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Wow...this year (and month) must be blowing a refreshing breeze of perspective . To see more men on NL in support of children being raised by the fathers instead of mothers... shocking.

dominique:
Men have been winning for decades, it's about time, it's about time women start winning like that too

Yeah I know right. I love the new generation of women, no time to check time.

Mindlog:
When both know that none has the monopoly of abandoning the children they birthed, the conversations will be different.

Certainly!! One gender doesn't have the monopoly of madness.

Divorce works better for men than women

If I want to divorce you and you leave the kids behind, I'll fend for them, pay their fees and shit as I should, I'd buy them cooked food or have them make my food when they're 8 years plus.

I will be very free to also have girlfriends, have self con away from family house where my kids are to sleep with my girlfriends.

Very sweet life

Ebubu:
Divorce works better for men than women

If I want to divorce you and you leave the kids behind, I'll fend for them, pay their fees and shit as I should, I'd buy them cooked food or have them make my food when they're 8 years plus.

I will be very free to also have girlfriends, have self con away from family house where my kids are to sleep with my girlfriends.

Very sweet life

Yes, very sweet life.

Displacement as a coping mechanism!😂😂😂

Mindlog:
Yes, very sweet life.

Displacement as a coping mechanism!😂😂😂

E no concern anybody !
Ashawo life activated

Ebubu:
E no concern anybody !
Ashawo life activated

When 2 Ashawos comes together, magic happens. 😂😂😂

Ebubu:
Divorce works better for men than women

If I want to divorce you and you leave the kids behind, I'll fend for them, pay their fees and shit as I should, I'd buy them cooked food or have them make my food when they're 8 years plus.

I will be very free to also have girlfriends, have self con away from family house where my kids are to sleep with my girlfriends.

Very sweet life

Dominique, folake4u, karleb, tensazangetsu20,
Cococandy, kobojunkie make una read this
Make una dey play

dominique:
I'm a millennial and I 100% endorse this move. Leave their children for them! No be only woman born pikin, why must she be the one to be saddled with the stress of singlehandedly raising kids coupled with the stigma of being called a single mother or divorcee? One in my area recently left her extremely abusive marriage without her kids. Went as far as ditching her sim so she won't be reachable by her husband and his people. She told someone that was finally able to speak with her through her dad that for the first time in 10 years, she finally has peace of mind. No more sleeping and waking up with anxiety, no more walking on eggshells. When asked if she'll come and pick her kids once she stands on her feet, she was like for where? Are they bearing her name or his name? I said better! The children will locate her when they grow up. Weray husband don lean finish, not like he's the one taking care of the children, he has since taken them to his sister. Nobody even pities him including the useless men that justify domestic violence.

Na mumu woman go leave her kids for the husband cos it makes it easier for him to call a nanny

obinna58:
Na mumu woman go leave her kids for the husband cos it makes it easier for him to call a nanny

He should go and call a nanny naw, he can marry the nanny if he wishes sef. They're not her kids alone, they're his too. If he likes he should not take care of them. It will only make the children hate him more, they're old enough to understand that it was his toxicity that chased their mother away in the first place.

dominique:
I'm a millennial and I 100% endorse this move. Leave their children for them! No be only woman born pikin, why must she be the one to be saddled with the stress of singlehandedly raising kids coupled with the stigma of being called a single mother or divorcee? One in my area recently left her extremely abusive marriage without her kids. Went as far as ditching her sim so she won't be reachable by her husband and his people. She told someone that was finally able to speak with her through her dad that for the first time in 10 years, she finally has peace of mind. No more sleeping and waking up with anxiety, no more walking on eggshells. When asked if she'll come and pick her kids once she stands on her feet, she was like for where? Are they bearing her name or his name? I said better! The children will locate her when they grow up. Weray husband don lean finish, not like he's the one taking care of the children, he has since taken them to his sister. Nobody even pities him including the useless men that justify domestic violence.

You really support a woman abandoning her children? Not even occasional calls or visits?
Is it the children being told tales of how their mother never looked back that will grow up to look for their heartless mother?

That post coming from you shook me a little.