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frog12:
because the mothers pamper them

Brilliancepower:
It is a simple arithmetic, mum stay with kids, fathers don't have time to stay with their kids, they look for money most time till even they die.

obicoolnino:
At a young age they are more inclined to their mother due to the special attention they receive. Father's also play their role but as times go on, a mature child can actually tell who contributed to his or her growth and may likely not pick a side if both parents are responsible.

nairalanda1:
Because father's don't spend time with their children.

Most father's just come home sit down and demand food. And watch tv , and shout at the children oftentimes.

Most mothers even the working ones make time for their children.

datola:
Nature, manipulations by mothers, most fathers don't care, etc

id4sho:
You think finding money is easy? Having a husband na protection for women

Villa12:
in any situation, children love their mother more and it's natural even in the animal kingdom

Focusmind:
Surprisingly, my children are closer to me than their mom. I play lots of roles in their lives, which they see. I take them to school; do assignments with them; take them to church; take them out; attend to all their schools requests, including parental visits; iron their clothes; put them through life lessons. They hardly make any request to their mom. Everything is about me. They hardly discuss anything concerning their education or school with their mom. They must wait for me. I hardly see them make requests about where they want to go; assistance with school work or when sick to their mom. It's me. When sick or not feeling fine, I will be the first to be told except when I am not around. However, the mom carries on with the nursing aspect of their care when sick till full recovery. It's all about getting involved in their total formation and development

Jayjayconcept:
I will change that Narrative..my kids will love me more than there mum..

More attention,love and care...

obembet:
I believe most of us love our Parents equally but, we tend to be a little closer showing our Mother our love better. But why in some homes the children after making it in life come back to take better care of their moms than their dads?

Of course, I know that some fathers are what I call deadbeat dads who must have bottles of beers every evening at the expense of hungry children.

But there are alot of father out there who care so much about Thier children.

Another thing we need to understand is that Nothing brings a man more happiness than having a successful son, seeing his son surpass him. In this context, fathers often raise their sons with a firm hand, instilling lessons through tough love and challenging environments. But many of us don't see this, we only focus on hash and hard training.

Many children still don't know that some moms manipulate the children emotionally to believe they care for them more than their fathers do.

My TAKE

As a father, apart from been a responsible father, father should always try to provide things what their children want and give it to them directly. Father should no allow someone else to take Thier efforts glory.

Also, Give your kids hugs, kisses, hold hands, rub their backs, or snuggle with them. Let the children see this.

Most of nowadays mother are selfish and only care about themselves alone

Source: obembet

dauntless15:
Raising children requires emotional connection as well, normally the person who's always there is the one you tend to be close to, and it's easy to form an emotional connection to the ever present one, providing for your children alone isn't enough you need to be emotionally available as well, I could tell my mom anything, it's as if she's a fellow guy, including my dating life, but my dad, he literally knows nothing about me, infact throughout your life he might not ask you how was your day even once, lol, if I ever become a dad I'd do the opposite of everything my dad did.

meditator:
You also need to look at it from another perspective. Some dads are caged on "providing for the family". This tends to drain their time and strength. They fall to bed immediately they get home, after having been exhausted for the whole day. The economy isn't smiling and every dad has to double his hustle. Though I know some dads could do better.

Using my case as an example, I used to have all the time in the world for my siblings, nieces and nephews and everyone. I spent all the time in the world with them and my presence was appreciated. I was available for all errands.

Everything changed when I noticed poverty was trying to marry me, after I lost my dad who used to provide everything for me. I changed immediately. This is because age wasn't by my side and the people I smile with could not provide what I needed or cared about my personal progress.

My business owns most of my time now. Although, I intend to adjust after I get Married. But I don't think my family would get the time I would like to accord them. This is due to the economic challenges of life

Acidosis:
That's what the media and people of the world tell you. There is nothing natural about that. I do not love my mother more than I love my father. I don't do for my mother what I have not done or will not do for my father.

Villa12:
it is written in the holy quoran to love your mother 4 times before father comes. It has nothing to do with the media and society. Is animal Kingdom also influenced by the media? Only when you admit the role mothers play in the lives of their kids then you will understand

SeriouslySense:
That is one thing, sometimes men are more careful with finances, they plan and stick to it.

I think they should plan for their children too and building them up and also spoiling them sometimes

dauntless15:
Raising children requires emotional connection as well, normally the person who's always there is the one you tend to be close to, and it's easy to form an emotional connection to the ever present one, providing for your children alone isn't enough you need to be emotionally available as well, I could tell my mom anything, it's as if she's a fellow guy, including my dating life, but my dad, he literally knows nothing about me, infact throughout your life he might not ask you how was your day even once, lol, if I ever become a dad I'd do the opposite of everything my dad did.

obembet:
I believe most of us love our Parents equally but, we tend to be a little closer showing our Mother our love better. But why in some homes the children after making it in life come back to take better care of their moms than their dads?

Of course, I know that some fathers are what I call deadbeat dads who must have bottles of beers every evening at the expense of hungry children.

But there are alot of father out there who care so much about Thier children.

Another thing we need to understand is that Nothing brings a man more happiness than having a successful son, seeing his son surpass him. In this context, fathers often raise their sons with a firm hand, instilling lessons through tough love and challenging environments. But many of us don't see this, we only focus on hash and hard training.

Many children still don't know that some moms manipulate the children emotionally to believe they care for them more than their fathers do.

My TAKE

As a father, apart from been a responsible father, father should always try to provide things what their children want and give it to them directly. Father should no allow someone else to take Thier efforts glory.

Also, Give your kids hugs, kisses, hold hands, rub their backs, or snuggle with them. Let the children see this.

Most of nowadays mother are selfish and only care about themselves alone

Source: obembet

obembet:
I believe most of us love our Parents equally but, we tend to be a little closer showing our Mother our love better. But why in some homes the children after making it in life come back to take better care of their moms than their dads?

Of course, I know that some fathers are what I call deadbeat dads who must have bottles of beers every evening at the expense of hungry children.

But there are alot of father out there who care so much about Thier children.

Another thing we need to understand is that Nothing brings a man more happiness than having a successful son, seeing his son surpass him. In this context, fathers often raise their sons with a firm hand, instilling lessons through tough love and challenging environments. But many of us don't see this, we only focus on hash and hard training.

Many children still don't know that some moms manipulate the children emotionally to believe they care for them more than their fathers do.

My TAKE

As a father, apart from been a responsible father, father should always try to provide things what their children want and give it to them directly. Father should no allow someone else to take Thier efforts glory.

Also, Give your kids hugs, kisses, hold hands, rub their backs, or snuggle with them. Let the children see this.

Most of nowadays mother are selfish and only care about themselves alone

Source: obembet