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"I'm 40, single, and childless. I said it, and I did not die. I used to think, how am I forty and I dont have a child? If I'm to be completely honest, if I had gotten married again, I would have divorced because the lessons never end. I'm grateful for where I am. Sometimes, you need to sit with your truth; you can't shame the shameless. I am forty, and I'm a boss. I've built an empire, and I'm not waking up miserable. I'm not always going to be childless, because what I desire, desires me too." - Media Personality Toke Makinwa reflects on life.

Photo credit: @tokemakinwa/Instagram

Oloshos!!! Empire

Na wao! Is it now a curse to be childless? Nowadays, having a child is easier than eating pizza. I don't know what the fuss is about.

Who will marry this aunty for goodness sake?

That is the best choice she think its good for her , let no one rebuke her ... Make she enjoy her life o

Nobody gives a damn

These women are ruthless with filters. Now their pictures don’t look how they do in real life. Wahala. It’s a use of AI which isn’t making the news because it doesn’t favour men.

She can’t naturally have a child due to her condition. Na surrogacy or adoption get her. If she could birth a child, she would’ve gone the Linda Ikeji route since her mid-thirties if not during her now long-forgotten marriage.

A fool at 40, is a fo.ool .........

Nice 👍 one, I support her

What of Maje abi na Maye

@least @40 you should be waking up to the sound of your happy children.

Women, when the food you are cooking is ready, we will all chop breakfast. Do what makes you happy, but don't complain and don't recruit people to your happy studio, allow them to enjoy their suffering and you, your new found happiness.

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There are lots of men living broke/rich...and alone, yet happy with their lives.
If youre a strong and independent woman, it is a plus you can lean on.

Live with your aloneness, you'll be fine.

You may actually not be the issue...perhaps just time and chance.
The world is complex.

REMEBER to WRITE that you are also EMPTY

Never seen a pic of this lady without filter and make up.

But why does it have to end with divorce
Can’t issues be worked out in marriage?

I know some issues are bad, that the only way out is divorce.
But I feel most celebrities divorce over petty things.

Well, what do I know

ukaface:
But why does it have to end with divorce
Can’t issues be worked out in marriage?

I know some issues are bad, that the only way out is divorce.
But I feel most celebrities divorce over petty things.

Well, what do I know

You are making a good point

Many of them are unrealistic

ukaface:
But why does it have to end with divorce
Can’t issues be worked out in marriage?

I know some issues are bad, that the only way out is divorce.
But I feel most celebrities divorce over petty things.

Well, what do I know

Petty things? Would you consider adultery or physical abuse petty?

Getting divorced has nothing to do with being a celebrity. Some women will never leave their marriage no matter the level of abuse, while others won't hesitate to leave when things go south. Would you choose to stay with a man who doesn't value you because you want to stay married by all means?

We4all:
Petty things? Would you consider adultery or physical abuse petty?

Getting divorced has nothing to do with being a celebrity. Some women will never leave their marriage no matter the level of abuse, while others won't hesitate to leave when things go south. Would you choose to stay with a man who doesn't value you because you want to stay married by all means?

you clearly saw where I wrote some issues are bad that the only way out is divorce right?

And getting divorced is not about been a celebrity, I used a celebrity cos that’s who toke is.

Which Empire Toke ?

Sister wetin you dey sell

What is the item 7 $aying again is it p$ussy o clock already 😂😂😂

Evening newspaper industry empire.. u go still tire n carry pikin like linda

ukaface:
But why does it have to end with divorce
Can’t issues be worked out in marriage?

I know some issues are bad, that the only way out is divorce.
But I feel most celebrities divorce over petty things.

Well, what do I know

Ukaface.. whr have you been?

Marriage is just a relationship/dating taken to the next level of commitment: living together forever.

How were you guys doing it in rship?
How do you sort issues, to do you react to what you react to...you both should know that we both like each other, and we're both ready to listen to each other talk from a place of love.
Those things you do in relationship, when you have the unconditional freewill to leave...those are the things that you'll live with for the rest of the marriage life.

Don't date, get married, and then divorce...do the divorce during courtship pls.