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It is somewhat natural that once we reach the age of sexual maturity we begin to fantasize about experimenting or committing sexual immorality uninhibited.. Coming of age or even getting into relationship or marriage seem to never always stop this urge to engage in a free access fornication and adultery except for certain hindrance. The hindrance to this fantasy are usually

1. Lack of freedom from our parents, guardian, partners or spouse who monitor and police our whereabouts.
2. Lack of cash to provide the logistics to fulfil our fantasy without being disturbed or caught.
3. Lack of privacy to hide our escapades from prying judgemental eyes when we dont live alone in private area
4. Lack of willing partner of opposite gender to join and fulfill our immoral inclination
5. Moral or religious inhibition

At some point in our life, somehow these obstacles are removed, and we get the opportunity to misbehave.
My question is after committing these immorality to our fill, can we say it was usually worth it at the end given our current life experiences, challenges and view. Would it have been better we never succumb to those temptation to committing sexual immorality without inhibition despite of the full Opportunity that present itself?

FreeSpirited:
➜It is somewhat natural that once we reach the age of sexual maturity we begin to fantasize about experimenting or committing sexual immorality uninhibited.. Coming of age or even getting into relationship or marriage seem to never always stop this urge to engage in a free access fornication and adultery except for certain hindrance. The hindrance to this fantasy are usually
1. Lack of freedom from our parents, guardian, partners or spouse who monitor and police our whereabouts.
2. Lack of cash to provide the logistics to fulfil our fantasy without being disturbed or caught.
3. Lack of privacy to hide our escapades from prying judgemental eyes when we dont live alone in private area
4. Lack of willing partner of opposite gender to join and fulfill our immoral inclination
5. Moral or religious inhibition
At some point in our life, somehow these obstacles are removed, and we get the opportunity to misbehave.
My question is after committing these immorality to our fill, can we say it was usually worth it at the end given our current life experiences, challenges and view. Would it have been better we never succumb to those temptation to committing sexual immorality without inhibition despite of the full Opportunity that present itself?

Is the life of one who does not succumb to this sexual immorality you harp on guaranteed to be a lot better than the life of others who succumb? Where is this guarantee to be found? Where is the evidence or proof of this guarantee?

Kobojunkie:
Is the life of one who does not succumb to this sexual immorality you harp on guaranteed to be a lot better than the life of others who succumb? Where is this guarantee to be found? Where is the evidence or proof of this guarantee?

This is the exact thesis I hope to explore with the post.
You might just want to drop your own view about falling into inordinate sexual escapade based on personal experience. Isn't that what the post demanded of you?

FreeSpirited:
➜This is the exact thesis I hope to explore with the post. You might just want to drop your own view about falling into inordinate sexual escapade based on personal experience. Isn't that what the post demanded of you?

But you have yet to detail where a life of restraint has led anyone. So, exactly what is the point of this exploration mission?

Kobojunkie:
But you have yet to detail where a life of restraint has led anyone. So, exactly what is the point of this exploration mission?

Personally, I have just started leading a life of restraint...... I might not have enough evidence to make conclusion, hence the question. Do you mind dropping ur view based on ur personal experience. I need personal experience, not theory or belief

FreeSpirited:
➜Personally, I have just started leading a life of restraint......
➜I might not have enough evidence to make conclusion, hence the question. Do you mind dropping ur view based on ur personal experience. I need personal experience, not theory or belief

1. Before this point, you were living a life of freedom of your own?

2. My view is simple... to each his own. In the same way you choose at some point to experience restraint and may choose at some other point to give it all up altogether, I feel others should equally indulge. I would love to say folks should do so wisely but I have long realized that wisdom is a scarce commodity on this planet let alone in Nigeria with Nigerians.

Kobojunkie:
1. Before this point, you were living a life of freedom of your own?

2. My view is simple... to each his own. In the same way you choose at some point to experience restraint and may choose at some other point to give it all up altogether, I feel others should equally indulge. I would love to say folks should do so wisely but I have long realized that wisdom is a scarce commodity on this planet let alone in Nigeria with Nigerians.

You are deviating from the real thrust of the post which is telling us where uninhibited sexual escapade has led you........ And if it was worth it
Answer should reveal either positive, negative, or neutral position

FreeSpirited:
➜You are deviating from the real thrust of the post which is telling us where uninhibited sexual escapade has led you........ And if it was worth it
➜Answer should reveal either positive, negative, or neutral position

Does it lead to a place different from that which a life of lack would lead?

2. Does eating a diet of lots of onions lead me to a life that is positive, negative, or neutral when compared to eating a diet without onions?

Kobojunkie:
Does it lead to a place different from that which a life of lack would lead?

2. Does eating a diet of lots of onions lead me to a life that is positive, negative, or neutral when compared to eating a diet without onions?

you have started yiur dancing round in circle argument.....
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Biblically it may lead to
1. Grave, 2 Poverty, 3 Disease, 4 Unhealthy addiction, 5 idolatry. 6 ill-luck

Many times we want to disregard biblical position reason why I asked for individuals personal experience. . Here u are distracting the topic

FreeSpirited:
➜you have started yiur dancing round in circle argument..... ..
➜ Biblically it may lead to
➜1. Grave, 2 Poverty, 3 Disease, 4 Unhealthy addiction, 5 idolatry. 6 ill-luck Many times we want to disregard biblical position reason why I asked for individuals personal experience. . Here u are distracting the topic

Kettle calling the pot black! Nonsense! 🙄🙄🙄

2. This is from someone who said he only recently started living a life of lack. How come none of those afflictions have taken you in all that time?

So, you have also resolved to believe that only those who engage in what you term sexual immorality suffer those afflictions? Are you sure you are OK?

The children that recently died on your street, was their death as a result of sexual immorality? Was the disease and poverty of their parents a result of sexual immorality?

Kobojunkie:
Kettle calling the pot black! Nonsense! 🙄🙄🙄

2. This is from someone who said he only recently started living a life of lack. How come none of those afflictions have taken you in all that time?

So, you have also resolved to believe that only those who engage in what you term sexual immorality suffer those afflictions? Are you sure you are OK?

The children that recently died on your street, was their death as a result of sexual immorality? Was the disease and poverty of their parents a result of sexual immorality?

Can you sleep with a married woman for long a time? Or have u slept with a married woman for long a time....
Have you slept with various prostitute for long a time.....
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How long have u been sexually reckless?
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My post is for those people.. Who has enough experience not u who has no experience cos u can't contribute meaningfully

FreeSpirited:
➜Can you sleep with a married woman for long a time? Or have u slept with a married woman for long a time....
➜Have you slept with various prostitute for long a time.....
➜ How long have u been sexually reckless?
➜ My post is for those people.. Who has enough experience not u who has no experience cos u can't contribute meaningfully

1. Many people have done it and continue to same as you are able to sleep with your girlfriend or wife. And many of those who engage maintain a healthy lifestyle while at it. They are not in hospitals or dying like you would like to pretend. Married women are human beings, flesh and blood like you and me.

2. There are so many men out there who have known nothing but prostitutes all of their adult lives. They would rather sleep with prostitutes than date women. It is their choice and they have no reason to apologize to you or anyone else for it. There are millionaires and even billionaires who would rather have prostitutes than date.

3. It is none of your business what I am and not for you to care really since my choices and decisions have nothing to do with you.

4. Nah! Your post is to lure the gullible into holding these seemingly knew inane ideas you now hold of what you refer to as sexual immorality.

Kobojunkie:
1. Many people have done it and continue to same as you are able to sleep with your girlfriend or wife. And many of those who engage maintain a healthy lifestyle while at it. They are not in hospitals or dying like you would like to pretend. Married women are human beings, flesh and blood like you and me.

2. There are so many men out there who have known nothing but prostitutes all of their adult lives. They would rather sleep with prostitutes than date women. It is their choice and they have no reason to apologize to you or anyone else for it. There are millionaires and even billionaires who would rather have prostitutes than date.

3. It is none of your business what I am and not for you to care really since my choices and decisions have nothing to do with you.

4. Nah! Your post is to lure the gullible into holding these seemingly knew inane ideas you now hold of what you refer to as sexual immorality.

You can't speak for those people who are sexually reckless..... You aren't in their life or body to know the effect on their body or life so your conclusion about them is baseless and mere assumption from ur mind. Will you allow them speak for themselves?
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Imagine speaking for a chronic smoker and telling us he's fine with no effect whatsoever from a long spell of smoking , even if he was ur friend u still have no basis to make such conclusion.... At least allow us hear from the horses mouth....
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FreeSpirited:
➜You can't speak for those people who are sexually reckless.....
➜ You aren't in their life or body to know the effect on their body or life so your conclusion about them is baseless and mere assumption from ur mind. Will you allow them speak for themselves?
➜ Imagine speaking for a chronic smoker and telling us he's fine with no effect whatsoever from a long spell of smoking , even if he was ur friend u still have no right to make such conclusion....
➜ At least allow us hear from the horses mouth....

1. There lives speak for them. I don't! I just know that they do exist. 🤔

2. I am not in your body either to know what the diet you are on is doing to you there. I only know what you claim too. I also know what medical science has revealed which is that frequent sexual activities do not harm our bodies the same way regular exercise does not. 😐

3. I don't need to speak for a chronic smoker though. Again, their lives speak for them. I watched a story the other day of a smoker—she smoked at least 3 cigarettes every day of her life— celebrating her 106th birthday; she had no lung problems at that. And then I read of a 25-year-old smoker who had developed lung problems. Do, I conclude from all that that smoking causes lung cancer in everyone?😏😏

4. The problem isn't the horse's mouth here... it is always speaking... your particular bias keeps you from hearing it since you would rather open your ears to that which fits with the particular rhetoric you are here to spew to the gullible.