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Theflint1:
It's like a case of a kid facing bullying, face time they're confronted by the bully, they might shrug it off think it's a one-off, but when the bullying persists, they know a pattern has been established, and if they don't cry out their lives would remain hell.

Assuming Natasha isn't a jezebel that's simply lying, the scenario above applies to her situation.

Akpabio should have shut this case down once and for all by keeping things transparent and not using his influence in the senate to shut the case down unethically.

Let's take a step back here. What does a child have to do with a 45-year-old woman who's been entrenched in the corridors of power? It's frustrating to see vulnerability being falsely applied to someone like Natasha, who has actively fought against a terrible sit-in governor for years.

Natasha isn't some timid little girl; she’s a grown woman who has been involved in politics for a long time and knows her way around.

So, I’ll ask again: why didn’t she report the sexual harassment incident to the appropriate authorities right after it happened?


The ph00lish lady even confessed lying to her husband. She also went back to spend time for man house wey she claim dey sexually harass her. Omo….make una no dey use emotions dey reason matters that can easily destroy a man’s life! I distaste Akpabio as a person, but you see that Natasha, na proper liar she be.

diggz:
Let's take a step back here. What does a child have to do with a 45-year-old woman who's been entrenched in the corridors of power? It's frustrating to see vulnerability being falsely applied to someone like Natasha, who has actively fought against a terrible sit-in governor for years.

Natasha isn't some timid little girl; she’s a grown woman who has been involved in politics for a long time and knows her way around.

So, I’ll ask again: why didn’t she report the sexual harassment incident to the appropriate authorities right after it happened?


The ph00lish lady even confessed lying to her husband. She also went back to spend time for man house wey she claim dey sexually harass her. Omo….make una no dey use emotions dey reason matters that can easily destroy a man’s life! I distaste Akpabio as a person, but you see that Natasha, na proper liar she be.

There's an age beyond which you can't be sexually harassed, just getting to find out today.

There's nothing you've said here that isn't conjecture...

She hid the truth of what Akpabio said to her husband therefore there's no chance it happened.

She's been involved in politics for several years...Dem no fit harass that kin big woman

She's over 40, so she's lying, you have to be 19 and below before you can be sexually harassed

Natasha is not the first grown woman to have accused Akpabio of sexual harassment...maybe, just maybe there's some fire from that smoke.

How many other senate presidents have faced such accusations...in fact how many other male senators have faced such accusations so why Akpabio repeatedly?

Theflint1:
There's an age beyond which you can't be sexually harassed, just getting to find out today.

There's nothing you've said here that isn't conjecture...

She hid the truth of what Akpabio said to her husband therefore there's no chance it happened.

She's been involved in politics for several years...Dem no fit harass that kin big woman

She's over 40, so she's lying, you have to be 19 and below before you can be sexually harassed

Natasha is not the first grown woman to have accused Akpabio of sexual harassment...maybe, just maybe there's some fire from that smoke.

Adults are supposed to act like adults, not children. A woman with Natasha's influence and knowledge should know better than to frolic with her harasser and sing their praises. Instead, she should report matters like that immediately and do everything in her power to address the issue through the appropriate channels. She is not a victim! She is a liar!

diggz:
Adults are supposed to act like adults, not children. A woman with Natasha's influence and knowledge should know better than to frolic with her harasser and sing their praises. Instead, she should report matters like that immediately and do everything in her power to address the issue through the appropriate channels. She is not a victim! She is a liar!

Maybe she was silly, maybe she thought it'd go away on its own, maybe she didn't want to raise drama and hurt her political career...adults don't come with a fixed formula of behavior, adults make emotional decisions too, even at the highest levels of politics.

Whatever might have been her reason for not speaking up immediately does not automatically mean she might not have faced sexual harassment.

Akpabio has faced accusations of sexual harassment twice, I can't think of any other male senator that has ever had to deal with that. Maybe she isn't lying and chose to speak up now.

Theflint1:
It's like a case of a kid facing bullying, face time they're confronted by the bully, they might shrug it off think it's a one-off, but when the bullying persists, they know a pattern has been established, and if they don't cry out their lives would remain hell.

Assuming Natasha isn't a jezebel that's simply lying, the scenario above applies to her situation.

Akpabio should have shut this case down once and for all by keeping things transparent and not using his influence in the senate to shut the case down unethically.

i am partial towards natasha because she faced off the bloodtirsty thug of kogi politics and prevailed. you cannot do that if you are not made of stern stuff

maybe it is a well oiled and coordinated smear campaign, but the image of her being floated around on SM is not a stern no nonsense woman but a woman who knows she is fine, knows she makes pricks stand and will use this to her advantage.

then again - akpabio has already fallen hand multiple times especially with his nightclub talk. that man is a dyed in the wool boor and chauvinist who likely has no control over his prick

las las i'd say sit this one out.

especially as the evidence she has been promising is yet to materalize. though i think i know why. if she has akpabio on video she will win this round, but going forward everyone will be paranoid around her

Theflint1:
Maybe she was silly, maybe she thought it'd go away on its own, maybe she didn't want to raise drama and hurt her political career...adults don't come with a fixed formula of behavior, adults make emotional decisions too, even at the highest levels of politics.

Whatever might have been her reason for not speaking up immediately does not automatically mean she might not have faced sexual harassment.

Akpabio has faced accusations of sexual harassment twice, I can't think of any other male senator that has ever had to deal with that. Maybe she isn't lying and chose to speak up now.

This makes no sense whatsoever. I’m sorry, but this is the most ridiculous perspective I’ve ever encountered.

On one hand, you claim she is a victim of sexual harassment; on the other, you suggest she lacks morals and would compromise herself for material gain or to advance her career. For instance, there’s a term for that kind of behavior—it’s called prostitution.

Akpabio is a despicable man, but your girl is not an innocent child. She is known for making false accusations against men regarding sexual harassment; she is a liar!

Adults may not have a set formula for behavior, and they can make emotional decisions, sure. However, her reasons for remaining silent after the incidents do not negate the possibility that she never faced any sexual harassment at all. They might have been engaged in a consensual sexual relationship, often referred to as "friends with benefits."

While Akpabio has faced accusations of harassment twice, this does not imply guilt in this case. So, maybe she is lying and chose to speak up now because nothing ever happened in the first place. Ultimately, we must question her motives rather than taking her claims at face value.

diggz:
This makes no sense whatsoever. I’m sorry, but this is the most ridiculous perspective I’ve ever encountered.

On one hand, you claim she is a victim of sexual harassment; on the other, you suggest she lacks morals and would compromise herself for material gain or to advance her career. For instance, there’s a term for that kind of behavior—it’s called prostitution.

Akpabio is a despicable man, but your girl is not an innocent child. She is known for making false accusations against men regarding sexual harassment; she is a liar!

Adults may not have a set formula for behavior, and they can make emotional decisions, sure. However, her reasons for remaining silent after the incidents do not negate the possibility that she never faced any sexual harassment at all. They might have been engaged in a consensual sexual relationship, often referred to as "friends with benefits."

While Akpabio has faced accusations of harassment twice, this does not imply guilt in this case. So, maybe she is lying and chose to speak up now because nothing ever happened in the first place. Ultimately, we must question her motives rather than taking her claims at face value.

Could be.

You're the one who keeps saying she wants to bring Akpabio down, when there's a chance he could be guilty.

GloriousGbola:
i am partial towards natasha because she faced off the bloodtirsty thug of kogi politics and prevailed. you cannot do that if you are not made of stern stuff

maybe it is a well oiled and coordinated smear campaign, but the image of her being floated around on SM is not a stern no nonsense woman but a woman who knows she is fine, knows she makes pricks stand and will use this to her advantage.

then again - akpabio has already fallen hand multiple times especially with his nightclub talk. that man is a dyed in the wool boor and chauvinist who likely has no control over his prick

las las i'd say sit this one out.

especially as the evidence she has been promising is yet to materalize. though i think i know why. if she has akpabio on video she will win this round, but going forward everyone will be paranoid around her

Exactly, none of them is a saint, and it truly could be anything, but then what if the person in question isn't Natasha, is this how things would get handled? That's my point...it's beyond who's guilty or not, the process just stank and that was the point I raised.

Theflint1:
Could be.

You're the one who keeps saying she wants to bring Akpabio down, when there's a chance he could be guilty.

Abeg provide evidence of me claiming she wants to bring Akpabio down bros.

You no sabi me bros. I even want Akpabio to end up in prison some day, but not on your girls ph00lishness!

diggz:
Abeg provide evidence of me claiming she wants to bring Akpabio down bros.

You no sabi me bros. I even want Akpabio to end up in prison some day, but not on your girls ph00lishness!

diggz:
Let's take a step back here. What does a child have to do with a 45-year-old woman who's been entrenched in the corridors of power? It's frustrating to see vulnerability being falsely applied to someone like Natasha, who has actively fought against a terrible sit-in governor for years.

Natasha isn't some timid little girl; she’s a grown woman who has been involved in politics for a long time and knows her way around.

So, I’ll ask again: why didn’t she report the sexual harassment incident to the appropriate authorities right after it happened?


The ph00lish lady even confessed lying to her husband. She also went back to spend time for man house wey she claim dey sexually harass her. Omo….make una no dey use emotions dey reason matters that can easily destroy a man’s life! I distaste Akpabio as a person, but you see that Natasha, na proper liar she be.

A true hater would be open to exploring any and every opportunity. It's clear you don't want Akpabio suffering for his crimes enough, and that's okay

Spy360:
It will not be well with Tinubu and his praise singers

Maazi calma calma

You wey we dey arrange praise singing contract for

Your Tinibu 2nd term album go sell pass Gozie of Akanchawa fame

raumdeuter:
Maazi calma calma

You wey we dey arrange praise singing contract for

Your Tinibu 2nd term album go sell pass Gozie of Akanchawa fame

GloriousGbola:
https://www.nairaland.com/8369437/lagos-woman-gets-husband-arrested

over to raudeuter

That woman case no get leg. If he married one in court, then he can marry the others traditional way

Theflint1:
A true hater would be open to exploring any and every opportunity. It's clear you don't want Akpabio suffering for his crimes enough, and that's okay

Is everything okay, bro? It feels like you’re deliberately twisting my words or misunderstanding what I’ve written just to push your agenda.

I mean, every person—especially men—should be aware that false sexual harassment claims have been ruining lives for a long time, but apparently, that doesn’t include you. So, just because I don’t agree with someone who has stolen our common wealth to enrich himself, I should want him to fail through false sexual harassment? I'm starting to suspect that the person behind this moniker isn't actually a man and might be as morally bankrupt as Natasha. I made a general statement there, which is a fact. I haven’t said a single thing in support of that ediot Akpabio; I’ve only challenged your position on Natasha and her claim. To be honest, your takes on this matter are really concerning, bro!

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People weren't japaing again.

2006 was eldorado

His points are very clear : APC Pre-2015 promised to better the lot of the people and claimed things wasn’t going well then because PDP was in power .

Today almost everything has gone from bad to worse under APC’s control .

There’s actually no crime in saying things the way they are ; things was not so good back then, but things have since gone worse than anybody could’ve ever imagined back then . By almost every measurable economic metric, things have gone worse.

I don’t think anybody will claim 2006 was eldorado but anybody alive and of age as at that time knew things have gone worse today .

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diggz:
Is everything okay, bro? It feels like you’re deliberately twisting my words or misunderstanding what I’ve written just to push your agenda.

I mean, every person—especially men—should be aware that false sexual harassment claims have been ruining lives for a long time, but apparently, that doesn’t include you. So, just because I don’t agree with someone who has stolen our common wealth to enrich himself, I should want him to fail through false sexual harassment? I'm starting to suspect that the person behind this moniker isn't actually a man and might be as morally bankrupt as Natasha. I made a general statement there, which is a fact. I haven’t said a single thing in support of that ediot Akpabio; I’ve only challenged your position on Natasha and her claim. To be honest, your takes on this matter are really concerning, bro!

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I love equal right and punishment
What do you think should be the verdict for this lecturer


https://www.nairaland.com/8369666/federal-polytechnic-nekede-suspends-lecturer

iamoyindamola:
I love equal right and punishment
What do you think should be the verdict for this lecturer


https://www.nairaland.com/8369666/federal-polytechnic-nekede-suspends-lecturer

what is good for the goose is good for the gander now

sack his arse

look how he cleared he guy. like wtf?

i can only imagine what the guys home life is like.

GloriousGbola:
what is good for the goose is good for the gander now

sack his arse

look how he cleared he guy. like wtf?

i can only imagine what the guys home life is like.

Exactly same punishment given to that girl must be awarded to him and more
The boy could have hit his head on the ground and die

iamoyindamola:
I love equal right and punishment
What do you think should be the verdict for this lecturer


https://www.nairaland.com/8369666/federal-polytechnic-nekede-suspends-lecturer

ChatGPT wrote the lecturers apology letter. Nigerians don't write in this tone

Chidera
Department of Art & Design
Federal polytechnic Nekede owerri.

Dear Chidera
LETTER OF APOLOGY TO MR CHIDERA
I am writing to offer my sincerest apologies for my behavior towards you. I am deeply sorry for the way I treated you, and I realize that my actions were unacceptable and hurtful.

As your teacher, I should have provided a safe and supportive learning environment, but instead, I bullied and intimidated you. My behavior was not only unprofessional, but it also caused you harm and distress.

I want you to know that I take full responsibility for my actions, and I am truly sorry for the pain and suffering I caused you. I understand that my apology cannot erase the past, but I hope it can be a step towards healing and moving forward.

Please know that I am committed to changing my behavior and ensuring that all my students feel safe, respected, and supported in the classroom. I will do everything in my power to prevent similar incidents from happening in the future.

If you are willing, I would like to meet with you to discuss how I can make amends and support you in any way possible. Please let me know if this is something you would be open to, and we can arrange a time and place that works for you.

Once again, I offer my sincerest apologies for my behavior. You deserved better from me, and I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me.

Sincerely,

Ifeanyichukwu

Even if you dey lose guard normally, the preponderance of social media blogs and the fact that everyone with a phone is now a reporter of the news should keep you honest and on your best behaviour.

Dem go suspend am without pay for one to three months max. All because of the social media uproar.

He'll beg, lobby and be reinstated with his full withheld salary paid to him.

The End.

iamoyindamola:
I love equal right and punishment
What do you think should be the verdict for this lecturer


https://www.nairaland.com/8369666/federal-polytechnic-nekede-suspends-lecturer

I think his “punishment” should be viewed from two angles .

1. He should be dismissed by the school authority and someone else who is well behaved employed as his replacement .

2. The police authorities should be petitioned to investigate and prosecute the man for assault ; he definitely set out to inflict serious bodily injury on the guy with the way he “raked” him to the concrete floor . Nobody should be able to do that to his fellow man without any legal punishment .

BlueRayDick:
I think his “punishment” should be viewed from two angles .

1. He should be dismissed by the school authority and someone else who is well behaved employed as his replacement .

2. The police authorities should be petitioned to investigate and prosecute the man for assault ; he definitely set out to inflict serious bodily injury on the guy with the way he “raked” him to the concrete floor . Nobody should be able to do that to his fellow man without any legal punishment .

Na serious ifase he give the guy
I also agree he should be arrested

Ibime:
ChatGPT wrote the lecturers apology letter. Nigerians don't write in this tone

So chatgpt is remorseful instead of him

iamoyindamola:
So chatgpt is remorseful instead of him

I am writing to offer my sincerest apologies for my behavior towards you. I am deeply sorry for the way I treated you, and I realize that my actions were unacceptable and hurtful.

As your teacher, I should have provided a safe and supportive learning environment, but instead, I bullied and intimidated you. My behavior was not only unprofessional, but it also caused you harm and distress.

I want you to know that I take full responsibility for my actions, and I am truly sorry for the pain and suffering I caused you. I understand that my apology cannot erase the past, but I hope it can be a step towards healing and moving forward.

Please know that I am committed to changing my behavior and ensuring that all my students feel safe, respected, and supported in the classroom. I will do everything in my power to prevent similar incidents from happening in the future.

If you are willing, I would like to meet with you to discuss how I can make amends and support you in any way possible. Please let me know if this is something you would be open to, and we can arrange a time and place that works for you.

Once again, I offer my sincerest apologies for my behavior. You deserved better from me, and I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me.

even oyibo sef go struggle to write in this tone. this is what they call woke writing

iamoyindamola:
Na serious ifase he give the guy
I also agree he should be arrested

Omo , serious ifase ni o. It’s only Nigerian soldiers I don see wey give person that kind ifase before in real life .

That kind man with that kind anger ehn…. 🤦‍♂️

Ibime:
ChatGPT wrote the lecturers apology letter. Nigerians don't write in this tone

If you are willing, I would like to meet with you to discuss how I can make amends and support you in any way possible. Please let me know if this is something you would be open to, and we can arrange a time and place that works for you

Total ChatGPT. IB your head dey there.

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The level of emotional investment Nigerians put into politicians, especially politicians that see them as no more than cattle is worrying.

And to think this is one of the corp members that Tinubu scammed with the fake minimum wage.

Omo e be like say na asake betray him papa as the man try for him wella
He's apologized and ready to make amend

AI is making people lazy.

Those of us wey go school in the days of very limited internet access, and had to use physical libraries, do overnight browsing at the cybercafe just to download materials for our projects are better grounded.

These days. the simplest writing tasks are done with AI. Even that one sef, dem no fit apply human sense to make it better.

I recently reviewed some seminar papers and all of them were written with AI but it's understandable cos students like sharp-sharp stress free work.

The first sentence in one of the seminar papers I reviewed went thus;

Cardiovascular diseases (CVDs) are the leading cause of deaths globally.

How do you make such a weighty statement without stating the prevalence number and quoting a reference source?

Also that CVDs in bracket was a dead giveaway that it was AI generated.

I fear for our kids o, I really fear.

Hopefully, Turnitin will continue to keep people honest when it comes to serious academic output.