Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? - Christianity Etc (2) - Nairaland
Nairaland Forum › Nairaland General › Christianity Etc › Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? (2922 Views)
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by FreeSpirited(op): 11:03am On Feb 27, 2025 |
MaxInDHouse:Firstly u hve misinterpreted Deuteronomy 18 v 18.....Just as u always do with other scriptures to fit into ur own model of self righteouness.......I won't comment on that but... Secondly: Oga, thank you for going this path of Titus 1:6....I've been waiting for you to quote that scripture that says ...."must be husband of one wife".. . Now what that scripture is saying is directed solely to over seers and shepherd of a church which is understandable......cos more than one wife can present issues at home and distraction for the shepherd whose sole aim is to feed the flock...Does this admonition by Titus mean two wives is a sin? NO! DOES this admonition also mean there are no men with multiple wives in the congregation? No, that admonition actually mean as a matter of fact that some brethren in the church had two wives...which disqualifies them for that leadership post because of it's demand not because of it being sinful..... otherwise Titus would have said brethren with two wives are hell bound and must repent from their sin..... Also because of God's work....Paul once says he would even prefer we don't even Marry at all.....he once said a married man would worry more about family than God.....So it's therefore clear as to why sheperd should have one wife or even none like Paul.......these admonition is never about a man of two wives being a sinner......... otherwise, those holy apostle would have said it..... which is obvious when Paul was disgusted that men slept with their father's wife and not disgusted that such man had a second wife the way u guys are now disgusted....,,I wonder why u guys now inventing what was never written in the scriptures . This is the scriptures I will like u to consider written by Paul is 1Cor.5.1 - I also received a report of scandalous sex within your church family, a kind that wouldn't be tolerated even outside the church: One of YOUR MEN SLEEPING WITH HIS STEP MOTHER....MSB 1Cor.5.1 - It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that does not occur even among pagans: A man has his father's wife.......NIV 1Cor.5.1 - It is reported commonly that there is fornication among you, and such fornication as is not so much as named among the Gentiles, that one should have his father's wife.......KJV I used 3 translations so that we can all understand the context: which clearly means that certain brother was was having affair with his Father's wife or step mother. Of course Paul never was concerned about why a man would have two wives in this context, but he was clearly bitter as to why a brethren would sleep with his step mom, which clearly contradict Leviticus 18 v 8 which says- "Don't have sex with your father's wife. That violates your father"......MSB . Obviously u guys know more than paul |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by AbuTwins: 11:16am On Feb 27, 2025 |
Even in Jesus time there were plural marriages and Jesus for once never spoke against it. You guys don let oyinbo monogamy enter your brain! What is clear is that God made laws for Polygamy! God permitted polygamy! Moses, Abraham, Jacob, Lamech, Gideon, David, Solomon, etc were all Polygamous! And someone said they were not Christians! How many Prophets were Christian in the Bible? None! So that's a shut up! And to the one flipping the topic over making women marry two men! Show us where such is available and permitted by Jehovah in the Bible? Probably Sarah married Laban with Abraham in the NWT they use! |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by MaxInDHouse(m): 11:18am On Feb 27, 2025 |
FreeSpirited:Well Jesus said: "If, now, your right eye is making you stumble, tear it out and throw it away from you. For it is better for you to lose one of your members than for your whole body to be pitched into Ge·henʹna" Matthew 5:29 So before the completion of the Bible God's servants knew partially what righteousness means because they see things faintly {1Corinthians 13:9} but after the Bible has been completed {1Corinthians 13:10} we make use of this book for teaching, for reproving, for setting things straight, for disciplining in righteousness, so that the man of God may be fully competent, completely equipped for every good work. 2Timothy 3:16-17 So a Christian must always be a man of God who is fully competent and completely equipped for all good works. |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by MaxInDHouse(m): 11:23am On Feb 27, 2025 |
Q FreeSpirited Here is what a Muslim has to say about the topic you raised. AbuTwins:So it's a free world, choose wisely. 1Thessalonians 5:21 Do have a wonderful day!
|
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by FreeSpirited(op): 11:29am On Feb 27, 2025 |
MaxInDHouse:.The Muslim comment is even more reasonable than the self-righteousness u been trying to do spinning the scriptures to judge every man with two wives..which Jesus never did...not even the apostles cos no single proof the Apostles did such..... . |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by FreeSpirited(op): 11:40am On Feb 27, 2025 |
MaxInDHouse:Oga. Everything u wrote here is to feel yourself righteous for having one wife , and feel a man with two wives is a sinner.........and I haven't seen any scriptures from Genesis to revelation that says so....Rest. . And if u will not, I can see u are trying to feel being under Jesus makes u more righteous than old testament servant..lol....u must be joking...u must really overrate ur righteousness...Oga u are doing exactly the way Pharisees do... nothing less...Hebrew 11 already told us how those men of Faith were justified and deem righteous in the eyes of God. I don't know the scriptures u guys read.. . Christian aren't more righteous than old testament servant of God..we only received grace under Christ by Read Romans 5 and Galatians 3.......ur monogamy or polygamy is not the justification for our righteousness in christ....lol .. Oga ur understanding of the scriptures is narrow, legalistic ND phariseestic.. . Good day. Now I know ur frame of reference...no need to argue again. |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by MaxInDHouse(m): 11:41am On Feb 27, 2025 |
FreeSpirited:To judge? ![]() Please nobody is judging anybody here! You asked for a Christian view regarding polygamy and i showed you what early Christians practiced in view of Paradise in their hearts. So this is not about judging because they didn't judge anyone who is already married into polygamous family all they did is to deprive such ones from holding a position in the Christian congregation which no sane individual will like to thread such path after seeing what the Apostles are doing to polygamists. Please make use of what they practiced back then and decide for yourself what you will do. Galatians 6:5 ![]() |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by FreeSpirited(op): 11:48am On Feb 27, 2025 |
MaxInDHouse:Titus 1: 6 was just an admonition to foster peace, good standing and image, not Law. . As a matter of fact there are many one wife shepherd whose life , devotion and family and children would be worse than a shepherd with two wives whose house is peaceful and children are godly....so there must be exception..not for u to say all instances of polygamy is sin...I don't know where u guys read that . Case in point....Eli had one wife..yet his sons were disgrace to the house and service of God....and they end up rubbishin the ministry of their father...no be one wife be dat? Are u now saying God wouldn't hVE felt better for Eli if he had two wives with children who are righteous? . Case in point Samuel came from polygamous home, yet he was the one God approved instead of the sons of Eli....Pls...let me rest |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by MaxInDHouse(m): 11:49am On Feb 27, 2025 |
FreeSpirited:May you have Peace! ![]() |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by StillDtruth: 12:04pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
FreeSpirited:"Those guys decided within themselves". Is this not the meaning of repentance? And is God's Salvation not about saving anyone who does not want to enter into His Wrath? So this statement has no value here. 'WOMEN FROM IDOLATROUS TRIBE'. After Ezra, can you see any righteous man having more than one wife? Even these your words "women from idolatrous nations" shows that by God's Law, Isreal's women did not marry their men as second wives. AI overview Ezra's Reform: While Ezra strongly advocated for the Israelites to return to the Law of Moses, including the practice of monogamy, his efforts did not completely eliminate polygamy among the people. So, you see they had their first wife, mostly an Isrealite and therefore they could not marry a second Isrealite woman but had to go outside Isreal to break The Law. Same thing which Nehemiah applied. Nehemiah's Actions: The book of Nehemiah describes a situation where many Jewish men had married foreign women, (obviously because no Isrealite woman wanted to marry them and break The Law.) prompting Nehemiah to lead a similar reform movement to Ezra, requiring these men to divorce their foreign wives. So, from these, you see Isreal knew God prohibited polygamy even if they did not easily obey it in those days But, it is very clear now as seen from the new testament, you do not see any Isrealite with 2 wives So it is a case of you planning to disobey God and break His Commandment like others have done. FreeSpirited:I did. Those verses are not standing alone. They are in The Law against Lusts and abominations. Leviticus 18:24 -30 Defile not ye yourselves in any of these things: for in all these the nations are defiled which I cast out before you: 26 Ye shall therefore keep my statutes and my judgments, and shall not commit any of these abominations; neither any of your own nation, nor any stranger that sojourneth among you: 27 (For all these abominations have the men of the land done, which were before you, and the land is defiled ![]() 29 For whosoever shall commit any of these abominations, even the souls that commit them shall be cut off from among their people. 30 Therefore shall ye keep mine ordinance, that ye commit not any one of these abominable customs, which were committed before you, and that ye defile not yourselves therein: I am the Lord your God. So you are trying to use an abomination to commit sin? FreeSpirited:This was argued in the thread and it did not hold. |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by StillDtruth: 12:16pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
FreeSpirited:He specifically stated only Abraham, so I addressed only that. As for the others, not one of them Sorted God's Mark of "PERFECT'. "Be ye perfect'./Genesis 17:1 says, "Walk before me, [b]and be thou perfect" And those who scored that Mark were those having one wife. That is, Noah and Job[/b] And that is why the it is Written "Ye are without excuse". Romans 1:20. |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by MaxInDHouse(m): 12:26pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
Is it adultery if a Christian bachelor marries two women or virgins at a time? I know this question came as a result of considering how most people you view as men of God frown at polygamy. Though they only feel it's wrong but they don't know how to expatiate using God's word. I remember discussing with one of my colleagues who is a pastor in one of the churches of Christendom and how he really thanked me for sharing my own views using the scriptures. Please don't be upset this is just what we Jehovah's Witnesses believe but since your pastor may not believe the same thing do whatever pleases you! ![]() |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by gohf: 12:40pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
FreeSpirited:be it old or new testament there is no command that a man must marry, neither is there a command that a man must marry one woman. For first question: it is not adultery, adultery is when a woman sleeps with any man who isn't her husband and any man who sleeps with another man's wife. For second question: it is not fornication, fornicators lack commitment and are selfish pleasure seekers, who are immoral and unfaithful. You neither lied to any nor cheated any, but we're honest. |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by gohf: 12:43pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
StillDtruth:so in simple terms you are saying freespirited will be guilty even without evidence? Well freespirited you would have to get a good advocate because this one is ready to send you to hell o |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by gohf: 12:47pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
MaxInDHouse:yeah right, because there will be sex and making love in "paradise" 😂 |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by gohf: 12:52pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
StillDtruth:😂😂 true Max post was off as it can be like that some times but yours here eh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by StillDtruth: 12:54pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
gohf:Yes! Guilt starts with your mind and the intention to sin. That is why we have the word "premeditation" to catch any guilty person even before he commits an offence. I once told you to go read up "mens rea" and see where and when a person's guilt starts counting. |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by FreeSpirited(op): 12:56pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
StillDtruth:1. Everything here is ur own subjective misinterpretation with no authority...imagine using AI to make conclusion....Oga rest..I won't attack all erroneous conclusion cos it's too many . 2You clearly don't even understand the history and context of Ezra and Nehemiah period.... obviously. . 3. U could not even understand Leviticus 18 that is so straightforward and how u make it a matter that sanctions ONLY ONE WIFE needs to be studied in Harvard and Oxford. . 4. You clearly don't even know why God warn Isrealites from marrying strange woman. Of course with little bible study u will know it's solely for the reason that strange women maybe idolatrous which may seduce Isrealites men to follow strange god's....e.g Ahab, Solomon following strange gods through strange women he married............ But we all know Moses also married a strange woman! The Ethiopian woman was a strange woman yet God dint judge Moses for it, God even fought Mariam and punish elders that complained about it....Why did u think God wasn't bothered by the Ethiopian woman Moses married? Simple Bible study will tell u it's simply because Moses was YET STILL FAITHFUL AND THE WOMAN NEVER MADE HIM SERVE OTHER gods ..... Now, in the scriptures we have a number of GOd servant that also married strange women , even multiple, who are aren't Israeli yet It wasn't counted as sin.. including David, Joseph,….... In Ezra period there was widespread idolatory and immorality....its a matter of them following idol worship and that was why Israeli wants to rid themselves of those idol worshipping women, and turn away from idol worship. It's not about polygamy....u guys are a joke with no deep understanding of biblical context . . |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by gohf: 1:07pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
MaxInDHouse:You need to state when polygamy stopped being permitted and who brought a stop to it? At least incest you are trying to associate with polygamy was clearly no more permitted and put an end to, according to the morals written by Moses which permits polygamy as well. By the way writing Lot impregnated his daughters is a subtle way of avoiding the fact that his daughters got him drunk and "raped" him. Now not sure how you somehow go off point or dont make any 🤦, but Judah sleeping with a widow isn't incest, if it were then the law encouraging siblings to impregnate their late brother's widows who had no children should be promoting incest as well. Twisting Matt 7:12 to fit your logic is pathetic 🤣🤣 but I do respect you quoting, Matt.19.4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,.. just that Jesus was speaking concerning divorce and not polygamy nor against it. Infact when God spoke in Genesis about Marriage He spoke to the women and not to men. Well it's common sense that women can only submit to one lord, as the people submit to only one king and to only one God. Polyandry been practiced shouldnt be an excuse to misuse scripture and suggest an eye for an eye 😅. And to be frank how should a man submit to two different men, who would she truly obey? Do you understand of purpose of what God said in Genesis and the reference made by Jesus to that beginning? Anyway, you do know that the person Moses who wrote and the man would the joined to his wife, married a second wife 😏😊😄 |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by gohf: 1:09pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
StillDtruth:😲😳 You once told who what 🙄 🤣🤣 |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by FreeSpirited(op): 1:13pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
StillDtruth:So u are now the judge of patriarchs and servant of God ? Such that only Noah and Job were able to pass your test of righteousness and perfection.,? Lol... Same Noah that got drunk and also committed incest o.....cos Bible said Ham uncover his unclothedness....which could mean Ham sleeping with him, or sleeping with his mother...Noah and Job passed ur test lol.. Don't u sound like a Joke to urself......so David failed, Abraham failed, Jacob failed for having 4 wives I guess lol, Joseph also failed, Moses also failed, to u the greatest prophet and law giver failed....don't u sound dumb and heretic for making that statement of perfection just cos u want to judge their polygamy?... . U peoples legalistic self righteousness stinks to heaven.... imagine trying to invalidate Hebrew 11 that justified all patriarch including Rahab the prostitutes...lol....And u must be more righteous than them cos u end up wit one non virgin olosho wife...lol...u are a joke |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by gohf: 1:16pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
MaxInDHouse:🤣🤣🤣 wait lol, so you know he is "appealing to Christians" and you keep bringing examples from those who don't know "Abrahamic God". Hmmm, they are yet to be approved 🤔, hmmm, brethren please let's read the Matt 11:11 maybe there awaiting for approval is written there 😁 Matt.11.11 Verily I say unto you, Among them that are born of women there hath not risen a greater than John the Baptist: notwithstanding he that is least in the kingdom of heaven is greater than he. (KJV) Okay 🤔🙄, so is that they have not accepted the teachings of Jesus but didn't Moses and Elijah appear to Jesus on the mount of transfiguration 🙀 "before their names can be written in the book of life" 👀 🏃🏾♂️🏃🏾♂️🏃🏾♂️ |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by FreeSpirited(op): 1:16pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
gohf:You dey mind those half baked Christian who thinks they are more righteous than the patriarchs ..... They read the Bible but put it upside down to accommodate their narrow view of monogamous righteousness...which was never a thing in the whole scriptures. . |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by gohf: 1:19pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
StillDtruth:so basically it is down to God's permission not human ideology, philosophy nor theology |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by MaxInDHouse(m): 1:22pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
gohf: gohf:This is why i always point to my source of guidance regarding scriptural knowledge: jw.org I often do this to alert whoever i'm chatting with to know what to expect from Jehovah's Witnesses for instance many often come here saying Jehovah's Witnesses will never agree to give their daughter's hand in marriage to someone who is not a JW neither are we going to approve for our son to marry a female who is not a JW. I hope you now know that we strictly hold on to the same line of thought among us. As for polygamy it's a crime in our midst to the extent that you can never ever be one of us of you're a polygamist no one will consider your baptism no matter how long you've been with us. Thousands out there have not been baptized after studying the Bible with us for decades even though many thought they are members of Jehovah's Witnesses because they attends our meetings yet they are not baptized which disqualifies such ones from any privilege among us! 1Timothy 3:2; Titus 1:6 |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by gohf: 1:25pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
MaxInDHouse:Why did God originally form the woman? Who was Jesus quoting God or Moses, two shall become one flesh? Did God ever tell David he could take any or another woman and not his "neighbor's" wife? Did God ever punish anyone for having more than one wife? Simple questions if you actually know what is written in the scriptures |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by MaxInDHouse(m): 1:29pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
gohf:Please expatiate on what Jesus said at Matthew 11:11 because there is a point Jesus made there that needed to be cleared: "Truly I say to you, among those born of women (from righteous Abel) there has not been raised up anyone greater than John the Baptist, but a lesser person in the Kingdom (someone who is considered smallest) of the heavens is greater than he is" |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by FreeSpirited(op): 1:29pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
gohf:Baba make we thank God say God no be man o Naso this man for send Daddy GO of one wife and 5 secret girlfriend to Heaven....while sending me that legally married two virgin without any secret girlfriend to hell.... |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by FreeSpirited(op): 1:33pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
gohf:. They will never answer this...it doesn't fit into their bias..Let me add more .. Did God ever say thou shall not sleep with your father's wife? Leviticus 18 v 8 . Did Paul ever go angry cos a Christian were sleeping with their father's wife? Why was he angry for the fornication and not condemn their father for having another wife |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by gohf: 1:36pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
MaxInDHouse:well I guess a point to you for sticking with jws doctrine but that doesn't make you any different from those who follow their various pastor's doctrines. Well your faithfulness and commitment should be commended 👏 |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by MaxInDHouse(m): 1:37pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
gohf:1. To complement the man so that both can live forever as lovebirds. 2. Moses has not even been born when God made that statement in Eden so Jesus quoted God with whom he was in the beginning. 3. David practiced what other men of his time do but in God's law he warned kings against marrying multiple wives. Deuteronomy 17:15-16 4. No God gave them freewill to experience things for themselves was given. |
| Re: Is It Adultery If A Christian Bachelor Marries Two Women Or Virgins At A Time? by gohf: 1:39pm On Feb 27, 2025 |
MaxInDHouse:Simple, those born of women are carnally born While those in the kingdom of God are all born of the Spirit. But we can also dig deeper into what Jesus was actually teaching in Matthew 11 that brought about that statement in verse 11 😃 |
Pastor In Video Marries 4 Ladies Who Are All Virgins At Once, Says Bible Support • Apostle Peter Tom Udofia Marries 18-Year-Old Choir Member (Photos) • Prophet Evidence Chikason Divorces His Wife, Marries Choir Mistress In Delta • 2 • 3 • 4
Is Christianity The True Religion? Debate • I No Longer Go To Church If I'm Skint (no Money), Can't Stand The Pressure! • Reflecting On Pastor Dare Adeboye's Death. What If It Was Daddy Freeze?



