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When a Nigerian man receives his monthly salary most often, he shares it among his wife,kids,his father,his mother,his wife's father,his wife's mother ,his aunty's, his uncles,his friends who are struggling etc etc and left with little or nothing for himself.
That's the life of most Africans but some don't give out o as I have a friend that does not give to his mum from his salary. Lol.

Story of my life..
Though I don’t collect salary, I am self employed ..
But it used to choke, especially when you don’t have a savings.

sholikay:
Story of my life..

Story of everyone's life.

Asides mother and father nobody else deserve constant allowance unless you are training your sibling in school. Of which you will warn them strictly "Once you graduate it is over"

Help to aunties, uncles etc should come once in a blue moon.

Men should learn how to be stingy in order not to die young. There is a reason there are more widows than widowers

Zionmdde:
Asides mother and father nobody else deserve constant allowance unless you are training your sibling in school. Of which you will warn them strictly "Once you graduate it is over"

Help to aunties, uncles etc should come once in a blue moon.

Men should learn how to be stingy in order not to die young. There is a reason there are more widows than widowers

Your wife may tell you to give to her own parents too if you are giving to yours if your wife is not working and also there are situations that will warrant you to render assistance to friends too.

guobe:
Your wife may tell you to give to her own parents too if you are giving to yours if your wife is not working and also there are situations that will warrant you to render assistance to friends too.

That's why I used "mother and father" and didn't put "your"

I always advice. before you marry her, check her family situation. Are you financially OK that carry a family that needs to be carried?. If you are not, don't venture
It's also an error to marry a woman who is not doing anything now and is not equipped to do anything in the very near future

guobe:
When a Nigerian man receives his monthly salary most often, he shares it among his wife,kids,his father,his mother,his wife's father,his wife's mother ,his aunty's, his uncles,his friends who are struggling etc etc and left with little or nothing for himself.
That's the life of most Africans but some don't give out o as I have a friend that does not give to his mum from his salary. Lol.

I'm curious to know what his reasons are. Personally my mom is the one person most deserving of my salary.

Xannadu:
I'm curious to know what his reasons are. Personally my mom is the one person most deserving of my salary.

He said his salary is not enough for him to spend but I think it is because he is the last born and the seniors are carrying the burden.

Zionmdde:
That's why I used "mother and father" and didn't put "your"

I always advice. before you marry her, check her family situation. Are you financially OK that carry a family that needs to be carried?. If you are not, don't venture
It's also an error to marry a woman who is not doing anything now and is not equipped to do anything in the very near future

Ok

guobe:
Your wife may tell you to give to her own parents too if you are giving to yours if your wife is not working and also there are situations that will warrant you to render assistance to friends too.

And once she says so, you must do it?

Free2Fly:
And once she says so, you must do it?

You won't have peace in the home if you don't.

guobe:
You won't have peace in the home if you don't.

Storyyy.
She too doesn't need peace? Nawaoo

guobe:
He said his salary is not enough for him to spend but I think it is because he is the last born and the seniors are carrying the burden.

Okay
I think that's fair enough

He chose to be a mumu. The black tax is a scam.

Once you're married with kids they should be your utmost priority. They come first.

My papa did the same

Xannadu:
I'm curious to know what his reasons are. Personally my mom is the one person most deserving of my salary.

Are u fatherless?

Zionmdde:
Asides mother and father nobody else deserve constant allowance unless you are training your sibling in school. Of which you will warn them strictly "Once you graduate it is over"

Help to aunties, uncles etc should come once in a blue moon.

Men should learn how to be stingy in order not to die young. There is a reason there are more widows than widowers

This. Only to parents. I give generous gifts to my wonderful siblings because they are the best. Thankfully I don't need to support anyone.

Nigeria reeks of poverty 🤷. Taking responsibility of in-laws is not my duty, don't they have son's in their family. That's how my ex girlfriend told me I will put her mother on monthly salary


Men open your eyes and be vocal 💯


Japaaaaa B4 you expend your resources

1Sharon:
He chose to be a mumu. The black tax is a scam.

Once you're married with kids they should be your utmost priority. They come first.

Sharon, I love you

Orinechi:
Are u fatherless?

Yeah