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A young man Ivwananji Mwamba has committed suicide after he publicly exposed his friend identified as Nwaiche Norman for allegedly sleeping with his wife.

This unfortunate incident reportedly happened in Zambia.

Ivwananji has reportedly committed suicide by consuming an unknown substance just hours after making the revelation on Facebook.

In his final note, he expressed his pain, saying, “I know I have let you all down, but I had no other way to sort it out. Two years wasted is just too much.”

He posted on Facebook:

Mwaiche nomuntu kuti waipaya, spiritually you have already killed me...
Mwaiche Norman mulenga I took you in like my young brother, you followed me to lusaka to appreciate for what I did for you, I welcomed you in my house, we had lunch together on the same table, afterwards we went out to drink together.... I trusted you with all my life...

It was until you started doing business with me that was when your life started elevating..
you opened your first shop at kankoyo market from the money i was paying you when I was doing business with you...
Balisa kwibila mu shop yobe, you complained mwaiche, I just told you mwaiche let's work fyalabwekelamo ifipe bebile double, and yes after a week you loaded again from the money I was paying you after a successful business...

The people you were working with before me wasn't paying you well but when we linked, I took you as a brother and started giving you fair prices...
I was the one who introduced you to keeping money in dollars mwaiche Norman.. you bought your first vehicle from the money you were saving that I was giving you because nshalekulila nalekulipila bwino...

when I found a job in congo I called you and told you that mwaiche ndeya ku congo I will be getting triple the salary I was getting in Zambia.. hence I decided to introduce you to the people that I was dealing with nakushila connection mwaiche which other people can never do...

Nganatuya ku kitwe bonse ku business nalekusha pa bar Naya pisha bine elonaisakupela impiya mwaiche more kwana watotela... Walentasha mwaiche everyday...

Because I have a good heart and took you like a young brother, when going to DRC I decided to introduce you to my business associates big people from kitwe that you never knew mwaiche...

That was when you now started selling the items I was buying from you on your own and started getting 100% profit...

Mwachinja namotoka mwashita mark X, I was always happy for you and you always called for advice in my absence the time I left for DRC..

All those efforts and connections I gave you the only way you can pay me back is by SLEEPING WITH MY WIFE....

Na 1 year taila kwana nabwino bwino, nenkongole nakongwele for me to do that wedding nshimo tashapwa WANTOMBELA ABA KASHI BANDI MWAICHE..

If only you knew how I was suffering just to sponsor that wedding single handedly without help from anyone, you couldn't have done that mwaiche wandi...

All my friends that I went to congo with the same time and those that came before me drive ama Benz and building houses..

but ine nga naisa kuzambia mbofya yango just because I invested the money I worked for, for two years in a wedding, just for me to get out of the streets because I was tired of the streets..

I wanted to get my first child Joyce, I wanted to start staying with her ndemona umwana wandi nganabwela ku congo mung'anda yandi just like the same way you see you kids and wife ngawainuka kunchito... That feeling you feel abana bobe ngabakupokelela ngawainuka kunchito balekugonena that's the feeling I also wanted.

Ilya wedding napisishe, 99.5% was the salary I was getting paid for two year I worked in congo

0.5% was the support I received from family and friends..
Iam an orphan nshakwata abafyashi bonse babili.
if only you saw how I suffered for that wedding to pass mwaiche wandi you couldn't have bleeped my wife...

Everything was entirely up to me,fyonse ninebo.
nshakwata bamayo nabatata ine I have to sort out for myself... Nali nenkongole nanomba tashapwa but I made sure I paid for everything...

Limo naletuma salary yandi yonse, nayamba ukulomba aba Nandi ifyakulya ninshi nalifola naine, but my friends Erick, Charles and Danny mulenga were all supporting me because they wanted me to get married like them so that I can be responsible.
balemona efyo nalepya just for me to have a successful wedding... And yet you had the gats to sleep with my wife...

So if I die tomorrow since you have Brocken my house where is my funeral going to be ??

You had the gats to come to my wedding, when I had my committee gathering with my friends you were there... Iwe mwaiche..

Mwaiche ulinsoka niwe satana , naku church wilaya because your a true definition of the devil himself... Tawakwata uluse, you have killed me already ninfwa ine because my home is Brocken... All my plans are Brocken, Iam now back in the streets where I left no house no respect....

Off yandi ngayafika where the Bleep am I going to be... All I wanted was to have my own house
But Toba mwaiche...

Ififine wachita your entire generation will go through the same situation you have put me through. Even if you apologize I will never forgive you, even in my death I will never ever forget and forgive you....

You have taken away my happiness that comes once in a life time...

Ngamuntu umbi i could have forgiven my wife, since it's you I will never forgive you and her for you have taken my happiness.... Nabana bobe ififine napitamo nabena bakapitamo....

Norman Mulenga you will never have no peace in your life...

If you seek Gods advice you could have not slept with my wife...

My spirit will forever hunt you... Nganafwa mailo I can never rest in peace because of you... And my spirit will forever hunt you...

Friends have confirmed the news and are mourning the loss of a beloved companion.

Source: https://wikigists.com/man-vwananji-mwamba-takes-his-life-after-accusing-his-friend-of-sleeping-with-his-wife/

You mean that someone actually committed suicide because of that overripe paw paw? The only fine thing about the lady is her handbag.

Friendship and marriage failed him...

Once I get married,there are some friends of mine whom I will never allow to spend a night in my house,no matter how much trust I've got for my wife and that friend.....

But in all of these, taking one's life simply because of someone who can easily be replaced isn't worth it at all..

Rip to him........I dey vex this afternoon 😡😡

Something must kill a man.....Now that you have killed yasef, it would be a free for all fvck.

Baltasar Ebanga

Why kill yourself because one idiot slept with your wife..... When there are 1,001 girls around you ready to take her place in your life

Lol.... You chose to end your life because of a wh#re.... You Lost bro.... What happens to divorce?

There's Love in Searching bro


Please permit me to blame SEYI TULUMBU for this ,I said Please oh

So his wife na heaven now?

People take marriage and relatonships too seriously. The only consolation is that, he didn't kill his friend and his wife before taking his life. If you want to die, please die alone and leave others out of your madness. Weak people everywhere!

I no dey give condolence for this kain news, abeg the world is rid of one idiot.

The signs were there but the mugu overlook am, marry am put for house..You don't privatize public kpekus. Death to all simps

I would say a COWARD....but then the best species must strive and rid itself of weak genepool

A woman that lets you spend your all on a wedding cannot be one to settle down with.

A wiseman once said, "the average man places his life's happiness on property, wife and children, so that when he loses them or finds them disappointing, the foundation of his happiness is destroyed".

Let us not be too attached to things and people beyond our control.

Wasted life for nothing, for waiting na

Ashawo wey everybody dey lash, e reach your turn, you carry turn wife .

Men stay on guard abeg.

Even fellow ladies go dey wonder, Omo na WA oOoOO 😥

Sonnobax15:

Friendship and marriage failed him...

Once I get married,there are some friends of mine whom I will never allow to spend a night in my house,no matter how much trust I've got for my wife and that friend.....

But in all of these, taking one's life simply because of someone who can easily be replaced isn't worth it at all..

Rip to him........I dey vex this afternoon 😡😡

You as guyman wey don hustle for street. You know say OLOSHO na OLOSHO 💯. Keeping bad friends away is a good one too. The problem is the lady because she can still lash other men aside his friend. Why will he take his life, it obvious he really invested in the wedding 🤷. He was too hard on him self. Still on still, I no dey blame baby papas wey full town 🤦

But why will he take his own life na,when he is yet to pay the guy back in his own coin? Person when you for skin alive... Sent the lady to the street where you took her from.

I hate betrayals.

Even tho suicide is never an option if all he said is really true,then that his friend really f up big time.. so sad.

What happened to fucking the guys wife too and sitters, even the friend mama! Spare nobody! Weakness at its peak

PresidObi:
You mean that someone actually committed suicide because of that overripe paw paw? The only fine thing about the lady is her handbag.

Not the bag,, it's the grass.

He had no self worth. May his soul finds rest with his creator.

Nature simply wiped out another weak simp.
No RIP to waste

HMM, IJOBA ZIMBAMBWE Lande

What a stupid fellow

Chai, Suicide was not the best option but this one touch me sha....


The only people I pity for this matter na the friend's generation. They go just dey suffer for wetin their grand Pa do.


The Friend sef, his Karma is coming.....

The lady must have a big ass

PresidObi:
You mean that someone actually committed suicide because of that overripe paw paw? The only fine thing about the lady is her handbag.

The cheating was likely what drove him above what he was able to handle, meaning he must have been severely depressed for a long time before.

na who die, lose!

Marriage no be do or die.. you can always use the exit door (divorce) not the other exit (suicide).

Everyone is blaming the guy but if you read through what he posted on Facebook, those words really came from his heart.
Na only him been understand how e do am for body.

Friends can be good, Friends can be evil.
What killed that man was "Heart break". Not from his wife but from his friend.
He really mentioned, listed and itemized the things he did to better the life of his friend and what did he get in return, Betrayal

The moral lesson is: Mind who you call your friend. Especially all these "Friends from the past".
Most times they envy your achievements from a distance & would scheme to get closer to you just to destroy you.

Bro seemed more pained by the fact that he hustled for two years to afford a wedding, only to discover that the 'product' had been compromised upon delivery, and by none other than his bro. Who knows—I'm just assuming here—maybe he even borrowed more money for the wedding, and the thought of paying off debt for a broken marriage was unbearable.

They should investigate this as a murder case. Just because you find a corpse, a bottle of poison, and a lousy suicide note next to it doesn’t automatically mean suicide.

as a man you are faced with so many problem
but dont add a womans problem to your life.