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tensazangetsu20:
Racism where. I have never experienced anything like that. Maybe it’s another chile in another universe.

How does it feel though being the only black person around? I would feel quite uncomfortable. I haven't seen any black person in your photos. Do they stare at you funny?

Geofavor:
How does it feel though being the only black person around? I would feel quite uncomfortable. I haven't seen any black person in your photos. Do they stare at you funny?

Honestly, I hardly notice I am black but yes theres always hardly any black people anywhere. Theres haitians in Chile but they never attend any programs or anything. I only see them selling things on the street but when I go anywhere I am always the only black person there. School, church, government buildings, work, restaurant, supermarket. I am always the only black person.

tensazangetsu20:
I totally understand why so many men become red-pilled. Back in university, I was practically invisible to women, it was as if I didn’t exist. I remember mustering the courage to tell a Gabonese girl I liked her, and she hit me with, “What’s your like or love going to do for me?” I was so ashamed of myself.

I studied marine engineering at a maritime university, and if you know anything about that field, you know how tough it is to get a job without solid connections. Some companies would visit our school to recruit, but out of a class of 70, they’d hire maybe eight students. And, of course, those eight were the ones all the girls wanted to date because their futures seemed secure.

Then came life after university, and it was even more brutal. I barely had clothes to wear. Most of my trousers were torn at the back, and I just had to manage. I tried starting a business, but it failed miserably. At that point, it felt like all hope was lost.

That’s when I decided to learn coding, not because I had high expectations, but because I kept seeing ads during COVID: “Learn to code and work from home.” I figured I had nothing to lose. Little did I know that single decision would change my life completely.

I started struggling my way through, hustling on Upwork, then moving to Reddit, applying for jobs anywhere I could find an opening, and learning interview skills. Back then, people laughed at me, but little by little, things started improving. I began making decent money by Nigerian standards, but I refused to upgrade my life because my focus was on leaving Nigeria. Every month, I saved as much as I could while researching my best options. That’s how I discovered Chile, and once I had enough money, I left.

The beginning was tough, but looking back now, I’m so glad I made the move. The version of me that was once invisible to women now has them smiling at me and trying to talk to me all the time. But none of that matters because I only love one woman, and she’s the only one I want to be with.

funny how the money changed tensa from an average looking brother to a serial mr lover lover

tensazangetsu20:
I totally understand why so many men become red-pilled. Back in university, I was practically invisible to women, it was as if I didn’t exist. I remember mustering the courage to tell a Gabonese girl I liked her, and she hit me with, “What’s your like or love going to do for me?” I was so ashamed of myself.

I studied marine engineering at a maritime university, and if you know anything about that field, you know how tough it is to get a job without solid connections. Some companies would visit our school to recruit, but out of a class of 70, they’d hire maybe eight students. And, of course, those eight were the ones all the girls wanted to date because their futures seemed secure.

Then came life after university, and it was even more brutal. I barely had clothes to wear. Most of my trousers were torn at the back, and I just had to manage. I tried starting a business, but it failed miserably. At that point, it felt like all hope was lost.

That’s when I decided to learn coding, not because I had high expectations, but because I kept seeing ads during COVID: “Learn to code and work from home.” I figured I had nothing to lose. Little did I know that single decision would change my life completely.

I started struggling my way through, hustling on Upwork, then moving to Reddit, applying for jobs anywhere I could find an opening, and learning interview skills. Back then, people laughed at me, but little by little, things started improving. I began making decent money by Nigerian standards, but I refused to upgrade my life because my focus was on leaving Nigeria. Every month, I saved as much as I could while researching my best options. That’s how I discovered Chile, and once I had enough money, I left.

The beginning was tough, but looking back now, I’m so glad I made the move. The version of me that was once invisible to women now has them smiling at me and trying to talk to me all the time. But none of that matters because I only love one woman, and she’s the only one I want to be with.

I am so happy for you bro. At the bolded the focus is on myself.

cococandy:
But Zara and H&M aren’t designers. They’re not even mid range.

Why are sellers in Nigeria calling them designers and ripping people off?

Even Coach, Michael kors, Kate Spade etc that sell for around $300-$500 are not designers either.

I think they’re just misusing terms probably due to not understanding the fashion market. Then add greed and it becomes a clusterfk.

You don't know designer brands or what designers mean.

tensazangetsu20:
Racism where. I have never experienced anything like that. Maybe it’s another chile in another universe.

dey play


e go reach you




Chile way be South America version of Lithuania

tensazangetsu20:
I totally understand why so many men become red-pilled. Back in university, I was practically invisible to women, it was as if I didn’t exist. I remember mustering the courage to tell a Gabonese girl I liked her, and she hit me with, “What’s your like or love going to do for me?” I was so ashamed of myself.

I studied marine engineering at a maritime university, and if you know anything about that field, you know how tough it is to get a job without solid connections. Some companies would visit our school to recruit, but out of a class of 70, they’d hire maybe eight students. And, of course, those eight were the ones all the girls wanted to date because their futures seemed secure.

Then came life after university, and it was even more brutal. I barely had clothes to wear. Most of my trousers were torn at the back, and I just had to manage. I tried starting a business, but it failed miserably. At that point, it felt like all hope was lost.

That’s when I decided to learn coding, not because I had high expectations, but because I kept seeing ads during COVID: “Learn to code and work from home.” I figured I had nothing to lose. Little did I know that single decision would change my life completely.

I started struggling my way through, hustling on Upwork, then moving to Reddit, applying for jobs anywhere I could find an opening, and learning interview skills. Back then, people laughed at me, but little by little, things started improving. I began making decent money by Nigerian standards, but I refused to upgrade my life because my focus was on leaving Nigeria. Every month, I saved as much as I could while researching my best options. That’s how I discovered Chile, and once I had enough money, I left.

The beginning was tough, but looking back now, I’m so glad I made the move. The version of me that was once invisible to women now has them smiling at me and trying to talk to me all the time. But none of that matters because I only love one woman, and she’s the only one I want to be with.

better go do vasectomy if you like your life

tensazangetsu20:
I totally understand why so many men become red-pilled. Back in university, I was practically invisible to women, it was as if I didn’t exist. I remember mustering the courage to tell a Gabonese girl I liked her, and she hit me with, “What’s your like or love going to do for me?” I was so ashamed of myself.

I studied marine engineering at a maritime university, and if you know anything about that field, you know how tough it is to get a job without solid connections. Some companies would visit our school to recruit, but out of a class of 70, they’d hire maybe eight students. And, of course, those eight were the ones all the girls wanted to date because their futures seemed secure.

Then came life after university, and it was even more brutal. I barely had clothes to wear. Most of my trousers were torn at the back, and I just had to manage. I tried starting a business, but it failed miserably. At that point, it felt like all hope was lost.

That’s when I decided to learn coding, not because I had high expectations, but because I kept seeing ads during COVID: “Learn to code and work from home.” I figured I had nothing to lose. Little did I know that single decision would change my life completely.

I started struggling my way through, hustling on Upwork, then moving to Reddit, applying for jobs anywhere I could find an opening, and learning interview skills. Back then, people laughed at me, but little by little, things started improving. I began making decent money by Nigerian standards, but I refused to upgrade my life because my focus was on leaving Nigeria. Every month, I saved as much as I could while researching my best options. That’s how I discovered Chile, and once I had enough money, I left.

The beginning was tough, but looking back now, I’m so glad I made the move. The version of me that was once invisible to women now has them smiling at me and trying to talk to me all the time. But none of that matters because I only love one woman, and she’s the only one I want to be with.

Your story is not uncommon.
It is similar to what is happening to billions of guys out there.
I had my own fair share of women snubbing too during my early days with nothing to show.....broke.
That is why i find it hard being faithful now that everywhere done stew.........if you rubbish me during my struggling days, why should i follow love during my hay days?
Have come to realize it is not just a woman thing rather a Human thing.
When you are nobody - family, church, pastor, girls etc all ignore you and you are invincible but when you start earning fine, they all start singing your praises.
I hope the woman you Love is your mum and not one yeye girlfriend....because bro, na owo epo oooooo
As you are growing, as i am growing and other men growing, please never ignore to wisely invest because if you go broke again, believe me, that coldness and invincibility, insults from women would come back again.
Your money is your shield.
If you go broke, it is as good as you being NAKED

Wonderful story. But now you have to unlearn poverty. You can still achieve more, so you are yet to arrive. May God prosper your way.

tensazangetsu20:
I totally understand why so many men become red-pilled. Back in university, I was practically invisible to women, it was as if I didn’t exist. I remember mustering the courage to tell a Gabonese girl I liked her, and she hit me with, “What’s your like or love going to do for me?” I was so ashamed of myself.

I studied marine engineering at a maritime university, and if you know anything about that field, you know how tough it is to get a job without solid connections. Some companies would visit our school to recruit, but out of a class of 70, they’d hire maybe eight students. And, of course, those eight were the ones all the girls wanted to date because their futures seemed secure.

Then came life after university, and it was even more brutal. I barely had clothes to wear. Most of my trousers were torn at the back, and I just had to manage. I tried starting a business, but it failed miserably. At that point, it felt like all hope was lost.

That’s when I decided to learn coding, not because I had high expectations, but because I kept seeing ads during COVID: “Learn to code and work from home.” I figured I had nothing to lose. Little did I know that single decision would change my life completely.

I started struggling my way through, hustling on Upwork, then moving to Reddit, applying for jobs anywhere I could find an opening, and learning interview skills. Back then, people laughed at me, but little by little, things started improving. I began making decent money by Nigerian standards, but I refused to upgrade my life because my focus was on leaving Nigeria. Every month, I saved as much as I could while researching my best options. That’s how I discovered Chile, and once I had enough money, I left.

The beginning was tough, but looking back now, I’m so glad I made the move. The version of me that was once invisible to women now has them smiling at me and trying to talk to me all the time. But none of that matters because I only love one woman, and she’s the only one I want to be with.

emmaodet:
Your story is not uncommon.
It is similar to what is happening to billions of guys out there.
I had my own fair share of women snubbing too during my early days with nothing to show.....broke.
That is why i find it hard being faithful now that everywhere done stew.........if you rubbish me during my struggling days, why should i follow love during my hay days?
Have come to realize it is not just a woman thing rather a Human thing.
When you are nobody - family, church, pastor, girls etc all ignore you and you are invincible but when you start earning fine, they all start singing your praises.
I hope the woman you Love is your mum and not one yeye girlfriend....because bro, na owo epo oooooo
As you are growing, as i am growing and other men growing, please never ignore to wisely invest because if you go broke again, believe me, that coldness and invincibility, insults from women would come back again.
Your money is your shield.
If you go broke, it is as good as you being NAKED

Trust me my mom is well taken care of. I no Dey use her play at all

studyless123:
You don't know designer brands or what designers mean.

oh honey 🤭

GloriousGbola:
funny how the money changed tensa from an average looking brother to a serial mr lover lover

He is now moving with Ford 2025 model (a powerful machine)

Money sweet die

emmaodet:
I had my own fair share of women snubbing too during my early days with nothing to show.....broke.
That is why i find it hard being faithful now that everywhere done stew.........if you rubbish me during my struggling days, why should i follow love during my hay days?

And who are you doing?

The women you are being unfaithful with in your hay days are still same women who wouldn't look you twice if you were still broke.

So in the longrun, who is gaining?

Or did I miss something in your logic?

emmaodet:
Your story is not uncommon.
It is similar to what is happening to billions of guys out there.
I had my own fair share of women snubbing too during my early days with nothing to show.....broke.
That is why i find it hard being faithful now that everywhere done stew.........if you rubbish me during my struggling days, why should i follow love during my hay days?
Have come to realize it is not just a woman thing rather a Human thing.
When you are nobody - family, church, pastor, girls etc all ignore you and you are invincible but when you start earning fine, they all start singing your praises.
I hope the woman you Love is your mum and not one yeye girlfriend....because bro, na owo epo oooooo
As you are growing, as i am growing and other men growing, please never ignore to wisely invest because if you go broke again, believe me, that coldness and invincibility, insults from women would come back again.
Your money is your shield.
If you go broke, it is as good as you being NAKED

I've been called ugly twice by two girls during my school days (secondary school and university). One is now based in Canada, the other is in Nigeria. Their responses towards me these days differ significantly from when I was in Nigeria, especially for the one in Canada. Interestingly, I wasn't doing badly in Nigeria by all standards. The change of responses is one major reason I don't fancy relationships.

The last bolded statement na why Tensazangetsu20 dey preach say it's better to be a dead man than a poor man. That boy na werey 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Gerrard59:
I've been called ugly twice by two girls during my school days (secondary school and university). One is now based in Canada, the other is in Nigeria. Their responses towards me these days differ significantly from when I was in Nigeria, especially for the one in Canada. Interestingly, I wasn't doing badly in Nigeria by all standards. The change of responses is one major reason I don't fancy relationships.

Are you ugly?

pocohantas:
Are you ugly?

You can tell by Gerrard59's takes that he is at the minimum not conventionally attractive to women

GloriousGbola:
You can tell by Gerrard59's takes that he is at the minimum not conventionally attractive to women

Ugly people do not call themselves ugly.
That is something goodlooking people do. But he might be an exception.😂

Gerrard come and answer me.

emmaodet:
Your story is not uncommon.
It is similar to what is happening to billions of guys out there.
I had my own fair share of women snubbing too during my early days with nothing to show.....broke.
That is why i find it hard being faithful now that everywhere done stew.........if you rubbish me during my struggling days, why should i follow love during my hay days?
Have come to realize it is not just a woman thing rather a Human thing.
When you are nobody - family, church, pastor, girls etc all ignore you and you are invincible but when you start earning fine, they all start singing your praises.
I hope the woman you Love is your mum and not one yeye girlfriend....because bro, na owo epo oooooo
As you are growing, as i am growing and other men growing, please never ignore to wisely invest because if you go broke again, believe me, that coldness and invincibility, insults from women would come back again.
Your money is your shield.
If you go broke, it is as good as you being NAKED

You are punishing your virtuous wife for the sins of other women that ignored you.
Later you and pansophist will be demanding virtue from women.

With the way it is,you will have HIV soon

Surprising how nobody seems to acknowledge that trauma affects men,but Believe it only affect women wheras it's worse for men because women trauma only makes them feel unworthy while for men,they must pass it on.

Tomorrow we will have dunces like pansophist talk about going for younger lady so that you don't inherit a problem you didn't cause. But we have you, emmaodet giving a woman a problem she didn't cause.

From an active member of a church donating tithes to calling out immorality in women while ignoring yours to rolling on the sand with juvenile boys. Lol. I pray you find peace.
And you will be 40 soon...Chai

At least gerrard59 is better. He doesn't trouble or harass women under the guise of holding accountable,he lets women be, because he knows men hands are dirty

Just pray you remain rich and you don't lose your money. Because this is the only reason people obviously respect you.

GloriousGbola:
Hmm

Oya new accusation

This dude is actually doing interracial corn

BBC + Big Booty Latinas

Aba lex Steele - you are Busted

You no Dey disappoint

pocohantas:
Are you ugly?

I have the facial looks of a typical Igbo businessman. That is what I realised recently, especially looking at the pictures closely. Thankfully, I am tall enough and no potbelly.

Gucciboy:
I asked for help because l need it and it doesn't change anything because nobody is an island and we all have needs.

Bringing it up shows how childish you're at your age and how low you think as a human being.

You are the childish one here with a foolish sense of entitlement, going by your first post that led to his comment. Gucci boy wey dey beg for money

If you can’t find a menial job to do and earn money, then ask for where terrible Tinubu is sharing palliative food. Just take care to avoid being killed in the stampedes.

Gucciboy:
You have time replying everyone that shows how jobless you are

Gerrard59:


I have the facial looks of a typical Igbo businessman. That is what I realised recently, especially looking at the pictures closely. Thankfully, I am tall enough and no potbelly.

ehhhhhhhhh Linus

cococandy:
oh honey 🤭

Dear, Coach, Michael kors, Kate Spade are designers but you can say they're not luxury brands

pocohantas:
Ugly people do not call themselves ugly.
That is something goodlooking people do. But he might be an exception.😂

Gerrard come and answer me.

You don't know us ma

studyless123:

Dear, Coach, Michael kors, Kate Spade are designers but you can say they're not luxury brands

Oh the artists themselves (not coach) are fashion designers obviously. They didn’t just launch their brands without credentials and got so much clout for nothing. Coach is a heritage label and reputation is built of their longevity.

But when people say designers (at least here) they mean luxury items. You’re the one getting caught up in semantics.

pocohantas:
And who are you doing?

The women you are being unfaithful with in your hay days are still same women who wouldn't look you twice if you were still broke.

So in the longrun, who is gaining?

Or did I miss something in your logic?

It’s the upside down logic for me.

They get money and go cheat with those who used to snub them. Is that punishment? That’s what the girls wanted in the first place. The girls said “oga come back when you have money” and they did .

And now they’re perpetuating the narrative that if you suffer with a man he’ll leave you or cheat on you when he makes it. Further causing more girls act in the way they claimed they don’t like.

cococandy:
It’s the upside down logic for me.

They get money and go cheat with those who used to snub them. Is that punishment? That’s what the girls wanted in the first place. The girls said “oga come back when you have money” and they did .

And now they’re perpetuating the narrative that if you suffer with a man he’ll leave you or cheat on you when he makes it. Further causing more girls act in the way they claimed they don’t like.

Honestly that comment gave me chills. So being virtuous is not enough. You can do everything right and your darling husband would put his ego and personal vendetta against baddies above his commitment to you.

May God give every good person a humane partner... I can't say more than this.

Tallesty1:
You don't know us ma

Hahahahaha. No vex!
Where have you been?

Gerrard59:


I have the facial looks of a typical Igbo businessman. That is what I realised recently, especially looking at the pictures closely. Thankfully, I am tall enough and no potbelly.

And now you are in the abroad. This na substitution and elimination of bad qualities.
😂😂😂😂

And not only that, they’ll somehow hold you responsible for all the baddies that ever did him wrong

pocohantas:
Honestly that comment gave me chills. So being virtuous is not enough. You can do everything right and your darling husband would put his ego and personal vendetta against baddies above his commitment to you.

May God give every good person a humane partner... I can't say more than this.

pocohantas:
Hahahahaha. No vex!
Where have you been?

My dear.

I'm prioritizing my mental health. The toxicity here is overwhelming, so I'll be taking short breaks.

Tightpussy2024:
You are punishing your virtuous wife for the sins of other women that ignored you.
Later you and panso.phist will be demanding virtue from women.

With the way it is,you will have HIV soon
your money. Because this is the only reason people obviously respect you.

I am genuinely curious, what do you say about men whose wives refuse them sex and men who desire to have sexual intercourses with different women just for biology's sake? You know, this thing is hormonal. No be men's fault in its entirety.