₦airaland Forum

Starboytwo:
damn. 🤦🤦I feel bad for the man.

WhiteBalaclava:
He will learn


And we will laugh

Lalami3232:

This na one thing wey I no fit ever try for life!!!
Make I gist una small story. When I was doing my NYSC, if you see wetin some married women dey do for camp, you go shock. The so-called married women were easier to eat than single girls because of the attention wey guys dey give dem. Even inside camp, plenty stories dey about guys chopping these married women. Now make we move to our PPA. For our PPA, we had one married female corper, though she no give me Opueh to chop even with my sharp techniques , but others ate and they confirmed the tightness of her juicy kpekus. Whenever her husband dey call her, the husband go say make he talk to some of us wey dey around. The innocent man go thank us and admonish us to take care of the wife, not knowing say corpers dey harvest for he sacred farmland. That would have been the first and only time wey I for chop a married woman, but luckily she no give me. Though E pain me then say I no get a bite from the food but when I look back to it today, I thank God say I no chop the food. So oga make I ask y'all a question: why do you think your woman is different from others?
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooooo because non-virgins aka boreholes can't be trusted atall atall

Juoflife1:
Bitter souls.
No woman leaves a happy marriage

Kiss the truth

richie240:
Precisely!


Women don't have the same 'gratitude index'as men.

You can buy her a private jet last week and she can beef/leave u for not buying her a 500 (ordinary five hundred naira) pant the following week; and can even leave you for someone who will buy it for her; never minding d fact that pant and private jet aren't mates.

tuoyoojo:
From the comments on Nairaland, you would notice that many People are generally unhappy to see marriages flourish.

They are generally happy when they hear of situations where people pass thru hell in marriage as that's what they are used to hearing as that ticks their preconceived notions

Anything outside the normal bad news about marriage, they attack. I would not have advised this man to bring his "wins" so far to cyber social space

Too much bad energy here

DonBenny77:
She'll meet her real husband in a plane

luminouz:
I HAVE NEVER AND WILL NEVER DO THIS SHIIT ...GROW A WOMAN WHILE NEGLECTING MYSELF? I'M MY FIRST PRIORITY ALWAYS AND EVERYTIME.

MEN JUST DEY FALL HAND.

WhiteBalaclava:
He will learn


And we will laugh

idahme:
How is it men's responsibility? It's the responsibility of both parties, until you reach divorce that's when your eyes will Open that its not your responsibility alone dey play

chris51:
What will make you also not think of furthering your education? If she has sense to think of Aviation school, why didn't you tell her to work after her graduation, then you go to aviation school.

Marriage is give and take. You supported her to go to school, she also should support you to further yours.

I wish both of you luck.

Ballzproblem2:
It amazes how a man will prioritize a stranger from another woman development over his in the name of love ,that's the highest form of low self-esteem.

TenQ:
No wonder my wife is better educated than even you!

Because I allow my wife to grow, she has probably been in more countries than you.

Mr Hard man.
So what have you gained by limiting your wife?


I can bet that you are either not married or newly married with a wife you cannot even trust to cook your food for fear of poisoning

Dvea:
The only thing I wonder about situations like this is...

Men why is it that the first thing you do when you make small money is to find a woman and carry responsibility no one sent you.

This man now, how much has he spent on his parents and siblings. Even leave siblings. His mother and father, how much of his money have they eaten for him to say okay now I can get a woman.

You were jobless but rather than building yourself you decided to find yet another jobless woman.

As a woman I wonder what goes on in your head. The first time I worked post secondary school my mind did not go to man or kids, I immediately taught of my parents. Even now as a full time worker, I'm still focused on letting my parents eat my money first before finding responsibility no one sent me.

This seems like a reoccurring theme among men and genuinely I wonder why? The funny part is most men who do this come from poor homes. You spend money on a wife and your kids but your family are home is barely surviving. Look at mothers of wives and mothers of husbands. Women tend to have healthier looking mothers because they spend om them.

If you finished school without a job then focus on yourself first, take care of your parents consistently before you look for a woman. Worse even if you want a woman who isn't working.

Personally I think men plunge themselves into unnecessary wahala when they do this. Before you spend on a woman, let your mother be balling.

Sincerely don't understand what goes on in a man's mind when he does something like this.

emmaodet:
Even being married is worst.
You will be dying silently at home - she will be disrespecting you, give you timetable for sex, you will be irritating her because your sight reminds her of a failure that she deserves something better with her new status, some will even cheat recklessly with their bosses or well to do colleagues, meeting upon meeting at work, in Abuja and lodge in hotels for days.
If you talk, everyone including her family will say you are insecure and not giving their daughter rest because she is doing better than you.
It will likely highly lead to divorce anyway

Mcslize:
I have told myself. I will never allow any jobless lady come into my life who won't add any value to my life. Men mumu don do.

That's why I laugh so hard at all those jóbless ládies who are looking for rich guys to marry.

Bunch of delusionáls!

TenQ:
Theoretical marriage advisor!

Put your theory to practice first on yourself!

Gerrard59:
You have seen a lot

luminouz:
Damn....has she cooked for you today or you are the one still cooking your food while being rejected at night after paying a hefty bride price for a non-virgin?

Sorry oh

tiswell:
Young man,you go eventually learn...the HARD way!