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voiceoftheupcom:
My name is Alphonso Olajide, co-founder of EyesOfLagos.com. I’m a blogger and web developer, and today, I want to share my heartbreaking story.

On July 27, 2024, I lost my beloved brother to kidney failure. He was a dedicated pastor at a Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) parish in Ahmadiya. For nearly five years, he served the church with his time, energy, and personal resources. But when tragedy struck, the same church he gave so much to turned its back on him.

When my family approached RCCG for a burial space at their cemetery, we expected compassion. Instead, they asked us to pay nearly one million Naira to lay him to rest. Their excuse? “It’s the system.”

Where was the love? Where was the support for a man who had given his all to this church? Back in March, when my brother was fighting for his life, he was taken to Pastor Adeboye. All they gave him was anointing oil.

This experience broke me. It opened my eyes. I can no longer support a system that values money over people. This is why I have stopped going to church—I choose to pray directly to God.

To anyone still blindly giving their hard-earned money to these churches, think twice. My brother’s story is proof that when you need them the most, they might not be there for you.

May God judge those who humiliated him after all his years of service.

https://eyesoflagos.com/2025/03/02/why-i-stopped-going-to-church-my-painful-experience-with-rccg/


cc: Mynd44 , Nlfpmod , Seun

immortalcrown:
You stopped going to Church because you do not understand that God wants us to always come together to worship him.

Hebrew 10:25 says,
"Let us not neglect meeting together, as some have made a habit, but let us encourage one another, and all the more as you see the Day approaching."

Church leaders being materialistic cannot make me withdraw from the congregation unless they point a gun at me when I refuse to give them my money. Also, if I consider the leadership of a Church unbearable and withdraw myself from the congregation, I will join another Church.

The point is that it is biblically wrong for a Christian to withdraw from the congregation and go solo in worshipping God.

Agbaka1997:
So sorry for your experience that was inhumane and that's the more reason why islam is the true religion of love and being compassionate.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LQHxtvf8jes?si=UBZvEIHb8RRtoJJ6

In Islam, food holds great spiritual significance, not only as a source of nourishment but as a means to strengthen our relationship with Allah. Moderation is key, as excessive consumption can harm both body and soul. The Quran and Prophet Muhammad emphasize the importance of balance, gratitude, and mindfulness in our eating habits. Fasting during Ramadan teaches self-control, gratitude, and mindfulness, while also offering an opportunity to reset our eating habits and develop healthier living patterns. By being mindful of what we eat and how much we consume, we can achieve physical well-being, spiritual growth, and peace. #FoodAndSpirituality #Islam #Moderation #Gratitude #Mindfulness #Ramadan #Fasting #SelfControl #HealthyEating #SpiritualGrowth #Peace

Thundafireseun:
My friend had a financial problem that he had to send his wife and children to go live in the village until he could afford house rent…..
before then he ran to his pastor for help…. His pastor frowned and gave him 5k and never called him to check on him and his family again…

Gotocourt:
He's lucky he got 5k. Personally I don't pay tithes and been ages I went to church. All na taxation format 🤷

JASONjnr:
I remember when I met one girl on Facebook and we chatted and we were to start dating but we needed to know certain things about ourselves.

She's an extremely religious girl who doesn't take church for granted. From her photos you'd know that she does everything in the church. But she was really beautiful.

I told her I stopped going to church and she asked why... I stated events where I was broke and needed help pay for recruitment form during that era before GEJ stopped it. A church member I met told me he doesn't have money and the next Sunday, he came with a new JEEP. I stated another instance where I met a medical doctor who said he has given about 2mill to the assistant chaplain to give me when I bring to him a good business plan. I did everything and one other church member too was doing everything. But he kept cancelling all the plans. We gave up.

Another instance was when I was almost homeless and I went to a catholic church to seek for a dwelling place and the priest turned me down and I cried. Another instance was when I begged a church member to come and be a guarantor for me to get a job and he refused... He asked me to come to his church to meet his pastors and I did and the pastor collected my number but refused to pick my call....

After I narrated all these things to her.... She said I was very entitled. That church money isn't my money ... I blocked her. I was an usher for 3yrs and I devoted all my time and energy for church events.... I travel to usher in burials and marriages as church members would beg the church to use the church ushers rather than paying for ushers. And I miss my Saturday lectures and reading timetable.... I was t doing that to get things in return but church is supposed to come through for it's members because that's the essence of the gathering....

Agbaka1997:
So sorry for your experience that was inhumane and that's the more reason why islam is the true religion of love and being compassionate.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LQHxtvf8jes?si=UBZvEIHb8RRtoJJ6

In Islam, food holds great spiritual significance, not only as a source of nourishment but as a means to strengthen our relationship with Allah. Moderation is key, as excessive consumption can harm both body and soul. The Quran and Prophet Muhammad emphasize the importance of balance, gratitude, and mindfulness in our eating habits. Fasting during Ramadan teaches self-control, gratitude, and mindfulness, while also offering an opportunity to reset our eating habits and develop healthier living patterns. By being mindful of what we eat and how much we consume, we can achieve physical well-being, spiritual growth, and peace. #FoodAndSpirituality #Islam #Moderation #Gratitude #Mindfulness #Ramadan #Fasting #SelfControl #HealthyEating #SpiritualGrowth #Peace

DonBenny77:
Shut your mouth please and go to church with your plastic brain.
A man said if you don't pay tithe you wont make heaven someone who isn't even sure of heaven. Then you still go to such place to pray to God. Educated fools!

Thundafireseun:
Somethings are worth more than 5k …..
A simple call and a prayer of encouragement is enough to strengthen a man on the floor

immortalcrown:
You stopped going to Church because you do not understand that God wants us to always come together to worship him.

Hebrew 10:25 says,
"Let us not neglect meeting together, as some have made a habit, but let us encourage one another, and all the more as you see the Day approaching."

Church leaders being materialistic cannot make me withdraw from the congregation unless they point a gun at me when I refuse to give them my money. Also, if I consider the leadership of a Church unbearable and withdraw myself from the congregation, I will join another Church.

The point is that it is biblically wrong for a Christian to withdraw from the congregation and go solo in worshipping God.

[sub][/sub]
Keep shouting.

If you are not the one with a plastic brain, you could have read and understood the paragraph that advises the OP to join another Church if he finds RCCG leadership unbearable. You could have also read the quoted scripture and given your interpretation of it.

immortalcrown:
Keep shouting.

If you are not the one with a plastic brain, you could have read the paragraph that advises the OP to join another Church if he finds RCCG leadership unbearable. You could have also read the quoted scripture and given your interpretation of it.

Thundafireseun:
My friend had a financial problem that he had to send his wife and children to go live in the village until he could afford house rent…..
before then he ran to his pastor for help…. His pastor frowned and gave him 5k and never called him to check on him and his family again…

Nairalander248:
This one no follow, if you become a pastor you sef will know how many people is eating from your pocket...

Agbaka1997:
So sorry for your experience that was inhumane and that's the more reason why islam is the true religion of love and being compassionate.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LQHxtvf8jes?si=UBZvEIHb8RRtoJJ6

In Islam, food holds great spiritual significance, not only as a source of nourishment but as a means to strengthen our relationship with Allah. Moderation is key, as excessive consumption can harm both body and soul. The Quran and Prophet Muhammad emphasize the importance of balance, gratitude, and mindfulness in our eating habits. Fasting during Ramadan teaches self-control, gratitude, and mindfulness, while also offering an opportunity to reset our eating habits and develop healthier living patterns. By being mindful of what we eat and how much we consume, we can achieve physical well-being, spiritual growth, and peace. #FoodAndSpirituality #Islam #Moderation #Gratitude #Mindfulness #Ramadan #Fasting #SelfControl #HealthyEating #SpiritualGrowth #Peace