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Pure see finish... Try go hustle, no matter any kind work forget the name calling ooo. I had an Honda Pilot sale to buy Keke and started riding in my lowest period that's in 2017

Don't be sad dear

LEGAL MANAGER. / COMPANY LEGAL SECRETARY

Location: CMS, Lagos
Salary: 200,000 – 300,000 naira (net)

Job Description/Requirements
• Provide legal administration services and institutionalize legal support and control processes across different functions in the company
• Preparation of legal contracts, deeds, and other document
• To support customer service functions and carry out company secretarial duties
• Collaborate with all partners in contract definition. Review the final agreements from a legal perspective and ensure minimal risks to the organization
• Guide and direct other functions on compliance matters both at the corporate level and at the site level.
• Ensure timely and efficient coordination with the business partners on all issues of disputes and policy interpretation
• Build and manage client relationships.
• Establish the client’s respect and confidence as a trusted member of the Client Services team.
• Work collaboratively with the sales team, digital team, accounting, and others to ensure clear and timely communication.
• Ensure client documents are complete, current, timely, and delivered via appropriate personnel.
• Steward response (e.g. proposal development) to new business opportunities.
• Provide administrative and customer service support to groups and teams as necessary.
• Identify external legal counsels and consultants for various jobs as and when required. Effectively coordinate with outside counsels for litigations and contract management
• Provide legal support to the Sales team in the sale deed preparations, and agreements, and provide support for customer satisfaction
• Ensure effective drafting of all contract-related documents from a legal perspective and ensure minimal associated risks for the company.

Requirements
• Bachelor of Law (LLB)
• Minimum of 2 years post qualification experience as a company legal secretary;
• Knowledge of legal provisions and statutory requirements
• Knowledge of contract, and commercial law
• Able to manage and communicate at all levels of the organization.
• Administrator/human resource experience
• A natural leader who displays sound judgment and attention to detail.
• Ability to work under pressure and meet deadlines

Method of Application
Interested and qualified candidates should send their Resume to: 08169827645 via whatsapp or email 0botphilomena@gmail.com with corresponding Job title in the subject of your e-mail

ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?

Did you even consider the fact that him NOR GET? mayB he dey hustle rent m oney and E never complete or nah asylum money E dey collect unto say E papers never Gel.
You guys do too much.

They give their family members the impression of doing well financially, but get mad when those they show off to start asking them for assistance.

Stay low key and no family friend will demand help. Else, you will add to the list of your enemies.

I have a US friend that responds to chats and boasts over how he sends money to folks in Nigeria but the moment I requested he sponsor paid advert of 25k in a program I coordinated, he has never responded to that subject till date.
I've slowed down communicating with these abroad people.
They just want gist partner

ChizzyBuna:
He told me he has been working on some big deals.. even if it is $30 bro os that too much for someone earning abroad

Your entitlement mentality eh . Why don’t you have £30 Transmute this anger to work

To avoid see finish
The ultimate rule is
Irrespective of what is happening
DO NOT BEG
I REPEAT DO NOT BEG
IF YOU MUST BEG
LET IT BE YOUR PARENTS
OR YOUR OWN IMMEDIATE SIBLINGS.

ChizzyBuna:
He told me he has been working on some big deals.. even if it is $30 bro os that too much for someone earning abroad

SOmetimes He feeeds himself with 90 dollars in a month,Who nor go nor know.

ChizzyBuna:
someone that was born there and is earning big.
I swear i go pick myself up and go
When fortune smiles at me
If that boy ever near me to claim blood. I go disgrace am publicly.

Chiboy keep your head up🤧

lolz Dey play.. life no be Nollywood.

It's a two ways thing. What has been your contribution/impact in his life prior to his relocation?

Op you're one of the Nigerians with entitlement mentality and sentiments. Please don't take it emotional and personal. Get your ass working and stop this disgraceful acts.

ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?

I recall that was the motto of SMAN

Stingy Mens Association of Nigeria

"Let me see what I can do."

Una think say dem dey pluck money from tree for obodo oyibo.?
Besides, you should be self independent. Have that mentality. It will help you a lot cox nobody owes you anything and nothing.

Na entitlement dey worry you. What happened to your own hands? Can’t you work and make money? Is it your business how many years he has spent abroad? Abi na your papa send am go obodo oyibo?

ChizzyBuna:
someone that was born there and is earning big.
I swear i go pick myself up and go
When fortune smiles at me
If that boy ever near me to claim blood. I go disgrace am publicly.

Chiboy keep your head up🤧

That one worse, kids born abroad do not believe you have to send money to anyone, Nor waste your data.

ChizzyBuna:
someone that was born there and is earning big.
I swear i go pick myself up and go
When fortune smiles at me
If that boy ever near me to claim blood. I go disgrace am publicly.

Chiboy keep your head up🤧

Lol.. This particular post no make me believe all wetin you type here.
BTW how old are you?

ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?

Yes
Call it quit and distance yourself
But also remember not to feel entitled because he is your cousin
Every Mallam with his kettle( Abi how dem Dey talk am)
Again, you have no idea what he is going through, say person Dey abroad no mean say the life is rosy some of them are hustling and paying bills left, right and centre.

Don’t be bitter towards him, he probably doesn’t know how to say no to you and going silent ought to give you the answer.

Leave him and hustle your hustle.

You are a small boy. When you grow up, you will understand.

ChizzyBuna:
we started out chatting and i havent seen him in 18 yrs. So i finally got his number.
He respond to the chats on time until i asked him for little cash.
It is better he tells me no than to play me like this

Your sense of entitlement is disgusting.

ChizzyBuna:
someone that was born there and is earning big.
I swear i go pick myself up and go
When fortune smiles at me
If that boy ever near me to claim blood. I go disgrace am publicly.

Chiboy keep your head up🤧

Na mumu dey worry u

I dont know how you arrived at "small" $30. I guess you will multiply it by N1500. $30 is 333 Norwegian Krone that you are asking from him. As you are multiplying he's also doing his maths. Now see the minimum wage in Norway.

For skilled workers: NOK 211.79.
For semi-skilled workers: NOK 202.14.
For unskilled workers: NOK 192.61.

it's like you asking someone in Nigeria to give you a "small" 100K (judging by N70k minimum wage). This abroad thing, yes there is opportunity but it is overrated. Abroad does not have where they plug money. They will use taxes and finish you. You are paying for virtually everything except the air they breathe. In some places, the more you earn the more tax you pay. To keep up they do multiple jobs. I agree, as your guy he is supposed to reply to you rather than ignore you. But also imagine, staying 18 years and can't give his guy $30. . you are reducing his sneeze

GiftAbia1:
It's a two ways thing. What has been your contribution/impact in his life prior to his relocation?

for 18 years you didn't die without him. All of a sudden he is not picking your message. Guy, this is your family business and i hate entitle ment mentality. Do you know if he is struggling to meet mortgage, school fees, alimony, or working 3 jobs to get his ass comfortable. Because he didn't give you he is now a see finish person.
@Gift said it all
He owes you nothing.
when you get your money, you can change your phone number and even block him if you like.

This is what normally irritate me, entitle mentality. You don't even know what the person also might be going through and see you ranting all over the timeline. You must be mad and i pray that he/she should not even send anything to you because you are just ungrateful person. If it is easy why are you in need.

Both of you are wrong!

Communication is key, If e no dey, communicate so the other person knows you don't have at the moment

For you OP, you are also feeling entitled, just move on and create a benefit of doubt for him, probably he doesn't have to spare at the moment

[weedquote author=ChizzyBuna Upost=134232444]I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he wil kk loo likel see what he wi buttll do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?[/quote]That your cousin is he by any means called Clem, as his English name? I don't want to mention his Nigerian name. Because the Clem I know is desperately stingy, even to himself! He hardly wears any good clothes, and he has spent several years in Norway!
Kj he KK
My advice to you, stop contacting him for help. Look unto God, the only one who's capable of helping us in times of need. He'll link you up with your helper of destiny sooner than you think.

Read Isaiah 41: 10 - 13

Don't mind him. Buhari don see people like this finish to have said Lazy youths. So much feeling of entitlement. By the way, wetin he wan use that money for sef .$30....money wey no fit set you up but to carry Olosho and drinks or eat ....finish......the guy don see am finish say he no get future......imagine, you finally got your cousin's number since 18years ago and the first thing after greeting na send me some money.....nonsense and ingredients.....if it's me sef.....I go block am for life.......see wetin him dey talk sef.....if him travel go abroad, him go show his cousin pepper ... 😂.... This boy na real Ode..... MuMu........

lagosrd:
Stop feeling entitled. He owes nothing. You can't simply say his state of mind there and what he is currently passing through.

Respect yourself. Nobody respect beggars . even if I don't have I don't like begging for anything. I sort myself out and God has been showing forth.

ChizzyBuna:
someone that was born there and is earning big.
I swear i go pick myself up and go
When fortune smiles at me
If that boy ever near me to claim blood. I go disgrace am publicly.

Chiboy keep your head up🤧

Try this, ask him if he could link you up with any employer that would hire you.. you are in need of a job..

His response would be, he would send you some job board.. that would restart your convo again..

Kids born abroad or the ones that migrated when they were very young don't have the same mentality like sending money to someone.. they are not wired like that... even if you are on ground in Norway, they won't still give you money for free, they would loan you the money and sue you if you refuse to pay back...

ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?

The fact that he's in Norway doesn't mean he's the king of Norway and he's walking on money, maybe he's trying hard to ekk out a living like you too, besides why are people so entitled, is he obligated to reply or help you? Are you his parents, na you sponsor am go Norway? If e easy try enter Norway too I'm sure you'll do worse, nobody owes you anything abeg.

ChizzyBuna:
He told me he has been working on some big deals.. even if it is $30 bro os that too much for someone earning abroad

U are just an inconsiderate, entitled guy who assumes pple abroad should be able to give you money no matter what
...u even mentioned $30.... Guy if you know wetin dey sup for some pple wey dey abroad ....u go shock....

Some please don't have papers.......if u know how hard it is for pple to survive without papers u will be the one to send them money.....that 30$ u mentioned is what some pple survive on after paying rent and bills in a room they are sharing....some pple can't even afford room...they sleep on the streets...

ChizzyBuna:
someone that was born there and is earning big.
I swear i go pick myself up and go
When fortune smiles at me
If that boy ever near me to claim blood. I go disgrace am publicly.

Chiboy keep your head up🤧

if he was born there - then to him you are just a very very very distant cousin.

it is like some dude you barely know calling you from the village for help

Hehe has already distant himself from you if u dont know

killuminati:



You say he dey for Norway, that means there's NO WAY just move on..

😂😂😂😂😂Badt guy!

Op... No take am personal. Move on!

Never feel offended when people don't respond to ur request or plea. Just move on, holding pains will make ur life worse.