want to be sounding ungrateful. Just pouring my her before something happens to me.

The left hand has been weak from day one I suffered the partial stroke but because proper care was not taken it's now paining me again. Though we did a few physio sessions and I try exercising it but it's no longer like before. I've tried so many online jobs but non is forth coming.
Please if you know anyone I can be staying with till I'm properly healed and can be going to work, I'll appreciate.
Thank you dear.

With a moniker like that you still wanna live with him? BTW, I thought somebody gave you some money last year. The cause of your problem is that you don't have a man or husband whom you should lean on for emotional, financial and sexual support. Constant sex for a woman is a good way to keep stroke at bay. When you eventually get well ( that's my prayer for you) try and make getting married your number one prayer point.

Ganjafama:
With a moniker like that you still wanna live with him? BTW, I thought somebody gave you some money last year. The cause of your problem is that you don't have a man or husband whom you should lean on for emotional, financial and sexual support. Constant sex for a woman is a good way to keep stroke at bay. When you eventually get well ( that's my prayer for you) try and make getting married your number one prayer point.

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Silentgroper:
What if it involves leaving Lagos...


I for one live in ibadan...

Ha..ha...ha... Stop raising her hope.

Ganjafama:
With a moniker like that you still wanna live with him? BTW, I thought somebody gave you some money last year. The cause of your problem is that you don't have a man or husband whom you should lean on for emotional, financial and sexual support. Constant sex for a woman is a good way to keep stroke at bay. When you eventually get well ( that's my prayer for you) try and make getting married your number one prayer point.

There are more married women than single ladies. Also, there are more married women suffering from stroke than single ladies. Finally, there are many married women that are living from hand to mouth. So where did you get your theory from?

Where do you stay? I go like confirm in person before I part with my 2k.

I hardly respond to online requests for help anymore, but your story is somewhat touching. Many Nigerians have abused people's trust.

I live alone (albeit in a small space), but shey no be to sleep and wake? So, I could have offered to help - at least, for some time. But I consider that risky in today's Nigeria.

We4all:
There are more married women than single ladies. Also, there are more married women suffering from stroke than single ladies. Finally, there are many married women that are living from hand to mouth. So where did you get your theory from?

She obviously need a husband for support. The constant begging is becoming irritating. Why is her sister not begging like her? Abi that one no get problems too?

ThaThinka:
Where do you stay? I go like confirm in person before I part with my 2k.

I hardly respond to online requests for help anymore, but your story is somewhat touching. Many Nigerians have abused people's trust.

I live alone (albeit in a small space), but shey no be to sleep and wake? So, I could have offered to help - at least, for some time. But I consider that risky in today's Nigeria.

I stay in isashi with her
9024469715
Opay.
Please where do you stay? Maybe I can manage with you.

Ganjafama:
She obviously need a husband for support. The constant begging is becoming irritating. Why is her sister not begging like her? Abi that one no get problems too?

How many men are supporting their wives?

The first misconception is to assume Nairaland is a family. It is just an online forum of mostly antonymous users. No family here.

You choose this known monicker to beg again.

U never really left.

U can write story sha!!! But all na scam.

Oldnairalanderb:
I stay in isashi with her
9024469715
Opay.
Please where do you stay? Maybe I can manage with you.

Nah...sorry. Your area is too far because I live at the "Ijebu side" of Lagos. BUT the main issue is that I consider it too risky to accommodate someone I don't know (male or female).

As for my 2k, I'd like to see some proof of your story. You may PM me privately if you're not comfortable doing that on this thread.

I didn't mean to stress you for just a token. But I find it difficult to believe people online anymore. Sorry.

We4all:
How many men are supporting their wives?

With this comment, you're certainly not a man.

ThaThinka:
With this comment, you're certainly not a man.

Does it matter?

ThaThinka:
Nah...sorry. Your area is too far because I live at the "Ijebu side" of Lagos. BUT the main issue is that I consider it too risky to accommodate someone I don't know (male or female).

As for my 2k, I'd like to see some proof of your story. You may PM me privately if you're not comfortable doing that on this thread.

I didn't mean to stress you for just a token. But I find it difficult to believe people online anymore. Sorry.

Ok but I no longer use this email password problem. Can you chat me here please okolijudith15@gmail.com.
Thank you.

We4all:
How many men are supporting their wives?

I can only speak for myself. I support my family financially, emotionally and spiritually. Even seeing my wife sick gets me troubled.

Oldnairalanderb:
Ok but I no longer use this email password problem. Can you chat me here please okolijudith15@gmail.com.
Thank you.

Never mind. I decided it won't be necessary. Just sent my token to your Opay account.

ThaThinka:
Never mind. I decided it won't be necessary. Just sent my token to your Opay account.

Owww.. God bless you. Seen. I really appreciate.

Thank you so much I'm very grateful.

Get well soon judith.

Oldnairalanderb:
Owww.. God bless you. Seen. I really appreciate.

Thank you so much I'm very grateful.

Caaz:
Get well soon judith.

Thank you Ahnie. Hope you're good.