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| Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by Trendingzone(op): 3:18am On Mar 15, 2025*. Modified: 2:59am On Mar 16, 2025 |
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gn8hgCwM29Q South African Woman Kills Two Boyfriends & Son—Buried Them in the Same Grave (True Story) Have you ever heard of a woman using her boyfriends to kill each other? This chilling true crime case from South Africa is one of the most shocking stories you’ll ever read. A woman named Pamela Ncumisa was found guilty of orchestrating the deaths of two of her boyfriends and her own son—burying them all in the same grave. How It Started Pamela was a mother of three and had been previously married. However, her husband died under mysterious circumstances (which now raises suspicion). After her husband’s death, she started dating a man named Michael Changisa in 2016. Their relationship was toxic—constant fights, accusations, and problems. It was later discovered that Michael had infected Pamela with HIV, which worsened their issues. Eventually, their relationship collapsed, and Pamela moved on to another man named Gift Furi. But instead of moving on peacefully, Pamela had other plans—she wanted Michael dead. First Murder – Michael Changisa Pamela convinced Gift Furi (her new boyfriend) to help her get rid of Michael. Gift agreed without hesitation, wanting to prove his loyalty. Michael was still living in Pamela’s house, refusing to leave. So Pamela and Gift set a trap. 📌 The Plan: They waited for Michael to return home drunk one night. As soon as he entered, Gift attacked him with a sledgehammer. Some reports suggest they also tortured Michael before finally killing him. After Michael was dead, they dug a grave in the compound and buried him there. When neighbors or Michael’s family asked about him, Pamela lied, saying he had traveled or that they had broken up. With Michael out of the picture, Gift moved into Pamela’s house as her new man. But he had no idea that his own death was coming next. Second Murder – Gift Furi At first, Pamela and Gift seemed happy. But one year later, Gift started abusing Pamela and her children. 🔴 She knew she had to get rid of him. This time, instead of using another boyfriend, Pamela recruited her 17-year-old son, Aviwe, to help. 📌 The Plan: They poisoned Gift’s food and drink. After consuming the poison, Gift started vomiting and realized he had been poisoned. As he tried to get help, Pamela and her son overpowered him and drowned him in a bucket of water. And guess where they buried him? 📌 Inside the SAME GRAVE where Michael Changisa was buried. Gift had unknowingly dug his own grave when he buried Michael there a year earlier. Third Murder – Her Own Son, Aviwe After getting rid of Gift, Pamela believed life would be peaceful. But her eldest son, Aviwe, started changing. He became violent, started drinking, and began threatening Pamela. 🔴 He used his knowledge of the murders to blackmail his mother. He refused to contribute to rent. He demanded money from her. He even became physically abusive toward Pamela and his younger siblings. Pamela saw Aviwe as another threat. So guess what she did? 📌 She plotted with her younger son (Aviwe’s 13-year-old brother) to kill him. One night, when Aviwe came home drunk, Pamela attacked him with a hammer and killed him. She buried him in the SAME GRAVE as the other two men. At this point, there were three bodies in one grave. How She Got Caught After two years, Pamela’s younger son became sick and depressed. She took him to a traditional healer for help. During the session, the boy confessed everything to the healer—his mother had killed three men and buried them in the backyard! 🔴 The healer immediately alerted the community leaders. Pamela and her son were taken under citizens’ arrest. The community dug up the grave and found all three bodies. She was arrested and charged with three counts of murder. Her Trial & Sentencing At first, Pamela showed no remorse. She claimed all the men she killed were abusive. She even tried to make her younger son take the blame for everything, but he refused. In 2020, after seven years of investigation and trial, she was sentenced to three consecutive life sentences (over 300 years in prison). What Do You Think About This Case? Was Pamela justified in any way? Should her younger son have been punished for helping her? Did she also kill her first husband? Drop your thoughts in the comments! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gn8hgCwM29Q
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| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by mariovito(m): 3:55am On Mar 15, 2025 |
Fear woman |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by Mumusaphire: 5:03am On Mar 15, 2025 |
After woman, fear women. |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by Baronthecelebri(m): 6:18am On Mar 15, 2025 |
Hmmmmmmmmmm |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by illicit(m): 6:52am On Mar 15, 2025 |
😯 |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by Mikespecialone(m): 6:59am On Mar 15, 2025 |
If you Dey fear God , fear woman too |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by Verydarkhearted(m): 7:22am On Mar 15, 2025 |
Weak men!! I can never die at the hands of a woman.. I’m smarter than that.. |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by fman(m): 7:25am On Mar 15, 2025 |
Let her rot in jail |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by fman(m): 7:26am On Mar 15, 2025 |
Verydarkhearted:we pray never to meet murderous women. |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by We4all: 8:08am On Mar 15, 2025 |
Sick woman. |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by Exceed15: 8:14am On Mar 15, 2025 |
Gory story |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by ogalandlord10: 9:19am On Mar 15, 2025 |
Hmmmmmmm, including killing her son? this is gender Sha |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by Wealthoptulent(m): 9:30am On Mar 15, 2025*. Modified: 10:12am On Mar 15, 2025 |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by Trendingzone(op): 9:41am On Mar 15, 2025 |
NOP IS PAMELA Wealthoptulent: |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by tjman: 12:22pm On Mar 15, 2025 |
It's Pamela, south African woman. Was also termed as serial killer |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by Meteng: 12:34pm On Mar 15, 2025 |
Okay, so she now infected the second man with the HIV before killing him? |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by Fisiryorh(m): 2:59pm On Mar 15, 2025 |
Awon jennyclay.....🙄 |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by ogalandlord10: 4:17pm On Mar 15, 2025 |
Most likely. Meteng: |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by Ushman333: 9:11pm On Mar 15, 2025 |
Strong justice system, 300 years in prison... while Evans the monster who kidnapped and killed dozens is being treated like a celebrity in Nigeria, that monster should be in solitary confinement for 100 years minimum. We are too nice to terrorists and kidnappers that is why their numbers are increasing, no deterrence |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by zumbigbo(m): 3:34am On Mar 16, 2025 |
Verydarkhearted:Bravado and overblown ego is what led these men to a shallow grave. |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by IbnB: 8:08am On Mar 16, 2025 |
Black Widow |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by Trendingzone(op): 12:16am On Mar 21, 2025 |
Black indeed IbnB: |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by Sonofgod1990(m): 4:59am On Mar 21, 2025 |
Verydarkhearted:Dey play. Woman go just carry knife forget am inside your stomach when you dey sleep ![]() |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by ogalandlord10: 7:06am On Mar 21, 2025 |
Or Slowly poison G Sonofgod1990: |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by Kaybaba5(m): 7:14am On Mar 21, 2025 |
Men pls stop drinking for you not to lose guard..... |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by tjman: 12:03pm On Mar 21, 2025 |
Lol. They won't listen. According to them, it helps them together their Sorrow |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by ogalandlord10: 6:26am On Mar 22, 2025 |
What is this one saying ........ tjman: |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by sleepmedia: 8:11am On Mar 22, 2025 |
This woman needs to be jailed for life |
| Re: Pamela Ncumisa: Woman Who Killed Her Son & Two Lovers – Buried Them In One Grave by dettolgel: 8:57am On Mar 22, 2025 |
Na dat thick nyash she use hold them for work ![]() |
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