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Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by placeofallure(f): 11:04am On Feb 21, 2025
unclejb2:
Did you give him money to keep for you? Do you know his financial situation at the moment?

You have an entitlement mentality and it's going to make you remain broke.

You can hustle and find your way to Europe so that you don't have to beg for money again.

I'm sure you are a Tinubu supporter
What is Tinubu's own inside this one now? Nigeria didn't start to deteriorate from Tinubu's era. If you continue to think like this, it's either you were born yesterday, or you are plain, simply delusional.
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by alizma: 11:08am On Feb 21, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?
Swear say he never help you before. If he had, why did you not mention that so that we can understand his own side. If you like, call it anything, he said he will see what he can do. If you can wait, wait, if you can't wait, sort yourself out.
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by killuminati(m): 11:11am On Feb 21, 2025
Hemanwel:
Hahahaha. Una too get mouth for this Nairaland.
Naso di life be my bro cry
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by hopexter(m): 11:13am On Feb 21, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
He told me he has been working on some big deals.. even if it is $30 bro os that too much for someone earning abroad
There’s nothing like working on big deals overseas as an immigrant. Is either you are into Menial jobs just to survive or in a sector if you schooled there.
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by dalass(f): 11:17am On Feb 21, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?
People give to those who have these days.

Since over a month you still dey expect something from him, abeg forget that side. Only God got your back o. Pray for open doors and lifting from God ... It may be that God doesn't want to share his glory with people like that.

Also make sure that begging for money is not the first thing you do after not seeing or hearing from anyone in a while bro, it sends the wrong signal undecided
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by gazilion: 11:18am On Feb 21, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
He told me he has been working on some big deals.. even if it is $30 bro os that too much for someone earning abroad
I'd wanted to sincerely help you but when I read this, I just see you as one of those with entitlement mentality!
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by Gerrard59(m): 11:23am On Feb 21, 2025
After reading OP's profile, I put it that he's a troll.
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by EpicDude123: 11:25am On Feb 21, 2025
Omo life no easy even for people living abroad
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by unclejb2(m): 11:29am On Feb 21, 2025
placeofallure:
What is Tinubu's own inside this one now? Nigeria didn't start to deteriorate from Tinubu's era. If you continue to think like this, it's either you were born yesterday, or you are plain, simply delusional.
na only Tinubu supporters dey reason from their anus
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by Mccollins042(m): 11:32am On Feb 21, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?
help nobi by force, if you notice he doesn't wanna help then stop asking before u collect blocking. Wether he has it or not it is no bodies business
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by placeofallure(f): 11:32am On Feb 21, 2025
unclejb2:
na only Tinubu supporters dey reason from their anus
You're not being objective, that's one. Then, from your response, it's obvious you're a dolt! I don't exchange banter with unintelligible people.
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by lovebird65(m): 11:36am On Feb 21, 2025
People of such mentality as the OP should be scrapped and removed from this forum(nairaland) and their IP blocked!!!! This is 2025 we don't need such ignorance and entitled mentality




Umunne dalu kwanu
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by oluwamichael93(m): 11:43am On Feb 21, 2025
u r just a f%%king entitled prick, you've not heard from someone in 18years & when u finally got his contact, boom, you're billing him. na you see yourself finish
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by unclejb2(m): 11:45am On Feb 21, 2025
placeofallure:
You're not being objective, that's one. Then, from your response, it's obvious you're a dolt! I don't exchange banter with unintelligible people.
Another Tinubu supporter spotted.

Nothing to offer, just the emilokan entitlement mentality.
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by Free2Fly: 11:46am On Feb 21, 2025
hopexter:
There’s nothing like working on big deals overseas as an immigrant. Is either you are into Menial jobs just to survive or in a sector if you schooled there.
grin
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by ufotunang: 11:46am On Feb 21, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?
..the more you beg him...the more he will be maltreating you ..so just try a get a job , hustle and make money and believe in God... when the guy sees that you are financially independent and wealthy..he will respect you and honour you
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by lagosrd: 12:00pm On Feb 21, 2025
HilsonDick:
Pray make e no hook u. You think anybody is happy to beg for help? No sensible person can ever be happy
Its just my own experience. If you beg , there a is possibility of begging someone you shouldn't and will tell others. So trust God and help will come . it won't take time
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by placeofallure(f): 12:03pm On Feb 21, 2025
unclejb2:
Another Tinubu supporter spotted.

Nothing to offer, just the emilokan entitlement mentality.
Wailing Society of Nigeria
😭😭😭😭😭
Sunkun sabọ! I get buckets to donate.
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by gfelo(m): 12:04pm On Feb 21, 2025
What if he is facing alot of challenges that he can not discuss with anyone, what if you are even living better than him, you can't just conclude that he doesn't want to help u, if is easy u wouldn't be soliciting for help in the first place.
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by Kobicove(m): 12:05pm On Feb 21, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?
This moniker is fond of creating fake stories undecided
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by VicM6: 12:07pm On Feb 21, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?
baba leave ur cousin alone nd hustle....stop depending on someone. Do u knw hw he is surviving in Norway. Bcus he is aboard now, u wan rip am
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by clarion30(f): 12:07pm On Feb 21, 2025
Some of you in Nigeria can be so funny. because someone is abroad and you think all is well with the person. You are even lucky that you can get help once once from people around but it's never the same abroad, there's no help here, what you earn is what you have, nothing extra from anybody. Some of you when you finally travel will see how difficult it is and you might not want to dash anybody shishi after working one shift in cold weather.
ChizzyBuna:
He told me he has been working on some big deals.. even if it is $30 bro os that too much for someone earning abroad
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by Zooboytwo: 12:13pm On Feb 21, 2025
extremelygolden:
[weedquote author=ChizzyBuna Upost=134232444]I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he wil kk loo likel see what he wi buttll do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?

That your cousin is he by any means called Clem, as his English name? I don't want to mention his Nigerian name. Because the Clem I know is desperately stingy, even to himself! He hardly wears any good clothes, and he has spent several years in Norway!
Kj he KK
My advice to you, stop contacting him for help. Look unto God, the only one who's capable of helping us in times of need. He'll link you up with your helper of destiny sooner than you think.

Read Isaiah 41: 10 - 13
Now u don cast me wetin u come gain ?
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by dheilaw1(m): 12:18pm On Feb 21, 2025
No go double your hustle, sitdon for nairaland dey cry, as if you know wetin hin dey face for Norway. Nonsense.
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by ManOfSon: 12:18pm On Feb 21, 2025
I need to get this straight. You haven't seen him in 18 years? Why? Does it mean he hasn't visited Nigeria for 18 years? If that's the case, it should tell you he isn't sitting well where he is. Did you even ask about his well-being? Or did you jump straight to begging him for money as most Nigerians would shamelessly do only to be ungrateful after?



ChizzyBuna:
we started out chatting and i havent seen him in 18 yrs. So i finally got his number.
He respond to the chats on time until i asked him for little cash.
It is better he tells me no than to play me like this
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by Zooboytwo: 12:19pm On Feb 21, 2025
oyeb15:
Wat I don't really understand is that they still envy those at home.
If they know u just build house or buy fancy car in Nigeria, they won't pick your call again.

I have a friend like that. He went awol.

That's why I like Chinese and Indians. If one excape into US, his 10year goal is how to bring family, friends,etc into America.

But Nigerians, they will be saying it's not easy.. it's not easy here in America o
What can a Nigerian living abroad do to help his people like family
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by tivta(m): 12:24pm On Feb 21, 2025
He owes you nothing bro.
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Feb 21, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?
what if he’s struggling as well?
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by Zooboytwo: 12:36pm On Feb 21, 2025
Chachangi:
Think again about what you wrote here when you are not angry.

Fortune hasn’t smiled on you yet but you are already thinking of how you will disgrace someone when fortune smiles on you. If you are fortune will you smile on you?
He called his full name sef
Biafra people Sha !
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by HilsonDick(m): 12:38pm On Feb 21, 2025
lagosrd:
Its just my own experience. If you beg , there a is possibility of begging someone you shouldn't and will tell others. So trust God and help will come . it won't take time
God bless you for this response
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by aktolly54(m): 12:38pm On Feb 21, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?
go do that job you think it's dirty like car wash, bricklayer and anything to survive. You are not handicap
Re: Is This See Finish Or What?? by aktolly54(m): 12:39pm On Feb 21, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?
go do that job you think it's dirty like car wash, bricklayer and anything to survive. You are not handicap.
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