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How the fvck did I read this shiit...

advanceDNA:
How the fvck did I read this shiit...

What's advice can you give please

This is a very hard one in present day Nigeria.

Alot of mistakes have been made already.

As a wife, I'll go to the clinic for family planning and keep the idea of having more children on hold... Why the hell did they decide to have another child when they were already struggling?

Whatever was/is built on a faulty foundation can never stand.

Samantha125:
As a wife, I'll go to the clinic for family planning and keep the idea of having more children on hold... Why the hell did they decide to have another child when they were already struggling?

I agree with you on this both couples agreed that they only want two kids, they had the second one hope that ways will open and given that the first child is almost six years old so she could at least have a sibling to play with.

Mariangeles:
Whatever was/is built on a faulty foundation can never stand.

What advice or opinion do you have about this

yomi007k:
This is a very hard one in present day Nigeria.

Alot of mistakes have been made already.

Hmmm true talk may God see them through

Question158158:
I agree with you on this both couples agreed that they only want two kids, they had the second one hope that ways will open and given that the first child is almost six years old so she could at least have a sibling to play with.

I hope Africans can see now that kids don't open ways. Na God and you dey open ways.

The last thing that should've been on their minds is getting a sibling to play with their child because children alone are expensive.

Did their daughter tell them she was bored and wanted a sibling ASAP? Even if she was bored, there are toys and cartoons for that.

Now they have an extra mouth to feed... And don't be surprised to see the lady pregnant again by the end of this year because people with disadvantaged backgrounds are very good at making babies, then expect the entire world to pity them and give them freebies.

Question158158:
I agree with you on this both couples agreed that they only want two kids, they had the second one hope that ways will open and given that the first child is almost six years old so she could at least have a sibling to play with.

Feb 26 2025 account

Fake story!!

Question158158:
Two lovers met each other at a very young age, The lady was 17 years old And the guy was 29 years old at the time.
They were both Network marketers and worked together for two years, but later found out that The field of work wasn't as profitable as they thought it would be. They left the work to seek another means of income. After they left they couldn't find any job due to lack of employment in the country, Along the line a friend of the guy called him and told him About something he could be doing to get some money this was a kind of online scam, to get money from foreigners. He did it for a few months I was able to accumulate a good amount of money which he used to open a business and him and the lady managed it together. Seeing that the business was given him good profit on a daily basis He decided to stop the online scam because he was not happy doing it in the first place he only did it cos he needed money to survive and to take care of his girlfriend. After two years of running this business He saw that with the money he is making from the business it could be able to Take care of the girl and even starts a family So they both got married And they had a baby girl Two years Later The business wasn't moving anymore So the guy thoughts They should close the shops Relocate to another place And starts a new life. Now he went back to his online scam hoping that When he accumulates some money from it he'll open A business for his wife And from there they could at least be seeing money to sort out daily needs and necessities Like food and bills. But since then He couldn't accumulate money that could run a business. It's been four years now since they closed down their shops, their daughter is 6 years old and they've had another child who is a few months old. Now they can't even feed and provide for themselves and their children, most times the family can go 2days without eating and the wife is breastfeeding. The both parents of these couples also don't have money but they've been supporting them throughout these years of struggles, at this point what will you do as the husband or as the wife, or what advice can you give to these couples??

It's not going to be easy for them in this present Nigeria
As many have already suggested, they should do family planning ASAP
Then, the guy should quickly embark on learning a handwork. But doing this with a family to feed won't be easy for him at all.

noobody:
Feb 26 2025 account

Fake story!!

No it's real this is currently happening to someone I know and I can't help but feel bad for them cause they are really good people and love each other

yomi007k:
I hope Africans can see now that kids don't open ways. Na God and you dey open ways.

Yes so don't give in to any family pressure to have more kids if you know you can't afford to take care of them

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